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If the guy was getting upset that he wasn't invited and thought he could actually argue his way into a place he wasn't welcome, then he's proving exactly why it was a good idea not to invite him in the first place.
We recently booked an adults only Virgin cruise for later this year. We don't want to go asking on the vanilla cruise forums if there will be any other lifestyle people booked as well. Does anyone know of a venue where we can actively sear…
We were asked if it was a deal breaker for us and we're answering for us. No, it's not. That's what the OP asked. They didn't mention anything about it being selfish or whatnot. No one should feel like they have to justify or defend their…
We couldn't care less as we don't have any expectations other than respect. For us it's the company and what everyone is comfortable with.
RonKathy, it's dumbfounding to be honest. We will never understand how people can justify sacrificing their integrity just to keep from having to admit they were wrong or made a mistake. We don't need to see eye to eye with someone to resp…
We stay and enjoy the company. There won't be any sort of play down the road as we know they aren't completely honest with us but we might learn something in the meantime.
Oh sure entirelyreal. We're curious, what color is the sky in your world? Is ignorance truly bliss as they say?
lol entirelyreal. We all know that what we were saying went totally over your head initially and understand your desire to save face and pretend like you knew all along. Your resume doesn't impress, however if you truly believe you're as b…
We have racked our brains trying to find a way to politely decline people that doesn't get them offended. There doesn't seem to be a single way to do it that doesn't leave people eating sour grapes. We have also found that though people as…
Our first experience with a club was Trapeze in Fort Lauderdale. It was clean, classy, had rules which were actually enforced...evenly...and we had a great time. We were excited to look for clubs in our area when we got back home. So we lo…
Smoking is a huge turn off for us. People are typically pretty considerate about their smoking....in this country anyway, when we travel abroad its insanity. The issue for us though is the odor and taste of the people doing it. Just can't…
@wayne lol let’s see if we got a grasp on this. The bubble saying 0 messages is not an accurate representation if you actually have messages. The bubble saying you do have new alerts is no longer an accurate representation if you actually…
So now the bird is back? And our message counter says 0 but that's just to throw us off the trail? We open it to see that we actually do have new messages? Or is the bird pointing at the messages to show the 0 can't be trusted and suggesti…
@entirelyreal, well that's interesting. What are the other more objectionable things you find about Biden that are worse than his racism?
LOL entirelyreal, and yet somehow more people than ever in US history showed support for a man who wasn't simply accused of, but is in actuality 100% a racist. Not only is he a racist with a long and well documented history of doing and sa…
Esperanza911, lol we don't have any skin in whatever your game is here but do have to comment on how you admonish all those that can't handle "strong opposing opinions" and then when we read your posts here, it seems you don't acknowledge…
In all our years doing this, all the people we've met, and all the people we continue having relationships with, only two couples have received our personal cells and contact us that way. When we first started out we gave our cells to a co…
It's 2022, technology has not advanced along for enough yet for you to reasonably expect this issue to not be happening.
We would just deny, ask who's spreading such a serious and controversial rumor like that and what would give them any reason to do it. Recently while at work, someone I work with randomly blurted out, "I get the impression you guys are swi…
Never understood why people mislead with what they look like when the point is to actually meet in person. Won't the deception eventually be revealed or are they hoping that once you show up and see you figure you might as well stay becaus…
We try to respond to everyone that contacts us and was respectful. Every once in a while things get away from us though. We also find it frustrating when people say if their pics are open they're interested but they don't reach out, so we…
new and naughty, just wanted to say we caught that comment about pro fascism. Looks like it went over the heads of many but it was funny!
The glaring thing for us is what are you hoping to gain from knowing if your sister in law is open to swinging?
Goodness ro_ri54. You didn't provide anything to read. However, what I did read comes from the transcripts available at whitehouse . gov from the townhall and is pasted here VERBATIM. ---THE PRESIDENT: But again, one last thing. I — we don…
tbrmskss, there was no need for any "gotcha moment" if you had been able to control the overwhelming feeling that compelled you to jump into the conversation to say we were wrong then keep arguing that when in fact that wasn't the case. Pe…
tbrmskss, sorry, did you say Biden said it? That's what I read, but I must have read wrong after you spent all that time claiming he never said it and I ws wrong when I said he did. So again, you confirm Biden DID in fact say it, correct?…
Tbrmskss, at this point I truly hope you’re being this obtuse intentionally just to troll. It would be incredibly frightening if it turned out that you didn’t possess the brain power to wrap your head around this unbelievably simple concep…
Lol tbrmskss, whatever. If that’s what you need to tell yourself to keep your fragile world intact, have at it. The facts are in black and white so it only reflects poorly on you. No sweat off our backs. Tallmark, fortunately, the rest of…
LOL, no, he didn't later go on to correct himself in the same town hall. What he did do though was go on to tell people if they were vaccinated they couldn't be put in the hospital and they could not die. You asked for proof that any of th…
I’ll go ahead and give you one. A copy and paste since screenshots can’t be posted here. If you still refuse to believe the truth after you receive the evidence you asked for you’re free to go searching for yourself. You’re going to be dis…
Of course it’s wrong. And that so many people in public positions which people blindly trust without so much as a single critical thought makes it even more wrong that they said it. However whether it’s wrong or right wasn’t the point bein…
Tallmark, your assertion was that no one ever said the vaccine stops the virus. They did. Many, very public and prominent people did including Fauci, Gates, Biden, and yes, even the head of the CDC , Walensky. Either no one said it, or som…
We haven't been, but many people we know speak highly of Choice in Providence, RI
We have a local couple we were talking to, well, in reality it was just the guy because when we asked when she was going to make an appearance he flipped out. He said they didn't want to meet because they're afraid they will know who we ar…
"No one ever said vaccine stops the virus, no one ever said mask stops the virus." You are incorrect. As a matter of fact, among the many people who have, one has been the president himself.
LOL we see that a lot. I am not attracted to feminine men. When we meet people, I can usually get a feeling pretty quickly if the guy is in fact bi but the profile says they are straight. To date there has yet not been a single profile whe…
We've run into plenty of people we ended up knowing in regular life while attending events. Co-workers, friends, even family. So far we have been very fortunate that everyone has conducted themselves like adults and we've never heard a wor…
Hi everyone. We've never been with this group before and the distance is considerable, but the party looks like it would be a great experience. Unfortunately, we are only available the friday night and would have to leave at some point dur…
This issue is such a double edged sword for us. On one hand, we are very firm in our principles that we will not out others or share their business because we want the same consideration given to us. On the other hand, we've met more than…
Don't have much to add about the orgies. However we can say something about Trapeze. It was unfortunately, our first experience with an on premises club. When we returned home we thought all clubs would be similar. We had no idea how high…
The question wasnt how to delete it. We know how to delete it. The question was why for the last two weeks that we’ve been trying to delete it the site won’t allow it and says “problem deleting hot date”.
We've been trying to delete a hot date for over two weeks that we had set up because the initial party we were attending got canceled but each and every time we try it says there's a problem deleting it. Then we cant set a new one up becau…
What does a bar/restaurant have to do to be considered lifestyle friendly?
This isn't so much of a turn off as it is just funny but when people write that they are easy going....then have a very lengthy and detailed list of things that someone contacting them must do to garner a response. And not only just do, bu…
Wlsvcouoke, yes! That drives us insane too. Not just on this side of things but even in regular social media photos. We hate it!
For us personally, when people introduce politics in their profile, even when their political ideals align with our own, it's just a turn off.
"Wow, you guy look just like your pictures" is a comment we get often when meeting. What a shame it has to come as a surprise. We try and keep our pics updated as frequently as possible, usually monthly adding new ones to make sure we are…
We agree it's rude. We have a few rules we go by. If we initiate contact, we expect to open our pics first. If they initiate contact, we expect them to open pics first. If we've chatted and people open theirs for us and we're not intereste…
Haven't read many of the comments so don't know if it was mentioned but Ozark was good and had us hooked in the first episode. We too loved Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul with Mike being the most favorite character. Peaky Blinders was g…
Thank you onehourcouple.
The neighbor is an older single woman who is a busybody who tries desperately to act like she's not a busybody. She's full of nothing but judgement and a holier than thou attitude. I've got no desire whatsoever to involve myself with her i…
We welcome taking the conversation to kik because talking on here is typically just one person talking to another and learning nothing about the other halves. Kik allows us to have a group chat with with everyone involved since everyone co…
Just to the point of being accused. We have a neighbor who frequently posts on FB how other neighbors must be swingers because of how often they have people over their house. Head scratching.
onehourcouple could you please share what apps you guys have found success with? Is it mostly finding ones to be with playing alone or together? We have starting trying other apps to look for women and couples and we're getting kicked off…
Well, I think many who know me would say I'm pretty awesome. LOL ;-)
Thank goodness the $600 came when it did because that $1200 was just about to run out. Halleluiah we've been saved! Whew!!
Trying to figure out what your objection is to it? Are you somehow being compelled to participate?
While we would never lash out at someone who respectfully declines our attention, we have noticed that "No thank you" and all variations regardless of how they are presented deliver a devastating blow to the ego judging by so many of the r…
Having the same issue. At one point we thought this site was more fruitful with more serious people than one of the other leading ones we belonged to but the past few years it seems to have caught up to be even in terms of flakes and fakes…
Our first I brought home one of my friends for my husband to surprise him. It was a great time and we got to have a few experiences before she moved away.
We've run in to friends, co workers, and even family at events. Fortunately so far, everyone we have run in to that we knew outside has been very adult about things (knock on wood) and we've never heard a single thing about it outside of t…
Long ago we had a profile contact us. They opened their pics and told us they were interested. Turned out when we looked at their pics, we know them in the vanilla world. So we told them who we are and opened our pics but they weren't a ma…
Can anyone recall the question posed r story shared? Reading the replies we're very interested to see what is going on. We've run into family members we weren't aware were doing this at events. Also have run into co workers quite often. We…
Who was posting the screenshots of other peoples conversations they were watching? Has anyone brought this up with SLS? What do the admins say? Do the admit they can read anyone's conversations at a whim?
@copnkitten You hit the nail on the head. "I'm a very respectful guy". Yeah? Would the wife you're cheating on describe you that way too if she knew what you were doing? Always makes us laugh when guys claim how respectful they are while b…
We like the group chat for many reasons. First, it allows us to get exposed to both personalities which in important since we're looking for a couple and we all need to have a connection. Doesn't seem like there's much point in just talkin…
@overeducatedcouple yeah it seems to have gotten quite stale in our area as far as new members. It's always the same people on the "who's on" list. We reach out to those who have looked at our profile and rarely get a response. We respond…
Wouldn't that be like the site enforcing people who have a couples profile to have a picture of both halves of the couple in their public gallery? Maybe even a pic of the both of them together in the same pic? For the record, we couldn't c…
Using chrome on a computer. Connect to the chat and the list of members is empty. The screen where we imagine the chats are supposed to be displayed is blank. Enter a message where it says "say something" and it just sits there and we get…
LOL we very much relish a hotel room where come morning there won't be any nails tapping on the floors dancing to be let out or loud neighbors or anything. Except last weekend someone maliciously set the alarm clock in our room for 6am whi…
Ah ok. Can't say we've ever had a suspicion that people were only claiming to be close by when they weren't. So far our only suspicions are if a couple is actually in fact a couple. The best way we have found to verify is that we all go on…
We’ve told other couples they’re welcome to spend the night. So far none have. We’ve had single women on a few occasions who did spend the entire night. Those have always resulted in repeats of the evening prior the next morning. Only once…
Ha, thank you. We’ve run across two people who had pineapples tattooed. One was a woman at the gym. We approached her and commented about how we liked her tattoo and asked the meaning. What she said didn’t come close to what we thought it…
We’re debating joining similar sites onehourcouple. The list of people nearby us has gotten stale. We’ve reached out to many, most never acknowledge they were spoken to, talked to some, and more often than not things just don’t pan out. We…
We’ve tried the upside pineapple in the shopping cart a lot just for our own amusement. We can only draw a few conclusions. 1) people who know what it means aren’t in the store 2) no one actually knows what it means and it’s not a symbol o…
Certs are such a double edged sword for us. On one hand, we don’t want to kiss and tell and feel who we’ve been with is no ones business. On the other, they do provide a little credibility. But then, people with a huge amount of certs is k…
Magjoy, they do? Where is this info given because we’d like to see it for ourselves.
We play whenever we want with the people we're playing with. We all have free will and no one is compelled to meet and play if they don't want. No idea when things will open back up but we're pretty confident it will be quite some time. No…
No, we have a group chat on kik with everyone participating and then we make plans from there. Once we're comfortable with people and wantit to be an ongoing thing, we'll share our personal cells. Learned that lesson the hard way.
With the recent changes, we no longer see where you find the block list. Where is it now?
That's absolutely horrible. Not sure how we'd react if someone did that to us. We've been to events where we ran into people we knew, co workers, an d even family. Fortunately, all have been adults about it and we've been afforded the same…
Love using KIK. Have met some very nice people who we've gotten to be really close friends in the groups. We also find it very helpful for group chats with people we've met on here. We learned our lesson the hard way not to give out our pe…
Curious if anyone knows what the status is of FWCS? We see the halloween party still listed but the profile for FWCS is gone. Anyone have some info?
Welcome. We have not been there in quite a long time. Our first and last visit was quite the story. That it was also our last visit there should lend to what kind of story it was. That being said, we've heard the business has since changed…
We find it eye opening that SLS admin not only has the time, but sees nothing wrong with going in to the forums and commenting on threads with contributions that add nothing to the topic with no intention other than to insult it's paying m…
So everyone who doesn't know can benefit... Tools - Manage Galleries - Click EDIT on Gallery you wish to manage - Edit Gallery Permissions - Input profile name, select length of time, hit ADD.
Holy crap. Is it that SLS admin doesn't read the feedback and input from members or just doesn't care? Why do you guys give the impression that you would rather everyone up and go elsewhere? What other reason can there be for constantly sc…
Holy crap. Is it that SLS admin doesn't read the feedback and input from members or just doesn't care? Why do you guys give the impression that you would rather everyone up and go elsewhere? What other reason can there be for constantly sc…
If your interpretation was that it was biting, then yes, you did read it incorrectly. We simply said we found it amusing to think of some of the alternatives that would be more aggressive.
The only way a gate would stop us is if the gate wouldn't open.
We haven't yet read all the replies in this thread but just wanted to comment that we found it comical to think of other ways to be more aggressive over asking to meet for drinks. Like showing up at their door, ripping them from their home…
Seems to us that if this site wanted it's members to keep everything here rather than go elsewhere, then the site would make sure it was everything it's members needed. You can't behave in a manner which makes it look like you don't give a…
LOL it's frustrating, but we differ in that we don't get why people do it. Why would you intentionally misrepresent yourself when the goal is to meet and you know with a certainty that the couple you're meeting is going to know you aren't…
We've been looking for a way to handle this for quite some time now. It's funny that in such an adult lifestyle there's so many childish people. Recently we were approached on the site by a couple that turns out we knew outside of this. Th…
No, they've definitely been hotel employees. The only people we've seen hired as part of the party were an occasional bartender within the ballroom here and there and security on the party floors. Other have had hotel uniforms complete wit…
Many years ago when we first got in to this there was a party being thrown at a public event that was raided and many people in attendance arrested. Someone local who was a frequent host was jaded and had a beef with another host from anot…
We've been to "social get togethers" quite a bit in both public and private settings. In private ones, we think that the idea of a quick introduction is a great idea. Especially when there are people new to an already established circle be…
No one's trolling you. You seem to just be taking offense for no reason. We are genuinely asking. Someone states they were drugged at a lifestlye evident, it's best to pay attention. Why are you saying now you have no evidence? It was you…
Wow 888eatme888, why so hostile? Gotta be a reason you're getting so defensive. We did read. We must have missed the part where you stated that you had relayed every single aspect of your story to such a degree that not a single detail was…
EdandBritney, prior to the "upgrades" when we had a cert the notification we got was posted on the messages page with a flashing notice about getting a new cert and could be found between the header and the messages in our inbox.
