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We are new to the lifestyle, still trying to get our feet wet. We have done the seperate room full swap and have started to venture out on our own and are have a good time. What we can't understand is what the appeal for same room swap is.…
We are fairly new here so we are still learning the ins and outs. Its frustrating when you find a person you want to reach out to, but they are a free memeber. Now with the stricter profile monitoring, we can't even post an alternative way…
we've been on the site and in the lifestyle for about a month. Everyone has been polite and respectful of our rules and we appreciate that very much. One thing that alludes me is the lack of responses to email. That is the only tool we hav…
Please, oh please, can someone suggest a better way to get playtime started than "hey, lets fuck"? We have heard that the awkwardness really never goes away. Is this true? We are new still and have only done separate rooms so I get that it…
I do agree that everyone does this there own way. If we want to have the combo #6 and no one is serving it, then we either don't eat or go to a different restaurant. The three things I have taken from our limited experience here is #1. Hav…
Well, I broke the news to the couple that sex was off the table. At first, she(shes the talker) was ok with being just social friends. A little later, she asked why, and since Im an honest guy I told her. Was super respectful of their feel…
Here is another scenario... say there is enough attraction to play, but the sex was horrible and the shred of attraction is gone. We still want to be friends and hang out, but not play anymore. Does this seam to work out or is it typically…
Us being new, we want don't want to step on any toes but we don't want to take on for the team either. With dating comes rejection, the friend zone as you will, and there will definitely be cases where we're put there too. The LS community…
We are new at this, so people please offer some advice... What or how is the best way to tell a couple that there is a friendship connection with all parties envolved, but there is no sexual connection between for one person in the set of…
