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ItsMrFlex
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Messaging Etiquette
Lol “Never tell me the odds!”
Messaging Etiquette
100% thank the couple or single lady for replying. It’s courteous as well as respectful.
Do Not Be This Guy
I’ll never understand why guys would approach someone they never met before in that kind of manner. Speaking to the guys reading this, would you ever approach a woman in a vanilla setting asking her to “cum deep in her pussy”? If your answ…
How do most couples feel about a fwb situation with single males?
I’ve been fortunate enough to have three couples that I have long term fwb relationships. One of which moved away but keep in regular contact, and two currently going for past several years. Hard enough to meet couples so why not have a lo…
Older / single / limited experience equals Waste of Time?
Find the clubs and parties in your area that allow single guys. Be yourself and socialize. There is a couple out there for everyone.
Fake profiles
You are right about advertising their social media pages and Only Fans. But I definitely see these sites padding their membership numbers, happens on the vanilla dating sites also. I remember see a documentary exposing this practice
Fake profiles
I can never understand the fascination of having fake profiles. People have nothing better to do with themselves. Plenty of escorts, strip joints, and street walkers for the sexually frustrated
Do Not Be This Guy
My usual response to a rejection message is thanks for the prompt response, should your preference change and you think I’m a good fit feel free to reach out anytime. I feel it’s kind, polite and open ended without closing any lines of com…
Fake profiles
Remember dial up like it was yesterday with that annoying connection sounds. I still have and use my aol email address
Older / single / limited experience equals Waste of Time?
You have an excellent chance of meeting couples and singles. Don’t sell yourself short or think you can’t. There is someone for everyone in this lifestyle. Be patient, put yourself out there most of all be yourself. It’s tough to meet coup…
Fake profiles
What are your common “red flags” to spot fakers. Mine is grainy low quality pics, one sentence profiles, and no certs even after being a member since 2012.
Fake profiles
I would have to agree with you Mayhem that fake profiles are relatively easy to spot. I don’t understand also why they do it except to steal pics and personal info. These people are getting good with their profiles they are adding certs an…
Fake profiles
What is with all the fake profiles on SLS???
Adding supplements???
As far as BCAA’s I’ve heard of mixed results, many of which claim no benefit. My experience with BCAA’s has been and is currently intraworkout. I believe in the science that when you are lifting weights you breakdown muscle fiber so logica…
Adding supplements???
I’ve used creatine for over 20 years off and on and my results have been increased strength, muscle endurance as well as increased fullness of the muscle. There are many pre-workouts containing creatine about 3-5 grams per scoop, which has…
Wingman help
Hollyblue and that what I did that evening was stay glued to their side despite offers from other couples to join them pre-party. I would not have been right to leave the couple I was with, plus they were kind enough to pay the door fee an…
Wingman help
Hi everyone I’m accompanying a couple to a party in a few weeks as their wingman. Never done this before and I’m seeking advice on proper wingman etiquette. Any advice is greatly appreciated!
Free members and friend requests???
I’ve been getting friend requests lately from free members who haven’t even viewed my profile. Some requests come in two or three requests at a time from the same “person”. Either this is a hack, catfish, or test profiles from webmaster. T…
What's your WOD (workout of the day)
Very impressive to see everyone with such high volume workouts. Tis the season to get sliced and diced!
Profile update and rewrite
Thank you for the critique Probert’s wife! And yes you are correct I did go through this before. I rewrote my profile to try and bring across my personality a little bit more. Yes to a fault I do add more detail that what’s necessary, old…
Profile update and rewrite
If someone can be so kind as to review and critique my profile. Your honesty and candor would be very much appreciated.
Real or fake profile
I searched for a specific couple using the search tab and entered the name exactly. It brought me to my profile. Is this a hack or fake name? Any help is greatly appreciated
Attending first hotel party
The travel veteran- 80% of the groups here in NJ that have hotel takeover parties allow single males.
How much is too much
Over educated couple- you are 100% correct when you said not to get fixated on one couple. Learned to move on and have had some success.
How much is too much
SS12 I’m not sure, but one way to tell is to look at The Who viewed me section of the site and you will see profiles move to the front. That’s usually the way to tell if someone viewed you more than once. However don’t take my word on it.
Attending first hotel party
I’ll be attending my first hotel floor takeover party next weekend. Any advice for a first timer, and should I look to book a room on the party floor or will booking a room somewhere in the hotel suffice? Any help is much appreciated :)
What's your WOD (workout of the day)
Leg Day bring the pain Seated leg curl machine 1 feeder set ( lightweight) 3 working sets Straight leg deadlifts 1 feeder set, 3 working sets Laying leg curl machine 1 feeder set, 3 working sets Squats 2 feeder sets, 3 working sets Hack Sq…
Best way to cut weight?
Getting cut up in less than 6 weeks is tough to do, you need to be realistic about your goals. It will probably be easier to look defined rather than shredded in this amount of time. Remember diet and exercise and looking fit is 80/20. 80%…
How much is too much
Thank you all for your helpful responses!! It’s is much appreciated! Happy Swinging!!
Best way to cut weight?
Try the intermittent fasting diet. You eat for 8 hours and fast for 16 hours liquids only during the fasting stage.
How much is too much
Normally if I don’t receive a response I send one follow up message. At times I have sent two depending if I see the person or persons repeatedly check out my profile in the “who viewed me section”. Most of my messages are polite and respe…
How much is too much
If you don’t get a reply from a single or couple after your initial message, how many times should you follow up before moving on?
What happen to Who Viewed Me .?
Please fix The Who viewed me feature. One of the best features on SLS. Definitely keeps me coming back and logging into the site.
Fake profiles
Allow me to elaborate, fake profiles in reference to “fishing”. People who they aren’t who they claim to be. Usually those who are looking to steal someone’s identity, pictures, personal info, ext. Unfortunately I was the victim of a fishi…
Fake profiles
To all swinger vets here on SLS, how does one tell if the profile you are viewing is a fake. I see many posters on forums speak about fake profiles I was wondering how you spot one.
New guy frustrated with no responses, please help me
Being somewhat new to the lifestyle I’m quickly learning that it’s not only about the sex, but about the connection with the couple. Being about one month back in the lifestyle, perhaps I’ve been overzealous and now I have been taking grea…
Couple invites you to join their group on SLS
Thanks for the replies, I have been getting quite a few group invites lately. Glad that I’ve been getting some positive responses. Thanks for the advice as always. PAgent, the profile ideas are working and paying dividends. TY!
Couple invites you to join their group on SLS
Quick question for you all, if a couple invites you to join their SLS group after viewing your profile and or meeting at a party, do they view you as a potential playmate for their other half?
Need help with profile please
Update: i have taken all your advice and rolled them all into what I think is a pretty decent profile. I understand profiles are always a work in progress. Still working on the pics however. Hopefully this results in some positive response…
Need help with profile please
My join date was back in 2017 as I was curious about the lifestyle and the people on here, I had hoped that I could convince my wife at the time to give the lifestyle a try but didn’t want anything to do with it. So I gave up on the lifest…
Need help with profile please
Thanks good golly miss molly, your critique was excellent and on point. I’m working on it as we speak. Thank you everyone again for the assistance
Need help with profile please
Thanks everyone for the advice, I’ll keep you all posted
Need help with profile please
Thank you kindly for the advice, yes my situation does pose challenges as I thought they would have. I think by me being honest and upfront counts for something. Unfortunately I’m probably in the minority with this school of thought. I’m l…
Need help with profile please
Hi everyone semi/new guy here, I’ve been frustrated with the lack of responses to emails and I was advised by a frequent poster on the board to have you guys check my profile. Please be blunt and honest as I want to be successful as most o…
New guy frustrated with no responses, please help me
Thanks sorillo for the advice, you are right about the profile pics, I haven’t been too happy with them. Hence the reason why I keep changing them. They can definitely be more clearer for sure
New guy frustrated with no responses, please help me
Hi everyone I just recently got back into the lifestyle, and I’ve been having trouble connecting or even getting responses from couples or single women. I’ve sent out so many emails and have not gotten any responses. Most go unread or no r…