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Lifestyle Cruise - Yes or No?
As far as walking around naked on a cruise ship is not our thing either.We both are in good shape but we are there to meet people and have fun in our cabin .If it’s just a single…
by hump2replies923viewsWhat does Friendship mean in the lifestyle?
We've been online for quite some time now but one of the common phrases we see in profiles is "Friends IN & OUT of the Bedroom". Our interpretation of this is, sometimes something…
by twonluv6960replies7,265viewsHow can people tell if they have been blocked?
If a message string disappears from the list, does that mean that one has been blocked?
by Wifelooks1replies574viewsResponding to a message
Contacted two couples that had profiles on here. They responded. I replied to their response and never heard from them again. Now I'm just wondering if I did something wrong. Mayb…
by Ymichael142replies416viewsLooking for recomendation swingers club in South Florida
Looking for a good one to meet a lot of single guys.
by partie20replies339viewsVanilla friend sent 2 pineapples from Hawaii
We are very discreet about LS and mostly play on our travels abroad. We have a vanilla friend in LA who recently separated from from her husband. She was visiting NY and we arrang…
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Swinger signs
My sister in law Where's a pineapple t- shirt and a toe ring...not sure if she is open to swinging but sure shows signs....what do you think??
by J5918249replies1,880views- 1replies578views
Shaving, or not
I always see these profiles that say "shaved baby smooth and expect the same". For me, that "might" last one day. The next day it's prickly and, if I shave again the next day I us…
by mayhem8124replies7,630viewsWingman help
Hi everyone I’m accompanying a couple to a party in a few weeks as their wingman. Never done this before and I’m seeking advice on proper wingman etiquette. Any advice is greatly…
by ItsMrFlex6replies806views- 2replies555views
How and how not to flirt
It dawns on me from a prior post that some guys may have no idea how to flirt. Others might be doing it without even realizing it. For example, I smile a lot, and have been told b…
by mayhem816replies1,921viewsSwinging with drugged couple
Ok we just had encounter with a couple hanging at bar she did not drink he had one. Go back to room everybody was doing good. All the sudden they wanted the lights almost complete…
43replies2,107viewsAnyone prefer to hunt couple in the vanilla world?
We love the seduction game. We fantasize about really seducing others while going out in the vanilla world. Has anyone had good luck with this? I'd love to hear any stories.
by 6zcouple25replies2,770viewsOuted
Grrr… I got a call from my wife yesterday saying that a friend of hers at work approached her and told her there is a rumor going around that we are swingers. We have no idea wher…
by hotluvrs40replies3,304viewsHow long before you brought up LS?
We’ve been together for a decade and it took us about 2 years into it before it was brought up. After much fantasy chat during love making did we get serious about our LS fantasie…
by Nickindela18replies1,704viewsFascinating double standards
Lying is a very unattractive quality. Some of y'all readily acknowledge the problems with outdated photos, ages, weight... and yet those same people misrepresent their sexual orie…
by Esperanza9111replies573viewsStood up/travel
Some people amaze me when you made plans with a person who you put all your time with and they didn't do the same what you both agreed to. Specially if you travel to them and they…
2replies477viewsSoft swap?
What is considered Soft Swap? We are new and wondering. What Exactly is soft swap.? Be precise if possible
6replies696viewsNew to life style
We are a couple new to this We find this exciting but one of us feels like one of us is rushing into it. And doesn’t feel comfortable. One of us would like to take it slower. I kn…
6replies568viewsMFM gone bad
We tried swinging but it’s hard to meet a couple where the man and the woman are both turn ons to the other partners and Sasha seemed to have a jealous side. So after several year…
9replies1,389viewsZentai or similar encounters
I was curious about how many folks have or had participated in ZENTAI type events. If so please share your sensations and emotional state.
by PeaceMaker0replies365viewsMFM gone bad
We tried swinging but it’s hard to meet a couple where the man and the woman are both turn ons to the other partners and Sasha seemed to have a jealous side. So after several year…
6replies814viewsWhy People So Mean To People Who They Not Attractive To ?
Everyone have a status and of type of people they are attractive to and it's nothing wrong with that, but, why you got to treat and punish the person who your not attractive to ?…
6replies673viewsIntellectual Turn-Ons
Okay SLS peeps; help me out here. We can’t be the only ones who are turned on and stimulated by intellectual conversation? I have narrowed down the “search” features and read prof…
3replies620viewsAny advise for successfully meeting like minded couples on a vanilla cruise?
We love to cruise and mostly use regular cruise lines because of the availability and frequency of trips that interest us. We would love to meet other lifestyle couples on these t…
by redcplfun11replies1,203views- 54replies4,111views
I know that I recognized you from sls DUFFY
Just laughing out loud because I was introduced to someone at a party, and her eyes got really wide when I said hello and asked if we had met before. She awkwardly, quickly blurte…
by Esperanza9113replies592viewsWeight
One simply cannot answer why some people are attractive to others. As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". Some people are attracted to the "HWP" person. Othe…
by MandC50814replies2,001viewsSo many Ass pics???
I love beautiful ass pics. So many women have great asses. However, there are so many profiles that simply show the ladies ass. Ass after ass after ass. Why so many ass pics? Why…
by fishincouple10replies1,065viewsWishing to be the object of passion and the giver of pleasure
I decided to share my story in hopes of some advice, understanding, compassion, and possibly affection. (A guy can hope !) I met my wife in College 38 years ago (Married 33 years)…
by friends2nc3replies421viewsMessaging
I know no one is entitled to a response, but when did common courtesy disappear from society ?? Is it common place not to respond or too much to ask, even if it's a "no thank you"…
by NcLookn5replies587viewsSwingers?
So funny enough, even though I thought I was the knowledgeable one when it came to swinging and hot wifing, my wife was the one that told me that a pineapple can be a symbol for s…
by 904racer2replies636viewsBest Practices for Consensual Non-Monogamy
NCSF materials are provided for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Best Practices for Consensual Non-Monogamy Consensual Non-monogamy (CNM) is the pra…
by PeaceMaker1replies538viewsCocoa Beach
My wife and I are going to Cocoa Beach for a couple days next weekend. Can anyone suggest some lifestyle friendly bars or clubs there? Or just a good place we may find someone to…
by 904racer0replies354viewsAge and Weight honesty
Do people actually tell their true weight and age ? If not how much would you " shave off ?" I have looked at hundreds of profiles and photos. I know for a fact that many people a…
by MNJFLA6replies700viewsRespecting boundaries
HOLY FUCKING SHIT people. If you cannot even respect the very simple boundaries stated clearly up front in someone's profile, how the hell is anybody supposed to trust that you wi…
by Esperanza91111replies1,215viewsHow long did you date your significant other before you got physically intimate?
Call this a curiosity poll. Because I cannot understand why, in a community that's about sex, so many profiles read like people are afraid of sex. So, I want to know... how long d…
by Esperanza91123replies1,820viewsRed flag Couples
We first starting talking to this couple here on SLS, We meet them at our camp site at an AANR clothing optional resort in California. We are not sure she knew what was going on.…
11replies2,662viewslooking for advice
HI, My wife and I have been together for roughly 20 years, happily married for 14 years with 2 children. We talk about everything and I believe have a very good relationship. Give…
15replies1,612viewsSwinging while pregnant?
Would you? What about soft swap only? Would you swing with a couple that was expecting? Would how far along she was make a difference? Also, why or why not?
by F_and_M15replies3,198viewsFoot Hygiene
Why do women have the tendency to cut their toenails so freakin short. Toe nail length should be the length of your toe. Cutting them shorter then that makes the look ugly as well…
by bagman5410replies839viewsViagra
Why didn't I know viagra improves healing for bone fractures! Did anyone else on her know it and keep it a secret! I broke my arm two weeks ago and I could have been healing quick…
by ncfunfriends4replies978viewsWife gets extremely nervous
So my wife gets extremely nervous whenever we are in a lifestyle situation. She drinks to calm her nerves. I want her to enjoy herself without the alcohol. Ladies any suggestions…
18replies2,052viewsDiscreet swingers sybbols
Over the years there were all sorts of things that were supposed to be a discreet way of communicating the "we are in the lifestyle" Its been ankle bracelets on women, black rings…
by putnamcocpl1replies774viewshouse party etiquette
So for "us" if one doesnt have the decency to ask, flirt before hand, and well just act with some manors we dont care where we are... a party, Trapeze in ATL /FtL ( yes happened t…
by RonKathy4replies713viewsHow would you rate the couples in your area?
Every geographic area has its strengths and weaknesses. The area I'm in has very slim pickings in regard to what we would look for. For instance, very few Latinos that we can conn…
by 6zcouple20replies1,360viewsWhat is the proper etiquette for odor?
I posted this question in another thread but thought it should be better placed here. "What is the proper etiquette for when you going to play with someone who's has a strong odor…
12replies1,351viewsI'm new he's not IDK what to do
ey! Sorry I just don't know what to do. My boyfriend is into almost everything that is possible here. I'm not and I have made that abundantly clear since our relationship began 2…
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