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irishrose22

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Just Wondering

in Open Forum ·

" And the putting someone on second if the game is tied after 9 ?" Wait... seriously? They do that now?

Obituaries

in Open Forum ·

Growing up as a Notre Dame fan, Holtz's book, "The Fighting Spirit" was one of the first books I ever read because I wanted to. I think I was around 11 years old then.

best way to find a unicorn?

in 3-Some ·

[quote=vabeachcouple33]Personally, I think it's because the "bi-ness" of most women is more like 20:1 in favor of dick. Mrs VA's experience has been what seems to me to be the most common process - when first in the lifestyle the F-F angle…

Happy Thoughts and Bitchfest

in Open Forum ·

[quote=windowShopping7][quote=irishrose22]" she had the biggest doggie smile on her face I've ever seen. I don't know who was happier- the dog or the kids." I always assume the dog...they usually deserve it anyways. At least that is the wa…

Happy Thoughts and Bitchfest

in Open Forum ·

" she had the biggest doggie smile on her face I've ever seen. I don't know who was happier- the dog or the kids." I always assume the dog...they usually deserve it anyways. At least that is the way my brain thinks. I like happy dog storie…

Disabling account

in Swing.com ·

" Do nothing. Just stop logging into the site while you are away. Your profile stops being shown in searches after 30 days of no logins." That seems like the most logical suggestion to me.

Fun Facts

in Open Forum ·

FF: Today is the 20 year anniversary of us signing up for this website. Purchased the lifetime membership that day. Most things still look the same.

A family member on sls

in Website ·

[quote=njblucpl]Saw my sister and her boyfriend’s profile on SLS….after browsing their pics and furiously masterbating, we blocked their profile.[/quote]That one got a giggle out of me.

Just Wondering

in Open Forum ·

[quote=CopNkitten]remember when we used to be able to choose which pic we could use with which posts? good times...[/quote]Yes...the "good ole days".

Just Wondering

in Open Forum ·

" If you had an old, default picture set, that should not have been deleted. " Our default pic is the only pic we have that is older and it looks like it is still there, so not sure why VA's default is missing.

Recent TV Series

in Open Forum ·

I agree regarding American Primeval. That was a good watch. Currently 2 episodes in on final season of stranger things.

Surprise

in Open Forum ·

If it's possible to have the quoted text be hidden by default with an option to show quoted text, that would be ideal.

New Site Launched

in Open Forum ·

" I see lifetime members of SLS have to pay another fee to be a member of the new site. " I didn't see that.

Search optins

in Swing.com ·

Don't believe that is a current input, so adding it as that would be needed prior to it being a search option.

New Site Launched

in Open Forum ·

At a quick glance, it looks good. Once all the features are in place will be a better time to evaluate.

Hot Date success rate

in Finding Playmates ·

My opinion is that the Hot Dates feature is one of the areas that works well on this site. There may be some slow times in our area (mostly during the week), but when I widen the search area to 100 miles, there are usually quite a bit all…

Profile Opinions

in Better Profiles ·

Nothing stands as out as being "wrong" with your profile. It may be a little long. Your join date is less than 2 weeks ago, so that may be why you see all the profile views. Not having face pictures is a deterrent for a lot people, (we fal…

Fantasy Fest 2025

in Travel ·

The M&G's are on Tuesday and Thursday (21st and 23rd). You can Google the address for Garden of Eden AKA The Bull and Whistle bar.

Recent TV Series

in Open Forum ·

I watched After Life. It was interesting. I am a fan of his stand-up. The show had more of what I would consider British humor, which isn't what I typically enjoy, but it was still a decent show.

App Issues?

in Website ·

It used to be you had to make sure the "keep me logged in" button should be unchecked for it to work. Not sure if that is still a thing since I haven't used the app for quite some time.

Cruise or Hedo?

in Travel ·

Both! That is our plan eventually, after FF this year and NIN next year.

Newbies - Yay or Nay?

in Finding Playmates ·

We won't typically meet/engage with newbies in a setting that is just us and them/him/her, especially if the contact is through an app or website like this one. We do get messages from them and our standard response is to see if they are w…

Site Activity

in Open Forum ·

Math is fun. As of today, it has cost me $0.01385 per day since we joined in 2006, which had a $99 price tag for the lifetime membership back then.

Site Activity

in Open Forum ·

"I assume "apps" took over the LS." Between the "apps" FB groups, and other community websites, most of the activity has gone elsewhere.

Open gallery alert?

in Website ·

"I don't think this is a needed feature. It is not a good feature. It is just another way for people to avoided engaging and communicating." I disagree with most of what Wayne said . It may not be a *needed* feature, but it would be a good…

RV CLUB FOR LIFESTYLERS

in Travel ·

There is a lot more to research than going by what someone else says. You need to know the payload, GVWR, axle weights, etc of your specific vehicle, Dry weights of trailers are pointless, use the GVWR of the trailer as that will be more r…

Kik

in First Contact ·

I think what Mr. Italian means by "real time" and push notifications is that if you are not actively in the app or on the web browser, there is not a notification that a message has been sent...like when you get a txt message or any other…

SEX WITH THE X

in Open Forum ·

Depends what they look like now. We were teenagers then, so no hard feelings towards any of them.

Recent Movies

in Open Forum ·

Feel the same about both Pig and Nonnas... didn't have expectations for either and didn't love or hate either of them, they kind of just kept enough of an interest to get through them.

Picture Upload Dates

in Website ·

"Now we need dates for last profile update" We started adding that a while back in the text of the profile.

Facebook Swinger Groups

in Senior Swingers ·

" It has been my experience that swinger groups on facebook are not real. If you ever meet someone that is real from one of those groups, let me know and I will admit I was wrong. " It's the opposite for us. We are part of at least 4 or 5…

Observation

in Open Forum ·

Still FB friends with a handful... probably been at least 4-5 years since we've seen any of them in person.

Is the lifestyle dying in the US

in Open Forum ·

"the popularity of private groups on social media sites" I have seen this as well, and actually think there may be some oversaturation in our area. I also think these private groups are a contributing factor to the decline of forum usage a…

Wall/feed feature going away

in Website ·

"So OK whiners...what sites are sooo much better. We are on a few and they all have issues in our book. Lay it out there " Not sure who is whining, looks like a normal forum discussion. Never been on SDC website, just the app....it at leas…

What is your dream car?

in Open Forum ·

Jeep Wrangler Rubicon is the wife's vehicle here too. I don't mind driving that either... especially when we take the tops and doors off.

What is your dream car?

in Open Forum ·

" I have the same opinion as tbr" Same for me. I was never a sports car person. I probably leaned towards luxury cars more as a kid. I've driven pickup trucks for the last 15 years, and I don't see myself ever getting away from them. I muc…

Happy Thoughts and Bitchfest

in Open Forum ·

From what I could tell, it looked like the ones that didn't have a date were portrait style, but all the landscape ones did. I believe all of them did when viewing in the larger format.

Pic Gallery permission

in 3-Some ·

No set times. Sometimes we'll go through the list of people that have access and trim it up. We leave them open indefinitely for those we have met and still interact with.

Forum notifications/subscribe

in Website ·

That makes sense calcan. That description of subscription is not a feature here. I normally turn that feature off on any forums that do have it. Perhaps not if I wasn't a common user/visitor.

Recent TV Series

in Open Forum ·

"Landman" We started that a couple weeks ago. Just finished episode 8 last night. It has been entertaining so far. We watched both seasons of Lioness prior and enjoyed that as well. I'm also about 5 or 6 episodes into season 2 of Night Age…

Generic 420 topic

in Open Forum ·

I have not had any since I was 17 years old. I was not a fan of it as it interfered with drinking. No issues with others doing it...friends/family have always done it and still do. The gummy version has slightly piqued my interest in possi…

Loaner Unicom program ?

in 3-Some ·

" What is your take on the idea? Is it fair? Is it a fun idea? " I think that thinking in terms of *fairness* will usually lead down a path that most people would prefer not be on.

Prodigious Production of Precum

in Men Talk ·

It's not something I ever thought to measure...I guess a little. It's noticeable, but it has never been to the point that I would need to change.

Relationship status

in Website ·

"couple profiles should always participate with both halves of the couple present." I don't think that is how it works.

WTF

in Open Forum ·

"does anyone find it odd that people would leave their naked pics on this site when they have not been here for years?" Not really. Maybe they died, maybe they abandoned the hobby, etc. I'm sure there are many reasons for it.

Yet another profile review request

in Better Profiles ·

Quick synopsis: Pictures are ok, but having full body length shown in at least one picture is beneficial. Profile length is fine, but the line about the black rings isn't needed nor is it likely to be helpful in any way.

Age Preference Listed

in Website ·

That is how I thought it worked as well. I haven't seen any issues with it, but can't remember last time the search function was used.

surgically safe

in Swinger Advice ·

" But I have to admit that I think most people figure it out by the context. " That is basically my point. Michael - asking questions is fine, but you seem to ask a lot stuff that would be common knowledge based upon the amount of years yo…

surgically safe

in Swinger Advice ·

"Are you so Fing stupid you can't figure out what that means?" I get frustrated by other people's stupidity as well. But I do remember not everyone has common sense that rivals my own. Michael - It usually means they have had surgery so th…

How do couples feel about going bare and cream?

in 3-Some ·

" The average age for those who prefer bare and creampies seems to be quite a bit higher than the average age of those who do not. We hadn't even noticed that before, but seems to check out. " That is actually something I have always notic…

Profile review please

in Better Profiles ·

Don't think you are really missing anything, just some better organization like Molly said. You guys sound like a couple we would be interested in if we local to you.

Mom/Dad issue

in Fantasies ·

" a strict “if I could have birthed you or you me that’s a no” age limit guideline for now." We used a similar strategy for our age guidelines here, but it is not strict. We were at a party not too long ago, and I was with both a woman my…

Opening pictures

in 3-Some ·

" If your initiating contact with someone your interested in meeting wouldn't it be common sense to have YOUR own pictures open? " Yes, but not everyone has a good deal of common sense.

Certifications

in Swinger Advice ·

" So, Person A has been on SLS for a year and has 0 certs. Person B has been on SLS for 10 years and has 5 certs, but the most recent one is from 2018. All other things (profile, looks, age, location, etc.) being equal, who seems more "leg…

Certifications

in Swinger Advice ·

Similar to what Molly said, certs are part of the consideration, especially for profiles that have been around for awhile. For us, face pictures (his and hers) are the most important factor when determining if we will contact and/or respon…

Lifestyle Philosophy and Practice

in 3-Some ·

* Do you derive any emotional fulfillment from swinger relations? -If you did not have lifestyle friends with benefits would that degrade, improve, or provide no change to your life together? * I think this one would fall into the no chang…

Lifestyle Philosophy and Practice

in 3-Some ·

* Does adding a third or fourth enhance your core or primary relationship (marriage, significant other, long-term boy/girlfriend) or is it just a hobby like golf? * I think it's both for us. We have enhanced our relationship by engaging in…