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Choosing which event to attend??
There are two different New Years events that we are interested in attending this year and having trouble determining which to attend. One is a hotel takeover 3 day event hosted b…
4replies452viewsTransition from hotwife to full on cuckold
The wife and I on occasion like to add an extra guy to the mix....both of us enjoy the hotwife scenerio...however I...the husband...would like to make that transition to a cuckold…
4replies846viewsWife is not multi orgasmic
"Is there a way to get her more in to keeping it going or am I being selfish for MSOG?" yes you are being selfish, not taking her feelings into account
by CopNkitten8replies702viewsUsing kik is a bad idea
I have experience majority of sls users who wants to use kik, they turn out to be fake or not serious? I personally use google voice to hide my real phone number till I get to kno…
122replies9,763viewsWhat do you guys think of the guys that contact you saying there in town ?
We have got a lot of messages recently with guys saying I am town for such in such Tuesday. And would love to hook up, it seams a lot of guys think this is a hook up site . We our…
61replies2,452viewsQuestion for single guys
Would you be offended if a couple you were planning to meet messaged some of your certs asking about you? We had a guy block us for it. Should we have handled it differently? Coup…
by njopencpl32replies2,674viewsDo you voice verify?
When you meet a new couple or single off SLS do you voice verify before meeting?
32replies2,292viewsWomen run the lifestyle - but men drive it (observation)
We've been in the lifestyle for some years, and from time to time it seems to dawn (and re-dawn) on me that the old phrase of "women run the lifestyle" needs to be updated to "wom…
by Interlude22224replies1,725viewsOuted in public
I apologize now if this is already been asked. I skimmed through the topics before I started this post to make sure. Mrs and I met new a new couple last night. We went out to dinn…
by NcLookn6replies990viewsHotwife vetting date
Curious as to other people's experiences on who pays when hotwife meets a gentleman to "vet" him for possible mfm or mf. This is for 1st date to see if there is mutual interest. N…
by kinksterhere8replies974viewsHow to meet quality people other than meet-and-greets and parties in loud crowded clubs?
My bf and I just got back from yet another meet-and-greet in a loud, crowded club with no info from the host as to where the SLS group was meeting. Many people wanted around tryin…
16replies1,095viewsDrama
We’ve decided to look for drama. Seems like so many need to say “we want no drama” or we “are drama free” in their profile. It feels like the drama demographic is being totally un…
by WantingMen4117replies1,069viewsSingle guys - what she and I expect
Hey, I tried typing out a well thought out and humble post but SLS wouldn't let me post because of "special" characters so I'm gonna KISS. Can't speak for all the other couples he…
by JeffX_RebX10replies1,118viewsHow come…
I seem to be having single guys looking at my profile? I’m not judgmental; but I’m also not gay. I have had some top bi play with couples who are good friends; but my profile does…
by newmanfor178replies763viewsSingle guys - what she and I expect
Hey, I tried typing out a well thought out and humble post but SLS wouldn't let me post because of "special" characters so I'm gonna KISS. Can't speak for all the other couples he…
by JeffX_RebX0replies358viewsBest iPhone App For Storing Photos
So... isn't it fun to swap sexy photos with new people you're meeting ? However I've still got kids in the house and would never want one of them to find those photos on my phone'…
by cbsreturn3replies648viewsDumped by friends as a bi-product of the COVID year ( we think . )
Was one couple team Biden and the other team Trump?
15replies1,426viewsWife to LS
We have been to a Hedo twice but how do guys get their wife’s involved in full LS? I think she wants to but ......
by kcdan12a7replies1,350viewsRefusal to send pictures
A couple got in contact with me about possibly meeting, but they’re refusing to send any kind of pictures prior meeting., they don’t have any pictures here and they refuse to send…
7replies575viewsBLOCKING PEOPLE
I periodically block people. There are those that never respond, those that keep viewing us looking for new photos, many of them state they are looking for a female but advertise…
by MNJFLA17replies1,912viewsIs there a swingers/cuckold dating site?
Not exactly sure what you are driving at, but it sounds like you may be asking about staying married to your wife while cheating on her with swingers??? Swingers or LS folks have…
by HollyBlue0replies730viewsMale half wants to join in on a gangbang
What is the best way to find or join in on a gangbang? We aren’t sure of all the proper etiquette or if there even is any.
by Twodivine25replies1,138viewsBlack rings
p Do swinger couples wear black rings on their right hands /p p when they are out to signify they are in the lifestyle /p p and open to meeting others ? If so you you wear them ou…
by Sexyfuncpl36116replies22,577viewsis there a phrase that LS people say to find out if another couple is LS?
Not asking for a friend! We are a friendly couple and always start conversations with other couples while sitting in bars. Most times we hit it off, the night ends, and we just pa…
by GandK102246replies5,219viewsBest swinger club- venue in Las Vegas for a single gentleman
Thank you for looking and hopefully leaving some POSITIVE feedback/ information. What is the best swing- adult club in Las Vegas for a single gentleman on the weekends? Any and al…
by Dr2Dr77772replies554viewsBeing outed by someone you know.
With the current job and family issues, we try to keep this part of our life private. How do you handle being outed by someone from the website. My former boss also uses this webs…
17replies2,999viewslive stream or video and photo
Good morning, my wife had her first hotwife experience about a week ago.It was a blast and we both love it. She told me even though I was not physically present, my name was menti…
by mamipapi792replies558viewsSwinger vs Lifestyle?
Hello. We are new with 4 months of experience in the LS. Actually, experience isn't exactly accurate. We're more at the "still grinning & shrugging shoulder's" stage if you recall…
by nakedducks7replies871views- 1replies462views
Outdoor Sex Location?
Putting this here because we are asking for advice. First we need to say we understand the legalities and risks involved here so please spare us the lecture. We are not talking se…
by RusticMagic22replies2,947viewsTo say, or not to say?
I'm looking for a bit of etiquette advice, realizing that many people may be shy about mixing their vanilla and lifestyle worlds. I've noticed a couple on SLS, whose pics, even th…
by bobbyjoelong10replies1,598viewsMixing LS friends and family members
Your request was reasonable , honest and clear cut. As to the couple bad mouthing you. We have found that those who speak ill of others are to be avoided. They are for the most pa…
by lcmim14replies1,546viewsThe right time
Welcome and lets just say if you dont give "us" both the respect we want and will do so in return to you.. you are not going to screw her.. she is her own woman.. makes all decisi…
by RonKathy2replies583viewsWhen do you consider yourself as Bi?
I wouldn't have thought this to be that confusing of a question, but I've seen may cases where a person will list themselves as straight and then post that they enjoy a Bi activit…
by mayhem895replies6,041viewsJealousy
Hi, my partner and I are new to this site. My partner has no problem, and encourages me to be with other men. Hence, my question. Why, when he is going to be with another woman je…
10replies1,518viewsBias against single guys
We keep reading profiles that want to meet couples and singles. They lay out very clear requirements for both. - Single females: As long as she is breathing, she is in. - Couples…
by moekathy218replies7,561viewsPerformance issues and otc pills
So my issue is slightly different than most. We have only played with two couples, one couple was done in one night (vacation) the other was three times in two days at a hotel tak…
by newnccpl4fun21replies2,976viewsWhat to expect at Parties, Clubs, and Events
I have never been to a swinger party, club or event before. What am I to expect if I am ever invited to one? I do not want make a mistake and cause a misunderstanding.
by Newstuff2427replies1,693viewsCouples rules
Newbie here.... just wondering what are some of the couples rules you guys have or run in to. Are they hard rules or do you let them slide as you get more comfortable with the oth…
113replies9,419viewsHall Pass Love/Hate Venting
Not sure if this is the correct subforum for this (perhaps it should be posted in the "Getting Started" forum for maximum impact), but here it goes... #beginvent We both yearn for…
by calcanfun250replies3,244viewsWhat does active in the lifestyle mean to you?
This is an off-shoot from another thread, but I'm curious to hear what frequency of play people think qualifies as being active in the LS. I made an assumption that the middle-of-…
by mayhem813replies1,023viewsRampant Lying about Age
Is it us, or is there some serious misrepresentation of ages on some profiles? Either that or some people have just not aged well. This goes hand in hand with outdated photos. I u…
by 6zcouple58replies3,938viewsToo Much Honesty
We recently received an IM from a single guy, for which our first reaction was that there might be a good potential match. His third one-sentence (each) message was the inevitable…
5replies901viewsConfidence
We have be in the lifestyle for years. Just recently we starting attending a local swingers club and really like it. The atmosphere is good and the people are great, but we still…
5replies808viewshotwife experience with a male in a committed relationship
Good morning friends, we are asking for an opinion. We have been in the the lifestyle now for 5 years now. We have done almost everything in the lifestyle and now because I am 400…
by mamipapi799replies1,020viewsMarried Man Cheating more appealing than Married Man in Open Relationship
Nope and I've been playing with married men playing separately since 2002. Who needs the hassle of being some cheater's side piece when someone open and aboveboard is available?
22replies3,212viewsWorst opening lines through messenger
Cmon I know you've all seen them "I'm in town tonight want to hook up with a big cock?".... And why is it always the single males here that think they can throw out a one-liner th…
3replies786viewsRed flags
We have been perusing the forums and I see red flags mentioned. We are new and curious about what to look out for.
by Majorchubby41replies5,946viewsExcuses to give “pants on” friends?
We live in a very small community where everybody knows everybody. We have a few very close friends that are definitely not in the lifestyle and they have a very tight pulse on wh…
by Ballgamers10replies1,457viewsMy Gal Slept with a guy
So this is your first post.. welcome but sorry if you have not worked out these issues prior to swinging and coming on SLS do so.. take a step back and talk about all issues. Only…
by RonKathy10replies1,928views
