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Just a reminder that apostrophes are for contractions and possession, and have NOTHING to do with making something plural. Boats = more than one boat Boat's = belonging to the boat or a contraction for "the boat is" If your profile makes a…
@mnjfla - it's your home. You say "sorry, this isn't going to work out" and you show them the door.
How do all y'all talk openly about sex and consent if you cannot even handle basic written communication about it???
The 1990s called. They want their body shaming rhetoric back.
Not that this site gives a fuck, but you can report profiles for blatant mis representation
I wish men would stop listing their wives as Bi when their wives are so very obviously not into women at all, except for as a "Girls Gone Wild" show for the guys. Do men understand that women don't exist for them?
How are you an American citizen and also okay with this administration? Did you learn nothing about WWII?
We started BECAUSE we were secure in knowing each others boundaries. We didn't need lists of rules because we had already long established healthy interdependency and respect for each others' autonomy, as well as respect for where and why…
Can you imagine someone asking you to your face if you still have all of your teeth?
You were complicit in their bullshit.
You're an enabler, harley
This is what I mean when I say learn the difference between sexual orientation and fetish.
You are straight.
We used to respond with no, thank you and people would become indignant. Nobody owes explanations for not being interested. No response IS a response.
Nobody is entitled to communication on a dating app. Incoming messages that show absolutely no thought was put in deserve exactly the same or lower level of effort. Most messages are obvious copy/paste that neither require nor inspire resp…
Yeah... because it's super fun to be physically intimate with an emotionless robot.
Well then if YOU have never seen it, I guess it doesn't actually exist...
Really? Is it really confusing to you that there's a distinct difference between smoking tobacco and smoking weed? Aren't you a bit advanced in years for this to be a conundrum for you?
When you literally have a miniature computer in the palm of your hand I cannot understand why anybody makes assumptions about human physiology - a topic easily researched from reliable, valid sources.
It's one thing to trust one another. How do you ensure your sexy fun partners are safe, whether the person in the hookup or the spouse? I have seen and heard too many horror stories about people who try to infiltrate or triangulate. People…
You think the amorphous blob isn't helpful? Your closeup photos where we can see only your heads with no faces make ZERO sense. Why bother? We use to have albums. I am trying find a decent recent for public. Meanwhile, amorphous blobs it i…
Dabble? We are talking about human beings with lives and feelings. JEEZ.
If most of a human's typical lifespan is behind you, you ARE an older person. At 61, "older" women are my age.
Dan is 69. He is the same age as "older women"
While regular sexual activity can help maintain blood flow, tissue elasticity, and hormone balance, the body does not permanently "forget" how to experience pleasure or comfort. Some people may notice temporary changes, such as vaginal dry…
Holy fuck.
How about an answer that doesn't center men for a change?
Stop controlling the communication. You suck at it.
It's beeny repeated experience that people have unrealistic expectations of people who have been married for decades. For example, how is it realistic or reasonable to expect equal immediate enmeshment and priority from people who have bee…
How do your exclusive polyam partners feel about this?
I think you'll find that there's really no such thing as risk-free sex with people you have only just met.
Just be and smell clean. Particularly if you have been Old Spicing it all this time.
It's like y'all watched some porn and thought that you could live that way with people who are definitely, definitively NOT porn actors.
How are you okay with a fascist in the White House? How is that good for this country? You have lost your minds.
Trumpy swingers reject monogamy for themselves but vote to enforce it on everyone else. Open-minded in bed, closed-minded at the ballot box.
How are tariffs benefitting you as an American citizen? How is incarcerating humans who are not yet citizens helping you? How is oppression of women benefitting you?
If you support dismantling DEIA, say what it stands for specifically - say the words - and explain what you are against and why.
I cannot see your responses if we blocked your account. Cops
Because Trump is a fascist. I thought we established that? HELLO?
"Require bi play" is such a weird thing to say. You all put anything that isn't heteronormative in a separate category that somehow doesn't hold as much weight - and that is exactly what bi erasure is. That is exactly how I know someone's…
Based on observation of couples in and out of the lifestyle, it seems my husband and I are rare in that we actually deeply like one another's company and companionship, and it is how our relationship started - solid friendship. Also, we pu…
How is ANYBODY still supporting the maggot in the White House? Why are these people okay with becoming Nazi Germany?
Referring to sexual encounters as "dares" ... why do you all participate in this as though the people with whom you're having sex are not other whole humans with feelings and thoughts and lives? It's like you go to a swinger club and act s…
Cynical? The fuck? Do you live under a rock or just deliberately navigate around any uncomfortable truths?
How are these people so thick that they cannot see they voted against the very lifestyle they are living. They voted against their own best interests. In many cases, they voted against their own partners. Don't bother responding if you are…
It would make infinitely more sense to allow anonymous reviews like Yelp.
Your juvenile thought processes, if you have any thought process at all, have you thick brains thinking tariffs are good. Trump already fucked shit with tariffs last time.
But everyone assumes it is because I won't let her. That is not true. She loves women, and has had too many unpleasant unsatisfying encounters with men. Are there any women who can relate? What can I say to convince others it is not a "OPP…
Because we are specifically talking about seniors, it is important to understand that postmenopause, labial tissues shrink and this can cause more irritation and dryness. Pubic hair serves several purposes for humans in general, and is mor…
It's one thing for the two of you to trust one another implicitly. You seem to have established healthy feelings with each other about your comfort, care, boundaries, etc. The problems arise because other people do not have that kind of re…
You voted for someone who repeatedly attacked the press, disrespected democratic institutions, called for violence against political opponents, and embraced policies that favored authoritarian control. You saw that, and you chose to suppor…
You, with your vote,appointed a fascist dictator. Fuckin' moronic hypocrites. The lot of you.
Based on decades of involvement with the ENM community, I would never spend precious resources to travel for anybody we barely know, even if the pre-meet communication is stellar.
Fuck this site for the inconsistent, hypocritical way they review the content. We are unlimited also, but we actually reviewed profiles and photos constructively, so they removed the privilege of review. Fuck y'all
Please explain how a fascist president is the better choice for the USA.
Marion - You voted for a fascist. You are a fascist.
You keep deflecting. Another typical behavior of you hypocritical swingers. HOW is fascism a good choice???? Do you understand that the Nazis are the bad guys?
How is fascism a better choice? What is going on with your brain? Is it completely smooth?
There are no ethical billionaires. Refusing to discuss ethics doesn't change that. You cannot amass that kind of wealth in ethical ways.
lmfao. Exactly how are they making the world better after having exploited others to amass that kind of wealth? You realize you're not supposed to want to eat the boot, right?
You couldn't accurately describe any political concept even if it sat on your face and wriggled around.
You voted for this country to become a fascist nation. The fact that you think that is the best option says a LOT about you, and it's not good. You realize that the Nazis are the bad guys right?
I am trying to understand how and why 52% of people calling themselves Americans voted for a fascist and convicted felon. Why is this okay for you? Why are you happy with this country becoming fascist?
It's a dumbass way to say he has had a vasectomy and she has her tubes tied.
You voted for a fascist. You voted for this country to be fascist.
If pooling resources for the collective good is ‘communism,’ then fire departments, public roads, and the military are "communist" too. (They aren't. It's Calling shared resources communism, as if that’s inherently bad, ignores the reality…
You voted for a fascist. You voted for a fascist. You voted for a fascist, and that makes you one too. (A little song for you)
"I am curious but I wouldn't go down on a woman" Yes, that is part of what being straight is. You are listed as straight. This is accurate. This thread is about people who misrepresent who they are.
Name a single current billionaire in the USA who is doing good with their money.
The real question is why are you so far up the asses of billionaires. There are no ethical billionaires
Fascinating that you avoid saying what your religious affiliation is. Most of y'all happily claim your Christianity. Afraid of showing how hypocritical you are for not wanting to help others?
Are you a child? health insurance that helps others is not communism. It's pooled risk. All of the other westernized countries have socialized medicine. And again, something being "communist" is not inherently bad in and of itself. Captial…
It's funny when people cry "that's communism!" as though the example they present is representative of communism, and even funnier, that they have somehow demonstrated that labeling something as "communism" makes it immediately evil or bad…
Fetish fullfillment is something you can and should purchase from sex workers. I think too many of y'all watch porn orgies on PornHub and think that average people are going to do what you see paid porn stars to do.
Your parents (my grandparents) fought against Nazis in WWII, and you all are voting for them. If I could use emojis on this site, I would give y'all eyerolls and sideeyes
You're straight. Is this a revelation?
Imagine being a single woman reading that. Do you honestly feel that is an enticing proposal for an available bisexual woman? Seriously?
If your husband is the center of attention, why do the women need to be bisexual?
????? WHY does the woman you seek need to be bisexual??????
Y'all voted for a fascist.
The claim that vaccines cause autism is baseless and thoroughly debunked. The myth originated from a fraudulent 1998 study by Andrew Wakefield, which has since been retracted. Wakefield's work was discredited because it involved unethical…
You didn't seriously just quote Wikipedia as a resource for autism facts expecting to be taken seriously.
COVID has been demonstrated to cause deleterious long term ailments. People are becoming permanently disabled, particularly from getting it multiple times, but do keep your head stuck up all the way up your own anus
Autism is not a disease and is not caused by vaccines. It is a neurological difference people are BORN with.
Or you could block him so he cannot contact you at all??
Time_for_fun_couple you misunderstand me. I didn't say we don't find play partners. I critiqued THIS APP. This app does not help and has never helped. It has only provided sufficient evidence that a lot of swingers are hypocrites
You realize that spaces already exist for women who love women, right? Gee, I wonder why someone in the swinging community identifies as bi in their profile but doesn't know about the LGBTQIA+ community at all.
Are you kidding? We have been through a pandemic and now because of selfish fucks who think they understand science, we have yet another ENdemic virus that keeps mutating. So in addition to the risks of STIs, we now have to concern ourselv…
Yes, but we don't expect a thing from this app. We are still here only because we paid for a lifetime membership.
If you need a separate room, may as well simply date separately instead of trying to find a couple for a couple. It's way easier.
I understand having preferences, and I also think that if someone has good hygiene and is sexy and wants to get naked with you, it's insane to draw the line at pubic hair.
You'll have sex with strangers but OMG, how can someone smoke the devil's lettuce?! Y'all are hypocrites.
Adults afraid of marijuana are an immediate turnoff.
If you get consent based on a lie, that is coercion. It is SA. If you lie about your sexual orientation to gain consent, that is coercion. What are y'all not understanding about the ETHICAL part of ethical non-monogamy?
Ladies, can we discuss what you do for the changes in elasticity and moisture?
Lying in order to gain access to sexual intimacy is coercion. Coercion is SA.
Why are you attacking people for congratulating you?
Lying in order to gain access to sexual intimacy is COERCION.
I keep telling my adult niece that men who are harmful tell on themselves. Here you are telling on yourself. COERCION IS SEXUAL ASSAULT. Denying that is a HUGE red flag. There should be a way to warn your potential partners that you are la…
LMFAO. Of course I can't see the responses. That was predictable.
