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Virgin Cruises

in Cruise Talk ·

[quote=newtothis8166]Resilient Lady, March 28th.[/quote]How was the ship? Any fun? We are sailing on 4/25.

Virgin Cruises

in Cruise Talk ·

We will be on Virgin's Resilient Lady 4/25 - 5/2 love to make contact with other couples who may be on the cruise

Finding Meet and Greet events

in Swinger Advice ·

We have been exploring the lifestyle for a number of years and have found that we most enjoy meet and greet, off premise events. The problem is we can't seem to find very many, We enjoy fun conversations, sharing drinks and getting to know…

NEGRIL - MAY 2025

in Resorts ·

[quote=NJShoreCouple][quote=dman964][quote=NJShoreCouple][quote=dman964]Does anyone have experience with a night pas to HEDO?[/quote]We previously stayed at Sandals Negril right next door, and purchased both day and nite passes so our life…

NEGRIL - MAY 2025

in Resorts ·

[quote=NJShoreCouple][quote=dman964]Does anyone have experience with a night pas to HEDO?[/quote]We previously stayed at Sandals Negril right next door, and purchased both day and nite passes so our lifestyle group could attend a sold-out…

Aruba 1/4/26-1/11/26

in Resorts ·

[quote=spidot]Anyone going to Aruba in early January 2026?[/quote]Did you guys gave any luck meeting anyone? where did you stay?

The Villages

in Senior Swingers ·

I've read the same articles that piqued our interest but based on what I've read here it's either a myth or somewhat underground

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

I agree that it is becoming pretty common knowledge in popular culture. I have heard several very vanilla people discussing it and joking about it. Most interesting to me I heard my friends adult children (early 20's) joking about it. I vi…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

@Hotwife_Peppa where have you seen it more commonly recognized?:

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

@Cum2DaddyCNY, that is my absolute favorite. I have done that to a few times, she loves it because it turns her on when an attractive guy hits on her and she knows it turn me on to watch her

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

Hey @Lisa_looking I love your story. That is our favorite scenario too. Sometimes we sit apart from each other at the bar and see what happens. The only issue is she occasionally feels odd sitting at the bar alone she says it makes her fee…

Caribbean Cruise by Temptation Feb 2025

in Cruise Talk ·

I saw this cruise advertised and would be interested if anyone has taken a similar cruise and wouldn't mind sharing with my wife and I what to expect. For a little background on us and the experiences we typically enjoy we tend to be the k…

Mixers/ Meet and Greets vs on premise events

in Getting Started ·

Thanks @fraunhubby68; we have never been to a house party before do couples have sex througout the house or do they typically just go to the bedrooms or designated rooms to "do the deed" lol? I guess what we are looking for is sort of sing…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

Great experience Willie! I am going to suggest my wofe do the same

An Ex-

in Getting Started ·

With me - Yes; with my wife - No she would certainly veto me having sex with my ex. In reverse, I wouldn't care if her ex joined in or just banged her again and she would be into it.

Mixers/ Meet and Greets vs on premise events

in Getting Started ·

We aren't newbies but I thought this might be the best forum to post this question in. For my wife and I we enjoy the flirting and getting to know another couple or single partner beforejumping into bed. It seems that most events, parties…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

We love the bar pick-up too; its absolutely our favorite game. In our experience it can be a mixed bag if you are playing with vanilla men. Some guys will be uncomfortable if I were to watch or join in and we have even had a few men who ma…

MM oral to please your lady??

in Men Talk ·

It seems as though there is a great deal of confusion regarding judgement versus labeling. Appropriate labeling in these situations is important. A large majority of the people on SLS are finding new friends to play with. Having the most a…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

@willystn ok i'm down for anything, we'll give it a try

MM oral to please your lady??

in Men Talk ·

I have to agree with @JollyRancher999, straight men don't suck dick. You can be mostly attracted to women but find the occasional dick fun to enjoy but that would make you bi. Straight is straight and bi is bi. It has nothing to do with yo…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

The Villages are legendary in the lifestyle! We are getting pretty close to that age now gotta explore that a little

Why not?

in Getting Started ·

If asked I don't mind giving a courteous reply, as an example saying we're looking for someone more athletic rather than you're too fat. In all honesty though we do focus the feedback on the man than we do on the women whom we find to be m…

Why not?

in Getting Started ·

If asked I don't mind giving a courteous reply, as an example saying we're looking for someone more athletic rather than you're too fat. In all honesty though we do focus the feedback on the man than we do on the women whom we find to be m…

First dates and fucking

in First Contact ·

She could be a cop or a ninja its uncommon for any woman to want the type of attention that bumper sticker would bring. Any woman who's even worn a skimpy outfit to a club can tell you

What to expect for first time-Atlantic city

in Getting Started ·

We can confirm with the Fokkers wrote, Saints & Sinners is great for all levels. Just be completely honest about what you're looking for we have found almost every couple and most single men are willing to hear your limitations and either…

First dates and fucking

in First Contact ·

@tbrmskss While it seems hot for your wife to be that open about it as a woman I KNOW that would lead to all kinds of unwelcome attention, some of of it comfortably aggressive. Just wearing a low cut sweater brings out the hounds I can't i…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

@rusticmagic too funny but I have often thought about that scenario happening. We are very careful about whom we reveal our lifestyle choices to and I have thought about situations where I think we're being waved in and instead the signals…

Girls are the prize, guys are the price?

in Getting Started ·

I think we are reading too deeply into this, swinging isn't much different than traditional dating sites. Men are the hunters and women are the game. If you go on vanilla dating apps men make first contact with the women probably 90+% of t…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

We do like to role play when we do this; we come up with a background story and have a blast with it. When we first started playing like this it was a little hard to get into character but its become second nature and a lot of fun. We star…

Need suggestions for an appropriate response

in First Contact ·

@hotluvers I think you handled it perfectly. The question isn't snarky but it does help them better understand how their response could be misunderstood if they had good intentions. The fact that they haven't replied yet leads me to believ…

Anyone prefer to hunt couple in the vanilla world?

in Swinger Advice ·

I agree with the points made about keep vanilla and ls lives separate. My wife and I are very very discreet about what we do and none of our vanilla friends know what we do. When we do play in the vanilla world we do it away from where we…

Anyone prefer to hunt couple in the vanilla world?

in Swinger Advice ·

This is absolutely our favorite game too. We have had much more success with single men hitting on her than we have have meeting other couples but it has worked. It certainly has a very low success rate but the thrill and anticipation is e…

Need suggestions for an appropriate response

in First Contact ·

My thoughts are that the two options are a friendly reply or ignore here's why. If the couple is well intentioned rather than spam why start off the friendship on a sour note. If the "couple" is actually a spam generating bot it certainly…

First dates and fucking

in First Contact ·

We too don't usually play on the first date but we have in the past. A lot of the fun for us is the sexual tension building up after making new friendships which is why we prefer to got o meet and greet events as opposed to swinger clubs.…

What has been your experience at Temptations Cancun?

in Resorts ·

We have been going to Cancun for a few years after we bought a timeshare off of eBay inexpensively. We thought we would check out Temptations this year as we had seen the place and heard about it here but never visited. We are a long-time…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

Sounds like a great environment to "let down your hair". We have found that picking up single men works better in an environment when everyone has a degree of anonymity. Hotel bars have been our most successful.

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

@mildlykinky I suggest you just use the pineapples as a conversation starter. Mention how you like them and it was interesting that they have been used symbolically historically. As a sign of prosperity during colonial days to swinger coup…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

@zinfulcouple I have heard it being talked about during a couple of main stream media outlets. It was even discussed on one the many house wife shows, I think it was NJ.

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

@zinfulcouple We are very discreet about our involvement in the lifestyle with our vanilla friends, work colleagues and family but we love to meet others in the lifestyle especially when we are out along at bars, beaches and restaurants. Y…

MM oral to please your lady??

in Men Talk ·

I am going to have to agree, I think it is more of using your lady as cover for what you want to do anyway. Completely straight men have are pretty turned off by m2m play. Its not a condemnation of the the act but its just a matter of pers…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

I have heard more about upside down pineapples as a swinger symbol in the vanilla world which is somewhat good news. Good in the sense that it is being more widely recognized as an invitation to flirt/talk but bad that the general populati…

Seeking Cancun recommendations

in Travel ·

Wife and I are headed for Cancun in October we are staying at our vanilla timeshare with one additional night at a lifestyle friendly resort. Does anyone have recommendations for bars/clubs/beaches ect where we can find like minded people…

Pineapples

in 3-Some ·

Bought a few pineapple themed accessories lately: tie, bow tie, Hawaiian shirt, polo shirt and a beach towel. Bought the wife a few items too, hair scrunchie, flip flops beach robe, We am going to start wearing them when we go out to see i…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

Yes it is a lot of fun but you are right it is hit-or-miss with the vanilla crowd. We love having her go into the bar alone but we have had some less than pleasant experiences when my wife lets them know she's married and I'm here and want…

Meet and Greets?

in Massachusetts ·

Does anyone know of any meet and greet parties held in the area (New England). Bars where lifestyle couples hang out? Events tailored to getting to know each other as opposed to on premise clubs?