New Site Launched
in Open Forum ·
Will the Notes feature be set up on the new site? Will the notes data be copied over? This is a really useful feature we really hope the new site has it.
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Single men contact you with no pics?
in 3-Some ·
Yes, we have had plenty of similar experiences with singles and couples who write and don't open their pictures. It feels so immature on their part to not present all the information such as sharing a current face pic on 1st contact. Regar…
Free members
in Website ·
To add additional insult to usability... I just learned today that on the home landing page they have Newest matches and Random matching and sls routinely makes profile suggestions to single guys where the profile isn't seeking single guys…
Free members
in Website ·
SLS doesn't prioritize the user experience. If they did then they would provide a profile setting which would allow us to hide from ALL views free members. They would hide them from ALL views when a profile is marked as not interested. As…
Any hotwives in here or hotwife couples?
in Straight Couples ·
We have both explored separate play. It can be very exciting for the persons playing and the person waiting. We have explored separate dates and over night stays. It can and does work. It can be hard to find the right connection. Wife gets…
Outed
in Swinger Advice ·
The way the world is... we all operate with a deluded and hopeful expectation of respect and privacy. But in truth this veneer can be quickly stripped by someone that needs attention, someone that was rejected or someone that is jealous. W…
Outed
in Swinger Advice ·
This exact thing happen to us as well. 1st off HR is likely to be powerless to do anything about this unless you know who did the outing. Perhaps they can issue some warning about how unprofessional it is to talk about other employees, but…
Any real guys in here?
in 3-Some ·
Everyone that explores this decides on their path of engagement. Sure fucking is simple. But for many people they aren't looking for a quick fuck. They are looking for a personality that entices or is at least compatible with sexual though…
Weight
in Swinger Advice ·
@nclookn Swinging is about taking a sexual and emotional risk. Everyone determines their level of comfort with that risk and they all come to the search with a basic idea of the physical attributes they want in a partner. Your comment abou…
Weight
in Swinger Advice ·
@OH2NY2NC2022 Disagree. "Somewhat" ... yes what you said is true for some people. However the vast majority are just looking for people that have similar or better physiques than themselves. If people would be honest with their pictures it…
Blocked for no reason
in Swinger Advice ·
We have blocked lots of people. Why? Because we were not interested in them. Looks, weight or perhaps they weren't interested in us. So yes we blocked them. This removes them from our searches. .. why the heck would we want a list of incom…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
We have yet to see an "attractive" holder of an upside down Pineapple, but we have read discussions on it for years.
Any real guys in here?
in 3-Some ·
Meeting off line is generally hit and miss. We have had single guys/women flake and couples. Our thought is that many people here have a fantasy, but some are unwilling to actually meet in public. They just bounce from person to person try…
Messaging free users
in Website ·
It is our understanding that free members can no longer reply to messages. This really sucks in our opinion. The 5 messages a day I think was a great rule. So if they can't respond its basically pointless to message free members. At least…
Drama
in Swinger Advice ·
Generally it means they are trying to avoid People cheating People who actually aren't comfortable with lifestyle, but are present for their partner. Both forms of this type of drama are best avoided. This is suppose to be a fun experience…
Hotwife vetting date
in Swinger Advice ·
Curious as to other people's experiences on who pays when hotwife meets a gentleman to "vet" him for possible mfm or mf. This is for 1st date to see if there is mutual interest. No play of any kind is implied or offered in making the 1st d…
straight-straight seems impossible
in Swinger Advice ·
A sexual orientation doesn't equate to a sexual demand. Just because a woman is listed as bi doesn't means she is demanding that experience. We are all people, EVERYONE has a right to express what they seek and negotiate on possible bounda…
Message flags
in Website ·
The message function isn't overly user friendly. Part if this is because often messages go unanswered for many reasons. Also if you delete a message you lose the history of the conversation. I would like to suggest 1 or more options that w…
From swinging to hotwife/cuckold. Is that your case?
in 3-Some ·
Our beginning focus was mfm, we have also explored full swap. But over the last three years we have been leaning more toward Stag/vixen and cuckquean because it gets so damn frustrating trying to find couples that are attractively compatib…
Any real guys in here?
in 3-Some ·
@Obxboater Agree, if the wife won't confirm then is it really an open/honest situation? We have also had that experience with couples where the guy claims his wife is unavailable. We have complete understanding of a wife not being availabl…
Star interest levels
in Website ·
Yes there are times we would want to mark the interest level on a profile without opening it. There are tons of reasons, everything from knowing them already, to already knowing our interest level based on the information shown prior to op…
Any real guys in here?
in 3-Some ·
There are good single guys. Sadly the no shows and ghosting are just common practice with many folks, life stresses or a limitation of their implied freedom are rarely ever communicated. These create the experience of ghosting and no shows…
Question for women about unicorns spending the night
in 3-Some ·
@new_and_naughty. No she isn't a possession. We appreciate the insights given. As this is uncharted territory for us. It's nice to hear perspectives other than our own. I guess our biggest concern is accidental offending her after having a…
Question for women about unicorns spending the night
in 3-Some ·
We have a unicorn that we have been seeing and on nye she will be spending the night. We have already discussed that we would be having a 3some during the evening. My question is, what are people's thoughts about when the 3some and evening…
Adding a 3rd.
in 3-Some ·
Guys might not know this, but I imagine it's more common than most know. When two women play together or share a partner, fluids invariably get exchanged. There are times this can cause a bio health change which can cause uti or yeast infe…
Who is mixologist? Long island ice tea
in Open Forum ·
I was wonder if anyone had thoughts on the common mistakes made with long island ice tea and how to identify them? I don't drink them often enough and so I really can identify the taste problem with a bad one vs a good one. Anyone have any…
Couples with only pics of the woman, NONE of the guy
in Straight Couples ·
Yes, no pics of the guy is a red flag and just irritating. My wife has no interest in chatting or meeting a couple unseen. And truth be told it irritates me to have to "ask" for a pic to show my wife. Generally we don't even waste time wit…
Any hotwives in here or hotwife couples?
in Straight Couples ·
We have explored the hotwife/vixen stuff. We have both have partners that we went off to see without the spouse. It can be very erotic and exciting. Sadly life (nursing school) gets in the way and we have done seperate play in almost a yea…
Cuckqueen, how?
in 3-Some ·
@jollyrancher999 Thank you, sadly part of the problem I think is that we would really like to find someone in or near Richmond, Va.
Cuckqueen, how?
in 3-Some ·
@888eatme888 Hmm.. that method isn't our style. We don't play often and really value communication over any type of bait and switch.
Cuckqueen, how?
in 3-Some ·
I (the wife) am interested in watching another woman enjoy my husband. I was curious to hear how others might have been able to make this happen. It seems even more rare than finding a unicorn. We haven't had much luck with couples because…
Seeking a horny wife.
in 3-Some ·
Sounds like a guy with a fantasy and a internet connection. My wife gets similar flavored messages at times. They are never well recieved. The sender presumes too much, is too vulgar and way to premature in the communication. I imagine we…
We got punked - lesson learned!
in 3-Some ·
Yes we have had this happen a few times. We learned not to trade nudes Not to get into long drawn out chats Voice or video verify for single women We like to learn a few basics, trade a reasonably current pic and then let's schedule a publ…
Star interest levels
in Website ·
Three suggestions 1) it would be awesome if the interest level filter was available when you select the "who's on feature" 2) when using the chrome browser on android cell phone to view site. It would be great if you could set the interest…
FREE MEMBERS - now completely restricted
in Website ·
Since the mail is still technically function. Established conversations can be continued or is that killed as well?
FREE MEMBERS - now completely restricted
in Website ·
Can anyone clarify two points? Can free members read any messages? Is there any restrictions on what can be sent in a message? (ie alternative methods of contact)
Are my expectations too high?
in Swinger Advice ·
I wasn't planning on a math test so i gave a generalized # for the total people in kik group. Its been Fluctuating as some people have come others gone and a few couples only have one kik handle in the group where others each spouse has 1.
Are my expectations too high?
in Swinger Advice ·
LoL thanks i love that photo too
Are my expectations too high?
in Swinger Advice ·
Ok.... let me set stage... we host parties. This time around everyone has a kik handle so we started a kik group. I started the group to allow for some chatting and pg13 picture sharing. (Didnt want the parade of genitals that some groups…
Semi/public webform to manage bring a dish parties?
in Open Forum ·
Has anyone come across an easy online form for managing bring a dish events? We have found some people dont like to give out email addresses or its just a pain to manage. Others struggle with navigating websites. I was wondering if anyone…
Single male or married male?
in 3-Some ·
Depends on other factors. Is the married male cheating? Is the single male just a player? We have also found a lot of cheating men have very strict limitations on being able to meet, many can't meet on a friday or saturday evening. On the…
A new trend on KIK?
in Open Forum ·
Be careful, we turned down a single guy (not sure which one) and he filed some complaint to kik and kik didnt even have any respect to share complaint or allow us to defend ourselves. They just shut our account down. We lost all our chats…
Any success tips in finding 4 or more guys to show up for an event?
in 3-Some ·
It is a struggle. Everytime we have tried to set up mfm or invite a token single guy to a house party we have plenty of no shows and ghosting. I think a lot of them are window shopping or not single and find they cant really get away unnot…
Adult theater for girl- girl action. How to accomplish?
in 3-Some ·
A lot of times couples go to these places with no intention of hooking up but of watching and being watched. To increase your chances of making this happen. Write admin of sls and have your account chanced to couples profile Post pics of h…
Deceiving Physical Attraction
in 3-Some ·
So many couples and singles get caught up in trying to put the image forward that compliments them the most. We have had couples that seriously airbrushed their photos as well as doing the magically slimming style of taking pics by holding…
House parties
in 3-Some ·
We have hosted several parties and people participate at their own level of comfort. Some people come to just be social, some hook up, some like to be watched. Some dont want to be watched and just play with their own partner. Its whatever…
FREE MEMBERS - now completely restricted
in Website ·
Free members should have a trial period. Being able to see the majority of the site and functions i felt like was a strong selling point. That said i do hope there more serious restriction of free members cuts down on the window shoppers.
KIK Advertising
in Website ·
Really. I find this all pretty funny. If the site wants to prohibit profiles from displaying a kik handle so be it. Personally i could care less. If someone post their handle it does not bother me in the least. A lot of people really enjoy…
Day Time Tryst
in Fantasies ·
Sounds like a hotwife or vixen fantasy. I have thought about it, sadly my wife has no interest in exploring a seperate date experience.
Member Interest Levels
in Website ·
@rand... Yes couples in a lot of situations will view ads. This can happen on purpose and by accident. People block for all kinds of reasons. Just a few might be the person is outside of their age range, or they aren't a fit on the attract…
Member Interest Levels
in Website ·
No marking interest level does not block them (at least in our experience) You actually have to block them.
Member Interest Levels
in Website ·
It would also be really helpful for users to be able to change this setting without having to open the profile.. So for example when it appears in "Who's online" or "search results". We would like to be able to set this indicator of like o…
Fun Facts
in Open Forum ·
@navyp78 and if done often enough you forget what calories are.
DP yes or no?
in 3-Some ·
My wife loves it. It helps that she loves anal sex in general and has even (a few rare times) orgasmed from anal. DP is and continues to be her fantasy that she loves to try again and again.
Full Swapping in separate rooms
in Straight Couples ·
p Personally I enjoy same room, I enjoy watching my wife have a good time. I enjoy seeing her enjoy herself. My wife is on the fence, she can easily get distracted by noises she is not making or by a bed moving in a different pattern than…
Does age matter when meeting a new couple
in Straight Couples ·
p Age rarely has anything to do with it. Having current nice pictures is what we look for. If the attraction is there and the pictures are current then age is not important. /p p That said what we have noticed is that with a lot of the cou…