Halloween Costumes??
in Open Forum ·
Anybody have their costumes ready for this year? Good Ideas? I'm still undecided
bobbyjoelong
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Weight and age truth ???
in Finding Playmates ·
I have had people "bait & switch" me, and I would much rather that they had been honest up front. I can decide whether or not I'm interested in greater age and/or weight, and maybe I would be, but meeting up and seeing that someone has bee…
A Sure Thing For Single Men To Get Laid
I almost always wind up choosing vanilla dates over SLS dates - vanilla are generally more reliable, and that's not a knock on SLS folks - I know people have real lives, kids, work schedules. Maybe it's a statistical numbers thing - easier…
Hot dates
I've posted hot dates a few times as a single guy. I usually get replies - I've had it work out before, but often they come too late though. I guess a lot of people use hot dates as a last resort?
People who open their private galleries but never write
in Swinger Advice ·
If someone replies to my opened galleries, then that's great - I always respond, even if to say that I don't think it's a good match. What's more confusing to me is the people who actually DO write, but then refuse to unlock or send pictur…
Question for single guys
in Swinger Advice ·
I wouldn't mind this at all. I hope that if someone was nice enough to give me a cert, that they'd also have positive things to say about me if asked. There's something weird going on if someone got upset about this, I think.
People who open their private galleries but never write
in Swinger Advice ·
I'm guilty of this crime - for me, I use it similarly to a wink or a means to show that I'm interested. I read so many profiles that say that they're flooded with mail from single guys, and I guess i figure why add to the problem? A lot of…
How come…
in Swinger Advice ·
I often wind up on other single guy profiles, just because I'm reading their certs from a couple that I'm interested in. I assume that's how many of my viewers arrive at my profile too.
Other sites?
in Getting Started ·
oh, sorry - didn't realize
Other sites?
in Getting Started ·
I'm a lifetime (now life of website) member here, and have had some success in meeting some great people through SLS. I'm curious though about experiences with other sites that anyone may have had. I've tried some, and found that they're e…
To say, or not to say?
in Swinger Advice ·
Not much to update - I sent a note to the couple and unlocked my pics, so they would know who I was, but I didn't say that I'd recognized them. No reply, so that was that.
To say, or not to say?
in Swinger Advice ·
@New_and_Naughty thanks for the feedback. I haven't ever communicated any attraction/interest in the vanilla world, and on SLS, they don't explicitly say whether they prefer to play fun & done or ongoing FWB, though based on their mention…
To say, or not to say?
in Swinger Advice ·
Thanks RonKathy - that was my instinct, but then I started to wonder if I should just be direct. So, I'll hope for the best, and if I get radio silence in response, I'll just keep my lips zipped.
To say, or not to say?
in Swinger Advice ·
I'm looking for a bit of etiquette advice, realizing that many people may be shy about mixing their vanilla and lifestyle worlds. I've noticed a couple on SLS, whose pics, even though the faces are blocked, I recognize from vanilla life. I…
Please review my profile
in Better Profiles ·
Now I've got an ellipse problem, but have hopefully remedied my ellipsis one.
Please review my profile
in Better Profiles ·
Thanks to both of you for the excellent feedback - I do have an ellipse problem... :) As for the question of how to express interest and/or make an approach to others - I agree, it's painful at times to take the passive "view profile and o…
Please review my profile
in Better Profiles ·
Hi, Hoping I can improve my profile based on feedback from the forum. Would you please review and let me know what I could do better? Thanks