Texting versus Email
in 3-Some ·
Company phone?
lcmim
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Female body hair
in Swinger Advice ·
It may matter to some. To others, like me, not at all. A nice smile and pleasant disposition has always made the top of the list.
Hearing Aids
in Senior Swingers ·
mayhem , well said. My difficulty is sifting through the hyperbolic descriptions about these very topics.
Site picture update
in Website ·
Still waiting. Is there something that is making this task difficult? I would think you could do what you did with the other galleries. Is there a technical problem or is this just back burner. I really would like to know.
Site picture update
in Website ·
Wayne, Any update on restoring the personal pics?
Allow free members to reply to paid members
in Swing.com ·
Godenuff, I agree ,we are old enough and suspicious enough that a scammer would have to have a VERY high level of skill to make any real contact.
Allow free members to reply to paid members
in Swing.com ·
If you do not want to talk to them , then do not post them. The proposed plan would not affect you at all.
Allow free members to reply to paid members
in Swing.com ·
Quote from kazootwo: Allow free members to reply to paid members who initiated the contact. This is a good idea. AMEN
Personal pics disappeared
in Website ·
[quote=sls_WayneC] The site already restored all older, public and private pictures. That is done. A 5+ year old picture on a swinger site is pointless and useless. If you need more pictures on your profile, upload new ones. This is the fe…
Personal pics disappeared
in Website ·
Wonderful. I am looking to getting the personal pics back also.
Soft Swap is Dying
in Soft Swinger ·
She sounds like fun. I think that people for whom PIV is the be all and end all of the LS are walking (sprinting) right past most of the fun. Sometime Soft does go to intercourse when it feels right.Our experience is that it takes a while…
How to fit in one room?
in Swinger Advice ·
Physical size of the people and style of play are factors. One on one with larger people the inflatable is a good idea. For slender and or shorter people who don't mind a bit of body rubbing or those enjoying a "puppy pile" scenario try ly…
Personal pics disappeared
in Website ·
There was a banner up (I'd like to say momentarily) If any body knows how long I would like to know. I log in usually 3-4 times a day and it was here and gone from my perspective. This is as compared to the 'Wall" banner that was there alm…
Another perspective on removing old pix
in Website ·
It is not just our money. It also changes the narrative in the real world. SLS has been a book mark if you will. A profile here has been a verification of LS verity, (Meet someone new? "We are ### on SLS) This status was hard won for SLS,…
Picture Galleries
in Swing.com ·
Read the TOS. That is what happened to consent.
Hearing Aids
in Senior Swingers ·
thank you. I have had similar experience with mine. Phonak seems to aim for dependable but not quite cutting edge tech.
Hearing Aids
in Senior Swingers ·
I am about tp retire my 8 year old Phonak M90R s. The batteries are due to go soon and replacements are expensive out of warranty. Things have changed for the better since I bought them. I am curious as to what others current experiences a…
Site picture update
in Website ·
I am wondering if this was a shortcut method to make integrating the galleries into the beta site simpler.
Site picture update
in Website ·
Nobody said that there are not other ways of addressing these things. SLS WAS or at least supposedly was another viable alternative.
Site picture update
in Website ·
Agreed on the last point. On the first though there are those of us who did not display some of our galleries and used them as archives instead. Having other non LS people who at times use our computer having them there is problematical.
LS experience turned stalker
in Swinger Advice ·
I think there is a route for them to remove them from SLS though
Site picture update
in Website ·
Thanks Wayne, though the "as far as I know " part is a tad worrisome. There were some pictures that we kept in a Private file that we used to flesh out who we are. some metal sculptures for example. Date was irrelevant. I do have them save…
Site picture update
in Website ·
Again I ask Wayne: I thought the original banner mentioned remving to an historic data base. Are these photos permanently deleted?
Site picture update
in Website ·
Is any else curious as to whether there really is an historic data base or if they burned the bridge behind them when they removed the pictures.
Site picture update
in Website ·
R+K The reference was not needed but the point was still valid without it.
Site picture update
in Website ·
Again another unlimited member discomfited
Site picture update
in Website ·
[quote=sls_WayneC][quote=Greyhoundguy]it is funny they took all of our newer g rated pics down and left our older r rated pics. this makes no sense at all.[/quote] We only removed older pictures (uploaded 5+ years ago). We did not remove a…
Site picture update
in Website ·
Just a side note. It is interesting to see how many of us that are put off by this latest manipulation are unlimited members. Perhaps there is little care being taken because we are economic dead weight. As long time members I am pretty ce…
Site picture update
in Website ·
Read the last three days of posts in this topic. You are not alone.
LS experience turned stalker
in Swinger Advice ·
"I've told him that if there is anymore contact, we will get the authorities involved and that may cost him his cushy job with the FBI" Which explains how he got the contact information that you did not give him. We had playmates for a whi…
Site picture update
in Website ·
So s there a projected date for access the the historic files? Also s there a planned location on the site? Perhaps in the tools section under manage pictures.
LS experience turned stalker
in Swinger Advice ·
Know anyone named Guido, with a sketchy resume?
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
That soft block idea has merit. Implementation might take a bit though.
LS experience turned stalker
in Swinger Advice ·
Just curious, is contact via email, text,telephone,in person? In person -restraining order may be appropriate.Proximity might be dangerous. Email, that is what filters are for. Send straight into the oubliette. Telephone , you can probably…
Picture Galleries
in Swing.com ·
Wayne most of our pictures had dates on them. I have been on that crusade for years. It is sort of funny that one of the reasons we signed up originally was the ability to store out Lifestyle related pictures here.
Site picture update
in Website ·
Okay I understand about reducing the bulk of picture by age culling. I see no way of accessing the historical files. We had one file category that was more about our lives, art work etc that we opened to people that we had hopes for in ord…
Picture Galleries
in Swing.com ·
Okay I understand about reducing the bulk of picture by age culling. I see no way of accessing the historical files. We had one file category that was more about our lives, art work etc that we opened to people that we had hopes for in ord…
Play friends passing away
in Senior Swingers ·
I hope our lifestyle friends will come to the party after we die. "Social friends, known them for years, lots of laughs etc etc etc." No need to divulge the details.
Filtering weight
in Swing.com ·
When we meet a couple we go with the intention of meeting two people. They may or may not be physically our types. They may or may not be intellectually compelling or even interesting. That is why we meet the people. Most people are pleasa…
Allow free members to reply to paid members
in Swing.com ·
In order to make life simpler for those who wish no contact with free members, I believe that we can already make ourselves invisible to them For those who worry about someone getting something for free that they pay for and still give the…
Certifications - Time for an update?
in Website ·
I always thought that a cert was a verification of authenticity and not of quality. "These people are real."
Allow free members to reply to paid members
in Swing.com ·
MandC508, I agree.
Summer Diversion where do you hang out in the summer?
in Wisconsin ·
Valley View for us also. Once or twice a season . When we go to Fire Fest in Fort Atkinson, we try and extend our stay by overnighting at Valley View The day before the art fair.
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
It would interest me as to just how ages could be updated. Just add a year on the anniversary of joining? That would work for us, but not those who have been 48 for the last 18 years. Perhaps just adding LAST UPDATED qualifier on the profi…
Age
in Swing.com ·
OR just post age at entry after Joined (Joined 12 03 2020/64yr If today they are still 64 STILL 64 something is up. Automatic update with two people per account would be nice, but liars get what is coming to them.
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
There is a difficulty with the system I described. Without some space set aside for used ScreenIDs and some cross checking it would be possible for someone to recycle another's old ScreenID
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
Although current programming makes the screen name and account name the same it is not necessarily the way it needs to be. All account names could be frozen as they are and then a new filed "screenID" could be made available. Originally Sc…
Where are the older swingers
in Senior Swingers ·
Milwaukee Wi
Site Policies Regarding Registered Sex Offenders
in Website ·
That is a worthy question. Before it is answered I would like to take note of a few things. 1. "Sex offender" is a very broad and very nonspecific term, which covers things all the way from "they ought to be hung" to "Mild discomfiture is…
Sex Positive BnB
in Business ·
There are those who plan summer vacations now.
Sex Positive BnB
in Business ·
golfwithusinmn, Is your place up and running? If so how can we get information?
Feedback for beta.swing.com
in Swing.com ·
My personal preference would be yet anther card option perhaps 1/4 of the present compact with a flyover option.
Unlimited members sending messages to free members
in Website ·
Correct ,not being circumspect in handing out information is a bad idea. Some of the Free Members may be bad actors. So too could some of the paid members. I do not require a blanket embargo such as we have here to protect me. I can look a…
Unlimited members sending messages to free members
in Website ·
That seems workable My wife and I really like the opportunity to act as a resource for those stepping into the pool. Occasionally this means new playmates other times it is just the ability to be of service helping them think things throug…
Question for a guy single or couple
in Men Talk ·
Depends very much om the guy.
Who viewed me?
in Website ·
mamacomesfirst, I just looked at your profile 7:16AM 10/07/2025
Unlimited members sending messages to free members
in Website ·
Okie, do you have any exclusionary filters set on your paid account?
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
Sorry bed bugs are not my thing. :
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
Wayne I am certain that you are aware developing some form of interaction as you are contemplating would have, at least, my enthusiastic support. If there is way that I could be of use in that matter please let me know.
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
windowshopping As people we are not products, true. The product in this case is communication. Selling this particular product is just sales. Good sales should increase income for the owners of the site. I do appreciate your private post.…
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
One on which one does not expect to draw customers by refusing them a chance to observe the product. Going back to the car salesman attempting to charge someone for a test drive.
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
Windowshoipping, I believe mayhem used the term value, not me. In our case though value has been found in a few long time friends ,of intelligence and worth,. The LS has led us down some interesting and unexpected paths, some interesting t…
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
Windowshopping, " wrote: "“I have a pretty normal sense of curiosity. I also have a strong aversion to buying a pig in a poke” I just renewed my paid membership. You get what you pay for. Only skinflints believe otherwise." First of all ,…
Site Activity
in Open Forum ·
atrophy? I would like to see the number of new paid members (within the last 30days). I wonder why anyone would go from free to paid when there is really no way to peek behind the curtain. I have a pretty normal sense of curiosity. I also…
Unlimited members sending messages to free members
in Website ·
"Most new free members are just kicking tires in the car lot and aren't serious shoppers." Betcha everyone here has kicked a few tires AND also has or had a car.
Camping
in First Contact ·
Many state camps allow two tents and cars per site.
Bye Bye Birdie
in Website ·
I am happy to see the bird back.
Latinos for hot wife??
in Website ·
Care to rephrase that as a sentence?
Open gallery alert?
in Website ·
"I don't think this is a needed feature. It is not a good feature. It is just another way for people to avoided engaging and communicating." I suppose ....... In just the same way that sending a drink over to that cute lady in the corner n…
Timestamp on Who Viewed Me
in Website ·
Noting when pictures are uploaded gives about all information has SLS can give,. Most our pictures are time stamped when they were taken. Perhaps we can start a common curtesy trend here.
Timestamp on Who Viewed Me
in Website ·
We are fully in favor of dating when someone viewed us.
AI Where is it headed
in Open Forum ·
goodgollymissmolly, That is why the quotes around "rewired" It looks awfully like the "rewiring" of a human child's neural pathways as new and uncategorized data is presented.
AI Where is it headed
in Open Forum ·
I just finished an article. Cited was the observation that one, perhaps two of the AI models have successfully "rewired" their software to recognize patterns that they were not designed to "see", and to organize these patterns in ways not…
Summer Diversion where do you hang out in the summer?
in Wisconsin ·
We camp two or three time at Buckhorn State park. We also do a few county fairs and local craft fairs. We try and do things like remember to put or magnetic SLS bumper sticker on the car and stick up a pineapple flag on the site when campi…
Any idea what the heck is going on with Swingers Board?
in Open Forum ·
I am trying to find some thing similar to SB. Rational,civil discourse of all things Swinger related. I used to send Newbies there as it as a safe place to wrap their heads around taking first steps and to get advice from people with actua…
Any idea what the heck is going on with Swingers Board?
in Open Forum ·
Swingersboard: Here is what is going on. After all these years there was a catastrophic equipment failure NOT a hack or ransomware attack. The provider, contrary to what was thought, WAS NOT storing backups. As of now it appears that every…
Any idea what the heck is going on with Swingers Board?
in Open Forum ·
Hardware breakdown on provider.
WTF
in Open Forum ·
Yet another problem in the making? They talk about ending whatever problems exist from burning fossil fuels (Long sequestered carbon) This will be done by burning long sequestered hydrogen. When you burn hydrogen you get water. and use up…
WTF
in Open Forum ·
I must be bored today.
private parties
in Website ·
If you play in any group setting, hotel party or club party, just let it drop in conversation that it is a fantasy of yours. Then be your own pleasant selves. Networking 101
Site Recommendations
in Website ·
Ringo I have had posts gone missing. Several times it was sent to someone we were playing with or were making arrangements with. Twice it was with someone that I had posted and out of curiosity I posted and asked it they had received my po…
Friends feature
in Website ·
Good move Wayne
So who is hunting? Who is shooting?
in Open Forum ·
I have a friend, a duck hunter, that figures it this way. Two birds = 75 in gas 160 for motel plus ammunition comes to. 4 dollars for ammo. 20 for target practice 235 for vacation It come out to $2 a bird. At least that is the number he te…
Why can free members send Friend requests?
in Website ·
The question though would be one of accountability. If some investigator were to look into someone doing something illegal, one road of investigation would be to follow the money. If SLS had some of the tainted cash that would imply collus…
Why can free members send Friend requests?
in Website ·
If I were a pimp, I would consider a monthly membership fair advertising overhead. Some one needs to explain to me why inserting yourself into the revenue stream , would make you less liable. Being blindsided by someone who just walked in…
So who is hunting? Who is shooting?
in Open Forum ·
Goodenuff You are correct. Can I blame lack of sleep??
So who is hunting? Who is shooting?
in Open Forum ·
In WI the stats average around 1 Auto vs. deer incident every 2 hours . 24/7 365
what is your opinion?
in Senior Swingers ·
We are not very open with our pictures. At this point though, an album would be open to you, if for no other reason that we will be able to recognize each other in a restaurant.
Existing Member Profile Update Approvals
in Website ·
That was not my set of observations. First, the location was for some reason not accepting input. (Perhaps because it was not a change?) The second is the Personal demographics. I would , and did, look for them under the about you tab. I f…
Existing Member Profile Update Approvals
in Website ·
Questions about the profile update tool First I had difficulty in what looked like a mandatory field that I did not want to change , but was being asked for an updated location. I reentered the same location and it would not accept it. The…
WIFI and camping
in Open Forum ·
NotAndrew. My purpose was not to have access myself. The purpose was to have our presence known to anyone who could properly interpret "slscouple" . I know that people do look for a WIFI signal if for no other reason than to monitor the we…
WIFI and camping
in Open Forum ·
A year or two ago someone here, said that they set up a WIFI signal at campsites so that anyone there who was in the know could identify that they were close. Identifying the router with something like SLScoupleatsite33 If they see this I…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
We have also wondered in church. A while back we noted that we were one of a very few established married couples who routinely shared PDAs. (Holding hands, arms around one another. Opening doors. Kiss Of Peace actually being a full on fro…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
I am aware of gaydar as a semi mythical phenomenon enabling someone to zero in on a fellow gay person. This based on highly tuned observational skills. I recently learned that there was/is a chat group by that name. I am unaware of any app…
Pineapples
in 3-Some ·
This is not strictly about pineapples, but it is in the same vein. Question: Is anyone aware of technology, or better yet an app with the following attributes. 1. would be cell phone applicable 2 have a range similar to Bluetooth but would…
So who is hunting? Who is shooting?
in Open Forum ·
Thanks.
So who is hunting? Who is shooting?
in Open Forum ·
This is a bit off topic, but I thought that people with some knowledge on the matter would be found here. For myself, I know more about slingshots and knives than I do guns. This is a technical question not a political one, although it has…
The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?
in Politics ·
tbrmskss, I will explain. It appears that hardly anyone cares to enforce the non-citizenship rule , largely because there is no easy way to determine if it is being broken. This would make enforcement compliance to an existing rule a real…
SLS App vs SLS Website
in Website ·
It sounds like it is best to consider the two as stand alone applications both feeding off of the same data base.
Biden-Trump Debates
in Politics ·
Post debate neither has elevated themselves into the top three candidates of their party who I would not get ill thinking of voting for. At 73 I hope that just once more in my life I will be able to vote enthusiastically for someone. It ha…