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We kind of figured out that if the guy is being respectable at first and then with in 5 or 6 messages, he says maybe we can trade pics or something or can you tell me one of your stories of past play, they do not work out. Seems to be a pa…
I love when they tell you I can meet right now in a message on here, you give them a number, they contact you and the first thing they say is my kidney stones are acting up I am going to take a nap and see how I am in a couple hours. We ar…
When Lissa starts chatting with a single guy, if she has not got a meet with them in 2 weeks it seems to always be a waste of time, if they do set up meet after that, they mostly do not show, the ones that work out she chats with them for…
Lissa always wears her ankle bracelet, cannot remember her ever getting it mentioned. She will keep trying, hoping it gets her into some naughty trouble.
Me the male I have lost a lot of the drive that I had when I was younger, Lissa seems to have more drive than she used to, the way we balance out Lately is keep the meeting down to every couple of months and just a couple of parties a year…
The hotel Lissa stays at for work has a bar, she sits at the bar and gets lots of offers that she has taken advantage of a couple times, she leaves the phone on so I can listen to them, which is so hot. She had 1 guy that went like five ti…
Just to add to what I was saying the reason I say 30 mins or so is good Is that most guys I have been with usually either make me orgasm quick and not after that at all, or they do not at all give me an orgasm, after a little while lacking…
Five mins would not be good for me, but after a half hour or so I am ready for nice load of cum, if it is anal I am good with 10 mins max If the guy comes over, I like to start with a blow job till he cums in my mouth then give him time to…
I thank for me a big turn on is when Lissa comes home from work, she is out of town for work a lot lately and she slowly starts to tell me about an adventure she had with a guy she brought back to her room, and she is so hot from it, but i…
mayhem8. You are right they do not belong in the LS, after almost 30 years of doing this, we have run into this maybe 3 times where the guy either cannot understand why I would let my wife do this or they were really looking for a relation…
Every time we try the FWB, we find some of the guys after a few times getting together become lazy and do not want to put nothing into it and it gets boring, hell some do not try to put nothing into it anyway. We have had one after a coupl…
Looking back over the last 3 years we have been flaked on 31 of 40 tries to meet SMs. We are thankful we have found 2 regular, dependable guys for get together and do not have to depend on looking on site all the time. Was always the same…
Don't know if strange but picking a guy up at the bar, I have taken them to the back seat of my truck in the middle of the parking lot It is a lot of fun but very hot and foggy windows...
I eat shrimp and scallops' and fish about 4 days out of the week for the last 3 years hope this does not happen to me. about 15 shrimp and 20 scallops and peace of fish that is my one meal of the day I eat steak and eggs the other 3days of…
This is where the changing of Mail to Messenger screwed things up, a lot of newer people send it as a message like you are always there for a conversation. But normally we can only check it once a day, so it works better if you send in ema…
Yes. I Tim am into the keto carnivore lifestyle for 4 years now in the first 4 months I dropped from 225 down to about 175 and have stayed between that and 180 also was diagnosed with pre diabesity's and now it totally normal blood work, o…
That is what we run into all the time 9 out of 10 always flake with an excuse and sometimes just do not show up with no excuse. Had one that wanted to meet when we set it up, he came back the next day and told us he was not active right no…
Myself, retired to help my son with his performance car shop doing the paperwork. and Lissa works for the good Ol so called U.S.A
Me Lissa would love to meet a BI friend that would like to hang out and get naughty from time to time, with Tim not sexually involved but we could all hang together used to have a lady like this, it was grate not really relationship more o…
Lissa prefers clean shaven or at least neatly trimmed...
My wife and I love the old 80s and 90s porn when we watch the stuff offered online just seems like it's just a bunch of couples having sex with no plot or closeups woman cheats on her husband when he is at work, or she gets caught then he…
Lissa has been with 16 different guys from when we started in the lifestyle in 1996 till, I was injured at work in 2009. We took a break until 2019 because of my back surgery. and there has been 23 more since 2019 for total of 39 and all o…
Going to a club dressing your best is what you want to do and just introduce yourself to people with no expectations. When we go Lissa has had no problem meeting a new SM, even when there was only 5 of them there you just want to show them…
Yep, you got it with not in the lifestyle, but yet there here, just looking for a hook up Like it is a dating site. If they would have researched and seen it was about playing a role and being able to perform around other guys present. mos…
We think with a lot of SMs they like to compete with other SMs then when they Find a couple or SF, they want it for their self and do not want another male there seems to be our experience with the ones we met. They're afraid the woman wil…
Here in Kentucky every club we go to lets SMs in up like to 25 if your alone, you're with a couple they still will let you in. The thing is when we go looking for SMs the most that is at these clubs are 2 to 5. Then you here all the guys i…
The Biggest we ever seen in 25 years in the lifestyle was about 10 and he was proud of it, said he was a foot, I had a tape measure laying there and measured it was 9.75 But to look at it you could have believed it was a foot, but he start…
That may be true, but I do not think the guy's Lissa was flirting with did not even have a clue they were being flirted with. At least outside of the lifestyle, at a club a lot of the guys take things as flirting when there not We have rea…
I think flirting is not something that you think about, it is something that happens when you fill a chemistry with someone you might want to get to know better, or you just would like to roll around in the sheets with. Thats what Lissa te…
I can always tell when Lissa is into a guy her big thing is gigling and she starts licking her teeth in a sexy manner I will tell her, so you're into that guy, she says how do you know that I tell her she is doing that thing she always doe…
It's kind of funny how many messages we had in are box of guys telling you they want to fuck, then we tell them when where and how and they disappear we just deleted 71 of them wonder if any of them read are profile...
We met a couple once they were not high or drunk, when it came time for the sex the guy was all over my wife. I went to kiss her she just started laying there like she was not into it at all like she was on something, we addressed it with…
We got one from 42-year-old SM What do I have to do to tear that hot pussy of yours up. You would think he was 20 but probably older then 42, been on SLS since 2016 but acts like he is in high school talking to his horny buds.
My wife likes to kiss but likes to get to the sex pretty quick and does need to kiss all night to get there. Thats thinking like a teenager...
When we go to clubs, we see woman just getting it on with no kissing at all, most of them cannot because they got something in their mouth.
Most of our dates are just ware a good pair of jeans and a nice t-shirt ware we usually meet is in an old hole in the wall dance bar sometimes Lissa feels overdressed when we go. In our area even the restaurants are that way. really not ma…
Thats us we ware T shirts and genes are whole life that's what we are comfortable in, being a mechanic, but I would not show up not clean and would have a nicer shirt, she will ware nice dress or skirt for a date, and we have not had any p…
I know one thing we do not like is when we are in the MFM, and the guy talked a big game then he just has sex, like Hes with his wife of 25 yrs. boring and not willing to put nothing into it. We will not invite back when this happens. That…
We received that exact email yesterday “Hey babe you are really sexy ?? have you ever had a big brown cock before? “It must be a hit everybody thing and hope somebody bites for most guys of all races they think their dick is all women want…
It's kind of funny today we had 2 guys tell us how they wanted to get together bad, and we said come on when can you meet, they both started to back pedal One said he was busy till the 1st of December, and we could Kik and trade pictures u…
We started a new way of vetting somebody, if we are interested in them, we tell them we will meet as soon as they get a weekend night free, they do not seem to go for that they go on how they want to exchange pics and to chat and dirty tal…
Yes, they are out there, at ratio of 100 to 1 sometimes it's a lot of work to get one to show up, it seems most in our area are just Fantasizing or Married and some of the ones we have met might be married after getting to know them, they…
We love to Kiss big part of foreplay before getting down with it, had a guy once just grab my face and start jamming his tongue down my throat and would not let go I have noticed a lot of older men do this and it is creepy at least the old…
The one thing we will not do without a face pic is move to another form of communication, it seems when we do that the person or persons thinks we are on board for a meet, then when see their face and we are like no way not what we are loo…
It goes deeper than that, and it starts with yourself, a lot of guys seem to thank, that it's about them, when you need to figure out what you can offer people in the lifestyle, and it might be just being a friend. Sex will come later in s…
I don't think we ever played same room at our house. we have at clubs but at home we prefer to do separate rooms, thank the wife made that rule even when she has girl on girl the 2 guys sit and talk and peep when the females play. She real…
My wife hates the word whore but will say she is a slut from time to time when she is really Horney, but she says if someone calls her that it pisses her off because she would never take money for any sex...
We have run to the ones that actually looked better than their pics which was surprising in a good way, then we run into the ones that if they did not introduce their self, we would not know who they were. In fairness they had close on and…
I would say 99% of the SMs on here are in your boat and weather they show or not there has to be an attraction I just don't jump in bed with anyone for the sake of doing it
And wanted to add beware of the ones that say IF I SAY I Will BE THERE I WILL BE THERE those are the ones that don't give an excuse at all they just do not show
It seems to be the thing this year a guy will contact you and then get to know them though text for a week or so exchange pictures some of them will spill their life story to you, then set up a meet, have it all planned then hour before th…
You know we go through the same shit it's just how it goes; we have been stood up by 21 guys this year after putting a ton of work into vetting them and get ignored by every SF we have ever contacted we get so much mail from SMs we cannot…
What do you want people to tell you, that every girl wants to jump in bed with you because you singed up here, only thing I see is when someone tells you good advice. you come back, I am not going to do that, or it cost too much. You sound…
Thats why you keep failing. My husband learned a long time ago that if you think they won't like you they probably will not. and yea it is about looks when couples are looking for SMs it's a fantasy I have a certain type and if the person…
Like they said go clubs but have no intension of playing just get to know people build a reputation for yourself and who knows. Nothing in life is free. We have been to hotel takeovers for 2 days and never played just introduced ourselves…
I don't know, guess it should be of you in activities of stuff you like to do and tell them in your profile how you will enhance their fantasy's Most of the guys that we talk to go straight to sex, about them getting off, we want people th…
They are the average pics we see on here. I would ditch the shorts for pants, but they should work for some
What I think they mean is look your best and have someone snap your pic, not a pic driving down the road and snap a selfie. We get them all the time or a guy in the mirror snapping his self. We get them pics all the time, cannot tell anyth…
Your right, some were in there 40s we had one just last week he contacted us, Lissa talked to him when exchanged numbers he told how much he loved everything about his life he would send a dirty pic from time to time, at night he would try…
We notice that to georgianiceguy, but its seems that the younger guys do not really want success other than talking dirty to someone on here they come here to the forum to look serious so, they can keep getting off talking dirty to people…
If we can perform, and the opportunity is there we will keep going.
On another site we are on the free members can contact you for a while, we get messages all the time from them saying I am a free member and throw there KIK name out there so we can chat, seems kind of stupid that the site allows them to a…
When we came back after my back surgery July of last year my wife was ready to get going so, we decided until my back was back in shape, we were going to just look for SMs. She thought this was going to be easy and she was ready to fuck, w…
Yea we posted pic of me with my hand touching my crotch though panties, was told it was too nasty and moved to my personal pics then the next male profile we looked at his pics was of him in action with everything showing, I just know this…
The only gang bang I had was when my husband was drag racing, we went out of town for an event, and he had 4 buddies that were camping at the track next to us. and that night we were all in our trailer playing cards and drinking one thing…
We check out all profiles that contact us If someone Says, let's Fuck, looks really good in there pic and I am in the mood I might take them up on it, but that's never the case usually never a pic and empty profile and if they do look good…
Really the only thing we want in a message is someone that really reads are profile and does not start off with sex in the end that's what it is all about. We responded to one the other day he just asks how you are doing told him fine, his…
Most of the messages we get from SMs are just what up or can you meet me during the day couples 100 miles away can you come fuck us both tonight, get a lot of this
We vetted guys in all kinds of different ways give a number they say they're going to meet after a week you know it's not going to work, then we try the hot date feature every guy can meet until they can't, then they cancel last minute or…
Yea there are reals guys on here. Getting them to show up is the problem. We have heard every excuse in the book. I like the one from the night before If I say I will be there I will, I am not a Flake. Next day, hour before we our supposed…
I feel you, It's the same everywhere. We get offers all the time either turns in to them wanting to trade pics or short intention spans they send message wanting to meet now. we see it next day they moved to something different already, mo…
As long as they are wearing clean close, and their body is clean It never really bugged us My Huband has never really ever wore anything but genes and t shirts and sometimes. a nice button up shirt. He is just uncomfortable in anything els…
In 2008 on here we were looking at new members and one caught are attention, we said, wait that's our neighbor. We lived in apartment at that time, they were the next door from ours. That is the only time we have ever recognized anyone on…
I am just surprised by all the guys on another site we are on, they have their junk as a main pic, they send nice message, and we ask to see their private pics thinking we can see all of him, but no its just 6 more angels of his junk tell…
And yes, there are the ones that talk a big game on here and when you meet, they are right down boring in the bedroom. We are on here to up the action in the bedroom something different then the norm. most of them just want to get off and…
The only thing we see on these sites these days in our area anyway, Mostly SMs and a few couples that are too picky about everything. The SFs are usually free members or only looking for a SMs and most of the couples are only looking for t…
I never understood the SMs and SFs only looking for other SMs and SFs thought that was dating not swinging. We always thought swinging was for couples to add multiples to their sex life and the singles wanted to be part of a group of 3 or…
We have done the hot wife thing once or twice but only when they are one-time things if they want to continue, they have to be willing to play with me there or do a 3way, on them lines. I do like when she does go alone and tells me every d…
When me and the wife did DP with a friend a couple of years back, she says she loved it when it worked seemed like I was bigger than him I was in her vagina and when I pushed in it would push him out, it seemed to work when we switched and…
Thing is we don't look for them they contact us tell us they want to get to know you, spend a couple weeks telling you how they perform. Then they start trying to send video of them whacking, thank that's them trying to get us to send some…
We have been stood up at least 12 times since last July by SMs. The other site we use is all about the same, but if you keep pushing you will find a few. We thought it would be easy when we came back here, when we were on here in the early…
One thing I know for sure this is a problem guys responding to our hot dates, then not showing or they cancel 15 mins before or ghost you. The way we look at it is you answer a hot date you better be ready to follow through. We do not give…
Oh, yea we met a few that were in the last year.
We like to push envelopes and do stuff we would likely never do outside the lifestyle, Put ourselves outside our comfort levels, and it's a rush...
We get the non-respecting idiots all the time. I can tell you we will never meet them, and they probably never intended to meet us either...
I have drunk jack and coke my whole life and never had a problem with stamina I keep hearing that it will, but maybe I don't drink enough. In the past I have drunk a fifth in a night and still performed fine, but a normal weekend probably…
funlyfriend, my wife would love to be in a gang bang It is a big fantasy for her. Me I am not sure I am onboard for it, unless I really trust who she wants involved. She will probably win and get what she wants....
One guy on here kept bugging us, to the point we blocked him, then we get a message from somebody similar ask for his pics opened then guess what same guy. we blocked him again. This guy made at least 6 profiles with paid membership to kee…
Me and my wife do this. I leave her alone in the house and her boy toy comes over, then I come home and peep and Liston to her fuck and suck all night when he is gone, I go in bedroom and lick her clean and fuck her some more. Love when gu…
My wife after having sex with them using a condom, every time got a yeasty talk to the doctor said it was, she was allergic to something they were made of, so we choose partners carefully and never had the issue again
Are first date she gave me a blow job, then 6 weeks into our relationship we went all the way for 6 months after that we done it once or more a day, she was a virgin and after we did it, She must have loved it because neither one of us cou…
My wife is BI and will play with right woman, she does not seek or look for woman outside of our hobby, so to us it's still curiosity to what it would be like to be BI in a relationship with a woman...
I have known one guy that thought eating pussy was Grose, and have known a lot of women that thought sucking cock was too...
Me the Husband, I love anything from hard rock like Judas Priest to the softer stuff like Reo Speedwagon and the wife loves that stuff plus some country and Zumba music, and we do Liston at home, work and on the road. Music is a big part o…
Also, there is no shortage of young guys they are hit and mis but out of 10 one will come though... Most of the older woman do not seem to like me because of my Metal music taste, some of them do not like any music at all. And we like to g…
I don't mind older woman myself up to 10 or so years older than me. My wife is addicted to men in there 20s and 30s, she cannot seem to get enough. Even though they are not much on conversation she loves the stamina...
When we play this way, she makes a date and they come over and she brings them to the bedroom, most of the time they do not know I am there. Wich seems to work best, most guys we have met it works best when I am invisible, I listen to her…
This is some of the best times we ever had, vanilla people that is 3 ways mostly only 2 couples over 25 years. It is so much hotter the seduction part. At least to us then just meeting for sex...
I agree with hotluvrs .We have been in this lifestyle since 94 , now just seams to be the older crowd now . and we our on like 4 kinds of apps . The younger crowd just seam like they want to hook up . With no build up of anticipation and f…
The thing is there is a lot of cheaters on here . We after trying to work them a compromise to meet them, they just came out and admitted it . and its always the same story there in a loveless marriage and they stay married for the kids .…
