phil_451

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? For the SM's please

When I initiate contact with a couple, I try to be explicit that I'd like to chat with both people, for a couple of reasons. One, I think it's respectful, since I would be getting together with a couple, not with a woman who just happens t…

DP yes or no?

I've been involved with two DPs- -the first one was the best by far, but both were wonderful. But the first one.... sigh... such a great experience. I met a couple who were interested in an MFM because the lady had recovered from surgery a…

SM Heading to Vegas in April-- any advice?

Hi Everyone-- I'm spending a week at a conference in Las Vegas next month and of course I'd like to meet and play with some lifestyle people while I'm there. I've read through several forum threads about the general douchery of single guys…

How to deal with sheer rudeness?

Hi Everybody-- Jeepers, I'm so impressed by the discussion here. Coolio! Just a followup to answer some questions that came up in discussion. Was hubby getting any sex? Yeah, after a fashion. He had ED but he and wifey played before I play…

about done with single males

Wow, it's disheartening to feel (and read) the hostility toward SMs. I've never blown someone off, I've never expected any couple to pay for anything during a first meet (or subsequent ones, for that matter,) I've always been freshly showe…

How to deal with sheer rudeness?

Hi All-- I'd appreciate your opinions. Last week I met and played with a couple with a lovely and very enthusiastic wife. By all accounts, they are experienced swingers and have been on SLS for a few years. But the husband was a real jerk.…

Have you tasted your own cum

<p>Kurt & Nawty-- Back in the 90s, I had a g/f who would blow me at every possible opportunity, and she would always give me a big, wet, cum filled kiss. At the time, it was very hot; not so much now, but some. I'm not so sure if I would w…