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mfm vs ffm
So I like seeing my wife with another guy then joining in for mfm play. My wife had said to guy that she prefers only mfm. She’s not sure if she could let me be with another woman…
by Mygirl69696replies712viewsWomen Butt Photos
Just curious here, when women have a lot of "butt" pictures on their profile, does that mean they want their "butt" kissed and loved? (LOL)
by candjcpl23replies546viewsWhen does not ready for a MFF become abuse?
The answers to the post MFM vs MFF got me thinking. Do you believe there is ever a point where it is not that she is not comfortable, it is abuse. She is intentionally saying no f…
by Ymichael1425replies1,237views- 36replies2,199views
Best swinger clubs for a Saturday
We live downtown looking for a good place next few Saturdays any recommendations and why?
by Alecsgirl0replies315viewsJoining SLS groups
I joined just about every group in my state looking to attend house parties. After at least one year, none of them have held a house party. All of the events show zero. They all a…
by Ymichael1415replies1,177viewsGhosted
It seems we get ghosted constantly now. In the matter of four days, we were ghosted by 1 single woman who contacted us, 1 hot wife who contacted us and couple we had hung out with…
by marnmar17replies516viewsIs the lifestyle disappearing?
I would be willing to bet it is a combination of so many fakes and people just aging out of the LS.
67replies3,418viewsGeorge and Anne Dinners/Events
Anyone ever attend the George and Ann dinners? We are considering a dinner but we’re a little skeptical about it. Looking for some info, feedback and or advice. Thanks!!! O&M
10replies1,068viewsDeciding to Play
Wondering other thoughts when deciding to play at events, M&G's, clubs. Like everyone our like is full. When we go to LS events my wife is excited. It's fantastic. 90% of the time…
by MCfunsters2replies567viewsCan anyone figure out this message?
"Hi she’s not ready so will take down min need to text vack". I get the she's not ready part, but is he going to take down a minimum need to text back? Or he needs a minute to tex…
by Ymichael148replies728viewsALL sex is situational
ALL of it is grounded in context and CONSENT. All of it. You don't fuck every man or every woman as a straight person. WHY the FUCK would you think a bisexual person would be any…
by Esperanza9118replies507viewsWhat does this mean?
A couple contacted me 18 months ago. I responded, they didn't. They just now responded. Under fantasies they said " To be shared in person". Is there any other way to share someon…
by Ymichael143replies492viewsFlip Side
A Lot of talk about single males or should I say complaints.....This is a couples dominated LS and I know couples have screwed people over including other couples....So let's even…
2replies577viewsNot giving a blowjob
My wife doesn’t like to give blowjobs, she gives me very occasionally and that’s more of a cock worship thing. Is that going to be a big deal breaker if we try to find couples?
36replies3,556viewsProfile Who Viewed Me question
Why are we seeing soooo many profile views from hundreds, if not thousands of miles away? This is mostly recent withing the last month or two... any thoughts on this?
by bfwp4u27replies2,633viewsWhat does this mean in a profile?
"Hartford Connecticut EE. UU. 30 Miles". I realize it means they are 30 miles away from me in Hartford, CT, but what does the EE. UU. mean?
by Ymichael142replies680viewsHow to convince my wife
I would like to convince my wife to share this lifestyle, but unfortunately she is not very open minded.I have commented something to her but she always says that she would not li…
by jajajtoto50replies5,825viewsHave you seen swinger tiktok
People here freaking out over a face picture and there are full on videos over there
by Esperanza91116replies1,466viewsIs FMF even common?
Question for everyone we often talk about many different types of group Play.. how common do you think FMF is? And please share your experiences if you've had that type of play. W…
24replies2,181viewsLocation matters
We have some play time scheduled for tonight with a few couples and a bunch of single guys. I went on to Hot Dates to see if any local folks were looking for something to do; we w…
by hotluvrs15replies1,169viewsAlcoholics
I just don't understand why you have to get very tipsy before getting laid, the reason why the topic because of the situations I seen specially at swinging clubs and private house…
26replies2,368viewsWhat is the best swinger vacation destination?
We were going to try and travel to someplace like Hedonism for a vacation over Thanksgiving. Can anyone that has been to one of these suggest which may be best and why?
8replies1,505viewsIs swinging cheating?
How would you respond to someone that you consider a close friend and they’re aware of your “activities” in the lifestyle when they say “y’all just cheating on each other”?
by Beachcpl120431replies2,333viewswhen people clearly have not read your profile
I don't understand how or why people agree to meet without reading the other couple's profile. How did they even decide to consider communicating about meeting in the first place,…
by Esperanza91122replies1,258viewsstraight-straight seems impossible
We've been looking into swinging. At this point, the whole thing seems geared to accommodate the needs of S-Bi couples.. . or rather, the whole concept fits well with the straight…
by DuckDuckGone41replies3,196viewsHot Dates
Hot Dates. Hmmm. Lately, it seems as if this platform has turned into more of a voyeur site- more alleged couples profiles that are really just males. But, when it comes to the Ho…
by Ocbj9replies1,227viewsHedo and What do you tell vanilla world?
We would love to go to Hedo. But we are concerned about what to tell various friends, family, workmates etc. It's a lot of deception to maintain, which we are not adept at. One th…
by ugot2200146replies3,797viewsMultiple men for a specific fantasy
We were wondering if anyone has had success at planning a fantasy (for wife) that required multiple men? We have tried several occasions to plan this but we always get cancelation…
by yinzers8replies978viewsWorst reason EVER for separate room play
Recently saw someone admit they do separate rooms because they are afraid of offending their partner by enjoying the swap too much. The fuck? A person who is offended by their par…
by Esperanza91116replies2,237viewsConstant lookers
Something we find strange. We have about 6 couple profiles and many single profiles that look at our profile on a regular basis but never text anything. A few are local and 2 coup…
43replies3,935viewsIf you could give only one piece of advice to others in the LS what would it be?
Imagine you had the opportunity to impart ONLY ONE snippet, one sentence, one pearl of wisdom to others who are whatever variety of ethically non-monogamous. What would you say?
by Esperanza91135replies3,722viewsReal identity questions
If you're hosting someone, don't you want to know who is coming into your home? Recently had someone bail out on getting together because we wanted to know their real name. Red fl…
by bfwp4u29replies1,731viewsPregnant swingers
Hey everybody me and my husband were wondering how does everybody feel about me being pregnant I’m I still accepted or should I just wait until the pregnancy is over
by Dak928714replies3,074viewsNeed tips with getting/keeping an erection
Original Starting post for this thread: Wife and I have been in the LS for over a year now. We have been having lots of fun but I do have problems getting and keeping and erection…
9replies1,196viewsLooking for Twin Cities MN Area House Parties or Hotel Takeover
Married couple seeking a house party or hotel takeover type event we could attend in the MN twin cities or Western WI area. This would be her first ever event (he has past lifesty…
by Pepeanon1replies331viewsLetting wife have dates with an old play partner
She is allowed to play solo and she always tells me what happens. Just want to see what others say that play the Hot Wife role. Thanks in advance
9replies839viewsEncounters with a Safe Word
I was wondering if others utilize "Safe Words" when in negotiated situations that cross in to multiple lifestyle arenas.
by PeaceMaker12replies1,204viewsMeet and Greets
While I often use SLS and Fet to meet potential play partners, I prefer local Meet & Greets, as well as clubs, private parties etc. to meet people in person. I’m fortunate to live…
10replies1,341viewsProfile pictures
I have a feeling you talking about single men and don't want to point them out.. however single men are on top of their photos and freshening their profile more then I would say c…
12replies1,259viewsSwinging on a boat?
This isn't a cruise thread. Just curious about sex with another couple...on a boat. What kind of boat? I'm thinking a cuddy would be a little too cozy, maybe not. Cabin cruisers w…
37replies5,329viewsI Lost Interest in the LS ????
I have a problem ! Please help ! Male 1/2 of a couple and I have lost interest in the lifestyle. When we first started, we were both hot and heavy for all the activity that the LS…
by Phreaky_Cpl2replies621viewsSwinging Asking Friends to swap
How do I Husband ask my Friend if he would be interested in Swapping
by Bilsyl10437replies767viewsTrojan Horse SF Profiles
If you're really a SF, or are coupled and have a SF profile to play alone. Fantastic. But don't use a SF profile in a nefarious way for the sole purpose of luring people into your…
by calcanfun26replies694viewsWhat do you find appealing about people who say they are shy
So many profiles refer to one or both partners being shy. We skip those immediately. I am curious what others find appealing about it.
by Esperanza9119replies842viewsBooked A VV cruise how to find others?
We recently booked an adults only Virgin cruise for later this year. We don't want to go asking on the vanilla cruise forums if there will be any other lifestyle people booked as…
by necouple91114replies519viewsLearn To Accept The Status And Selective
What I mean in the title of this subject basic and simple, for example it is a couple I know in person that host swinging house parties for couples and single females they also wo…
4replies699views[LOCKED]Fakes, Flakes and Time wasters
How many of you have set up a date with a couple and got stood up? How many have set up a date with the couple and the couple showed up but was unrecognizable because they used ol…
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Wife on her own
We have a house party that is very local to us that we have gone to in the past. They are throwing another one. I told the wife that it would be hot if she went alone this time. S…
by jomich4924017replies3,150views
