Swinger Advice
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Flip Side
A Lot of talk about single males or should I say complaints.....This is a couples dominated LS and I know couples have screwed people over including other couples....So let's even…
2replies577viewsHow can people tell if they have been blocked?
If a message string disappears from the list, does that mean that one has been blocked?
by Wifelooks1replies575viewsRefusal to send pictures
A couple got in contact with me about possibly meeting, but they’re refusing to send any kind of pictures prior meeting., they don’t have any pictures here and they refuse to send…
7replies575viewsFascinating double standards
Lying is a very unattractive quality. Some of y'all readily acknowledge the problems with outdated photos, ages, weight... and yet those same people misrepresent their sexual orie…
by Esperanza9111replies573views- 4replies569views
New to life style
We are a couple new to this We find this exciting but one of us feels like one of us is rushing into it. And doesn’t feel comfortable. One of us would like to take it slower. I kn…
6replies568viewsDeciding to Play
Wondering other thoughts when deciding to play at events, M&G's, clubs. Like everyone our like is full. When we go to LS events my wife is excited. It's fantastic. 90% of the time…
by MCfunsters2replies567viewsFinding the right couples?
We have tried several things, but are having difficulties finding the right types of couples. We are not much into clubs or big parties, which we know limits us as events are prob…
by FredTammy0replies564viewslive stream or video and photo
Good morning, my wife had her first hotwife experience about a week ago.It was a blast and we both love it. She told me even though I was not physically present, my name was menti…
by mamipapi792replies558views- 2replies555views
Best swinger club- venue in Las Vegas for a single gentleman
Thank you for looking and hopefully leaving some POSITIVE feedback/ information. What is the best swing- adult club in Las Vegas for a single gentleman on the weekends? Any and al…
by Dr2Dr77772replies554viewsWomen Butt Photos
Just curious here, when women have a lot of "butt" pictures on their profile, does that mean they want their "butt" kissed and loved? (LOL)
by candjcpl23replies546viewsBest Practices for Consensual Non-Monogamy
NCSF materials are provided for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Best Practices for Consensual Non-Monogamy Consensual Non-monogamy (CNM) is the pra…
by PeaceMaker1replies538viewsZentai
I have been thinking about a Zentai theme event. And the dress would be Zentai suits. I was curious if others have participated in this type of event and a little about your exper…
by PeaceMaker3replies532viewsBooked A VV cruise how to find others?
We recently booked an adults only Virgin cruise for later this year. We don't want to go asking on the vanilla cruise forums if there will be any other lifestyle people booked as…
by necouple91114replies519viewsGhosted
It seems we get ghosted constantly now. In the matter of four days, we were ghosted by 1 single woman who contacted us, 1 hot wife who contacted us and couple we had hung out with…
by marnmar17replies516viewsGetting aressted for prostitution at a swing party?
I met a woman at a munch and she told me she has been in the lifestyle around CT for 30 years. I asked her why there were no meet and greets or house parties for swing anywhere in…
by Ymichael145replies513viewsLifestyle Clubs near San Diego
We are visiting San Diego in the near future and are having a very hard time finding a swingers club that is still open. Any recommendations? We are driving so please include any…
0replies513viewsALL sex is situational
ALL of it is grounded in context and CONSENT. All of it. You don't fuck every man or every woman as a straight person. WHY the FUCK would you think a bisexual person would be any…
by Esperanza9118replies507viewsWhat does this mean?
A couple contacted me 18 months ago. I responded, they didn't. They just now responded. Under fantasies they said " To be shared in person". Is there any other way to share someon…
by Ymichael143replies492viewsHow to fit in one room?
We have a fairly small bedroom with a queen size bed. We have a slightly larger living room area with one sofa. Does anyone have tips on getting creative with space to fit everyon…
10replies484viewsGhosted and subsequently blocked
My wife and I had been chatting with a male about joining us. He lives maybe a hour from us, so we offered to meet halfway for a meet and greet. He appeared nice, was very communi…
6replies479viewsStood up/travel
Some people amaze me when you made plans with a person who you put all your time with and they didn't do the same what you both agreed to. Specially if you travel to them and they…
2replies478viewsClose up face photos with faces blocked out
You think the amorphous blob isn't helpful? Your closeup photos where we can see only your heads with no faces make ZERO sense. Why bother? We use to have albums. I am trying find…
by Esperanza9112replies463viewsGetting burned out
We're getting REALLY tired of the liars, fakes and flakes. It's unbelievable that someone takes the time to chat for a few days, meet for drinks or dinner then disappears. Seems l…
by bfwp4u6replies462views- 1replies462views
Need advice on this situation
Good morning y'all. I need a bit of advice. So I was checking my messages on here and saw a new message, all the message said "Hello I’m a very straight forward person If you are…
by aa20700641210replies453viewsChoosing which event to attend??
There are two different New Years events that we are interested in attending this year and having trouble determining which to attend. One is a hotel takeover 3 day event hosted b…
4replies452viewsWishing to be the object of passion and the giver of pleasure
I decided to share my story in hopes of some advice, understanding, compassion, and possibly affection. (A guy can hope !) I met my wife in College 38 years ago (Married 33 years)…
by friends2nc3replies421viewsResponding to a message
Contacted two couples that had profiles on here. They responded. I replied to their response and never heard from them again. Now I'm just wondering if I did something wrong. Mayb…
by Ymichael142replies416viewsCurrent images
I love how people put in their profiles please make sure your photos are current and you look like them in real life. You then look at their pictures and the upload dates are from…
2replies374viewsZentai or similar encounters
I was curious about how many folks have or had participated in ZENTAI type events. If so please share your sensations and emotional state.
by PeaceMaker0replies365viewsSingle guys - what she and I expect
Hey, I tried typing out a well thought out and humble post but SLS wouldn't let me post because of "special" characters so I'm gonna KISS. Can't speak for all the other couples he…
by JeffX_RebX0replies358viewsCocoa Beach
My wife and I are going to Cocoa Beach for a couple days next weekend. Can anyone suggest some lifestyle friendly bars or clubs there? Or just a good place we may find someone to…
by 904racer0replies354viewsLooking for recomendation swingers club in South Florida
Looking for a good one to meet a lot of single guys.
by partie20replies339viewsWhen people message
When someone sends you the bird what is considered rude, to say we are not a match or just ignore the message. Just had someone message me and I said we were probably not a match…
by RNV20258replies338viewsLooking for Twin Cities MN Area House Parties or Hotel Takeover
Married couple seeking a house party or hotel takeover type event we could attend in the MN twin cities or Western WI area. This would be her first ever event (he has past lifesty…
by Pepeanon1replies331viewsBest swinger clubs for a Saturday
We live downtown looking for a good place next few Saturdays any recommendations and why?
by Alecsgirl0replies315viewsBest Advice for Combating Flakiness
Best advice for cutting through the usual flakiness BS is pretty simple: Go to meet and greets and make contacts real. the downside to talking online is that there is nothing inve…
by 6zcouple2replies246viewsFemale body hair
Hi So we are fairly new to the lifestyle, and one of the things that is holding the female half of us back is that she doesn't shave at all. She has naturally very light body hair…
by Prepotente5replies228viewsSecluded area for shenanigans on the boat in Titusville area
Thinking to get my boat in the river in Titusville area. Any recommendations where I can safely anchor away from most traffic and have adult fun?
by euroart690replies191viewsBreaking up with playmates
"Just tell them you're done"... yes i've heard that before lol, but its usually not that simple! What's the most polite way to end a FWB situation with a couple that you've been r…
by sexxyjessy693replies178viewsA not ready for primetime player
Yes I'm old and out of sync with being social... I wonder about this instant hook up vibe I see. Being new here, I am wondering how long does it take roughly for new people to fit…
by Over7Under81replies159viewsGlory Hole Places?
I’m currently looking to find a glory hole place either in Suffolk or Nassau where I can suck a cock while hubby watches. Not new to swinging but we always just host. We don’t go…
6replies151viewsFinding Meet and Greet events
We have been exploring the lifestyle for a number of years and have found that we most enjoy meet and greet, off premise events. The problem is we can't seem to find very many, We…
by dman9642replies143viewsPlease take a shower
Hey everyone. Hope all is well. Crazy snowstorms here in the Northeast but making it Last Saturday, I attended a swinger party. One guy who was guilty admitted that he did not sho…
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