Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
Windowshopping: We think those sandals are for swinger wife tracking. Follow the trail in the sand to bliss and a sexy wife!
fraunhubby68
394 total posts. Showing the most recent 100.
are we heading to an open marriage?
in Polyamory ·
Someonescoming: We are fascinated by the hotwife dynamic. May we pose a few questions? How did the idea of hallpass or hotwifing come up initially for you guys? What are your rules or limits for solo play? How do you handle "feelings" or a…
are we heading to an open marriage?
in Polyamory ·
Someone: Her last truly solo date, was very hot for the three of us. She had seen this truly wonderful gentleman with me in the past. They had played in front of me several times, which is its own treat. But at times he seemed hesitant to…
Shaving the wife
in Polyamory ·
Yes, I love shaving my wife. Exact procedure depends on her skin and hair traits. Apply a warm to hot cloth to her pussy and ass to relax the skin and hair. Apply warm shaving or skin oil, if she can tolerate that. Some women are sensitive…
Single female dipping toes in and advice welcome
in Swinging Single ·
SHE: As long-term swingers, we've learned a lot. Not trying to sell you on the lifestyle, as it's a very personal decision, or set of decisions. But we wished we had started earlier and we wished we had not been so furtive at the outset. W…
Would you ever consider going back to vanilla?
in Swinging Single ·
We've talked about this as a hypothetical. We enjoy sharing so much, it's a part of our life and loving relationship together. We've discussed how we got into this in other places on sls fora. But to sum it up, even though we both were pre…
Am i the Only girl who adores a huge load
in Women Talk ·
[quote=funlyfriend][quote=fraunhubby68][quote=SAZ0469]I love a big load shot all over my tits!!![/quote]You are so right. I love it when my wife gets one or two cumshots on her breasts and just continues on talking and socializing with oth…
Am i the Only girl who adores a huge load
in Women Talk ·
[quote=SAZ0469]I love a big load shot all over my tits!!![/quote]You are so right. I love it when my wife gets one or two cumshots on her breasts and just continues on talking and socializing with others with it all over her. She drives me…
Sperm competition
in Fantasies ·
[quote=Fun_ItalianCple]My favorite thing in the Lifestyle is the feeling of 3 or more hot Creampies in me. We don't think of it as a competition but rather one of the nottest and naughtiest things we can do.[/quote]Agreed, whole heartedly.
Am i the Only girl who adores a huge load
in Women Talk ·
Yes, I do find large cum shots very sexy. It's not necessary for a good time. But given a choice, a large one is very erotic to me. And I'm very open to multiples on me as well.
men watching their woman get fuck by another man
in 3-Some ·
Newathis: Some groups are starting to throw hotwife parties, where they invite more single, usually, well-endowed gentlemen for the ladies to meet and enjoy if they want to. So, that may be a starting point if they happen to hold those nea…
Who pays?
blackerthanblack: Good for you. You might be the new unicorn in the lifestyle.
3Somes or Moresomes at LS parties
in 3-Some ·
Mayhem: We had a similar story from a few years ago. I was making sweet, sweet love bareback and doggy style to my wife at a party. Some rando wife said rather loudly, "Oh look he's fucking her bare." This was a pretty strict condom type g…
Interracial
in Straight Couples ·
We're very open to interracial partners. We've had nothing but excellent experiences. Hubby: I dated an amazing Hatian woman in college, a dark-skinned beauty. We both really enjoyed the visual contrast of my pale skin against her dark ski…
Sneezing after you cum
in Men Talk ·
Frnds...I'll never look at a sneezer in church quite the same ever again.
Cuckold vs Hot wife
in Fantasies ·
We can't speak too much about cuckold, as it's not our thing. But hotwife is pretty awesome, especially if all three are friendly about it. From the hubby point of view, it's beyond hot knowing your wife is getting treated right and experi…
All things FMF
in 3-Some ·
Mayhem: You lucky bastard (with affection). We too REALLY LOVE MFMs. It's not the only way we play but it's a serious contender for fave. We recently met a great sexy woman for a momentary FMF...probably a one-time-thing as other parts of…
Party talk
in Finding Playmates ·
We love the house parties. They have been fun. It's easy to move from meeting to flirting to playing if you all have an interest in each other. House parties run the gamut from ratty to a bit posh and everywhere in between. We've been to r…
Single Guy Success Stories
Unlike: Good job. You should give a class for gentlemen here. We just realized we had not posted about our overwhelmingly good experiences with single guys. Below is one that came to define what we love about the MFM aspects of the lifesty…
Hypoallergenic Massage Oils or Dual Massage Oils / Lube
in Women Talk ·
Thanks Molly and Kathy...good advice.
Hypoallergenic Massage Oils or Dual Massage Oils / Lube
in Women Talk ·
What are your recommendations for Hypoallergenic Massage Oils? What are your recommendations for Dual Massage Oils / Lube? Not allergic but silicon-based lubes irritate now. What's your best dual use oil/lube for sensitive skin?
Breastfeeding fantasy
in Fantasies ·
The pregnancy and lactating phase of life for us was amazing. It lasted a long time as we have a bunch of kids. But when she rode me cowgirl, I'd suckle her and she would cum when I latched on and sucked. When she orgasmed, both nipples wo…
Looking for fun outdoor places
in Fantasies ·
BBC: The advice to avoid getting busted is real. Public sex is a sex crime and can ruin your life. But...it's also fun. Safer places to Do It In Public: -Swinger resorts in the US. -Hotel takeovers for swingers. -House parties - we love th…
4 Year Anniversary Advice For Single Gentlemen
4 Year: Great advice. It seems you get the role of the great and gentlemanly single guy very well. We hope more guys read your posts as it is spot on. Truly great single men are in high demand in the lifestyle. If more guys follow your adv…
Couples Playing Solo
in Swinger Advice ·
Instead of saying "maturing" we would say "developing" or "changing." We joyfully encourage solo play for both of us, though it is not our preferred method. We're very secure emotionally with our marriage and don't want either of us to mis…
Submissive and dominate couples
in Fantasies ·
Yes, most definitely. We actively seek out more dominant men and women for her. She likes doms from outside the marriage very much.
Has anyone fallen in love
in Open Forum ·
Hhhhm....Very interesting question. TMI alert. We're generally very traditional and conservative in behavior, with the exception of swinging. But even before we married, we both always thought it was possible to love more than one person g…
Single male success tips
Miguel: We and many others have posted at length on this subject. You can find detailed advice on this sls forum. We want to encourage you. Great single guys are VERY MUCH IN DEMAND. Many guys are rude, unkempt, and do not show up. This is…
Watching wife
in Fantasies ·
Ok, we'll answer. We're not into cuckold at all, even if another gentleman is the willing and happy object of the cuckolding. We are not judging as we know so many of both sexes adore this scenario. But we do love sharing with other men. A…
I Love being a Hotwife Whore for my Husband
in 3-Some ·
HAVNFUNINGA...what a super cool story. So glad it works for you all, as it does for us.
Hotel Pick Up
in Fantasies ·
Sounds like an amazing time. Sio glad you all enjoyed a sensuous, exciting time together.
Messaging Etiquette
Mayhem...we've heard the same thing from dickhead guys at LS parties. 'Guess you are not getting on the swingset with us.'
Messaging Etiquette
I want to shift the debate a bit. The OP seems to be asking about using various communications early on in a "relationship." Whether you are in love with your lovers, or you meet once a year for a quickie, it's a relationship, of some sort…
single male and vanilla side of life
To change it up a bit, we've discussed if we would be in the lifestyle with another person, if something happened to the other spouse. Hubby - I would be mainly interested in dating and long-term relationships with women who are in the lif…
Double Pussy Penetration
in 3-Some ·
You guys are our heroes. Can't wait to find the guy for us.
Aging out
in Men Talk ·
We posted this in " Achieving Single Male Success" as well. Older men seem to fall into these bad habits detailed below. Older, Real Hallpass, or Divorced Guys Guidance: We feel compelled to write this due to several recent events. We hope…
Single Guy Guide to Success
Older, Real Hallpass, or Divorced Guys Guidance: We feel compelled to write this due to several recent events. We hope it helps you guys and maybe you couples or hotwives out there. As a guy. what should you say, or not say, to a lovely la…
Hot Date success rate
in Finding Playmates ·
Hot dates on travel seem to work better for us than those at home.
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
Funly: Yes, she was pissed and bewildered. The affection and ease between my wife and the other guy was very apparent. They had a quite a discussion when they went home later. He and my wife don't "fuck" they make love and there is a lot o…
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
Someonescoming: We have a story you may like, in response to your challenges keeping vanilla and spicy apart. Frau and I went to dinner with my best guy friend (who has been a long-lover of hers and MFM friend for a while) and his new and…
Aging out
in Men Talk ·
As usual RonKathy, among others, are correct. There are some things one cannot control as we age, like disease. But almost everyone can work on fitness and weight. Keeping weight down to the norm for one's height has gotten easier with med…
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
Calcan: We started a group. See "Hallpass Couples Unite." We just put up a mini survey for singles and couples to fill out. Here's our way of doing things: Original Posting: SLS profile name: fraunhubby68 Type: Couple - x Woman - Man - Mar…
Hallpass Couples and Single Guys
Hi all. We do have a group. We might eventually do a party...but that is not why we started it. It's more to link up with real couples who play and are ok with solo meetups.
Hallpass Couples and Single Guys
Peppa: The guys around you must be blind. You're lovely.
Older / single / limited experience equals Waste of Time?
Mayhem: We're talking about chatting in person, in a party or other social place. We've met a bunch of guys, recently, who are good looking, but cannot seem to carry hardly any conversation at all. We enjoy a guy who can both chat like an…
Older / single / limited experience equals Waste of Time?
WillNNJ: Good for you! You seem to have figured this out. We will add another 2 cents; which should now add up to about 34 cents in free-ish advice. Gentlemen: -Personality: Have a story. You need not be Erol Fynn or Indiana Jones. But tel…
Discuss Sharing Wife
in 3-Some ·
Katrina...true story for you. My best guy friend and his wife seduced us and brought us into full swap. We all had permission to play as we could due to both families having a bunch of kids needing to get to games, school, etc. My buddy an…
Discuss Sharing Wife
in 3-Some ·
Yes. We are fascinated by the couples who share and always love to hear how, why, when, and with who they got started. We find wife-sharers to be very interesting.
Pick my wife up in a bar
in Fantasies ·
This is not a common thing for us. But seeing a great guy flirt, chat up, and then realize my wife is open to getting together with him is one of life's great pleasures. Watching them feel each other up or seeing my wife rub an erection th…
Who likes to Kiss?
in 3-Some ·
Love, love, love kissing - both of us. You know an erotic partner you barely know will be good when she takes her time to nibble, suck, and sensuously enjoy kissing and making love to your mouth.
Boyfriend for cheating wife fantasy
in Fantasies ·
Sounds like you guys found a keeper.
Single Guy Guide to Success
Thanks Blacker...glad you like. Pass it on to other guys!
Couples Playing Solo
in Swinger Advice ·
We formerly wanted to play together all the time, with some memorable scheduled hallpass events in the past. Like many of you who revel in seeing the other partner have a good time, we still prefer to play all together. But lately we've op…
men watching their woman get fuck by another man
in 3-Some ·
Beachcouple: We feel much the same way. Sharing just adds so much to an already hot and loving relationship.
Kik
in First Contact ·
We get that sls is funky. It's part of its quirky charm, like us. But despite sls's 1990s features, sls has been more successful for us than any other method for meeting real people. From parties, to travel, to hot dates, to planned meets…
Kik
in First Contact ·
We occasionally use kik. But it is so difficult. Potential LS friends say they are texting but nothing shows up. We have to search on them to find their messages and it's not clear why kik won't display them. We barely use it now it's so s…
Dress code
in First Contact ·
Comfort is of the essence for lifestyle events. But if you intend to get naked as part of the play, you will become comfy at some point. We tend to dress up one notch or so, since we enjoy that. We've been to a lot of LS parties in the pos…
Your First Orgy
in 3-Some ·
Good: We love sex stories especially the true ones. Our orgy story is true and it was very hot as we kinda stumbled into our first one.
Your First Orgy
in 3-Some ·
There we were, knee-deep in martinis and rubber dicks, at a casino night swinger party with real dealers, having a really sweet and good time when we looked around. We were the only people at the blackjack table, in fact, the only people u…
Hung Males
in Women Talk ·
Mayhem: Yes, you are right about us. But we've also had truly outstanding single guy friendships. So, here it goes. We have met the odd "really big-dicked guy who is an asshole." These guys are physically beautiful but utterly unattractive…
Breast Enhancement After Weight Loss
in Women Talk ·
Great insights. Thanks all.
Hung Males
in Women Talk ·
A girthy 7 or 8 inches long...AND...attached to a genuine gentleman with a personality is most desired for us.
Sperm competition
in Fantasies ·
I knew I liked you Bigkahunacat. Rock on!
Need suggestions for an appropriate response
in First Contact ·
Molly: Priceless. Always enjoy your advice.
Encouraged my Wife to become a HotWife
in Men Talk ·
Lacy: I, hubby, absolutely enjoy my wife being a hotwife, visiting gentlemen solo, or playing in my presence. Like you, it has added a huge erotic and, dare we say, spiritual aspect to our strong marriage. For us, this adds some spice and…
One sentence replies
in First Contact ·
Hhhmmm Mayhem. You bring up some questions for all of us, especially those of us who are single guy friendly. We think single guys are hugely represented online. But single guys who actually swing, like swinging culture, and who are good a…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
BigKahunaCat: That is a cool story. We know it's true as we were introduced to the lifestyle by a very sexy couple with whom we attended church. They made parochial school drop off line very interesting as well.
Breast Enhancement After Weight Loss
in Women Talk ·
Hi all. Seeking advice and real world experiences. Recently lost a bit of weight and my breasts are still large but some of the fullness is gone. Is there a breast enhancement / augmentation procedure that does not involve a radical breast…
Does anyone NOT shave their pubes bald?
in Finding Playmates ·
The lovely wife really enjoys taking care of a man's cock and his balls. She truly loves it. She prefers shaved for bit in her mouth, and patch or close trimmed is ok too. I, hubby, am in love with my wife's vulva, clit, and lips. I want t…
Multiple Guys Fantasy
in Fantasies ·
A_Charmin_Rogue: Thanks, that's a good idea. We are considering all options. We are exploring many options. Thanks.
Multiple Guys Fantasy
in Fantasies ·
Mayehem: You have such good ideas. We did meet a very nice guy. And given no local room, hubby drove around while we played in the back seat. That was extremely HOT!
CFNM Party
in Fantasies ·
Let us know if you get this set up. Wife LOVES, LOVES, LOVES watching guys stroke for her. She'd attend.
Single Guy Success Stories
Lucky: You are a gentleman and a scholar. And correct, of course. Good job!
Single Guy Success Stories
Ladies and Couples: Tell us about your VERY BEST single guy experience! Why was it so good? What happened? Single Gentlemen: Tell us about your #1 top experience with a wife or couple! What did they do that made it great for you? What did…
Do Not Be This Guy
BeachGodess: It's heartening that you have had such good experiences. I'd bet a lot of your success has to do with your attitudes towards single dudes. We've had similar very good experiences with single men and it is our favorite, but not…
Age amnesia
in Open Forum ·
True story: Boat party, middle of major US river, on a large yacht. We boarded the boat and immediately a woman of advanced age, but cute and sweet grabbed me by the hand and asked if I was up for it. I recognized her from SLS in our area,…
Question for a guy single or couple
in Men Talk ·
Kinkster is right...best lube possible. It like nature provided the very best lube so much so that it might be one of the purposes of it.
DVP
in 3-Some ·
The Swingerratti have spoken. So be it!
Do Not Be This Guy
Unforgiven: Your post is so on point. This is why we have posted on the "single guy success" forum,. here and elsewhere, some dude lifestyle basics. I sound like an old fogey now, but I don't think we can fix what these guys' parents faile…
private parties
in 3-Some ·
Mygirl: It is totally appropriate to contact the organizer of a party or event in sls and ask to be invited. Most allow a simple RSVP via the "attend" link on the party page. If there are subsequent instructions or addresses, they'll send…
Multiple Guys Fantasy
in Fantasies ·
Mayhem: I know. We are seeking the slightly larger group of guys MFMMM for a session. This seems difficult to arrange right now. We'll get there.
Sperm competition
in Fantasies ·
Found the references...search out... -Fatherly - "Why Is The Penis Mushroom-Shaped?" or -Sagejournals - "Semen Displacement as a Sperm Competition Strategy in Humans" This is fascinating to us and very plausible based on our knowledge of h…
Multiple Guys Fantasy
in Fantasies ·
Mayhem: We like and enjoy the multiple guy "reality." I should have been clearer. It's probably our favorite form of play now.
Sperm competition
in Fantasies ·
Molly, all: We have read some research that states the shape of the human male penis glans (bell or mushroom shape, with a ridge around the head) was naturally selected to pull other men's semen out of a lady, then assist in injecting a su…
Multiple Guys Fantasy
in Fantasies ·
Yes, we want this.
Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex
in 3-Some ·
Goodvibes: It is Cupecoy, or one other beach whose name escapes me, on the Dutch side. We stayed at Orient Beach a few years ago but did not have sex at the beach. We did have all kinds of sex inside our mini resort which was nude all the…
Sperm competition
in Fantasies ·
We're into it and it seems to literally invigorate Frau having two creampies at the same time.
Guidelines for Us
in Swinger Advice ·
When we started, we had a lot of rules, definitely too many. As we learned more and grew more comfortable with what we both enjoy, we relaxed most of them. Our main rule, is that we both are safe while playing, meaning personal physical sa…
Strangest or most unusual place you've had sex
in 3-Some ·
In a cave on a nude beach in St. Martin while people walked by and played in the surf outside.
men watching their woman get fuck by another man
in 3-Some ·
JB38: We agree with you that having a connection with lovers makes the sexy time much better. We've had deep, caring friendships and flighty, one-and-done meetups. For us, longer term FWBs is the thing. But it is difficult to attain for a…
Atlantic Beach Shackleford Banks Boat Party Nude
in Open Forum ·
We hope to purchase a boat shortly. We'd love to tag along to this banks party. We recently moved to downtown New Bern. We seem to like the same things. Maybe we should share a bourbon at Baxters?
Popular single male clubs parties or groups
Hard: First of all, single guys are very much in demand in the lifestyle. We have been fortunate to have had many truly outstanding single guy experiences and some great long-term friendships. Many LS parties and get-togthers realize that…
Where does swinging and poly start to blur the lines?
in Polyamory ·
Lovers: You may want to join our hallpass group. We tried to "define" the many styles of playing, even though we are not hung up on labels at all. But labels do facilitate conversation. See group....HALLPASS COUPLES NATIONWIDE. We'd love t…
When sending a message to a lady or couple?
in Getting Started ·
AA: The very first step I would take is to read the profile carefully. A lady or a couple will often tell you what they are into. If the profile does not tell you, you have a much more difficult task. If their wants/desires match what you…
Erotic Massages for wives or single women
in Getting Started ·
We'd love it. Too bad you're not closer.
Single Guy Guide to Success
Slow: We enjoy checking out the fora, so we check it regularly. We posted this for two main reasons: 1). To help good guys who may not have all the skills to date couples or wives. Just to help. 2). To document our own very positive experi…
men watching their woman get fuck by another man
in 3-Some ·
BlackVulcan, all: I like being there to see her play. And I love joining in. We're not into cuckold anything, even if the other guy is a cuckold. I try not to interfere in her playing with another, so it does not spoil the mood. I will int…
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
Mayhem: We use groups to link up with parties, folks with similar interests, and even individuals. For us they've been pretty useful. But you are right. Most groups have very little activity on here. We're still leaning and happy to learn…
Hallpass Wives and Hubbys
in 3-Some ·
Mrs. Harley...this is why you are our role model.
Hallpass Wives and Hubbys
in 3-Some ·
Great news guys, gals, couples, and groups. There are plenty of incredible wives, and hubbys, out there who want to spend time with you. But you have to put something into the friendship as well. If you do, you'll make sexy friendships for…