First time mfm

I am not sure if this is the right forum or not, but like to share my swinging experience that had happened last Saturday. It was my first true orgy

My FWB female and I had went to a swinging resort for the first time and was incredible. While we were playing by ourselves in large back room, few couples start coming to watch us ended up with 15 couples orgy.

I fucked three gorgeous wives and my lady had her first bi experience. There were tits, pussy , and dicks all over the place, no matter what direction we looked.

We played 3 hours straight and when we were leaving, other couples invited to their room.

In short, by the time we got to our room, we both crashed to bed immediately, and I was so drained, my balls were hurting...lol

That may work, if she was bi. Might want to make sure it’s in her bucket list before inviting another woman to join.

~Allen

another aspect could be a couple you are already friends with, blindfold her and then bring the couple in the room. Instruct them not to speak but to feel your wife slowly, maybe one at a time? Allow nature take its course

HimAndHerFantasy if you and she desire an anonymous "surprise" meet for her it does not mean it has to be for you. We have never done this but know people that do. It involves her trusting you to make the right decision and you meeting the guy to "vet" him and see if he is right for the job as it were. Now I would imagine this would kind of be a red flag to a single male and it may not be as easy to find one willing to do this but I'm sure they are out there. The other option is as you suggest she will be blindfolded and you set things up with a male you already know. His instructions would be to come into the room (give him a key) and not say anything. That way she has no clue who is there and it would be close to it being a perfect stranger. Of course there are multiple variations that could happen with someone you know and trust versus a "stranger" but if the true desire is a stranger it is not impossible or unheard of if one party vets the "surprise" for the other.

Your right I recon. It just sounds so hot for her to be blindfolded an maybe never even know what he looked like. Just to let her mind run wild.

@himandher - We always meet new people (single pr couple) for a drink or two at a bar near the hotel. It gives all parties a chance to get comfortable with each other, make sure they are in person who they appeared online, and of course some flirting to fire up the anticipation level. For us, we would never ask a single guy we had never met to come directly to our room or just give him a key. If he and her did not hit it off for some reason, better to find out in a neutral and public setting in my opinion.

The missus always dresses to the nines in sexy attire and will take the lead in letting the men know she's ready by making close up gestures, motions and even touches. Then, she likes the men to slowly commence to sliding articles to the side to reveal the pleasurable areas to be given attention before any stitch of clothing comes off, and even when that time comes, the men are removing her clothing, one piece at a time over time. Our MFMs consist of about 2 hours of foreplay beforehand and several hours of different combinations. Our key is to not be in a hurry.

~Allen

I am kinda in the same boat. We have always played together and it was kinda my idea to get a MFM night together. My wife isn’t much for the website. She always wants to play when those rare moments of meeting some couple just kinda happens. Planning is weird to her. But recently as of today I threw it out again about renting a room and arranging for her to have a surprise stranger waiting. She liked it and sent me a voice text and sent “yes, please.” So now I am excited but also find it strange reaching out to males I don’t know and almost interviewing the to have sex with my wife. It’s a huge turn on BUT really awkward at the same time.

And I have been questioning in my head all day on where, meet in lobby? Or do we just have him knock on the door? Give him the key ahead of time and have him waiting? Do I blindfold her?

Crazy.

Everyone will respond different so you will have to find out by trying it I guess....doesn't matter if it is couples, singles, bi, straight, all react differently...One exception, Horny single guys, they usually always want to cum and go....

Always let her take the lead when it comes time to get the action started. Everything needs to go at her speed and most women know it is as simple as starting to get undressed then letting things occur naturally. Now of course if he is uncomfortable (either he but especially the male of the couple) things might need to progress slower if not at all. Don't over think things and just let it flow. That does not mean not to have a basic plan for the evening including hotel reservations if desired/needed (not having them and a convention in town can ruin the fun) but be prepared to be flexible because we have seen dinner and dancing then hotel go to skip desert and head to the room now.

Hi, just looking for advice. Myself and wife are about to have our first mfm. She has been in life style before we met. She was honest about everything and yes I got very interested and curious . We met a guy who we will play with. My questions are is it hard first time to get things going? I know she has experience and that will be a help but any advice for the new guy lol. How does a mfm start kissing touching or right to it . Thanks