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Mayhem - nipple lover here, too Had a gf some years ago whose natural breast nipples were so sensitive that she could nearly orgasm just from nipple play - she loved it. She had really small breasts and thought about getting implants. Of c…
I've done a few long distance hikes - 60-100 miles per trip in the Appalachian back country. Early prep involved upping the amount of cardio work in my work outs during the several months prior. I did P90X which turned out to be a great ch…
How do you guys manage wearing women's panties? I put hers on one time to be funny when we were laying out clothes for the evening. Stuff was hanging out everywhere (no pouch!) We just cracked up. Surprisingly, she did get that little horn…
I was a single guy on here for a couple years. I agree that it's not easy at all being a single guy on SLS. There are better sites for single guys. I did a search in southern California. Still don't seem to be any more bi guys in couples t…
Not sure of the point of this post - to put down people for their sexual orientation or partner preference and try to require them have some other type preference based on some demand for equal opportunity or fit a particular bias? Or is i…
I learned pretty quickly in my swing life that to give a woman a great MFM experience, it can require some incidental contact by the guys. She liked DP, sucking two cocks at once and one guy in her with the other licking her clit - try any…
BtB - congrats! You are so right, drinking enough water is one of the easiest ways a guy can improve their sexual health - well, overall health for that matter. People actually need more water as they age, and studies indicate the majority…
R&K - completely agree, just exercise isn't always the full answer for some guys. Any guy having "aging" issues should get a full endocrine panel at their regular exam. If they have deficiencies, then go to either an endocrinologist or uro…
Lots of things happen as guys age. T and cardio capacity goes down, which can both affect erections adversely - but both can be boosted with the right exercise. I prefer exercise over drugs, plus I look better and can do the same activitie…
Mayhem - that's a bummer. Nothing better for me than when she pushes me down with one hand, grabs my cock with the other and tells me to just lay back and enjoy.
Some nights that's all Ms. Sexy wants - give me an awesome hand job, often ending in a suck and swallow, clean me up and tuck me in. That's also one of her fantasies with another guy - have him just sit back and let her give him a hand/blo…
Yep, love natural breasts. My ex got a boob job - went from 34As and 34Ds. Doc did an amazing job on the shape. New ones were less sensitive and distracting underboob scars. I missed her perky little bobbies.
If we're together when they ask, we have physical signals. Choose whatever - scratch ear is no, bite lip is yes, whatever. If they ask one of us when the other isn't around, it's easier. You just say something like you're not sure of your…
What you're missing is that there are all kinds of people on here with all kinds of different wants. If a SW says I don't want a relationship - she doesn't want a relationship! Just move on instead of complain about it. Women don't tend to…
Mayhem - completely agree. We have a couple friend on here with a bi hubby. They say more than half of the guys that contact them wanting bi guy play are listed as straight - guys in couples and as singles. They actually tend to connect wi…
RIght, it's rechargeable via USB. Hers came with a portable recharging pack, but rarely use it as the thing holds a charge for a long time.
DB - completely agree. There is no reason to treat anyone badly in the LS as long as they're being nice. I was a single guy on here for a while and I can relate. RK - We had a similar experience recently. Some couple approached us at a LS…
Well, one reason we got the harness we did is because it can be fitted snug and comfortably. Cheap ones are usually more hassle than they're worth because they sometimes don't fit well. If you get it strapped on well, the rest easy. You're…
Yes, we've done this. We bought a Sportsheets strap-on harness partially because the way it's designed, I can wear it above my cock without my parts being in the way of the straps. Work great for DP. We also use it for those times she want…
What SashaAnthony said - love a woman who knows what she wants, uninhibited and goes for it or asks for it. Not that I don't want to have to make my own moves with her, but doubles the pleasure when she's just as active to make it hot.
888 - you'll love having the big TV in there. In our old house, we had a 42" in the exercise room and it seemed fine. When we moved to the new house last year, we had a larger TV left without a place to put it and ended up putting it in th…
DB - Love your response to the person. This post doesn't apply to you at all - your post just made me think of something. Another reason a polite "no" without explanation should be respected is that the real reason for the "no" could be so…
888 - sounds like a great set up you have! I'd love to have one of the cycles you have your eye on, but either something else would have to go or sacrifice some of the open area we have to work out together. My fallback, I forgot to mentio…
How the heck did this thread go from whether "No" is a complete answer from someone being propositioned for casual sex, to whether it's appropriate for a customer service rep dealing with customers?? Completely different situations, requir…
Sorry you had this experience, but appears you aren't alone. This is why we blocked single males long ago. Funny thing is, when we first got started we were primarily looking for single males. Then came the onslaught of lame messages from…
As far as people accepted as "Friends" on this site, we typically only accept people who we have either already met or want to meet in the future - whether or not the meet is specifically for sex. As far as in the LS in general, our LS-fri…
Huh? You might consider describing what you're trying to say here to someone with an education beyond the third grade. Then they can frame your questions/comments in a coherent way for this forum.
Yes, Etsy has some velvet rope on there. Another option is silk rope, which is a bit easier to find.
@Best - You should tell that guy that you could be interested, but 10" is your minimum. Ask him to put up pic in a private gallery of his dick with a ruler measuring on the top, and holding a scrap of paper with his user name on it. Could…
We connected with a couple here on SLS with tons of pics with other people on their profile. Many of the pics were far from G rated. That should have been a warning sign for us. Turns out the guy of the couple is a complete blabber mouth -…
Why do phone sex when you can meet people in the flesh? We've had a few offers to do it and it doesn't interest us at all.
Mayhem - Getting naked in a doctor's office isn't my favorite thing either. I went in for my colonoscopy and when they wheeled me in the procedure room, there was my female neighbor who was on the team to do the procedure. I don't remember…
I've heard people get in hot water recommending other sites on here, so I won't name them. But both of them are likely to come up on the first search page for something like "best hook-up sex site for singles."
A_A - Great that you're in the support group and that a good number of the contributors are other than those who profit from doing procedures or selling devices. Feedback from patients in these kinds of groups/blogs can be better than what…
I'm a little leery of this procedure. The failure rate is higher than I like - ~15%, worse if you tighten the definition of "failure." Longer term (eventual) failure rates are unclear, and likely higher if it's like other similar procedure…
Favorite pics - full body (no face and form fitting clothes OK) from a normal angle so you can see clearly how they're shaped - the woman AND the man. Least favorite - A bunch of pics from odd angles or portions of miscellaneous body parts…
MoeKathy - when you confirmed your reservation, there was probably a list of terms to agree to, that likely included cancellation terms. Look at that if you can find it. If you're lucky, you may find you have other rights. If it says you a…
I was on here as a single guy some years ago for regular swing play, but was also thinking it's be a bonus to find a gf into swinging on here, too. I was in a highly populated area, as opposed to the OPs situtation, and still struck out on…
Hmmmm, that's kind of a tough one since some women can look so hot in lingerie. But if she said "you get one pic of a full body pose - either with lingerie on or naked." I choose naked.
Yeah, the new real feel dildos are way better than the old ones. We pitched the old ones. One thing you have to watch out for is not to get them in contact with other polymers they react with (silicone vs TPE, plastic bags, etc.) or they'l…
Some of the best threesomes I've been in started out as two couples. Every once in a while one of the four would take a break while the other three enjoyed a 3-some. Best thing is you can do an MFM, FFM, FMF, whatever combination, all in o…
We looked at the fasting diet and decided not to do it to the full extent. We do eat dinner early ~6:30pm and don't eat breakfast until ~7am, so we're getting the 12 hour fast. Beyond that, our exercise routine requires getting protein in…
I should add to my previous post about dumbbells........... We didn't waste money on dumbbells with fancy grips and rubber coating - they cost alot more per pound and take up more room on the rack. Got good ol' raw iron (mostly CAPs) - the…
We ditched the gym years ago. So great to be able to work out at home. We dedicated a large bedroom to it, We put down those interlocking gym mats over the short nap carpet and it works great. Equipment is full set of dumbbells, XMark plat…
R&K - Yes! And to diverge from the OP further: Her wearing a jacket that's just past crotch length, buttoned only at the bottom button over nothing but tiny little panties. Now those are panties she's definitely going to lose sometime soon!
Agreed on the panties can be hot thing. The hottest lady at the NYE party we went to was wearing a see-thru skirt and brightly-colored little boy shorts underneath. The panties were thin material and tight - leaving nothing to the imaginat…
Saying something like, "sorry, we already have plans for later tonight" seems to work fine for us. Actually, it's usually the truth.
Ms. Sexy wore her favorite one piece outfit with nothing under it to an RV resort party. Ended up getting naked at the party and went back to the RV naked. Searched high and low the next days and couldn't find the outfit. Fast forward two…
Pleasure Take boat out to: do water sports VS anchor in party cove
We understand why people don't put face pics in their public profile - we don't either. But the OP is talking about not even providing them privately when you are interested in meeting. We might make an exception , but our default reaction…
West Coast When you have a (legal) choice - sun tanning with others naked VS with a swimsuit on
Our version of "take one for the team" doesn't mean one of us is paired with someone they really don't want to be with. Rather, one of us might really be attracted to one person of a couple and the other person of the couple might not be h…
Our LS friends know our other LS friends before any gathering. Later in the evening, we all make like the gathering is over and wait to play until the last vanilla person leaves.
Stayed up till midnight (well, way past!) New Year's resolutions - Make them VS Don't make them
Onehorneywife - Most of the tastes from female fluids are produced by the endocrine system, which is what makes men's semen. So just like men, the taste of women down there can be influenced by what they eat. Again, same as with men, women…
Can't see the original post, but appears it went something like converting vanilla people you know/meet to the LS. When I was with my ex and getting started in the LS way back when, every single female we found and a few couples were vanil…
@TIME - right. The group is private. Any post you make on the group page can only be seen by group members. Non-group members can find the group, but not see any posts or the names of members. People are screened before they are allowed in…
The only thing other people on RV Swingers will see is your public information and posts, unless you friend them. My public info, and posts are next to nothing and no one can see my friends list, so not much divulged. If you want to keep y…
Go to NYE Party Party with people, many of whom you don't know, naked vs clothed (we'll be naked!)
Individual (multiple small/med pizzas with different toppings) Super gorgeous/handsome face and average body VS Average face and amazing body
Larry Bird
Thin crust (unless I'm really hungry or craving carbs!) More meat and less other stuff or Less meat and more other stuff on your pizza
Beginner's size is completely up to you. Most women's beginning size was the size of the first guy she did it with.
Hard shell shredded or melted nacho cheese on the taco
Pegging combines two great things - direct stimulation of one of the most sexually sensitive parts on a guys body (prostate, or male "g-spot") and a naked woman getting completely turned on by doing you. If you've ever done anal to a woman…
Whitey Herzog
Pleat
Swingers party At the party - jello or tequila shots?
Lake Pontoon boat or ski boat
Plain Your T-bone - More rare or more well done
Y'all havin' fun in there with creepy dude? Heheh
Rollie Fingers
I had a gf a long time ago that liked me to put a heavy hand on her breastbone when we had sex. One time my hand rode up a bit and was touching her neck. She apparently liked it and she slid my hand higher so it was around her neck and she…
Mayhem - great coffee cup! Might be better than the one of mine that says "Insanity is inherited - you get it from your kids."
BTW, one of the Charlotte couples screen captured his pics the other day in case he shows up on the local swingers site they host or at one of their parties.
MC Hammer
HotLuvrs - thanks for letting us know. It was almost more entertaining not seeing his posts and only seeing other people's reactions to them! He wasn't very quick on the uptake, but may have finally realized he was shooting himself in the…
Lisa Kudrow
If you go with non-latex ones, just make sure they are of a consistency that blocks diseases (if that's one of your purposes for using them). I had a gf in the past that insisted on lamb's skin condoms because they were natural. They were…
Northern - I'm not saying you should do something else than what you did, just saying we wouldn't do it. Telling someone you'll unfriend them if they play with someone we don't want them to seems like just a passive-aggressive way of sayin…
sfnative - that's great advice! Some of it even applies to couples. Not everyone is everyone else's cup of tea (or coffee!) and you just find the right matches over time, without worrying about the "misses." Because it's the hits that coun…
I guess I'd take the other position. Telling other people who they can or can't swing with seems a bit out-of-bounds. It's your sis and BILs business as to whether or not they agree as a couple to swing and who with. The only thing I'd not…
RK & 888 - Yep, the women in the LS watch out for one another and can be quite effective at putting out the warning sign about a bad news guy. I imagine NC knows he's toast in the LS and is just using up his SLS subscription time to be a t…
NC - no they don't respond because they're not interested in you. They're probably fine people. After your most recent tirade I asked C to check the swinger-oriented private groups on FB we're members of for people who go to nudist resorts…
All these stories about issues with communications before meeting is why we don't take much stock in these communications and just meet people in-person in a public place, zero expectations, and we can enjoy the rest of the evening there i…
Paul McCartney
Boobies!
Oralestes - right food, drink and smoking can have a pretty fast affect on the taste of a guys cum. DON'T EAT ASPARAGUS BEFORE PLAY GUYS! heheh
There was a guy on one of these threads asking about how to prepare for a swinger party he was invited to. Sorry, dude, if you're reading this, I forgot your username. Anyway, he had a great profile, good pics and wrote positive messages o…
Again, OP long gone, but here's to the other single guys reading this thread. My last comment was about messaging, this one's about meeting in person. We primarily meet people at events and lots of single guys get her attention if they act…
Tail - C like to see the guy's whole body in one clear pic - naked is fine, if clothed have the clothes fitted, she also likes shirt off in jeans. She just wants to see if he's HWP. She doesn't want to see close up dick pics, but one well…
The White House medical staff had already stated why they did not recommend Trump get the vaccine yet. After that Trump tweeted: "I am not scheduled to take the vaccine, but look forward to doing so at the appropriate time" - referring to…
According to the Surgeon General, Trump was advised not to take the vaccine since he has had COVID and received antibody therapy within the last 90 days.
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@Over - In our case, we don't want to spend time with someone cheating on their spouse/gf. Doesn't say much about the character of the person and we feel bad for the spouse. We just don't want to be the people enabling the cheating. I agre…
So, back to the original topic posted by the OP. She's still active on here, but this was posted almost a year ago. OP - are things any better? She's a young attractive female looking for guys in her age range and was still having problems…
Agnes Moorehead
@Natural - Wow, that dude had a short fuse. Good thing you took a pass on him. This is why we blocked SMs. Just too many lame, odd, or pushy messages. We can still view their profiles, so when we want a single male, we can find them and sw…
There are loads of possible reasons for guys to develop low libido. Rather than list them all here, you can look them up online and see which ones may fit your situation. Internet search something like "men low libido causes." There are al…
