Swinger Advice
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Glory Hole Places?
I’m currently looking to find a glory hole place either in Suffolk or Nassau where I can suck a cock while hubby watches. Not new to swinging but we always just host. We don’t go…
6replies148viewsBlocked for no reason
We are not new to the lifestyle. And we have never been blocked. We responded to their email. And now that couple blocked us without a reason. Really doesn’t make any sense what s…
88replies7,713viewsBreaking up with playmates
"Just tell them you're done"... yes i've heard that before lol, but its usually not that simple! What's the most polite way to end a FWB situation with a couple that you've been r…
by sexxyjessy693replies177viewsGetting aressted for prostitution at a swing party?
I met a woman at a munch and she told me she has been in the lifestyle around CT for 30 years. I asked her why there were no meet and greets or house parties for swing anywhere in…
by Ymichael145replies512viewsAge differences
Hello all, What does everyone thunk about age differences in a couple who are in the lifestyle? We are a couple with a 20 (f) and 46 (m) and are having a tough time finding couple…
by MandMfuncple58replies4,477viewsNaturally hairy
What percentage of swingers do you think either like or don't mind the unshaved? We like our pubic hairs on each other. On others, we are happy with whatever makes them happy. We…
24replies3,272viewsFemale body hair
Hi So we are fairly new to the lifestyle, and one of the things that is holding the female half of us back is that she doesn't shave at all. She has naturally very light body hair…
by Prepotente5replies227views- 14replies4,287views
Finding Meet and Greet events
We have been exploring the lifestyle for a number of years and have found that we most enjoy meet and greet, off premise events. The problem is we can't seem to find very many, We…
by dman9642replies143viewsNeed advice on this situation
Good morning y'all. I need a bit of advice. So I was checking my messages on here and saw a new message, all the message said "Hello I’m a very straight forward person If you are…
by aa20700641210replies453viewsHow to fit in one room?
We have a fairly small bedroom with a queen size bed. We have a slightly larger living room area with one sofa. Does anyone have tips on getting creative with space to fit everyon…
10replies483viewsA not ready for primetime player
Yes I'm old and out of sync with being social... I wonder about this instant hook up vibe I see. Being new here, I am wondering how long does it take roughly for new people to fit…
by Over7Under81replies159viewsThe dirty little truth people tip-toe around
Over the last 25 years of being in and out of this fun distraction (kids/jobs/family/all-good), the one universal truth we've found is the vast majority of people consider reasona…
by thn104514replies2,071viewsGetting burned out
We're getting REALLY tired of the liars, fakes and flakes. It's unbelievable that someone takes the time to chat for a few days, meet for drinks or dinner then disappears. Seems l…
by bfwp4u6replies462viewsJewelry - how much and what is appropriate
We have a question that may seem odd but it is a question we were discussing. At parties, clubs and now going to a convention what is appropriate jewelry when playing. He loves me…
by active2sum574replies1,382viewsPlease take a shower
Hey everyone. Hope all is well. Crazy snowstorms here in the Northeast but making it Last Saturday, I attended a swinger party. One guy who was guilty admitted that he did not sho…
0replies95viewsWhen people message
When someone sends you the bird what is considered rude, to say we are not a match or just ignore the message. Just had someone message me and I said we were probably not a match…
by RNV20258replies338viewsCouples Playing Solo
We have been active in the LS for 15 years and are an older couple The last two years we have been playing solo more often. Not at parties or events so much, but seeing couples or…
by Niel4U7replies1,119viewsBeing contacted by someone who is clearly out of your league
I viewed a couple profile. According to the profile I was too old, not educated enough, not vaccinated enough ,not fit enough and not experienced enough. So I didn't contact. They…
by Ymichael147replies1,227viewsLS experience turned stalker
We had a couple that we played pretty regularly with for about 9 months. Everything came to a screeching halt last May when I found out the the man in the other couple was trying…
by TrippAndRoxy23replies683viewsManscaping
What is the best kit to use for manscaping? Also, is it better to be trimmed or shaved?
by Newstuff249replies2,141viewsCouples Playing Solo
We have been active in the LS for 15 years and are an older couple The last two years we have been playing solo more often. Not at parties or events so much, but seeing couples or…
by Niel4U9replies1,173viewsBest Advice for Combating Flakiness
Best advice for cutting through the usual flakiness BS is pretty simple: Go to meet and greets and make contacts real. the downside to talking online is that there is nothing inve…
by 6zcouple2replies246viewsHow do you like to advertise / connect for upcoming events?
For peeps with some experience and preferences, when you are planning to attend an upcoming event (a hotel take over for example or even the vanilla PA Bacon Festival) how do you…
by thn104521replies850views- 4replies569views
Campground fun
Why not invite him over for a drink and in the conversation bring it up.
10replies1,785viewsBlack ring means you are in the lifestyle?
Saw this on someone's profile. Never heard of it before. Just wondering if anyone has heard about it before. Wearing a black ring on any finger of either hand signals that you are…
by Ymichael1414replies1,967viewsplay parties
We have done years of finding Parties and Clubs on Hot Dates Now we are being invited to private parties, and most are very clear, in for some finger food then game on Is this a n…
18replies2,644viewsHow often do you change your profile?
I know this app has been around for a long time and you can see on a profile that people list an event that happened a long time ago or they mention moving but you never know when…
by JTheartsong10replies1,165viewsNo condom
When in your journey did you decide to go bareback with playmates? Does anyone regret that decision? Anyone been burned by less than truthful people?
0replies617viewsCurrent images
I love how people put in their profiles please make sure your photos are current and you look like them in real life. You then look at their pictures and the upload dates are from…
2replies374viewsSecluded area for shenanigans on the boat in Titusville area
Thinking to get my boat in the river in Titusville area. Any recommendations where I can safely anchor away from most traffic and have adult fun?
by euroart690replies191viewsLess than ideal online names
We've all seen the common ones. For example, when someone first starts off they create an online name like "NewXXXXXX". At some point, you are no longer new but it has become part…
by mayhem85replies796viewsPenile Implant
Try searching on forums on other questions and answers same as you asked.. many answers already listed. Good luck.
by RonKathy2replies729viewsGuidelines for Us
When we attend a swingers party, we follow a set of simple rules that help us stay connected and comfortable. First, we always play together as a couple before engaging with anyon…
by aa2070064125replies781views- 15replies1,438views
Certifications
We were never the couple that would ask for certifications, and never thought about giving them unless the other couple asked. They just never seemed that important to us. Then a…
by NCmtncpl605630replies1,800viewsWords that turn you off in a profile
As a newbie, I read a lot of profiles and try and steal what I like in other people’s profiles. That everyone writes “no drama” makes me laugh. No one actually writes that they ar…
by JTheartsong438replies27,227views- 14replies1,237views
Close up face photos with faces blocked out
You think the amorphous blob isn't helpful? Your closeup photos where we can see only your heads with no faces make ZERO sense. Why bother? We use to have albums. I am trying find…
by Esperanza9112replies463viewssurgically safe
I saw this in a profile and I wondered what it meant. "we are both surgically safe". Safe to perform surgery on? Safe from surgery? Their bodies are so free of STD's they are as s…
by Ymichael1414replies934viewsZentai
I have been thinking about a Zentai theme event. And the dress would be Zentai suits. I was curious if others have participated in this type of event and a little about your exper…
by PeaceMaker3replies532viewsAdvice
If you were that worried, why didn't you just have him go in the bathroom and clean up. I am guessing he just got his cock sucked.
22replies1,415viewsExtremely effective but unpopular
I state on my profile that I will expect them to FaceTime and voice verify if they message me if they don’t I block them.. so far I’ve gotten very few people message me and the on…
by Dear_diary8replies861viewsPrivate or club gangbang
As a online persona and a porn star(kind of) I would love to host a gangbang. Not a regular mmmf but a proper hardcore gangbang. What is the best option to do it? Taking safety in…
by Mysbehave13replies1,984viewsNot a math problem /////but?
We are a couple that would enjoy playing probably 2x a month or so. Sometimes real vanilla, sometimes more wild. How many couples should we have in our quiver so that when we want…
by NCmtncpl605615replies1,368viewsGhosted and subsequently blocked
My wife and I had been chatting with a male about joining us. He lives maybe a hour from us, so we offered to meet halfway for a meet and greet. He appeared nice, was very communi…
6replies479viewsUse of the word Melanated
Saw this on a profile, " Melanated bbw single looking for friendship and more". Never saw "Melanated " before so I looked it up. Most popular use is to describe a black person. Is…
by Ymichael1410replies896viewsAttacking people
I want to address something which I see alot in forum I cant understand why it always havevto be someone attacking somebody of a ad they post what they are interested of finding.…
9replies1,399viewsShould you leave a negative feedback on a single male if there were issues?
New_Hot, Sorry that you had such a disappointing experience. There are some problems with leaving a review about your date. Naming names on the forum is discouraged and may be aga…
by hotluvrs36replies2,576views
