choking
Thanks, LoveBug. Yeah, some of the replies/notes I’m seeing here are frightening. Jim
SLOtowner
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Impregnation
I think this is a creepy idea and I advise you not to pursue it. Never mind the result of your little game, right?! SLO
Watching wife spanked
“ Anyone enjoy spanking as a fun form of fore play?” No, not for me at all. I had a submissive gf that wanted me to spank or otherwise physically mistreat her, prior to sex. I tried to do it, but couldn’t hit her hard enough to please her.…
language
I do not like the term, “slut” in most cases. I see it as being a negative, degrading, humiliating, etc. term, virtually always applied sexually, to women. These are all things that I do not embrace in relationships I have with women. Outs…
Cuckolding
Yes, I have acted as “the bull” on many occasions. I enjoy it, because most of the husbands like watching their wives being dominated and “forced” to perform sex acts for strange men. Of course, the wives love it!. Other times, the wife li…
Bi Sexual Men
To quote the Original Topic Post: “ Just curious why bi sexual men post they are straight on profiles? Why don’t you want your wife to know as most wive’s on here are bi sexual.” ————— SO...... Why do you feel it is necessary to “call some…
2020 Bitch of the Day
Shoot!! Now we’ll have to find your real eMail address and sell it to the Pakistanis! :-) SLO
2020 Bitch of the Day
Shoot!! Now we’ll have to find your real eMail address and sell it to the Pakistanis! :-) SLO
Recent Movies
Get off the “firearms” bullshit! Firearms are not going to disappear in the United States You speak of cartoon characters, while taking a cheap shot at the RIGHTS of EVERY American, about half of which OWN firearms. If you want to argue th…
Did someone recently take over this site?
I would not worry about that. SLS will take care of you. Just let them know. There’s a phone number out there. SLO
Manscaping
Go ahead. You’ll be okay. I advise that you not use a straight razor, however Makes me remember whe the lady who used to cut my hair told me she had two male customers who came in regularly to have her trim and shave their pubichair. That…
Manscaping
Go ahead. You’ll be okay. I advise that you not use a straight razor, however Makes me remember whe the lady who used to cut my hair told me she had two male customers who came in regularly to have her trim and shave their Punic hair. That…
Cattle Prod
Yeah.....,I swatted my girlfriend with a feed bucket once. Once.
Did someone recently take over this site?
sls_WayneC, Was the SLS site recently (or attempt ) hacked? Were files disrupted (pages and data scrambled/disrupted, and/or erased, personal data stolen, etc., etc.? It’s important that members be so informed and know, obviously because s…
Recent Movies
I watched a movie (maybe more of a documentary) on YouTube called: “Legends Of The Old West”. I found it pretty interesting, and then I noticed that there are a lot more Western movies and documentaries and that sort of thing on YouTube re…
Ghosting
Thanks, Ms. GGMM. You’re probably right SLO
2020 Bitch of the Day
I am thinking SLS was hacked, but to what extent is anyone’s guess. If I am right, then there is no telling how much member data (if any) the hackers got there hands on. So, who knows; perhaps I am right, but perhaps I am wrong. I doubt we…
Ghosting
Something no one mentions very much, if at all, is that a great number of people who are members of SLS and are professionals. So, therefore, many of the people they work with may be members of SLS as well. People do not want to be identif…
Looking for first BBC
There is a human being on the other end of that dick, you know(?).
Actually looking like your pics
I have had wives apologize to me for being much heavier than their photos make them appear to be. My position is, I don’t care! This sweet woman sleeps with her husband all the time, and he’s happy with her. Why the hell would I not be hap…
Good or bad to mention political persuasion in profile?
To answer the “question:” I think it “is bad” (a poor idea) to mention your “political persuasion” in your profile, conversation, or in back-and-forth email, forum postings, etc.) Jy st say it is a topic that is personal to you and isn’t u…
Breaking the ice?
After going to the room and chatting for only maybe 5 minutes (max), take the other couple’ s woman in your arms, give her a slow, gentle, prolonged kiss. Then, gently touch her breasts. She should hav a big smile on her face, so just go f…
Any warning signs or tricks to look for, or other tips to use, when reading profiles?
“Ahem”? WTF is THAT supposed to mean. Just remember......there is nothing special about you! Be courteous and respectful of/to EVERYONE here.....all of the time! —- SLO
How many are on your block list?
What are you trying to say? Please restate.
shaving
How about trimming to however close you desire, and NOT SHAVE? No one cares, really. The girls like to shave. I’d quiz the lady and ask her if she wants you to shave or trim. —- SLO
Don't know whats wrong
Mike, Get yourself a NEW doctor and don’t look back. You can inject yourself with T once or twice a week to build up your T level. Tell the doctor it’s important to you and to test it regularly, every 2-4 months. It WILL make a difference.…
spanish
Geez..... So the guy actually miss spelled “females“. WHO GIVES A SHIT!!? What’s the matter with you knotheads who feel compelled to point that out!? Do you think that makes YOU a genius? SLO
Some single males are gross
“ We try not to block single males but if they don't get the hint after we tell them no then they get blocked.” I hope you realize that polite single males should respond to your “No, thanks,” response, even though you do tell them you’re…
Question for the Xtra guys
Hey, OH2NY2NJ....(whatever)..... STFU, you moron! You don’t get a picture, jackoff boy.....! Stop trying to make yourself look good at the expense of other single men. Doing so will not make you appear more attractive to either single wome…
Question for the Xtra guys
Of course it IS NOT a “FETISH”!! Some people may fetishize about it, but for me, and I think for other men in general, whether or not the husband cums inside his wife (or even fucks her and doesn’t cum) before it is “your turn” is simply i…
Question for the Xtra guys
Currentrider,: ———— STD’s ARE NOT the point here..... The questions are “Do you have a problem having sex bareback after another man has filled up her pussy?” AND: “Do you have a problem of being required to use a condom if the husband doe…
Simple Pleasures
Simple pleasures, Nuzzling a horse, patting and scratching it, giving it a cookie. Trading little Hello cheek kisses with a woman. Seeing a friend after a separation Reading Watching the news on TV Getting a fountain Coke (with ice) at 7-1…
Simple Pleasures
(Grandmother) Fokker, You sure are cute! :-) —- SLO
WTF
RE: the woman lost in the storm drain(?)....... Holy Shit!! “Somebody buy me a cheeseburger!!” — SLO
How many are on your block list?
Yes, MJ, those two can be a pain in the ass, but they’ve been active on SLS a long time, too. Everyone with any sense, contributes, positively or negatively.....I’m not everyone’s favorite, that’s certain. Not sure who is the aggressive on…
The Great Crappening
“katcity” returns an error message that the server cannot be found. SLO
Simple Pleasures
“Dude “ is still spelled, “d-u-d-e,”...... dude.
One word that describes you
Ready
How's the Weather Out There
Right now 6PM, 25MAR, 52degrees, with a cold breeze, about 7mph off the ocean ......... CA Central Coast.
Science News
As sperm counts drop, people are born with longer, thicker penises. Sounds like maybe you missed out. SLO
Reading Profiles
“ SLO, wtf? Are you still living in the 1950s?! Time to step away from the Wayback machine and catch up with evolution.” ————- rabbit...., If you actually took that comment as “serious,” then you erred. People often, on here (and elsewhere…
How many are on your block list?
I do not block anyone, for any “reason”. Everyone who creates a topic or a reply in the Forum has something to say, and while I (or you) may not care for that person, what they say can lend continuity. Blocking others is a bad idea, at lea…
Question for the Xtra guys
Yeah, of course that is true. Cheers, —SLO
bi women who play alone
Bridgetender, You strike me as not just being creepy and sleazy in the general sense, bu also as being inappropriate for single women and couples to be alone with. —. SLO
Cock rings anyone?
No, not for me. —- SLO
Don't know whats wrong
YOU ARE suffering from DEPRESSION. Look into that: see your doctor, and for a possible referral. —- SLO
The build up
FUNLYFRIEND, I think a “bone smuggler” is a man who dresses in women’s clothes......a crossdresser(?). Not very funny, really. — SLO
MYTHBUSTER: Drinking pineapple juice to make a man's cum taste sweet=NOT
Yeah Mary jo.....such as an ad with a guy with a hard, 12” dick with a pineapple ring on it!!! That would probably sell pineapples. — SLO
Question for the Xtra guys
QUOTE: “ Do any of the straight single guys here fuck a woman after 1, 2 or 3 guys pumped loads inside of her? It's not my style. “ UNQUOTE Uhh, YES! If you haven’t, you are probably still in high school right now. Go do your homework, dam…
The Great Crappening
I think it’s likely the hacker got to our personal user data, including email addresses and photographs. My guess is the hacker may be an agency from some other country, and that they cruise sites like SLS to collect data and photos to mat…
The Great Crappening
Wayne, What really happened here!!! What USER data did they get(?)........Do you even KNOW!?? We need to know, in order to take some security steps to protect ourselves. My guess is, you simply think you fixed the problem, andt I think you…
Military and Swinging
TallMark said: “Mixing macho guys, guns and wife swapping is like walking in a mine field. Mary Jo” MJ, I have to disagree with you, Mary Jo. “Gun guys,” (real ones), generally and simply are NOT INTO the concept of using firearms to “sett…
FACES ??? REAL PEOPLE HAVE THEM !!!
Hey, Windbag “outdoorluvrs”, It is sick, arrogant, deadbeat assholes like you, who are a lingering disease on this Site and the small world of the non-mainstream sexual “society,” built on truth, caring, trust, and honesty, that “we” refer…
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
Biden is Harris’s cuck! —— QUOTE I don't know what I am signing" THE SNIFFER PIMP, signing executive orders handed to him to sign. More orders to cum A TV reporter just referred to Joe Biden as “bi-partisan curious”. —— UNQUOTE —-SLO
A Song to Suit your current Mood
Lost a loved one recently and I’ve been awash in anguish and despair these last few weeks. I can’t sleep tonight, and suddenly, the entire haunting lyrical strain of “Year Of The Cat”, (Al Stewart) have replayed in my head. maybe 4 times.…
What's for Dinner
A portent of subway’s soon-to-be demise, perhaps? I’m going to VONS tomorrow, 21MAR, so I’ll pick up something there for tomorrow nite. — SLO
What's for Dinner
Lasagna w/meat sauce, red pepper flakes & Parmesan cheese Green tossed salad w/Italian dressing Bread roll Red wine
MYTHBUSTER: Drinking pineapple juice to make a man's cum taste sweet=NOT
It actually does work. And, it’s not just pineapple juice. You can eat other fruit like plums, peaches, etc. and even lettuce and other mild vegetables. —— SLO
Embarrassed about scars
Just tell people the truth if they ask about it at all. Likely no one will mention it. If they do, tell’em the truth.... you got stuck in a revolving door in New York City. :-| ;-) The point is, it is not important, and no one with any sen…
Do you wear your glasses during sex?
They’re just trying to keep your face down there between their thighs (where it belongs) so’s you won’t stop and pull away. “LICK that pussy, you moron!“ :-( SLO
Reading Profiles
Are you referring to a box of candy, which a single male may bring to your wife? Or, are you referring to black male human beings....you know, very dark-skinned men (who, strangely enough, like women, too)? You know, Negros. —-SLO
What's for Dinner
============ DOES ANYONE know what happened to PollyGirl. She disappeared from the Forums.
Do you wear your glasses during sex?
There’s no such thing as an ugly girl !!
Just online
“ Does this thread even qualify as soft swinging? ~Allen” Yeah, I think so. Let’s just say, “Yes, it does”. SLO
Swapping pics
There’s always that, Mary Jo. This site is the one I am most comfortable with, but it is impossible to know how many silent, invisible bottom feeders cruise here and copy data from the site. But, what they may use it for is anyone’s guess.…
Rimming
——— “ As for receiving, no thanks. Had an Air Force wife do it once and I got nothing from it.” ———- Maybe try a female Marine Corps 2nd Lieutenant? Just a thought.......... :-) ——-SLO
My fantasy has finally come true
Just my take on “Glory Holes”. I suggest that you stay completely away from them. Glory holes are disgusting, sordid, filthy and dangerous, being a haven for disease and filth.
Window sign, flash cards
This does not sound like a real red-hot idea to me at all........for a number of good reasons. Best to get y’alls’ heads and asses wired together, I’d say! —- SLO
How to get started on a cuckold experience?
What is a “Cyclops”? — SLO
Swapping pics
I’m not interested in collecting photos of people. SEEING pictures of other swingers, perhaps, but providing pics others use to flood the Internet with? It’s bad enough already. No thanks. — SLO
Soft swing v hardcore
It’s understandable....as you know. Just read it and the “punctuation” falls into place.
Soft Swap Parties
I am thinking that sending out formal invitations may be more than is needed. I would (as is possible) handle it via Internet messaging and/or phone, taking names and notes of commitment to line up people that way. Opinions, of course, may…
Do you young men like older ladies?
Okay
Do you young men like older ladies?
See how courteous Mary Jo is being to some who is being quite impolite? SLO
What do you find sexier?
It just wouldn’t be the same, Mary Jo.
What do you find sexier?
Panties, but no bra. I find that very hot. Women always seem to have big smiles on their faces when their breasts are bare. It is so cute and sexy to see that smile. SLO
Ruin dinner in 4 words
Smells like something’s burning! - ——- SLO
Looking for a SM travel partner
Don’t start with me again, boy. When I want your opinionS or comments related to my input here.....I’ll give them to you in advance. SLO
Looking for a SM travel partner
What part of “no” don’t ya’ll understand?
how many man should be a first gang bang
FIRST gangbang? Invite four (4) guys.....maybe one will not show up. Tell them that if they cannot make it, to notify you EARLY.....then you’ll invite him next time. If he doesn’t let you know, then no future invite. Even if you can only g…
Watching
Watching should not be underestimated, but then again, neither should doing be underestimated. ——- SLO
White tail nude resort
Sounds like one-off, wild-ass fuck parties, by special-invitation-only (with radio communication security) would be the way to go. But, who the hell would want to work that hard? —— SLO
What does Friendship mean in the lifestyle?
——— “ but how does one mistakenly make the leap between every encounter being about NSA sex and best friends without that being encouraged?” To a very large extent...... it is about the intimacy. ——- SLO
Trying to meet
Contact A LOT of couples! As a single, I do that and, I hate to call it “The law of averages,” But that’s what it amounts to, i suppose ....so send out a lot of Site contact mail. I have NEVER met with a couple that did not ask me to come…
Words that turn you off in a profile
Hey, HOPnrBED, Uhh, I’ like to have Barbie come see me for a sleepover. Do you have her phone number? :-) SLO
Food Sex
I like dark meat!
Where's your favorite place to shoot your load?
Yeah, Mary Jo, I thought about that, later. I’ll try to delete the reply AND the duplicate. Best.... —- SLO
Absurdly bad matches by SLS
They matched me up with a guy. BUT HEY!!, he’s only 2 miles away!! If he has a girlfriend or wife, maybe I can go over there, and he can watch her ride The High Hard One! (Just a thought.) :-) My guess is that SLS does not pay their in-hou…
FACES ??? REAL PEOPLE HAVE THEM !!!
HEY!! Personally, I’m tired of this shit! The Internet, being the treacherous and as dangerous place that it is, creates the electronic, online environment that makes it dangerous (in my view) to 90% of users. Vile organizations sweep site…
Fantasy fuck
Fantasy Fuck?...... Meg Ryan I am in love with that girl! —- SLO
Black rings
:-) “ How do you even know the size of your wrist??? “ I just measured around my dick.....same...perfect fit. —— SLO
Being discreet in your home (kids here)
You’re dreaming if you think You can hide anything from your kids, or they won’t know what something is, even if you think they don’t. Really.....
Glory holes.
This is a weird topic and seems to be making folks angry at one another, which I did odd. For me, I just never understood why these things exist in the first place. AND, I saw these holes in bathroom partitions for years (childhood up into…
Cock rings anyone?
I don’t care for cock rings. I don’t like the way they feel, and for me, it makes my orgasm difficult to attain, and it isn’t as satisfying. If I have trouble staying hard, I always get past that and that feeling doesn’t last long. ......S…
Fem has a question for you guys about big lips
I think that how each woman comes into my life physically is wonderful. How I feel about each one of them comes to me from inside their personalities, and that is what counts to me. I like and love each of them; some more than others, and…
What do you find sexier?
A NUDE pick causes me to focus on burying the dick. A lingerie pic causes me to focus on what is going on inside her head. ——- SLO
wife want's to spend night alone with lover
I guess what I was trying to say, or do, was to give a “heads up,” or a “be careful” warning. I guess we have all seen that kind of thing happen; where a friend lost his fiancé or girlfriend or wife to someone else who he thought was his g…
wife want's to spend night alone with lover
Spending the night at a hotel with a sex partner who is not your spouse creates an emotional bonding between the two that will lead toward the breaking up of your spousal relationship. Basically, that’s what this guy is trying to do with y…
Do you young men like older ladies?
While I am not a young guy, I DO treat all girls as if they are young girls. They all like that. The young girls, to a considerable degree, feel more comfortable with my age, and the older girls feel more comfortable being treated like a g…
Ron Jeremy
I say, plea-bargain 2 years probation and call it good. I doubt they can convict, anyway.