How to cope with an average dick?

FokkersVeteran
Toms River, NJ, Us

The one thing i would like to change about myself is my height. Never even gave thought to having a larger dick. It’s nice sized with a little girth and being comfortable with it, means I can do whatever needs to be done to help my partner achieve her personal Nirvana. The only complaint i could imagine ever hearing is that it’s uncut, not that anyone has even noticed or pointed it out. But hey i respect if that’s one of your requirements
If my dick some how cant make anyone orgasm we’ll then there is always my tongue. It’s not particularly long, but just right enough to get in and on to what it needs to.

My .02

Good Golly Miss Molly that made ME feel good lol!! Who knew, from decades of porno watching, that 6.3 and up puts you in the upper echelon. I will now hold my head high :)

Alpharetta, GA, Us

In Sir Richard Francis Burton’s day, 6” constituted a monster cock. But then, they did belong to genies and such.

Tramp

New Orleans, LA, Us

They are no longer curious, I guess?

BT

New Orleans, LA, Us

I don’t understand by the original post was deleted.

~rabbit~

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

I have a several things to add to this conversation:

1) Her Suit should not be a word. It just sounds weird. And, it reminds me of Robin Williams, who was one hairy ass sumbitch.

2) “To quote my mom, If you're gonna be a dick, go big or stay home” is fucking hilarious!

3) I have an average length dick. I’ve been with quite a few women who had trouble handling my size. I’ve also fucked women after they’d just been riding a monster dick, and they still managed to orgasm on my average sized unit. Learn to move your hips. Learn to read the nonverbal cues of your partner. Before you know it, you’ll be making every inch count.

Niskayuna, NY, Us

OP: A particular sized cock will not make a woman orgasm, it is how you use it that will. Hell, even a cock that isn’t “cooperating” (aka “not getting/staying hard”) is still attached to a man who can make a woman scream in pleasure by many other ways. Plus, being “smaller” can have many advantages, such as deep-throated fun, great anal sex, and being able to fit fully inside any woman. Most importantly, simply learn to love who you are: confidence is extremely sexy.

~Kira

Fresno, CA, Us

Hey, I only started going hirsute after the age of 30....

New Orleans, LA, Us

...in the showers after football practice after the rest of the team had gone home?...

BT

Fresno, CA, Us

Or to quote my old high school buddy Jay, if you're gonna be a bear, be a grizzly.

New Orleans, LA, Us

To quote my mom, If you're gonna be a dick, go big or stay home.

BT

New Orleans, LA, Us

"Feeling better?"

Yes, enormously so!

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

BT

It's ok. You can say it. I've been called an above-average dick before.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

I will spare you the mini-rant on men and their penises, but only because I also appreciate how men and their penises are an endless source of all kinds of amusement. Like now. ;-)

Here's a finding from a study that aggregated the results of multiple studies covering approximately 15,000 men: "For example, an erect penis of 6.3 inches is in the 95th percentile. That means that out of 100 men, only five would have a penis longer than 6.3 inches."

Feeling better?

Not quite? Well, how about this: Women's vaginas come in just as many variations as men's penises, which means while being well above average (5.16 inches, based on that same meta study) you'll be too small for some women and too big for others.

Still not enough? Okay. In that case, men report penis size is one of their top concerns. Women, surveyed about their partners (real or prospective) don't list penis size n any sort of noticeable numbers even in studies that try to capture information on physical ideals.

Nobody ever got talked out of being self conscious about a purely imaginary physical problem and that won't happen here either, no matter how much refutation you receive. So, maybe just remind yourself you're not being rational and make sure your game in terms of best positions for you and your partner is topnotch.

Booneville, MS, Us

Thanks for that tip definitely lol

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

Just be happy with 6 inches, If you can get hard and stay hard consider yourself lucky. You can control the taste of your cum by drinking pineapple juice, girls will be happy to swallow then.....Mary Jo

Booneville, MS, Us

Thanks for the advice, I am really good with it, my wife loves it. It's really my last hurdle of self consciousness to get over. I'm hoping to improve myself in lots of ways, and I think this whole endeavor will help

Fresno, CA, Us

One of my common refrains here is "if you can't control it, don't let it bother you". Seems to me that this would apply here. Fact is, some women aren't interested in the full-on schnitzengruben, and some of them are. And some don't care either way, as long as she's attracted to him otherwise. Don't worry, be happy. Have fun.

You know what you CAN control? HOW you use what you've been given. So perhaps it might pay dividends to work on that.