Swinger Advice
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Rough night, lot of questions
We’ve gone to one club several times and were excited to move things to the next level. We knew to keep expectations in check but were excited at the possibilities of new adventur…
by CoupleLvnFun29replies3,181viewsWife on her own
We have a house party that is very local to us that we have gone to in the past. They are throwing another one. I told the wife that it would be hot if she went alone this time. S…
by jomich4924017replies3,150viewsPregnant swingers
Hey everybody me and my husband were wondering how does everybody feel about me being pregnant I’m I still accepted or should I just wait until the pregnancy is over
by Dak928714replies3,074viewsBeing outed by someone you know.
With the current job and family issues, we try to keep this part of our life private. How do you handle being outed by someone from the website. My former boss also uses this webs…
17replies2,999viewsSeparate rooms
My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for quite some time we're very open-minded and enjoy it recently we've been discussing doing separate rooms we really like the thought of…
by Cnk052623replies2,993viewsMen who hate parties?
It has been my unfortunate experience that many "supposedly single" men hate big parties. Is it performance anxiety or, if they're cheating, fear of recognition? My past experienc…
by LadyBlueSF32replies2,992viewsPerformance issues and otc pills
So my issue is slightly different than most. We have only played with two couples, one couple was done in one night (vacation) the other was three times in two days at a hotel tak…
by newnccpl4fun21replies2,976viewsOutdoor Sex Location?
Putting this here because we are asking for advice. First we need to say we understand the legalities and risks involved here so please spare us the lecture. We are not talking se…
by RusticMagic22replies2,947viewsHow to deal with sheer rudeness?
Hi All-- I'd appreciate your opinions. Last week I met and played with a couple with a lovely and very enthusiastic wife. By all accounts, they are experienced swingers and have b…
by phil_45138replies2,845viewsI'm new he's not IDK what to do
ey! Sorry I just don't know what to do. My boyfriend is into almost everything that is possible here. I'm not and I have made that abundantly clear since our relationship began 2…
31replies2,838viewsRimming made better
go to general dollar, spend 1.15 for cherry flavored chap-stick. it's 9.00 and you just showed for your night out. grab your chap-stick and apply it sparingly to your anus/ass get…
11replies2,790viewsAnyone prefer to hunt couple in the vanilla world?
We love the seduction game. We fantasize about really seducing others while going out in the vanilla world. Has anyone had good luck with this? I'd love to hear any stories.
by 6zcouple25replies2,770viewsSame room swap
We are new to the lifestyle, still trying to get our feet wet. We have done the seperate room full swap and have started to venture out on our own and are have a good time. What w…
by PrettyNormal17replies2,716viewsHeight
This isn't a cry baby session, but I have a question. Is it important to 'you' as a couple that the female be what is considered hot or Bi when finding compatible couples? Also Is…
by hedo2forus27replies2,704viewsHow to cope with an average dick?
One of my common refrains here is "if you can't control it, don't let it bother you". Seems to me that this would apply here. Fact is, some women aren't interested in the full-on…
by sorillo100018replies2,680viewsQuestion for single guys
Would you be offended if a couple you were planning to meet messaged some of your certs asking about you? We had a guy block us for it. Should we have handled it differently? Coup…
by njopencpl32replies2,673viewsRed flag Couples
We first starting talking to this couple here on SLS, We meet them at our camp site at an AANR clothing optional resort in California. We are not sure she knew what was going on.…
11replies2,662viewsplay parties
We have done years of finding Parties and Clubs on Hot Dates Now we are being invited to private parties, and most are very clear, in for some finger food then game on Is this a n…
18replies2,644viewsProfile Who Viewed Me question
Why are we seeing soooo many profile views from hundreds, if not thousands of miles away? This is mostly recent withing the last month or two... any thoughts on this?
by bfwp4u27replies2,633viewsLeading up to first meet up
Newbies here, we have been messaging back and forth with a seemingly straight up and intriguing SM. I wife and I have have some of the best sex while reading the responses. We wil…
29replies2,621viewsShould you leave a negative feedback on a single male if there were issues?
New_Hot, Sorry that you had such a disappointing experience. There are some problems with leaving a review about your date. Naming names on the forum is discouraged and may be aga…
by hotluvrs36replies2,576viewsAdvice for Bliss Cruise
Male half here. We just signed up for the 2018 Bliss cruise and we both are very excited about it. Wife threw me a curve the other day, saying she wanted her old boyfriend to come…
12replies2,513viewsWebsites
This may be a taboo subject but how many websites are people a part of? We have seen advantages to different sites. Is it common to belong to more than 1?
by JTheartsong19replies2,497viewsWhat do you guys think of the guys that contact you saying there in town ?
We have got a lot of messages recently with guys saying I am town for such in such Tuesday. And would love to hook up, it seams a lot of guys think this is a hook up site . We our…
61replies2,452viewsCall us?
Have gotten email messages from 2 different people in the past few days giving us their phone number asking us to either call or text them. This is after an initial site email and…
37replies2,450viewsIntroverts of the world . UNITE!!
When we were younger we were both introverts, but as we got older we each came out of our shell. Unfortunately we've grown weary of "putting ourselves out there" and now it seems…
by twonluv6923replies2,425viewsSure I'll have se with you, but don't expect to mix with my Vanilla friends
So what's everyone's take on this? Let's face it now all people are as discreet as others, some have no issue posting face pics here, or even discussing the Lifestyle in public, s…
by BeachedCPL19replies2,412viewsFirst time mfm
Hi, just looking for advice. Myself and wife are about to have our first mfm. She has been in life style before we met. She was honest about everything and yes I got very interest…
by Brett1961nj10replies2,393viewsAlcoholics
I just don't understand why you have to get very tipsy before getting laid, the reason why the topic because of the situations I seen specially at swinging clubs and private house…
26replies2,368viewsMy wife going out of town with her boyfriend
My wife has a steady boyfriend that she sees about once a month. They have known each other for over three years, but only recently started meeting intimately. The have met 3 or 4…
by Flicker3717replies2,352viewsIs swinging cheating?
How would you respond to someone that you consider a close friend and they’re aware of your “activities” in the lifestyle when they say “y’all just cheating on each other”?
by Beachcpl120431replies2,333viewsDo you voice verify?
When you meet a new couple or single off SLS do you voice verify before meeting?
32replies2,290viewsWorst reason EVER for separate room play
Recently saw someone admit they do separate rooms because they are afraid of offending their partner by enjoying the swap too much. The fuck? A person who is offended by their par…
by Esperanza91116replies2,237views- 12replies2,201views
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Rules of attraction
So for us there has to be a physical attraction first, you might have a great personality and be the life of the party but if you're 5'4 and 300lbs with bad breath and very few te…
by BeachedCPL17replies2,193viewsReal connection?
Kinda frustrated. Lots of messages, lots of talk, zero follow through. We tried the hotel party scene and found it cliquey and unwelcoming. How do you find real people who really…
17replies2,192viewsNo sexual attraction
We are new at this, so people please offer some advice... What or how is the best way to tell a couple that there is a friendship connection with all parties envolved, but there i…
by PrettyNormal23replies2,184viewsIs FMF even common?
Question for everyone we often talk about many different types of group Play.. how common do you think FMF is? And please share your experiences if you've had that type of play. W…
24replies2,181viewsWhy aren't single is men interested in ls travel/conventions?
In my opinion they aren't actually single.
32replies2,181viewsNeed Serious Help
So I created profile and seeking another male or couples for me and my husband. I am a former dancer and always been on my game when it comes to confidence. Recently my experience…
by Erottica26replies2,159viewsManscaping
What is the best kit to use for manscaping? Also, is it better to be trimmed or shaved?
by Newstuff249replies2,141viewsSwinging with drugged couple
Ok we just had encounter with a couple hanging at bar she did not drink he had one. Go back to room everybody was doing good. All the sudden they wanted the lights almost complete…
43replies2,107viewsThe dirty little truth people tip-toe around
Over the last 25 years of being in and out of this fun distraction (kids/jobs/family/all-good), the one universal truth we've found is the vast majority of people consider reasona…
by thn104514replies2,072viewsWife gets extremely nervous
So my wife gets extremely nervous whenever we are in a lifestyle situation. She drinks to calm her nerves. I want her to enjoy herself without the alcohol. Ladies any suggestions…
18replies2,052viewsWho pays the motel bill?
I am asking that question because a single male took offense when I said he was to pay the motel room bill. I am willing to let him have his way with me, sort of that is, no ass p…
by valleychic17replies2,028viewsCuckquean .?
Hello all. My lovely wife and I have been swinging for a few years now and we’ve had a truly wonderful time. We’ve fulfilled a lot of fantasies that most people would never even v…
13replies2,026viewsWeight
One simply cannot answer why some people are attractive to others. As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". Some people are attracted to the "HWP" person. Othe…
by MandC50814replies2,001viewsMeet and greet
The question has been asked numerous times in the forums about when meeting someone for the first time where do you go? Bars, Restaurants, are very common responses and we have go…
by Insatiable6111replies1,996viewsPrivate or club gangbang
As a online persona and a porn star(kind of) I would love to host a gangbang. Not a regular mmmf but a proper hardcore gangbang. What is the best option to do it? Taking safety in…
by Mysbehave13replies1,984views
