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[quote=Onehorneywife]There are countless rude and crude people on the different web sites. Just had a guy this morning call my wife a cunt because we said sorry the attraction wasn't there for us no mind the fact he was in Vegas and us in…
[quote=BlackVulcan5562]Well, I find it's best to speak for oneself instead of speaking for others. I disdain certain terminology that is degrading, and I refrain from using them in any approving manner. I've run across others who agree wit…
[quote=sls_WayneC] The new site will have a Recent Views feature. This will show you a list of profiles you have recently viewed. You will be able to delete individual views or reset and clear the whole list. [/quote]Did this go away? I re…
[quote=fraunhubby68]Newathis: Some groups are starting to throw hotwife parties, where they invite more single, usually, well-endowed gentlemen for the ladies to meet and enjoy if they want to. So, that may be a starting point if they happ…
Eggplant parmigiana from scratch
Why is there an assumption that a person who lists as bi or bi curious will be pursuing bi play? This seems to be more of an issue with bi or bi curious men. There seems to be a feeling that non bi men believe that bi men are going to hitt…
[quote=funlyfriend]We wrote down all of people we knew that had us blocked. Then we went our friends and used their sls account to see their profiles. All but one we had no idea why we are blocked. One who we had long term chat with we rea…
Is this the male equivalent of women wearing anklets?
We had an extensive ongoing discussion with a couple in another part of the country. Shared open galleries, had some very intimate (and hot) conversations, shared some experiences and desires, and had talked about meeting when we would nex…
We haven't done either, but would be more interested in a Hedo/Desire trip than we would a cruise.
Sometimes those who dress conservatively can be the wildest when the clothes come off.
Vanilla friends who become LS friends? It's a hard no for us. Too awkward. LS friends who become vanilla friends as well? Has happened to us and it has worked out without an issue.
[quote=HOPnrBED]Never a second chance for a first impression.[/quote]It's been well over a year since we met that couple, have run into them at a couple of parties since, and still can't get that initial meeting out of our heads. On one ha…
[quote=azcouple3127]I've recently changed our profile from bi-curious to straight for the wife. Too many people just assumed that play between the ladies was a forgone conclusion based on the tag. If there was a bi-situational tag we would…
[quote=HOPnrBED]We don’t see color, we only see humans. Personality, wit, charm, laughter, and hygiene keep our attention.[/quote]Love this. Great mentality. Plus, when C has a good partner, she can't see color when her eyes roll back into…
[quote=Harleycouple12]We don't mind meeting for a drink or two before we get naked, but not going out to dinner then talking for hours just to go home. Who wants to play on a full stomach lol. Time in life is valuble so when we get togethe…
In a previous job, I shared an office with a couple of road bike junkies. One had a full workshop to build/repair bikes in his basement. Their passion rubbed off, and I ended up with a Swiss road bike frame that we built up from scratch. T…
Looking at this from a different angle: If we were to meet a couple we really liked, found them interesting to talk to, felt like we could really enjoy their company in the bedroom, felt them to be compatible in every way........and the re…
[quote=BlackVulcan5562][quote=funlyfriend][quote=BlackVulcan5562]I started exploring the lifestyle out of kinky curiosity, but, although I was aroused, I intended to remain just an observer because I didn't wish to participate in all the a…
[quote=Webmaster][quote=bobsteppingout][quote=Webmaster][quote=oldsmoothie][quote=Webmaster][quote=kazootwo]Allow free members to reply to paid members who initiated the contact.[/quote] The website used to work that way several years ago…
There are suggestions in the new swing dot com discussion about adding a "Like" or "interested" button which would accomplish the same thing. This would be better because if you just open pictures for a profile, they would have no idea you…
BV, Love your honesty and understanding in your post. It resonates with is because the compersion is what we love. I love watching C in a way I just can't if I'm with her, or with another partner. She loves the feel of a different man, and…
They have events posted on the Hot Date site with people signed up. The event listing has a liaison, and there looks to be a few people that are regulars on the attendee list. May be worth sending them a Message to get answers.
[quote=Stingray2024]I’m new to the lifestyle and am getting more excited of the prospect of making my husband watch me. It’s difficult to find attractive, in-shape men in their 30s here locally. I don’t trust the “frequent” travelers. Gues…
I've shopped at Wegmans markets in NY, NJ, PA, & MA. Many times, I've put a pineapple in the cart upside down. The only time our cart gets bumped into is from someone on their phone not paying attention. And while it may work in Fantasy La…
[quote=ItalianGinger4u2]This is a definitive YES! We are a host couple with our partner groups and one started 50+ Silver Takeovers. I have to say some in this crowd can outpace a few of the younger crowds we work! It's a great bunch and w…
[quote=Webmaster] Well given that the original Swinglifestyle.com is 24 years old and has never quite been finished. It s hard to put anything specific on it. it is currently fully functional, although missing some of our members favorite…
Indian night: Chicken simmered in a Balti curry paste with tomatoes, peppers, onions, served with Basmati rice and naan bread.
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=MandC508][quote=windowShopping7][quote=MandC508][quote=windowShopping7]@M&C maybe it was maple syrup and not honey then. The place also serves this amazing signature cocktail. OAK + ALMOND four roses bourbon.…
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=MandC508][quote=windowShopping7]@M&C maybe it was maple syrup and not honey then. The place also serves this amazing signature cocktail. OAK + ALMOND four roses bourbon. luxardo triplum. orgeat. lemon. smoked…
[quote=windowShopping7]@M&C maybe it was maple syrup and not honey then. The place also serves this amazing signature cocktail. OAK + ALMOND four roses bourbon. luxardo triplum. orgeat. lemon. smoked sea salt rim[/quote]Sounds great. I'd d…
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=PhoebertAndWife]I don't bother with spice blends except for Lawry's Lemon Pepper and curry powder. All the individual spices and herbs take up one entire shelf of a good sized cabinet beside the stove. I just…
Is there an ETA for the new Swing Dot Com site to be finished and go live?
When I grille a good steak, I'll dry brine it overnight with kosher salt, then it's a light rub of olive oil and a rub of sea salt, fresh cracked black pepper, and some granulated garlic. Nice and simple. Otherwise, the Montreal Steak seas…
[quote=CopNkitten]montreal steak seasoning is my favorite. i don't care what's in it. i put that shit on everything[/quote]Wholeheartedly agree!
After a few nights of heavy cooking this week, tonight we take it a little easy. Our butcher/meat market had prepared stuffed flank steaks. Rolled flank steak stuffed with parmesan, spinach, & bread crumbs. We'll steam some fresh broccoli,…
[quote=calcanfun2][quote=MandC508]Tonight will be Greek Kleftiko. Lamb leg marinated overnight in a lemon/olive oil/garlic/herb mixture slow cooked with sliced potatoes, onions, peppers, & feta cheese wrapped in parchment paper to steam. O…
Tonight will be Greek Kleftiko. Lamb leg marinated overnight in a lemon/olive oil/garlic/herb mixture slow cooked with sliced potatoes, onions, peppers, & feta cheese wrapped in parchment paper to steam. One of our favorite dishes. Really…
[quote=calcanfun2]A spicy Pad Kee Mao dish to use up some broccoli in the fridge.[/quote]Ooh!
[quote=RNV2025]When someone sends you the bird what is considered rude, to say we are not a match or just ignore the message. Just had someone message me and I said we were probably not a match and they came back with “wow that was rude”.…
Tonight, making double cut pork chops marinated in citrus rosemary cooked in the sous vide (4 hours). Will finish with a sear over applewood on the grill. Steamed green beans and apple sauce.
[quote=Dear_diary]Just my opinion. If I don’t get something back the next morning or the next day saying thank you for the invitation I had a great time. I don’t even consider inviting them back or bringing them into my circle. Just becaus…
Wheeling the grill out of the garage for a KC Strip. With a baked potato & some steamed green beans.
It's been cold, so we've been going for comfort foods. Last night made a Dublin Coddle. Tonight it will be chili. Been giving the Dutch Oven a good workout.
[quote=PhoebertAndWife]"The profile itself has no profile and zero galleries. Meant to say that the profile itself has no pictures and zero galleries." It could be that all their photos were older than five years and were deleted recently…
[quote=MandC508][quote=MNJFLA]Again I will rant about profiles and photos, in the opening post. When I see a woman's "ass or tits" not a face photo or no photos of the man, I am turned off. ( can see this in a playboy magazine) Or only a p…
[quote=MNJFLA]Again I will rant about profiles and photos, in the opening post. When I see a woman's "ass or tits" not a face photo or no photos of the man, I am turned off. ( can see this in a playboy magazine) Or only a photo of the man,…
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=owcangrace][quote=windowShopping7][quote=hotAlexforFun][quote=Harleycouple12]If I don't hear back I usually reach out to see if they had fun, and I hope I didn't dissapoint[/quote]Funny, you haven’t replied ba…
Using the AI takes the personality of the profile away from the people. We are far less excited knowing that AI might have written a profile. And yes, we know you can enter your SLS profile into a 3rd party AI app and generate an AI versio…
It would be way more convenient to be able to edit an existing Hot Date than to delete and enter all the parameters and text again. Also, would love the ability to be able to enter a range of dates on one Hot Date instead of having to ente…
Having as much (if not more) sex than we ever have in over 30 years of marriage. Still attending parties & events, and meeting couples & singles for dates.
C enjoys oral before and after penetration. And sometimes during ion we're using a dildo. You just have to hit the right spots, and she's clever about maneuvering her parts to her partner's tongue. She's also a big fan of aggressive vibrat…
ShoreFeelsGood: I provided an example where a negative Cert would be useful, but said it wasn't worth the negativity it might cause. As for allowing people to approve their own Certs: Many profiles prefer to maintain a level of privacy whe…
[quote=AandJinNNJ][quote=ShoreFeelsGood][quote=lcmim]I always thought that a cert was a verification of authenticity and not of quality. "These people are real."[/quote]Reading through the certs we've gotten and we've seen on others profil…
[quote=MNJFLA]SOFT SWAP .......we believe that if that is what couples want to do that is their preference. For us we decided long ago to be swingers, and in our opinion soft swap is not swinging. Also we hear people say we are in " the li…
[quote=Onehorneywife]Here is one from this morning When would you be available to meet and greet so you can start being sufficiently fucked and serviced?[/quote]Hard to believe people send this thinking they're being clever and that you'll…
[quote=vabeachcouple33]Pad thai, sans momofuku chili crunch.[/quote]I’ve got a jar of that chili crunch in my cabinet!
Tonight was New Haven pizza takeaway on our way back from picking up our son & daughter in law in New Jersey.
[quote=unlike_your_ex][quote=MandC508]I'd give Free members three days or even possibly one full week with full & complete access. That gives them plenty of time to check out and use all the features. If they don't pay after that, I'd limi…
[quote=sonhcpl]Sushi and salad for Xmas Eve Just put a 10 pound standing rib roast in the over for tonight with roaste carrots and onion, bake potatoes, and frozen cookie crumb pie for desert - the diet starts tomorrow![/quote]Nice!
I'd give Free members three days or even possibly one full week with full & complete access. That gives them plenty of time to check out and use all the features. If they don't pay after that, I'd limit their access to looking at profiles…
After watching our three favorite Christmas movies (Love Actually, A Christmas Story, Die Hard), I'll be grilling a couple of racks of lamb. Serving with risotto and a salad. Happy Holidays to all.
Traditional Christmas Eve Chinese take away.
Love to be able to filter out profiles who list their weight as 0.
vabeachcouple & thn1045: I couldn't agree with your posts more. Discipline is a massive plus because of the distractions. but managed, you feel more productive work and home wise. We eat better when I work remotely because I can cook thing…
Spaghetti with a bolognese sauce, garlic bread, & a salad. Shrimp cocktail as an appetizer.
Here's a fun one: Our profile is pretty detailed. But it does give a reader some insight into who we are & what we like. So we get a Message the other day that says "Hi, love to connect with you and find out more about you." Click on their…
As it's Sunday, it's the day for our riff on the traditional British Sunday Roast: -Tenderloin roast cooked in Sous Vide then seared -Roast potatoes ("roasties") -Roasted carrots, celery, onions -Yorkshire Puddings -Gravy -Red wine to be s…
[quote=BiXtasy]There are so many of these on the market. Does anyone have any experience with them and can recommend a certain style or brand?[/quote]We have a couple of wedges, ramps, etc from a company called Liberator. Their stuff can b…
[quote=sls_WayneC] Cutting the peas in half one by one takes hours. You must not be doing it right. If you split the first pea correctly, a huge amount of energy is released that creates a chain reaction and splits all the other peas. [/qu…
[quote=MelvinBoinkster]I've never had split pea soup. I politely ask, what is the appeal to split pea soup? What makes it a special dish? Dinner at last night's bowling league for me was just picking at the finger food. The majority of the…
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=MandC508]Roasted salmon with a honey/maple/dijon glaze and some roasted broccoli. Starting off with some split pea soup.[/quote]That is a ridiculously good profile pic. I had split pea last night.[/quote]Thank…
Roasted salmon with a honey/maple/dijon glaze and some roasted broccoli. Starting off with some split pea soup.
[quote=calcanfun2][quote=MandC508][quote=Goodenuff]'ts OK. I'm not one to judge, I had pepperoni pizza for breakfast a couple of weeks ago. In my college days I might have washed it down with warm, flat beer instead of OJ.[/quote]Ha ha....…
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=tbrmskss]It is getting down into the 50s at night here. I had to put on my members only jacket last night.[/quote]Is it an authentic 80’s version? Or is this the modern version with spandex? Lol. I have never…
[quote=Goodenuff]'ts OK. I'm not one to judge, I had pepperoni pizza for breakfast a couple of weeks ago. In my college days I might have washed it down with warm, flat beer instead of OJ.[/quote]Ha ha.........morning pizza out of the frid…
Bacon, egg, & cheese on an English muffin and a full Chemex pot of coffee. Already planning on homemade diner style pancakes for Sunday morning.
I've worked from a remote home office on & off since the mis 1990's. Have done that while living in the USA and in the UK as a sales manager. Have managed various territories in the USA, Canada, & Europe in that time. I have also worked on…
[quote=Someonescoming]MandC, You are babbling and spinning now, inflation at the time Biden left office was 9%, and is now, 11 months later, it is 2.7%. That is a fact, the Biden economy failed for 4 years, the Dems consistently blamed it…
[quote=Someonescoming]"...the same groceries cost us roughly 12-15% more than they did in 2024. Meat & dairy especially are significantly more and we are buying and using the same amount of those than we ever did." Maybe in Mass, but not i…
[quote=Someonescoming]MandC, It was the polls from 3 days before the election, but that was consistent for several weeks. The #1 concern of the country was the open borders, nothing else was even close. But since you brought up cost, today…
Someonescoming: Not sure where you got your poll info from, but Gallup just before the 2024 election cited that the economy was the #1 concern of voters heading into that election. In fact, they say that the percentage of people concerned…
Homemade (from scratch) eggplant parmigiana.
[quote=ExpandingHorizonsCouple]The necklace was a chain with a 2-3” slender, metallic rod. It had quite a powerful vibe for being so small.[/quote]We were surprised at how powerful it was for its size, but C still prefers a stronger vibe.
[quote=ExpandingHorizonsCouple]Was at a party and a beautiful woman had a small metal, high intensity vibe on a necklace. Looked like an elegant piece of jewelry. I didn’t get the brand. Is anyone familiar with the product?[/quote]One of t…
[quote=_rabbit_n_scamp_]Made a Berber tagine with the beautiful hand thrown and painted tagine we brought home from Morocco. Eggplant, acorn squash, broccoli, potatoes, chickpeas, carrots and vegan chickun in a savory sauce made with broth…
"The sauce is the boss"
[quote=windowShopping7][quote=spoonerpa][quote=windowShopping7][quote=spoonerpa]Going out for pizza and a salad.[/quote]What time are we going? ; )[/quote]We can go as soon as you get here. I'll even let you pick out the toppings. ;-)[/quo…
[quote=windowShopping7]I thought that berberine was useful for ED Perhaps it’s high in niacin.[/quote]I've been taking a berberine supplement on & off for about a year. I can't honestly say whether it's had any effect on me at all. I haven…
[quote=marioncountycouple7688][quote=MandC508]MCC: "Being" You're not worth my time, but I hope someone else combs through your posts in the forums and points out grammatical and spelling errors.[/quote]Grammer* grammatical is referring to…
MCC: "Being" You're not worth my time, but I hope someone else combs through your posts in the forums and points out grammatical and spelling errors.
That's a very verbose way of saying that you have no response to the points. Yes, it's all about you. * The Senate is not obligated to confirm any nominee for SCOTUS No, it is not. But it's 100% hypocrisy to deny a nominated candidate a he…
Maybe someone else can explain why anyone would waste their time trying to have a discussion with someone who has poor reading comprehension skills. I assure you that it was more frustrating typing the same things over and over than it is…
[quote=marioncountycouple7688][quote=MandC508]MCC7688: "10th amendment" Is there a point you want to make? Because your reply has nothing to do with what I wrote.[/quote]You are discussing abortion right? As a human right? The 10th amendme…
[quote=funlyfriend]how do you get the quotes to post like this? Quote from July7069: BB for sure[/quote]At the bottom right of your post it says "Reply to funlyfriend". Click that (instead of "post reply" at the top of the thread) and you…
MCC7688: "10th amendment" Is there a point you want to make? Because your reply has nothing to do with what I wrote.
ForFun- I see. You are allowed to give a civics lesson to point out the obvious, but others are not. I will concede that the origin of the phrase "packing the court" referred to the number of justices, but for the sake of this discussion (…
[quote=Forfunin205]@MandC508 Pack the Supreme Court: "Packing the Supreme Court" is a term for changing the number of justices on the Supreme Court, typically by adding them, to shift its ideological balance. In other words, when during th…
[quote=MNJFLA]For us my wife always dresses in good taste, will change into something sexy in the house. Keep in mind that the neighbors are always watching. The clothes all come off completely when we are ready to play, lol. We keep our s…
[quote=marioncountycouple7688][quote=MandC508]Forfun: "Democrats are the ones pushing to "pack the supreme court" to circumvent the current ideological lean of SCOTUS.". Packing the SC has already happened through Trump and the republicans…
