Wife to LS

Lots of communication and don’t push her if she’s not ready. If she’s open to discussing it start out by making it about her, maybe an extra guy or whatever she might want

KC exactly what some have said.. communicate and make it about what her fantasies are and make them happen first.. Make it all about her maybe 2 guys at first and she may be hooked!

Always tell her no one can replace what you two have built the trials and tribulations of ones marriage and that it is just sex not love sort of like playing a sexy game with friends.. and yes some will be better than you or her.. its fun !

We did and doing same well over 25 years later.. select, classy friends with benefits!

I didn't kayak and was willing to give that a try when Hubby (then my BF) asked. There were no other people involved however.

The point is you need to present it in a good light, tell her the positives, and some possible negatives so she can make an informed decision.

I understand people's "don't 'get here to do it". But couples should share some interests, usually one coming up with a new activity, and suggesting the other person give it a shot. There is DEFINITELY a difference between swapping partners and getting in a small boat, so sharing this interest is something you both need to agree on. If one of you doesn't like fishing, no big deal. If one of you doesn't want to swap, VERY big deal.

But you sure can present your idea in a way that she's likely to agree to. Or not.

It's called communication. That includes truly hearing her when she says she's not interested. You don't "get her" to do anything. You speak with her openly about your desires and ask for her feelings on the matter. And then you accept what she says.

RE, KCDan, your wife is such a doll, I bet she bet she was a super hot chick in her 20's. Not sure I would share her, BUT, I wonder if one wild and crazy way way is to blindfold her and have the husband of the other couple fuck her while you and the wife of the hubby watch, kinda reduce the personal effect of having sex with someone else..Yes it would have been my fantasy...Mary Jo

Speaking with each other openly about it is usually a good place to start.

What did she say when you asked her about it?

We have been to a Hedo twice but how do guys get their wife’s involved in full LS? I think she wants to but ......