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Best advice for cutting through the usual flakiness BS is pretty simple: Go to meet and greets and make contacts real. the downside to talking online is that there is nothing invested beyond the energy of typing. If we set up more meet and…
It feels fucking awesome.
Because women are showcased like cuts of beef on display. It's not the site but the people.
you know what...that is how the Marine Corps got my ass. I'm going to try that.
My opinion is that appearance gets younger with personality. If your personality is a young personality that is still enthusiastic about life, then you'll smile more and generate a more youthful appearance. Within reason of course. People…
Okay this is a bit of a gripe I have with the community. What is up with all the people that do not make themselves presentable in your pictures that are supposed to entice. There's some people that look rough as shit. There's some people…
I think the risk is what adds to the seductive nature of it. My dick gets hard just from thinking about the wave of desire that comes from vanillas being exposed and experiencing sexual freedom for the first time.
It happens. Just like ageism in the workplace. If you're going enough, then start by taking care of yourself now. If you're older already, start taking care as much as possible now. The reality is that many people forgo their health and ho…
pic #3
The look of utter desire in every glance
Put a finger in mah-butt
There is no oe above us.
While guarding a bank at night, I fucked the Mrs and her bestie in the drive through inside the bank.
...and women
Pass
I love it.
Here's a question that I'm sure will fire some people up. I want to still partake in the lifestyle. The Mrs. doesn't anymore. Yes I am willing to cheat with another couple or female for sex. Is there any room on here for that type of candi…
Nope. We wouldn't sleep with just anyone.
Every geographic area has its strengths and weaknesses. The area I'm in has very slim pickings in regard to what we would look for. For instance, very few Latinos that we can connect with in our area. Kinda sucks because we came from Miami…
Very True!
To answer the why question: Because there seems to us to be more sexual energy with some who are getting horned up at a chance encounter, rather than the desensitized atmosphere you get at swing clubs or house parties. I mean, I love the o…
We love the seduction game. We fantasize about really seducing others while going out in the vanilla world. Has anyone had good luck with this? I'd love to hear any stories.
Come with me. Let's dance.
For us it's "we are only looking to get laid. We are not looking for anything more". While yes, we are not looking to find other soul-mates, we only want to "like" the people we are going to let us into our and their bodies. Sorry, we don'…
Pfizer Shot #2 just kicked my ass. It felt like I got the flu. Supposedly, this is a good sign because it's my immune system responding as it should, but damn...
I've managed to get my hands on a functional trainer dual stack each stack being 200 lb. 300 lb weights with bench and squat rack, an assault bike, and the NordicTrack x32i which I will say is one of the best investments I've made. I also…
Amazon Music is my go to Downtempo Chill is my usual for most everything from riding my motorcycle to smoking a cigar. Although when working out I choose some good pschill john wick shit. The mrs definitely loves everything I do but prefer…
I think that this is THE best thread in all of the forum!
ok, THAT was funny! Stealing that one! LOL
Love this post. We are people who like to seduce and be seduced by other couples. That being said, it is critical that we are attracted to the other people, and feel that we can illicit attraction as well. Yes, weight and fat fluctuates, a…
Wow how did I miss this post? Yeah, this is the primary reason we haven't messed around too much with anyone. Appeal is key to dropping panties. I fight hard and I mean hard to stay in some form of fitness level. But just because I like se…
Nothing sexier than fucking friends. Just so damn naughty and lascivious.
I'm at normal levels for my age but what does that mean is my question.
So interesting. I am very into increasing my testosterone naturally as well. I lift and am active but I have been slacking on cardio. Maybe that will help? I'm going to try that for a few months before really starting to dip my toe into th…
Ugh, I'm reluctant to take T because I hear that it's a permanent dependency. Once you start you can't stop because the body will stop producing it naturally. Grr
Turning 48 and I feel that it's getting harder to maintain a hard erection for too long. I wonder how much is mental vs physiological. Could it just be that sex is getting a little routine? I get rock hard with porn but then I also beat my…
Man, We've run into some conceited and douchy profiles that want to attribute it to being "honest". Holy fuck can some people think they're the last cup of water in the desert!
Given how people find it difficult to reject others, here's a painless way to go about it and make it a standard thing across the community. It is tough to verbalize rejection. I never understood how women hey so used to it! Just respond w…
I'm actually zeroing my bow as we speak
Shit. This is less of an issue that STDs. Will this really Curren some people?
Absolutely
It's ok. If a misspelled words generates some conversation, then so be it. At least there's some interaction. I'd be pretty sensitive if I let total strangers get me riled up! Lol
Purrell'd-up naked twister before any penetration? ??????
Exactly the example I was kind of expecting. So what will be the already? House parties. Maybe more focus on couples dates?
Once everything passes over, what is the first set of plans you will set it to do? Do you have a specific couple / individual that you'll connect with?
Given the current state with the 'Rona virus, how has this impacted your approach to the lifestyle? Will it make you more cautious? Will it change the way you participate /interact in House parties, clubs, or dates? Or will it not change a…
Great white Buffalo.... great white buffalo....
If it me or as the veracity of the argument increases, then the vernacular regresses to almost an old English!? If someone pills a "thou" in this fucking discourse, then I will delete this post! :-D
I leave for a few moments... Wtf did I miss? ????
Chemex light roast
We almost bought in Weston about a year ago but thought otherwise. We love going back for family and fun often though.
Good enough for here!
Whiskey and cigars with a night dancing in the humid ocean breeze.
But you have to deal with the Spanglish. That's life. Tu sabes? Si quieres estar incluido, then you have to take it as we are.
No one has excluded any gringos. All are welcome to enjoy the chispa Latina.
Missing Miami. Nothing but damn tasty people down there. Can't say I don't miss the good either. Wish we had a bigger Latin community up here in Virginia.
Will at least someone said hello. What's up people?
Hey, I wanted to create a thread on here to carve out a little spot for us Latinos to get together, and talk shit over some virtual cafesito. I want to see that Latin flavor come out and let the jodedera ensue!
So who's been laying pipe and fucking like no tomorrow regardless? ??????
We're focusing more on just going out and flirting with other couples, but real hesitant on anything more for the time being. How're you all approaching this?
That I would still, despite the CORONAVIRUS, still consume some pussy out there.
I would still eat the CORONAVIRUS the fuck or of some people though. Just saying... Lol
Precautions are the same as with STDs. We don't play on first meeting.
This is why I'm a fan of the metric system. 16.5cm sounds soooo much better...LMAO
This is why our approach is to connect on here as friends. Absolutely vanilla-like, but with a side of freedom to express our sexual desires. If this encourages or enables something to happen, then great. If not, then we still have friends…
Has SLS even been around that long?
I believe that single guys are more apt to blab than couples.
*Aroma not around
What is that one thing that gets you dripping and adrenaline pumping? For me (Steve) it's the thrill of getting people turned on. When I can see the lust in others eyes and body language. I can smell the hot around if sex coming from their…
How do you even know the size of your wrist???
Hey, maybe that is the sign? LMAO
Just wear a black rubber cockring on your right wrist,...
Oh let me clarify. This is why we like to fuck friends from the LS. I mean vanilla friends that we could turn out sounds hot as fuck, but yes, the risk may be a bit higher for lack of discretion....unless they are so out of character with…
We definitely like to fuck our friends. There is less of that desperate feeling of someone just trying to get themselves off. We love seduction and that means wetness, anticipation, and passion. That's just our preference though.
Same room same bed all bodies intertwined as possible
Yeah... Still not a fan lol
Its all thanks to all of you. You all have been so truthful and didn't pull punches. Very appreciated. We always welcome an opportunity to partake in a cigar work you all!!
@vet, so the real question is... Did you correct her assumption? ??????
Zippy, when did you feel it start shrinking?
LMAO, it's exactly the bait and switch tactic that they are trying. Probably because they are trying anything to get some booty. We are not above aiming for anything above our league, but I'd never do it through misrepresentation.
Honestly the pineapple and the black rings have become such a common joke or topic of discussion that it is becoming itself its own indicator. So I think they're already is at least in a humorous representation. So you can bring up the ups…
Just for the record, there are some great looking older individuals. it's just the deception that taints the whole interaction. The lying is the spoonful of shit that ruined the sack of sugar! LOL
Is it us, or is there some serious misrepresentation of ages on some profiles? Either that or some people have just not aged well. This goes hand in hand with outdated photos. I understand why they may do it, but it sucks because it puts t…
Any women find themselves judging a man's size when flaccid? Is it understood that it some people are growers vs show'rs?
would a penis pump or jelqing work?
Yeah I kinda of knew that
I like the black ring on the right hand... Mainly because I already sport one there by coincidence. However, up to this point it hasn't prompted any vanilla location action... Hmm. ????
Once again. you all have been amazing. Thank you. Ok, the latest version is up for those that would like to view the creation they took part in. We're off to hit some trails in Shenandoah. Fall is calling our names people!! Hugs and kisses…
Here's another question. Where's the balance between a sufficient detailed profile, and one that is too long to read?
Lol, bullet points and power points... Our consultants is showing! Makes sense. You're right. It is still a bit too objective focused rather than quality. This has also opened my eyes to a lot of the jadedness we've developed as a result o…
Thanks all for the great feedback. Thanks also for making it constructive and not unnecessarily harsh. I think that my revised profile is way better than before.
I understand how it can seem that way. The catalyst for that line was after an absurd interaction with someone who actually came up to us and challenged me to a push up challenge.... Without even saying hello... And when I refused asked me…
Great suggestions. Thank you
One thing though, the preference doesn't Auto update as we get older. Thanks for pointing that out. It would give a hypocritical appearance.
Thank you. You make a few points that make very good sense to me. This has been very helpful. I guess some frustration was surfacing in some of the way we came across. Thanks!!
Love the feedback! Thank you. Definitely some good nuggets to take away. Yeah, we don't want to sound like we have an attitude, and I guess the candidness may come across that way. Awesome!!
thanks!
Please be constructive
Hey all, so any input on our profile would be great. We don't want to sound jaded, but we do want to show upfront we have some standards. Any constructive criticism is welcome.
its mental man. Sometimes youget overly excited and it just messes with your junk. For me, this happens when I try to go too fast. If you relax and let the interactions run as smoothly as if you were alone with the Mrs., then it would fair…
