Profile Who Viewed Me question

We enjoy seeing everyone’s fun and sexy pictures! We never have a problem if someone views our pictures…it gets us in the mood!

I look at many profiles for people with whom I’m not sure if there would be an interest. How would I know if I don’t look? And there are exceptions to every rule.

Also, I do look at certs. And see who they’ve fucked. For example, I’m not looking to play 1:1 with women. But I’ll click on her profile to check her out. And, if she’s got 30 certs, that might give me pause. Hell, if HE’S got 30 certs, that definitely gives me pause!

Anyway, the point is, you need to cast a wide net. And the more people who view your profile, the more potential opportunities you have. So why limit it or view-shame?

~LMK~

We travel alot, and I usually tag couple as favorites and open pictures in case they check us out. Periodically. I go through picture approvals and remove access from couples that haven't shown interest.

You explained it perfectly we view it the same way

To add to the previous posters remarks that posting in forums and chats draw views, another sure fire way is signing up for an event. If we want to gauge our interest in an event, we check out the profiles signed up for it before and in the leadup to a party. Another way we will view profiles farther away is in tracing potential profiles certs. Then in turn we get views from viewing their profile. So it is at least these 4 sources that we see views coming from

" Odd, but we've stopped trying to figure out what others on this site are thinking."

Us too.

"...few of the same profiles that pop up every couple of weeks on our "Who Viewed Me" list..."

For some unknown reason, the past few weeks when I use the back button on my mouse I end up at a profile visible on my screen. I haven't figured out why, and I had no intention of visiting the profile but there I am. It appears to happen when I'm visiting the Forum, looking at " My Wall" or looking at the list of attendees for an upcoming event

It never used to do that before so I have to be careful and make sure I use the back button on my browser rather than the back button on the mouse.

This is the only site I have that problem with, and it wasn't always like that. I'm guessing it's one of the improvements the site did to enhance the user's experience on the site. It's mildly entertaining but mostly frustrating.

If it is an improvement I, I give it 0 stars- would not recommend.

Mayhem, if they were newbies, we'd certainly understand............but they have been on here for a few years, has several certs (more than 6), and every gallery is open (all 5 private ones). Basically, they've done everything you'd want in someone you would want to meet, except respond to messages. Odd, but we've stopped trying to figure out what others on this site are thinking.

MandC - Are they a newbie couple? Wondering if they're just scared, but interested.

We've had cases of people checking us out a lot, so I'll reach out but never hear anything back. Does make you wonder. Especially if they open up their pictures, like in your case.

There's a few of the same profiles that pop up every couple of weeks on our "Who Viewed Me" list. It doesn't bother us. There are profiles we look at regularly to see if they are attending events that we could also go to as a way to meet them. Not being creepy, no sinister motives.

What we find strange is that there are local couples that view our profile and have opened their private galleries without sending a Message. Fine OK, it's a flirt. But we open our galleries, send a Message to acknowledge & introduce ourselves, and there's reply. Yet they still constantly continue looking at us, their pictures remain open, and they never reply.

It doesn’t bother us who views our profile isn’t that’s the reason we’re all here for meeting people in the lifestyle. Yes there’s the fakes and pic collectors but there’s still a lot of real people on here. We check out who views us by reading their profile and check their certs you can see what types of people they prefer to play with.

Because if you only ever look for connections that are nearby or convenient, you will quickly run out of options, particularly on this app. We have seen the exact same profiles for years, and they never even bother to update anything.

StackedActor - While not for everyone, some do enjoy camming with others. You'd not know unless you checked out a profile and/or asked someone, so that is also a possible reason for long-distance profile checks for those that enjoy "Watch and be watched" play.

We will sometimes look at other profiles that may not be geographically realistic or not our “type/age” group strictly for the voyeuristic aspect! Some people like to watch, or be watched! Sometimes I’ll leave a comment as a compliment with no expectation of a reply, just let them know “Hey! Yall look fantastic!”

I don't mind who looks at my profile or where they are from....Heck that's why we took the time to write and post one LOL.....I'm glad it gets seen and hopefully at some point some other lifestylers closer to home will also take a look then who knows

@bfwp4u... Don't take it personally as it wasn't directed at anyone in particular. Not saying that you are a little wiggy. :)

"If I'm twice your age limit, why bother looking? I just assume they are not very bright."

When looking at someone's certs, there is no preview to know anything about the profile that left the cert. There is no way to tell if it is a couple or single profile, what the ages are, etc. We have clicked on many profiles of those we not normally while looking at certs.

2muchfun.... Funny how asking a simple question makes someone believe there's a "problem". It was just a simple question, not a "concern". Hope that helps... LOL

It's funny that people get a little wiggy about other people looking at their profile.

I mean, isn't that why you made a profile in the first place?

I get people from thousands of miles away and people who I am nowhere close to what they are looking for.
If I'm twice your age limit, why bother looking?
I just assume they are not very bright.

Not that this is the case, but people into camming don't care as much about geographical area. I've also come across people that were 1000's of miles away that just wanted to chat in general or comment on a forum post.

I've noticed an uptick outside of my geographical area when posting in the forums or participating in chat

Sometimes it seems I get a lot of WVM looks from around the same geographical area, which is often a few hundred miles from me. At first I thought it was weird, but after a while I concluded it must be something in the algorithm of the site that pops my profile to people in certain areas for a time. Just one more mystery about SLS...

Signing up for one of the cruises and showing up in the advertising banner at the top of the home page will get you a lot of profile views as well.

This has been discussed repetedly OP.. many including "us" look at many profiles that peaks our interest, those who look good with photos, those who have some funny things on ones profile, and those we may like to meet while traveling. All sorts of reasons as stated in same question prior in forums.

One of us looks at profiles while sitting in a bubble bath .. like we stated all sorts of reasons, and they honestly mean nothing.

If people are interested in you, they will usually reach out.

For US we keep ours OFF and dont care who looks or why.