Swinger Advice
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Dumped by friends as a bi-product of the COVID year ( we think . )
Was one couple team Biden and the other team Trump?
15replies1,426viewsAdvice
If you were that worried, why didn't you just have him go in the bathroom and clean up. I am guessing he just got his cock sucked.
22replies1,416viewsPlaces not to meet
I was debating putting this here or in the single male area because it was a single male that sent us this suggestion. We had talked enough online to where we were considering mee…
by RusticMagic7replies1,413viewsLifestyle friendly couples counseling
If you are having some difficulty and LS activities are a big part of that and don't want to be stared at oddly you may consider a sex therapist as an initial stop. Even if you ca…
by HollyBlue10replies1,411viewsAttacking people
I want to address something which I see alot in forum I cant understand why it always havevto be someone attacking somebody of a ad they post what they are interested of finding.…
9replies1,399viewsMFM gone bad
We tried swinging but it’s hard to meet a couple where the man and the woman are both turn ons to the other partners and Sasha seemed to have a jealous side. So after several year…
9replies1,389viewsFear of falling in love with someone else!
Having sex with someone is very intimate! Do you ever worry that your significant other or you yourself will inadvertently fall in love with your play partner? I would think that…
by Insatiable618replies1,388viewsJewelry - how much and what is appropriate
We have a question that may seem odd but it is a question we were discussing. At parties, clubs and now going to a convention what is appropriate jewelry when playing. He loves me…
by active2sum574replies1,382viewsNot a math problem /////but?
We are a couple that would enjoy playing probably 2x a month or so. Sometimes real vanilla, sometimes more wild. How many couples should we have in our quiver so that when we want…
by NCmtncpl605615replies1,369viewsHouse Party Hookup
So we attend some local clubs when we can, and have only just started meeting local couples for "dates" which we really like. At the club everyone seems to already be a part of a…
5replies1,363viewsHow would you rate the couples in your area?
Every geographic area has its strengths and weaknesses. The area I'm in has very slim pickings in regard to what we would look for. For instance, very few Latinos that we can conn…
by 6zcouple20replies1,360viewsWhat is the proper etiquette for odor?
I posted this question in another thread but thought it should be better placed here. "What is the proper etiquette for when you going to play with someone who's has a strong odor…
12replies1,352viewsCareful what you wish for
First off this post is all true and posted in a very lighthearted manner. The weekend was fun and I have ZERO regrets. Last weekend a new couple came over to meet and have some fu…
3replies1,351viewsWife to LS
We have been to a Hedo twice but how do guys get their wife’s involved in full LS? I think she wants to but ......
by kcdan12a7replies1,350viewsMeet and Greets
While I often use SLS and Fet to meet potential play partners, I prefer local Meet & Greets, as well as clubs, private parties etc. to meet people in person. I’m fortunate to live…
10replies1,341viewsHow should this be handeled
Well THAT's some confusing convoluted shit right there. Was your plan to use your girl as barter for the legal work? Was any payment arrangement made at all? Have you spoken to th…
7replies1,329viewsVegas LS Club Suggestions? NYE
We're headed out to Vegas for NYE. Anyone have suggestions on an upscale LS club to ring in the New Year? We're thinking we'll hit at least one or two others while we're out there…
13replies1,322viewsWhat do you call your lifestyle playmates?
What do you call your lifestyle playmates? Somehow calling her my girlfriend doesn't seem right because girlfriend implies a certain amount of emotional commitment, and even some…
10replies1,314viewsProfile pictures
I have a feeling you talking about single men and don't want to point them out.. however single men are on top of their photos and freshening their profile more then I would say c…
12replies1,261viewswhen people clearly have not read your profile
I don't understand how or why people agree to meet without reading the other couple's profile. How did they even decide to consider communicating about meeting in the first place,…
by Esperanza91122replies1,258viewsTried swinging seperate but I asked to scale back to couples only, wife upset.
Phew. Okay, I think you're being manipulated to hell and gone and I think the situation needs a few less "I love you" texts from you and a few more "yeah, your needs are your need…
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When does not ready for a MFF become abuse?
The answers to the post MFM vs MFF got me thinking. Do you believe there is ever a point where it is not that she is not comfortable, it is abuse. She is intentionally saying no f…
by Ymichael1425replies1,238viewsCouples Hypocricy and jealousy - We have hurdles to overcome.
We have shared a couple briefly at Caliente in Land O' Lakes, FL in 2012 (first time and disappointing because I was not attracted to the female and the guy was short with a small…
6replies1,234viewsBeing contacted by someone who is clearly out of your league
I viewed a couple profile. According to the profile I was too old, not educated enough, not vaccinated enough ,not fit enough and not experienced enough. So I didn't contact. They…
by Ymichael147replies1,228viewsHot Dates
Hot Dates. Hmmm. Lately, it seems as if this platform has turned into more of a voyeur site- more alleged couples profiles that are really just males. But, when it comes to the Ho…
by Ocbj9replies1,227viewsSingle male lack of chivalry
That is why my wife loves married men. They threat her as a goddess and are always so grateful that a woman is nice to them and just wants to borrow their body for sex and nothing…
by ncalcouple8replies1,227viewsRespecting boundaries
HOLY FUCKING SHIT people. If you cannot even respect the very simple boundaries stated clearly up front in someone's profile, how the hell is anybody supposed to trust that you wi…
by Esperanza91111replies1,215views1st time full swap
To be clear, you have a couple coming over to swim and are asking if it’s ok for you and your wife to play separately? This is a question you and your wife need to talk about and…
2replies1,205viewsEncounters with a Safe Word
I was wondering if others utilize "Safe Words" when in negotiated situations that cross in to multiple lifestyle arenas.
by PeaceMaker12replies1,204viewsAny advise for successfully meeting like minded couples on a vanilla cruise?
We love to cruise and mostly use regular cruise lines because of the availability and frequency of trips that interest us. We would love to meet other lifestyle couples on these t…
by redcplfun11replies1,203viewsNeed tips with getting/keeping an erection
Original Starting post for this thread: Wife and I have been in the LS for over a year now. We have been having lots of fun but I do have problems getting and keeping and erection…
9replies1,196viewsHow was the first time you watched your partner with someone else?
We all have Fantasies
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Joining SLS groups
I joined just about every group in my state looking to attend house parties. After at least one year, none of them have held a house party. All of the events show zero. They all a…
by Ymichael1415replies1,177viewsCouples Playing Solo
We have been active in the LS for 15 years and are an older couple The last two years we have been playing solo more often. Not at parties or events so much, but seeing couples or…
by Niel4U9replies1,175viewsLocation matters
We have some play time scheduled for tonight with a few couples and a bunch of single guys. I went on to Hot Dates to see if any local folks were looking for something to do; we w…
by hotluvrs15replies1,170viewsHow often do you change your profile?
I know this app has been around for a long time and you can see on a profile that people list an event that happened a long time ago or they mention moving but you never know when…
by JTheartsong10replies1,167viewsEmail frustration
New phenomenom seem to be occurring, at least for us. We have sent 3 emails over the past couple weeks to different people. All 3 show unread unreplied. Are we just finding rude p…
by Wvillecpl11replies1,145viewsWe've Moved. How do we get set up here??
Really struggling to meet folks in our new home area. Anyone have any ideas??
11replies1,143viewsMale half wants to join in on a gangbang
What is the best way to find or join in on a gangbang? We aren’t sure of all the proper etiquette or if there even is any.
by Twodivine25replies1,138viewsAwkward
OP: You folks didn't like the replies in the Men Talk forum so you created an identical one here? ~Allen
by 888eatme8885replies1,137viewsReally wired experience
Been in lifestyle for 20 years as both a couple and single. Connected her in chat and exchanged emails with lady over about month due to isolation. She mentions she was into BDSM…
by newmanfor174replies1,126viewsCouples Playing Solo
We have been active in the LS for 15 years and are an older couple The last two years we have been playing solo more often. Not at parties or events so much, but seeing couples or…
by Niel4U7replies1,122viewsSingle guys - what she and I expect
Hey, I tried typing out a well thought out and humble post but SLS wouldn't let me post because of "special" characters so I'm gonna KISS. Can't speak for all the other couples he…
by JeffX_RebX10replies1,118viewsCommunication/Emails
Hello all, we are not new to the lifestyle. Curious to knw if anyone has had trouble w/ sending/receiving emails? We don’t like the feature that a person/couple can read an email…
by KingDMelonE9replies1,118viewsbecause we new or what
Your profile pictures seriously need work along with the wording as well. Better Profiles could do you folks a magnitude of help. Good luck! ~Allen
by 888eatme8885replies1,100viewsLadies, I need your advice
Hey all, Well I need the ladies advice. My wife and I have played together at a few clubs but just let others watch as I totally respect her boundaries. Well we were talking about…
by pusher68119replies1,099views
