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[quote=LexiPlaytime69][quote=Ymichael14][quote=LexiPlaytime69]I’m currently looking to find a glory hole place either in Suffolk or Nassau where I can suck a cock while hubby watches. Not new to swinging but we always just host. We don’t g…
[quote=LexiPlaytime69]I’m currently looking to find a glory hole place either in Suffolk or Nassau where I can suck a cock while hubby watches. Not new to swinging but we always just host. We don’t go to parties. We just put up hot dates a…
Although I have very little experience with swinging, my whole adult life has been with women who eithier let me see other women or who wanted to see other men, which I think is very close to swinging. We would even watch each other's vide…
[quote=HandsomJson]How can you tell who’s a scammer or not? Honestly are all certs real ? I’ve seen profiles who hide face but says must have pictures open for a reply.[/quote]There are some red flags. A woman young enough to be my daughte…
What do senior swingers like to do to socialize? I would love to meet some swingers my age at a non swing event. I would love to make some friends in the swing community. Are there any events you travel to for socializing? I would like to…
[quote=Prepotente]Hi So we are fairly new to the lifestyle, and one of the things that is holding the female half of us back is that she doesn't shave at all. She has naturally very light body hair, and her legs are barely noticeable. Howe…
[quote=hotluvrs]I would be concerned that this person is ignoring requests. Since you’ve made multiple requests it’s a surprising that he hasn’t responded in some way, either positively or to explain that he doesn’t do text messages.[/quot…
[quote=Single_again1960][quote=Ymichael14]My point is, with all of the very easy ways to use a throw away cell number or a texting app that is not your real number, I would not trust anyone who avoided my request to text.[/quote]I know tha…
I think a lot of women like being submissive. If the guy asks if another man can join them they feel submissive. They enjoy the guy asking a lot more than they enjoy asking the guy.
My point is, with all of the very easy ways to use a throw away cell number or a texting app that is not your real number, I would not trust anyone who avoided my request to text.
I would guess his wife would see the texts or he doesn't want to get a text from you while his wife is next to him or he is still living in mom's basement and mommy hasn't bought him a cell yet. I hope the vanilla meet and greet is some pl…
Don't feel silly. If I was 11 years younger and 600 miles closer I would love to date a woman that mentions swinging to guys she meets on dating apps. Hell, I would be happy just to be friends with her and not date.
I'm sorry, I should have read your profile before I suggested what to put in your profile. That is a perfect profile. Unless your area doesn't have any swingers, what you are seeking should find you through your profile.
I'm not a woman, and I do not live in NV, so I can't really help. But I do know many people agree with you, start slow at a house party where you can watch and meet people. A club can be overwhelming for an inexperienced single woman. Ever…
I hear you. I live in CT and in the 4 years I have been on SLS I never saw a meet and greet or house party posted anywhere in my area. Or within an hour or two of my area. I am trying to find some other way to meet people. No luck yet. If…
I can't imagine insulting a potential play patner's job. Maybe he thought she was into degradation and humiliation? As for politics, I never met anyone with a politics kink. " I hate that guy. Tell me again that you voted for him while me…
Maybe I'm the oddball but I have already considered all of the possible combinations and the reasons for them and would gladly agree to any of them. Two women might want a man for both of them, not him. Two women might want a man for the m…
[quote=DanAnLoli]Hello, I'm writing to get some advise. Loli and I have been together for going on 7 years, it's been great! My first marriage was sexually absent. After my divorce I determined I wouldn't do it again. As our relationship g…
Calcan- got it. I misunderstood her point. Thank you.
Can what Catrice is talking about even be considered poly? It sounds more like a threesome. But, I will agree, no matter what it is you can't expect it to be like a porn movie. Unless you hire a prostitute.
[quote=bfwp4u]What really seems impossible is the number of "single" guys who have approached us (we're 70 and 66 M/F) then flaked out. The excuses range from the lame to hilarious. Latest guy was mid 50's, looking for virtually everything…
Also, if you try Fetlife and munches, I have found many of them have a problem with swingers. No idea why. But I tried a poly munch for Polyamory. They accept swingers . From what I can tell so far, many of them have tried swinging or play…
Sorry but that is the only advice I have. I also can not find anything in my area and I haven't yet figured out what to do. If I find something that works, I will let you know. I think the key is finding something social. Make friends and…
[quote=PlasticFantastic]About 40 years ago, give or take, my wife and I were at a party in Hartford. My memory is foggy, I think it was at a hotel room but it might have been a high rise apartment building. Sometime between 10 and 11 PM th…
[quote=Wrezaru]Looking for senior ( over 60) singles or couples in SE Texas. We looking for friends and playmates in SE Texas area. We have a 5th wheel and love to travel. We are looking for others with RV’s that might like to travel toget…
[quote=9INCHFREAK][quote=Ymichael14][quote=9INCHFREAK]Over the decades I been in the lifestyle I notice some couples dont seem to respect single males time. Some couples(but not all couples) seem to think just because their wife/girlfriend…
[quote=aa207006412]Good morning y'all. I need a bit of advice. So I was checking my messages on here and saw a new message, all the message said "Hello I’m a very straight forward person If you are interested in older women Drop your numbe…
[quote=9INCHFREAK]Over the decades I been in the lifestyle I notice some couples dont seem to respect single males time. Some couples(but not all couples) seem to think just because their wife/girlfriend is horny at the moment they think t…
[quote=Simbaxxx][quote=Ymichael14][quote=Simbaxxx]When you’re under sedation, the doctor can manipulate the penis to find the best fit. Being that the average male is 5.3 inches long. Let’s just go ahead and say 6 inches implant showing. I…
[quote=Simbaxxx]When you’re under sedation, the doctor can manipulate the penis to find the best fit. Being that the average male is 5.3 inches long. Let’s just go ahead and say 6 inches implant showing. I say it that way because if you ha…
[quote=Simbaxxx]Have had the 700 for eight years no problems at this time. There will be some change in length and girth after the implant. Which direction you’ll not know until you’re able to try it out. Under anesthesia all muscles are f…
[quote=MNJFLA]I have my second penile implant love it. I got the Coloplast Titan this time. Had the AMS700 first time blew out at three years. Pump it up and stay hard as long as you want, even after you cum. Any questions call me just let…
[quote=MNJFLA]I have an implant going on ten years now. The length yo have now without the implant is what you will have when you get the implant. The pumped up tubes will widen your penis and add a fraction of length. Men say oh I lost so…
I was reading about the pump implant and it said the doctor has to adjust the length of the tubes to the size of the penis before he implants them. My understanding is the tubes get fatter when pumped up, but not longer. So, what about the…
[quote=Over7Under8]Yes I'm old and out of sync with being social... I wonder about this instant hook up vibe I see. Being new here, I am wondering how long does it take roughly for new people to fit in with the community and local grouping…
I met a woman at a munch and she told me she has been in the lifestyle around CT for 30 years. I asked her why there were no meet and greets or house parties for swing anywhere in the state. She said it was because years ago CT started rai…
[quote=FlirtyAndNerdy2017]We have a fairly small bedroom with a queen size bed. We have a slightly larger living room area with one sofa. Does anyone have tips on getting creative with space to fit everyone in one room/bed?[/quote]How many…
[quote=Onelyph]You all are so lucky to have so many options for everyone. There isn’t anything like that here especially since the pandemic. We have a couple of strip clubs on the island of Oahu but that’s it. There were house parties befo…
[quote=JoeCrow]Hi folks, I recently created a profile and am having zero luck meeting couples. I was married and in the lifestyle for about ten years then when we divorced I took a break for about four years. Looking to spice things up and…
[quote=mayhem8]Ymichael14 - There are parties out our way that do allow SMs. As expected though, they limit the # of SMs so there is some amount of competition for the available SM attendees. Again, it never hurts to try to organize your o…
[quote=Single_again1960][quote=mayhem8]The past couple of posts just validate for us why parties are so much more fruitful. We're also lucky that we can host in our home, but even if we couldn't. personally I'd never rent a hotel room to m…
[quote=RNV2025]When someone sends you the bird what is considered rude, to say we are not a match or just ignore the message. Just had someone message me and I said we were probably not a match and they came back with “wow that was rude”.…
I think this has gone past just annoying and it is time to go war. Attack before he does. Contact a lawyer. You will probably have to delete ever form of communication he has used including getting new phone numbers. I assume the lawyer wi…
SAZ0469- We are not all bad. I checked your profile and I didn't send any rude messages. I just assumed you would not be interested in someone 471miles away. There is hope, keep trying.
I am a SM and I do not understand the way these guys act, eithier. "When would you be available to meet and greet so you can start being sufficiently fucked and serviced". He is assuming she is not already being sufficiently fucked and ser…
How are you keeping the foreskin retracted? You mean, you just pull it back and stays back?
[quote=hotluvrs]“ And aren't you calling your wife ghetto for having the gloryhole fantasy?” Ymichael, no I’m not calling my wife ghetto at all (not that there’s anything wrong with that). I’m saying she sometimes likes ghetto things. Ther…
[quote=FlipFlops_and_Droptop][quote=NuAdishun][quote=EdnRita23][quote=NuAdishun]Your thoughts please.[/quote]Train is more like a gangbang but 1:1 fucking at a time. A threesome is three bodies with any kind of interaction but only 3.[/quo…
[quote=hotluvrs]Can we all agree that “running a train” is pretty ghetto? Having said that, I have to admit that my wife has a bit of a “female gloryhole” fantasy, you know, being an anonymous toy for multiple men.[/quote]Not sure I unders…
[quote=NuAdishun][quote=EdnRita23][quote=NuAdishun]Your thoughts please.[/quote]Train is more like a gangbang but 1:1 fucking at a time. A threesome is three bodies with any kind of interaction but only 3.[/quote]In the even of an MFM thre…
[quote=NuAdishun]Your thoughts please.[/quote]It is called a train because the guys line up like a train. They do her one at a time and the line moves forward. .
As a single guy , I do not think "...heard SMs say that if it was his wife, she wouldn't be swinging" is clueless. I think it ranks with " christ she is fat, and you fuck that"? I do not know any other way to take it accept as an insult to…
Thanks for he info on cruises. What is confusing me is a cruise advertised as a singles cruise, but rate is double occupancy. I can get the same deal on a regular cruise so I am trying to figure out how a singles cruise is different. I hav…
Anyone ever take a cruise as a single on a cruise that is advertised for singles? I was just looking at some but they all say price is double occupancy. Does that mean I will be charged twice the listed price, or I will be sharing a cabin…
Tbrmskss- I am in CT. I get my trimix from a RI pharmacy called bayview. $118.00 for , I'm not sure how many doses. I am still trying to find the right dose. Not sure how much the meds are. $118.00 is for the meds, shipping and , I think,…
Nolannude- When I got my prescription the doc set a date a few weeks away and told me to bring the meds and she would show me how to inject it and she also explained that I would start on the lowest dose and slowly work up, to prevent what…
Membeship just lapsed would make sense. I didn't think of that one.
How is peppa able to post here? I thought free membes had no way of contacting paid? I'm not complaining, I just don't ever recall seeing a free member in the forums and thought paid members couldn't contact them. Or they couldn't respond.
Mayhem- what I had to learn about viagra the hard way was, sometimes it just stops working and never works again. I only found this out when I asked my doc for something else and he said anything else would have to come from a urologist an…
For me it depends on how the threesome happened. Some give me the " just fuck her and get out and don't talk to us again" vibe. So I do not thank them. I assume they would block me if I contacted them. Others are more like dating. They wan…
Mayhem- as for faking certs, I did have a guy contact me on FET asking me to give him a cert on SLS so he could meet the cert requirement of a local swing club. Never met the guy, never talked to him. No, I didn't do it. But that is one wa…
I'm guessing Peppa means like the fake reviews you see online. 100 postive reviews and not one negitive comment. In other words, they are trying to hard to make the certs look real and attract people.
Flipflops- "There has never been a more clueless guy on this website than this clown". Thank god. I have finally been replaced.
I would love to go to meet and greets and make real contacts. Or a house party. But in the four years I have been on this site I have never seen a meet and greet or house party even remotely close to me. Sure, I could drive for 4 hours, bu…
Someonescoming- when I first stopped drinking soda, I felt like a dug addict going through withdraw. I had to cut back slowly. Now , I can't touch the stuff. It tastes like Sugar . Like I'm eating a bag of sugar.
Mayhem8- I do not understand guys like this. If I ever had to break a date, I would be the one contacting you. Not waiting for you to contact me. Unless some major disaster occurred at work 5 minutes ago, he has known for awhile that he ca…
Hotwife- agreed. If are getting tons of offers, why are you here complaining?
I learned late in life that sugar is a poison. Avoid it. You can cut back slowly and use natural substitutes like stevia.
Blacker- THAT is funny. "If my shoes fell off...".
NYsingle- first of all, couples have 10 times more people to choose from than single males do. For every single guy that is perfect, there are 10 others that are perfect and 10 couples that are perfect and 10 single women that are perfect.…
Hurt is a relative term. The dentist hurts, giving birth hurts. Trimix is administered with a very small needle. Like a pinch type of pain. You feel it, but only for a second.
Doc just started me on trimix. You start with a low does and slowly increase it over a few weeks or months, depending, until you achieve the desired results. The low dose is like the first 1" at the base gets bigger, but not hard. Worthles…
Not that easy being a newbie either. One threesome I had the guy was ready to go as soon as I got there. Very excited about seeing me with his wife. But then he was very standoffish. I guessed I was just suppose to be like prostitute. Perf…
Never heard of it but I would only try it if a urologist recommended it. I went to a urologist a month ago because I was no longer happy with viagra and my Doctor said he couldn't offer anything else, he would have to refer me to a urologi…
I think we need to start a bacon festival thread. I always had trouble cooking bacon. I like it crisp. Then, I bought an air fryer. Maybe I should offer couples bacon if they meet me? An all you can eat bacon hot date.
Reddit is great for a lot of things, but I can't imagine them being any good for swing. I'm not sure what it would take for me to believe they were real and wanted to meet. On here, I do not hesitate.
Try the "events" section. Find something in your area that interests you.
I'm available if anyone has this fetish or preference.
I have always assumed they think it is like other sites where free members are allowed to contact, and be contacted by, a few people a month and they want to try out the site first. Of course, they could just be really stupid. I also wonde…
Gentlemanluvr-As a SM, here is what I have learned. This site will not tolerate you posting anything negative. I have about 40 groups in my area that hold socials, meet and greets and house parties. I tried to join all of them. About 20 ar…
You won't find that here. This section is for discussing how to improve your profile. Try "events". Look for parties or clubs or other events in your area.
Rhonnie- if that happened to my spouse I would hug her and hold her a very long time and tell I was sorry for pushing her into that and then assure her we will not do that again until we find a way to do it that she feels safe. You can try…
You wont always get a thoughtful and lengthy response from real people. Many couples and single females have a waiting list to choose from. So they do not have to bother writing a great response. Unless they are new or below average. If a…
Switching from chatting online to cell very quickly is common. Unfortunately, scammers will also do this. Or could have been an escort service pretending to a swing couple and they just wanted to offer pay for play. Report this to SLS, the…
Click on menu, upper left. Click on events. You will see listings for parties, socials, clubs, etc. You can also check the groups section. There might be a group in your area that holds meet and greets. I'm in CT so I have no idea what is…
"and that he hoped we didn't break our hips". You should have strung him along for a few months then invite him to a party that a bunch of young women were attending then have him get the room and never show up. Just for that rude reply.
Deke- ronandkathy are not a problem, like trolls are. They just block you for any disagreement. Like how to pronounce tomato. I wouldn't worry about them blocking you.
In most cases new and improved means the patent ran out and they can sell generic vigara . Or, they add something like crushed maple leaf and claim it will keep you hard all day and women love it. Snake oil. Stay with what works for you.
As I have said before. Certs are not always that easy to get. I think it is a mistake to rely that heavily on them. I haven't been thrown out of someone's house, or laughed out, yet. I have been been invited back. So I assume I am doing so…
For me a race different from mine is the same as if they are a lot taller or shorter than I have been with before. Or heavier or thinner. Or older or younger. I do not see it as good or bad, or better or worse. Just different.
“Blocked by Ron & Kathy” club?" I have been a proud member of that club for several years.
"Politics lately acts like vermin getting into the sweets". Excellent. I'm stealing that.
Concerning politics. I'm old enough to remember a time when you could be friends with someone you did not agree with politically. You would be having lunch, a news report would come on tv. One of you would blame the Republicans, the other…
"so because a single girl get's a lot of attention from other people that gives her the right to be a hypocrite? Really". Yes. Supply and demand.
Funlyfriend- I agree. If you have a problem with certain condoms, bring your own.
Unless he accidentally did something really stupid, I do not think he stepped out of bounds and was shut down by SLS . He has been here for several years and I would think if he was up to no good we would have seen it before he started a g…
Funlyfriend - LOL! That would explain it.
Mayhem- I think he means lube for her while he is wearing the condom. She is going dry.
Robjan- Oh good, I'm not the only one. I thought maybe I got banned. His email to me about the group disappeared, as well.
Damn, you guys are tough on Wayne. I mean, I'm enjoying somebody else getting yelled at instead of me for a change. But this site isn't that bad. I just check for messages when I am online because I know I seldom get the bird. And when I d…
