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Lake Nockamixon State Park In Pa

in Travel ·

Has anyone had fun in this park? They rent fully furnished cabins, hot/cold water, kitchen, showers, beds, etc. You just need to bring bed linens, towels, food, etc. It looked good online and today we checked it out in person. Lots of priv…

Pneumonia - after the antibiotics run out?

in Open Forum ·

Does anyone have natural / home remedy ideas to help get stronger after battling pneumonia? I did receive a steroid injection and antibiotics. However, the rally is slow. I started taking a mixture of apple cider vinegar/honey/hot water/ c…

Getting burned out

in Swinger Advice ·

Well, nobody else is going to state the obvious, so I will. You're discontented guys in their 30's aren't coming through. You guys are in your mid to upper 60's. Some of those guys may be new, inexperienced, and nervous- that's true. But e…

Jewelry - how much and what is appropriate

in Swinger Advice ·

When it comes to playtime, jewelry can be a challenge. If a lady has nipple piercings or things attached downstairs, they definitely get in the way. I love going down on a woman and more than a few times that's made it difficult to go "all…

Mature Women Swallowing

in Senior Swingers ·

In my (husband) experience, the vast majority of the women I've been with (80% of them) are happy to do it, are submissive about it, and even like to be dominated a bit. Either I've been lucky or it's that I've gone down on them first, pai…

Congratulations if you voted for Trump

in Politics ·

Today I saw gas in Willingboro, NJ (just north of Camden) for $2.45. Under Biden it was $4.20. When the cost to transport goods comes down, the cost to consumers does too. Where we live, eggs, meat, butter, and pasta are down too.

When sending a message to a lady or couple?

in Getting Started ·

@HOPnrBED your observations / experiences are why we love attending hotel take-overs. 100-250 couples, statistically a few couples are bound to be a nice match and what you see is what you get ;-) .. .. .. Separately, over the years we hav…

Working Remotely

in Open Forum ·

There are some quality of life aspects I really do like about working remotely. I can work out more; dumb bells, squats, etc. In the summer I can take a 15 minute break to tend to the garden. When the weather is even half decent (live in E…

Working Remotely

in Open Forum ·

From 2012 to 2019 I worked 95% remote for two companies (one bought out the other) as a Microsoft web developer (Visual Studio / SQL server / C# and APIs) in the pharmaceutical marketing arena. We would come together one day a month for lu…

Double-barrel Blowjob

in 3-Some ·

We've done it a couple of times with the other guy and I both standing up. It's also fun to watch her go back and forth. And then we fuck her silly :-) Very hot to see when she gets to be slutty.

Manscaping

in Swinger Advice ·

For me, the husband, it's shaved close to my jawn and then after an inch or so out it's a fade.. kind of like from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. Equally important is to do it the day before or the morning of. One time I waited till when I w…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

Exactly - their role models were their parents who raised them.. in poverty.. and that's the only example they know. Many millions of Americans have risen above poverty by making better choices. Some, like me, who had no money for a colleg…

Couples Playing Solo

in Swinger Advice ·

Each couple navigating swinging separately, experiences it in their own way. In our experience, there has been a big double-standard in how it played out. For the few guys she's played with separately, we met them together first and had at…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

If the precise steps to do a repetitive job can be written down, there's a better chance of it being replaced by AI. As a cloud software engineer, I use it every day in a bunch of different ways. It has helped our company grow and be more…

Picked up while grocery shopping

in Fantasies ·

Twice in the past ten years I (husband) have been approached by women. Once when I was 55 and again at 58. In each case the woman was about 70, in great shape, wearing a nice dress/outfit, it was about 8:30 a.m. on a Tuesday or Wednesday.…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

The "Find Out" portion of the Schumer shutdown is beginning. White House Says Government Layoffs Have Begun WASHINGTON—A top White House official said Friday that mass layoffs of federal employees had started in response to the government…

Black ring means you are in the lifestyle?

in Swinger Advice ·

Yes, I (husband) like to wear it, have never been noticed for it, and my wife always encourages me to leave it at home for fear of being discovered or outed; especially at our favorite bar. Funny thing is, once we went to the club we like.…

Meeting at your home with LS couples

in Getting Started ·

We've hosted and been invited to other's homes and for us if it's a first meet, it's important the couple has certs. Couples with certs are generally not nervous and do want to preserve their good reputation in the lifestyle. Like a lot of…

How often do you change your profile?

in Swinger Advice ·

Profile accuracy is a valid concern and oftentimes they're dated. That having been written we've been guilty of it too. In the past year a couple highlighted some of our older pictures and we took them down. Here's an odd thought- what if…

Current images

in Swinger Advice ·

One of the funniest things we heard came from a review of a weekend hotel takeover party: It was a great time! Some people came out, others sent their parents. (We still love hotel takeovers the best ~ what you see.. is what you get.)

AI Where is it headed

in Open Forum ·

We use Microsoft CoPilot throughout our company. I've used it as an engineer in building Azure microservices. In Visual Studio 2022, it appears on the right hand side of the UI by default and makes suggestions. I typically add a header to…

The One Big Beautiful Bill

in Politics ·

The lower income people who will make more without tax on tips or overtime will spend that money and drive the economy.

Your First Orgy

in 3-Some ·

For us it happened about four months ago. The host, a single guy friend from central jersey with a female friend, really knows how to organize it. There were 5 couples, well enough matched that everyone was willing to play with everyone. A…

private parties

in 3-Some ·

We've done it diplomatically, leaving the hosts the easy option to say no thanks. For example: Hi Guys, we saw your nice party posting.. or a mutual friend mentioned your party this coming Saturday night. You two have a great profile. If t…

General porn topic

in Open Forum ·

Miscategorized content is the scourge of the under-belly of the internet. Three people isn't a gangbang.

The dirty little truth people tip-toe around

in Swinger Advice ·

Over the last 25 years of being in and out of this fun distraction (kids/jobs/family/all-good), the one universal truth we've found is the vast majority of people consider reasonable physical fitness a big + in considering others for fun t…

Political Quote of the Day

in Politics ·

Both Mexico and Canada caved in today and are deploying 10,000+ troops to protect the border from drugs and illegal immigration. The trade deficits are also going to be discussed. #winning

Certifications

in Swinger Advice ·

We've met many couples and singles who took breaks for life- to raise kids, to relocate and start a new career, etc. And we took two and three year breaks a couple of times- then hopped right back in- one new cert and the rest are several…

Certifications

in Swinger Advice ·

If a couple has been on the site for a number of years and their profile is well-written, we'd likely overlook the lack of certs. The same goes for single guys. However, if the couple or single guy has been on the site for less than a year…

Who Videotapes?

in Senior Swingers ·

Some years back we did it a bunch of times using our phones. But the quality wasn't what we'd hoped. The nice upside to it though was that we were able to go frame by frame and extract some nice frames/photos that were good for the profile.

Do you think they were joking?

in Senior Swingers ·

Perhaps, some people above a certain age are more into gummy blowjobs? Or they might be helping people know there won't be a surprise dental pop out right in the middle of playtime. But I agree with the previous poster it may have been the…

Difference

in Swinger Advice ·

Attraction implies we're drawn to them and in in the lifestyle context we'd describe those we want to "do" as attractive. Cute is.. well.. they look nice together. It's like calling a woman handsome or saying to a southerner, "Well bless y…

Extremely effective but unpopular

in Swinger Advice ·

That is one way to do it. Because we've been stood up several times, we prefer hotel takeover parties or house parties with a bunch of people. We'll see the sign up list and preemptively open our pics to people we find interesting. If they…

Kamala Harris

in Politics ·

When Trump wins, will Kamala personally certify the election as required by law? Will democrat politicians support the peaceful transfer of power? And will urban citizens stand up when the alt-left tries to burn down their neighborhoods?

Fascism in America

in Politics ·

I'm disappointed James Carville hasn't been arrested for inciting violence. The other day he said if the democrats lose, people should exercise community justice. WTF?

Kamala Harris

in Politics ·

Kamala's biggest problem is Americans, including and especially black Americans, have figured out she's fake.. and stupid.

Kamala Harris

in Politics ·

It would be awesome if during the DNC convention the teleprompter failed and she had to speak what's on her mind. Who doesn't like a tossed word salad? Am I right? Or am I right?

Kamala Harris

in Politics ·

I don't get how a candidate who was the first to drop out for the democratic nomination in 2020 can suddenly seize the nomination without opportunity for anyone else in her party to compete for it. There wasn't even a hint of a conversatio…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

https://energycommerce.house.gov/posts/wsj-editorial-board-biden-s-ev-mandate-blows-its-cover The Biden administration is doubling down on its rush-to-green agenda that forces Americans to drive unaffordable, less reliable electric vehicle…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

On Biden, it's not the person, it's the progressive policies that are hurting the poorest of the poor. There's no getting around that this election cycle.

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

if the Jonathan Willis part is true, and history follows its pattern, there's a good chance he'll be found dead before he can testify anywhere. My question is, how were there not drones as part of the security process? Even high school foo…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

Media "fact check" sites are like AI sites- their models are only as good as the [biased] data fed into them. To test this theory, go to an AI site and ask it to define patriotism. You get back infested woke B.S. As for being a popcorn eat…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

No, Trump didn’t attempt to subvert the 2020 election and allow the American people to Democratically choose the next President. He and we attempted to use peaceful methods to show the fraudulent coup that was put upon the United States. J…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

WTF does "the end of democracy" mean? When Trump was president last time he did none of the things the alt-left is accusing him of wanting to do now. None. It's just a bunch of fearmongering bullshit- and America knows it.

Annual swingers

in Open Forum ·

When we were first getting going, first five years or so we were almost every other month. Twenty+ years in, we're maybe once or twice a year. I (husband) would like it to be more.. and maybe it will again as we're almost empty nesters :)

Will Trump ever have a good week?

in Politics ·

The alt-left and "main stream media" are calling the idea revenge. It's actually delayed justice. The Biden DOJ and FBI have been covering for these criminals for years. There is plenty of evidence to indict a great many of them- just like…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

One of my few regrets is that given the voluminous amount of evidence on the laptop, were Joe to be convicted of treason, his senility would deny us the look in his eyes were he to be tried, convicted, and executed for it. Alas, this dirtb…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

The fundamental flaw with the alt-left is one of character. To stay in power they must deviously discourage others into thinking there is no hope. They dwell on the past, creating false mental barriers to a better life in hopes the poorest…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

Justus, I hope you're right and I have heard bits of this here and there. I cannot imagine America's smartest, most-patriotic leaders would allow a thin band of tyrannical, selfish, traitors to upend 246 years of hope, freedom, and justice…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

When Biden freezes in the debate, will the moderators swoop in to save him with a follow up or will they let him hang.. so he can more-easily be replaced at the convention?

MFM DP

in Fantasies ·

We've tried it twice but there was a lot of math going on.. challenging angles, etc. We ended up laughing through it. Good times. The people who do it in the movies must practice a lot.

Can anyone figure out this message?

in Swinger Advice ·

Yeah, in his excitement he put the cart about 40 yards ahead of the horse. It's good though that this comes to light now and not after you've been flirting, talking, and just ordered a 3rd drink at T.G.I. Fridays... :) We've found meet and…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

Outside of BitChute, I haven't heard of Operation Storm. I would agree though the elites are desperate to get the U.S. into a war to cover for their financial / spending decisions which have gotten the U.S. 34 trillion in debt. The notion…

How do you prefer to meet?

in Straight Couples ·

For us it has been this order: hotel take over parties, clubs on a popular theme night, then house parties. The more people attending, the more likely we'll find a nice match. We've been burned too many times meeting couples or singles out…

President Biden.

in Politics ·

Iran didn't pull this shit when Trump was president because they knew they would have been bombed back to the stone age. Nobody fears or respects Biden.

Will Trump ever have a good week?

in Politics ·

So you're cool with all the government corruption, shit economic plan that's about to crash the economy, and the election fraud? At some point this is going to boil over. People are fed up- including and especially the urban people of colo…

how to prepare the wife for mfm?

in Swinger Advice ·

It's an interesting question, how to prepare the wife. Mine 100% knows what she likes and what she's doing. So I prepare the other guy. Presuming they like each other's pictures and profiles, I (husband) engage the other guy in separate te…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

in Politics ·

..Michigan Governor Whitmer... which was a government set up. One.. little.. tiny.. incident with 50 million+ MAGA supporters. The shit storm is coming for the alt-left in November as the disadvantaged have had enough of the alt-left's shi…

Flip Side

in Swinger Advice ·

We're a couple and there are non-profile things couples have done to turn us away including.. meeting one on one and wanting to talk for four hours and we learn non-sexual things about them that make us opt-out. If they gossip or say bad t…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

in Politics ·

If (heavily armed) MAGA were a threat, it would have shown itself already. We moved out of the cities a long time ago. The disadvantaged, including and especially people of color, have awakened to the pain progressive, alt-left policies ar…

Kinky fantasy

in Fantasies ·

@JATO40 ..oddly specific, perhaps. But have you tried those snack pack pudding things? OMG..

Wife wants a gangbang

in Open Forum ·

For safety reasons you wouldn't want a bunch of rando dudes coming to your house. If it were us, we'd look for a popular club on a Friday night. Most nice clubs we know let single guys in Friday nights and many do a First Friday (of the mo…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

in Politics ·

"Why didn't the January 6th committee pursue Trump back then?" It's priceless there are still statements like this... why? Couldn't congress have compelled Trump to testify before congress on this issue? Couldn't they have recommended or a…

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

in Politics ·

The heightened eclipse warnings are an attempt to make local, state, and federal agencies appear more useful. Who are we do deny potential Darwin Award winners their opportunity to compete on a national level? Every angle must be covered t…

Northeast Earthquake

in Open Forum ·

Well that was interesting ~ the whole house shook a bunch and all the neighbors ran into the street. Eastern PA mini quake..

Kinky fantasy

in Fantasies ·

Kinky fantasy? To watch a milf.. looking me in the eyes.. as she slowly eats a vanilla, snackpak pudding cup.. while using my cock as the spoon.

Introverted how do we meet people

in Getting Started ·

For newer couples, coming out of their shell can feel daunting. Something they may not realize is we've all been there too. The strategy that worked great for us was to find the most-popular, local swing club and join it. Your first night…

Not a math problem /////but?

in Swinger Advice ·

That's a super-fun outlook: "Come on, we have to leave and go fuck people". One of the most surreal moments we had was when we connected with two other couples at the same time at a hotel party (in our room) and after everyone left, we gav…

Not a math problem /////but?

in Swinger Advice ·

It might be better to join a local club or recurring house party group. That way when you go, you go and meet the crowd that's there that night. It would feel disingenuous to be on someone else's perpetual "maybe" list.

President Biden.

in Politics ·

Brotha Says Blacks And Latinos Of South Bronx Are Ready To Vote For Trump In 2024 youtube dot com/watch?v=0W2ZJE4DsxQ

President Biden.

in Politics ·

The vast majority of the poor people being hurt by Biden's policies, didn't see the state of the union speech. #changemymind

Age differences

in Swinger Advice ·

Yep ~ it can be a challenge. I'm 11 years older than my wife. So when she was 34, I was 45. She could easily pull 28 year old dudes but their 25 year old wives were less than motivated to hook up with.. the elder wand; usually. What worked…

I might have landed the golden ticket

in Getting Started ·

Join and take her to a nice swingers club on a couples-only night and go to the group room. Adult theaters are dirty and there will be lots of single dudes creeping up on you. You want to focus on the fun, not telling one guy after the nex…