Swinger Advice
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Glory Hole Places?
I’m currently looking to find a glory hole place either in Suffolk or Nassau where I can suck a cock while hubby watches. Not new to swinging but we always just host. We don’t go…
6replies148viewsBreaking up with playmates
"Just tell them you're done"... yes i've heard that before lol, but its usually not that simple! What's the most polite way to end a FWB situation with a couple that you've been r…
by sexxyjessy693replies177viewsFemale body hair
Hi So we are fairly new to the lifestyle, and one of the things that is holding the female half of us back is that she doesn't shave at all. She has naturally very light body hair…
by Prepotente5replies227viewsFinding Meet and Greet events
We have been exploring the lifestyle for a number of years and have found that we most enjoy meet and greet, off premise events. The problem is we can't seem to find very many, We…
by dman9642replies143viewsNeed advice on this situation
Good morning y'all. I need a bit of advice. So I was checking my messages on here and saw a new message, all the message said "Hello I’m a very straight forward person If you are…
by aa20700641210replies453viewsA not ready for primetime player
Yes I'm old and out of sync with being social... I wonder about this instant hook up vibe I see. Being new here, I am wondering how long does it take roughly for new people to fit…
by Over7Under81replies159viewsGetting aressted for prostitution at a swing party?
I met a woman at a munch and she told me she has been in the lifestyle around CT for 30 years. I asked her why there were no meet and greets or house parties for swing anywhere in…
by Ymichael145replies512viewsPlease take a shower
Hey everyone. Hope all is well. Crazy snowstorms here in the Northeast but making it Last Saturday, I attended a swinger party. One guy who was guilty admitted that he did not sho…
0replies95viewsHow to fit in one room?
We have a fairly small bedroom with a queen size bed. We have a slightly larger living room area with one sofa. Does anyone have tips on getting creative with space to fit everyon…
10replies483viewsWhen people message
When someone sends you the bird what is considered rude, to say we are not a match or just ignore the message. Just had someone message me and I said we were probably not a match…
by RNV20258replies338viewsLS experience turned stalker
We had a couple that we played pretty regularly with for about 9 months. Everything came to a screeching halt last May when I found out the the man in the other couple was trying…
by TrippAndRoxy23replies683viewsBest Advice for Combating Flakiness
Best advice for cutting through the usual flakiness BS is pretty simple: Go to meet and greets and make contacts real. the downside to talking online is that there is nothing inve…
by 6zcouple2replies246viewsHow do you like to advertise / connect for upcoming events?
For peeps with some experience and preferences, when you are planning to attend an upcoming event (a hotel take over for example or even the vanilla PA Bacon Festival) how do you…
by thn104521replies850views- 4replies569views
Couples Playing Solo
We have been active in the LS for 15 years and are an older couple The last two years we have been playing solo more often. Not at parties or events so much, but seeing couples or…
by Niel4U7replies1,119viewsCouples Playing Solo
We have been active in the LS for 15 years and are an older couple The last two years we have been playing solo more often. Not at parties or events so much, but seeing couples or…
by Niel4U9replies1,173viewsNo condom
When in your journey did you decide to go bareback with playmates? Does anyone regret that decision? Anyone been burned by less than truthful people?
0replies617viewsCurrent images
I love how people put in their profiles please make sure your photos are current and you look like them in real life. You then look at their pictures and the upload dates are from…
2replies374viewsSecluded area for shenanigans on the boat in Titusville area
Thinking to get my boat in the river in Titusville area. Any recommendations where I can safely anchor away from most traffic and have adult fun?
by euroart690replies191viewsCampground fun
Why not invite him over for a drink and in the conversation bring it up.
10replies1,785viewsThe dirty little truth people tip-toe around
Over the last 25 years of being in and out of this fun distraction (kids/jobs/family/all-good), the one universal truth we've found is the vast majority of people consider reasona…
by thn104514replies2,071viewsGuidelines for Us
When we attend a swingers party, we follow a set of simple rules that help us stay connected and comfortable. First, we always play together as a couple before engaging with anyon…
by aa2070064125replies781viewsClose up face photos with faces blocked out
You think the amorphous blob isn't helpful? Your closeup photos where we can see only your heads with no faces make ZERO sense. Why bother? We use to have albums. I am trying find…
by Esperanza9112replies463viewssurgically safe
I saw this in a profile and I wondered what it meant. "we are both surgically safe". Safe to perform surgery on? Safe from surgery? Their bodies are so free of STD's they are as s…
by Ymichael1414replies934viewsBlack ring means you are in the lifestyle?
Saw this on someone's profile. Never heard of it before. Just wondering if anyone has heard about it before. Wearing a black ring on any finger of either hand signals that you are…
by Ymichael1414replies1,967viewsCertifications
We were never the couple that would ask for certifications, and never thought about giving them unless the other couple asked. They just never seemed that important to us. Then a…
by NCmtncpl605630replies1,801viewsZentai
I have been thinking about a Zentai theme event. And the dress would be Zentai suits. I was curious if others have participated in this type of event and a little about your exper…
by PeaceMaker3replies532viewsAdvice
If you were that worried, why didn't you just have him go in the bathroom and clean up. I am guessing he just got his cock sucked.
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Extremely effective but unpopular
I state on my profile that I will expect them to FaceTime and voice verify if they message me if they don’t I block them.. so far I’ve gotten very few people message me and the on…
by Dear_diary8replies861viewsGetting burned out
We're getting REALLY tired of the liars, fakes and flakes. It's unbelievable that someone takes the time to chat for a few days, meet for drinks or dinner then disappears. Seems l…
by bfwp4u6replies462viewsBeing contacted by someone who is clearly out of your league
I viewed a couple profile. According to the profile I was too old, not educated enough, not vaccinated enough ,not fit enough and not experienced enough. So I didn't contact. They…
by Ymichael147replies1,227viewsWhen does not ready for a MFF become abuse?
The answers to the post MFM vs MFF got me thinking. Do you believe there is ever a point where it is not that she is not comfortable, it is abuse. She is intentionally saying no f…
by Ymichael1425replies1,237viewsmfm vs ffm
So I like seeing my wife with another guy then joining in for mfm play. My wife had said to guy that she prefers only mfm. She’s not sure if she could let me be with another woman…
by Mygirl69696replies712viewsWomen Butt Photos
Just curious here, when women have a lot of "butt" pictures on their profile, does that mean they want their "butt" kissed and loved? (LOL)
by candjcpl23replies546viewsBest swinger clubs for a Saturday
We live downtown looking for a good place next few Saturdays any recommendations and why?
by Alecsgirl0replies315viewsGhosted and subsequently blocked
My wife and I had been chatting with a male about joining us. He lives maybe a hour from us, so we offered to meet halfway for a meet and greet. He appeared nice, was very communi…
6replies479viewsGhosted
It seems we get ghosted constantly now. In the matter of four days, we were ghosted by 1 single woman who contacted us, 1 hot wife who contacted us and couple we had hung out with…
by marnmar17replies516viewsJoining SLS groups
I joined just about every group in my state looking to attend house parties. After at least one year, none of them have held a house party. All of the events show zero. They all a…
by Ymichael1415replies1,177viewsUse of the word Melanated
Saw this on a profile, " Melanated bbw single looking for friendship and more". Never saw "Melanated " before so I looked it up. Most popular use is to describe a black person. Is…
by Ymichael1410replies896viewsDeciding to Play
Wondering other thoughts when deciding to play at events, M&G's, clubs. Like everyone our like is full. When we go to LS events my wife is excited. It's fantastic. 90% of the time…
by MCfunsters2replies567viewsALL sex is situational
ALL of it is grounded in context and CONSENT. All of it. You don't fuck every man or every woman as a straight person. WHY the FUCK would you think a bisexual person would be any…
by Esperanza9118replies507viewsWhat does this mean?
A couple contacted me 18 months ago. I responded, they didn't. They just now responded. Under fantasies they said " To be shared in person". Is there any other way to share someon…
by Ymichael143replies492viewsCan anyone figure out this message?
"Hi she’s not ready so will take down min need to text vack". I get the she's not ready part, but is he going to take down a minimum need to text back? Or he needs a minute to tex…
by Ymichael148replies728viewsGeorge and Anne Dinners/Events
Anyone ever attend the George and Ann dinners? We are considering a dinner but we’re a little skeptical about it. Looking for some info, feedback and or advice. Thanks!!! O&M
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What does this mean in a profile?
"Hartford Connecticut EE. UU. 30 Miles". I realize it means they are 30 miles away from me in Hartford, CT, but what does the EE. UU. mean?
by Ymichael142replies680viewsNot a math problem /////but?
We are a couple that would enjoy playing probably 2x a month or so. Sometimes real vanilla, sometimes more wild. How many couples should we have in our quiver so that when we want…
by NCmtncpl605615replies1,368viewsHave you seen swinger tiktok
People here freaking out over a face picture and there are full on videos over there
by Esperanza91116replies1,466views
