Messages
in Website ·
I've tried to check it multiple times, and nothing and the birdie and red circle 1 are still there regardless
NcLookn
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Messages
in Website ·
Anyone else have a birdie showing up and 1 over the alerts, but when I open it, there's nothing there but it still says 1 of 1 ???
Pussy or Ass
in 3-Some ·
4_Real....AMEN !! That's my favorite part as well. Mrs knows I love her full of another man's cum and I'm gonna fuck her good afterwards
What’s more enjoyable Fresh or Sloppy Pussy
in Men Talk ·
Used, all day every day
What’s more enjoyable Fresh or Sloppy Pussy
in Men Talk ·
Used, all day every day
Who Viewed Me Views
in Website ·
Angel, ours did the same and I haven't adjusted any settings either. Granted we only have a year on this website, but it's still the principle
Couples embarrassed they like MFM?
in 3-Some ·
We don't usually meet SM, but that's our preferences. Mrs actually enjoys a good MFM when we meet couples. She enjoys being the center of attention
Messaging
in Swinger Advice ·
Just gonna keep on keeping on and see where it goes I guess.... thanks for the positivity and insight
How long before you brought up LS?
in Swinger Advice ·
We were about 5 years into our marriage when we actively discussed it. We'll celebrate 22 in September. It helped the Mrs to open up tremendously to embrace her bisexuality. We've had good and bad experiences, but the good outnumber the ba…
Messaging
in Swinger Advice ·
OHW... I just send a few sentences on the first one to show interest, compliment a pic, nothing extravagant on the first contract. I usually follow up with more if I get a positive response. If the response is no, I thank then for acknowle…
Messaging
in Swinger Advice ·
I know no one is entitled to a response, but when did common courtesy disappear from society ?? Is it common place not to respond or too much to ask, even if it's a "no thank you" ?? Just gets frustrating to try and meet new people and pot…
How's the Weather Out There
in Open Forum ·
Sunny and 70s on the NC coast today
Keeping you cock and balls hairless
in Men Talk ·
So after most of my adult life with NEVER doing it,, Mrs convinced me to try the Magic Shave powder. I have to admit it's definitely a new experience. I'm liking it so far and she loves it, so I think it's gonna stay. Mind you, we've alrea…
Swinging with a family
in 3-Some ·
Like others have stated, family is always first. We have kids at home as well, and do not even suggest to host. We like to treat ourselves to at least dinner out, if not more. If we can meet people on a date night, all the better. Our olde…
Same room or Separate room FULL SWAP?
in Straight Couples ·
We've done it both ways, same and separate. We enjoy watching each other play. It's all a matter of what everyone involved agrees on and is comfortable with. There are pros and cons to both sides.
Pierced nips, yeah or nay .
in Open Forum ·
Wife had them before but they healed up when our son came along. Eventually going to get them redone. Total turn on, we vote yes.
What's for Dinner
in Open Forum ·
Meatball Alfredo
Couples embarrassed they like MFM?
in 3-Some ·
I actually enjoy watching Mrs pleasure another gentleman. We actually did that with our last get together with our friends. We spit roasted her and she loved every second of him in her mouth and me inside her.
How long did you date your significant other before you got physically intimate?
in Swinger Advice ·
Only a few months, and we celebrated 21 years in September
App not logging in
in Open Forum ·
The app working seems to be intermittent at best. It worked fine this morning, but now it just spins. I posted this from a browser window.
Multiple creampies
in 3-Some ·
It's truly an amazing feeling. It's one of my favorite things to do. Last time Mrs spent the night with her man friend she even brought me one home the next morning.
Weight
in Swinger Advice ·
I wrote the original post. I appreciate all the input. I'm comfortable in my own skin and so is Mrs, but we just get tired of superficial people who judge us otherwise
Private Gallery request
in Open Forum ·
I haven't responded and do not intend to, just wanted other opinions
Private Gallery request
in Open Forum ·
Thanks guys, that was my thinking....As well as the distance between us being several hours of driving
Private Gallery request
in Open Forum ·
I apologize if this has been asked before, but I did not see it as I skimmed through. Just wanted to get an opinion on people requesting private gallery access with no other messages or meetings. We're not here to meet pic collectors. My o…
My Hot Wife is taking a big step tonight
in Fantasies ·
Wife did it not too long ago. She even brought me home a cream pie to fuck the next morning. ENJOY !! I know I did
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
Calcan, that's what I did....lol
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
CalCan, just glad to offer some insight in how the LS works for us. No more, no less.
Hallpass Couples UNITE
in Polyamory ·
We both have hall passes with the couple we're currently seeing. We have been with them for 2 months. It is difficult to line up our schedules for play time, but it's very worth it when we do. I've (Mr) had solo playtime with my lady frien…
I love watching other guys fuck my wife!
in 3-Some ·
It really is a turn on to watch and be watched. We both really enjoy it.
Most Embarrassing Moment
in 3-Some ·
Rustic.....Yeah I learned the hard way about the limitations of an air mattress if you saw my earlier post. We still had fun, and it's still a running joke between the 4 of us.
Most Embarrassing Moment
in 3-Some ·
So Mrs and I are spending the night with our couple friends. Well her hubs takes Mrs to their room and leaves his wife with me on an air mattress in the other room. It is a queen size air mattress and we're all bigger folks. Long story sho…
What would do.
in Men Talk ·
I'm gonna have to say my preference, it would be a deal breaker. Your wife may have enjoyed watching and been turned on, but if you weren't then that's kind of like taking one for the team. We don't take one for the team at all and wouldn'…
Who likes to Kiss?
in 3-Some ·
Exactly OneLyph..... every time
Taking One for the Team -or- NOT .Your thoughts?
in Polyamory ·
Taking one for the team has never been an option for us at all. We got in this together and we play together. If you don't like it, there are plenty of other people who will. Just my thoughts, MR NcLookn
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
in Open Forum ·
Tis better to be thought a fool and say nothing, than to open your mouth and remove all doubts. ~Mark Twain
Who likes to Kiss?
in 3-Some ·
We'll never understand how people play and don't kiss. It sets the mood for anything else to follow.
Telling everyone's families about it
in Polyamory ·
I know this is an older post, but it was very relieving to be open and honest with our oldest son who is 21. He totally understood and told me some things I didn't know about him. He is aware of us seeing another couple. We're actually alm…
Where's your favorite place to shoot your load?
in Men Talk ·
I prefer putting it inside my lady friend and she loves. Wife will take it anywhere.
wife want's to spend night alone with lover
in Men Talk ·
My wife and I have recently been actively seeing another couple. She recently had this opportunity and I was so glad she accepted his invite to spend the night with him. Long story short, she came home from being fucked very well and multi…
Wife gets extremely nervous
in Swinger Advice ·
Open communication is the key. You can only be mentally prepared so much. Don't be afraid to take time to yourselves to talk it out before you do anything. We did our first time. We went and had about a 20 minute private conversation befor…
New couple to lifestyle
in Bi Females ·
Mrs and I had multiple conversations prior to jumping in. We actually got in slowly thanks to couple friends. I (m) was actually the one with cold feet about going forward the first time after Mrs had been teasing our male friend most of t…
Outed in public
in Swinger Advice ·
Esperanza, I truly believe she was really interested in the lifestyle and seeing us in public made her even more curious about it. Her husband was way too drunk to even begin to have any legitimate conversation with her about it. Truthfull…
Yes and No partner communication
in First Contact ·
Argo, we're currently seeing a new couple for the first time in over a year. We were actually at a bar. She excused herself to go to the bathroom and I went outside to smoke. We were texting while we were separated and actually took a few…
Outed in public
in Swinger Advice ·
One.....I was so caught off guard, that I honestly wasn't thinking straight. I'm a smart ass by nature and normally would've said something like that back. Noted for next time, just the same.
Outed in public
in Swinger Advice ·
Holly.... we were all comfortable answering her questions together as a group. Just not used to being noticed I guess. It was our first time being called on it. We were dancing with the other partners and she was just being observant I gue…
Creative excuses
in First Contact ·
Esperanza, I'll do you one better. We got ditched at a club. The other couple INVITED us to the club as their guests and then she faked a headache to get away. They never told us the truth until the next week when I sent a text checking in.
Outed in public
in Swinger Advice ·
I apologize now if this is already been asked. I skimmed through the topics before I started this post to make sure. Mrs and I met new a new couple last night. We went out to dinner and hung out at a bar talking with them afterwards. Well…
From swinging to hotwife/cuckold. Is that your case?
in 3-Some ·
Seeking, I totally agree. We're both still playing, but I love going 2nd too. I love when she kisses and tells about her playdates. I get super hard hearing about it and have to have her afterwards.
Sleepovers
in 3-Some ·
My sub has stayed over several times now that my oldest son is old enough to understand. He knows his mother and I still love each other and nothing will change that, but we like to have adult fun too. I've had 3somes into the wee hours of…
ENC Swingers get together - New Bern and Morehead City
in North Carolina ·
We finally got to go to a party weekend and it was definitely fun, even though we were not playing. We definitely will be back. Met some really nice people there and made new friends
Cum Ettiquite
in Senior Swingers ·
BobnCat: I always let the other guy go first. I'm actually a fan of seconds. I love the feeling.
Cum Ettiquite
in Senior Swingers ·
Mrs will swallow mine, but the other couples we've ever played with she only creampied. Not that she didn't do oral with the other guys, but she has a tongue piercing and knows how to use it. The last male friend she had she used it to get…
Do you prefer a rude NO or no response at all?
in Men Talk ·
We'd rather have a clear and cut no, versus dragging it out or saying nothing at all. It's a matter of respect and we'll happily move along.
One word that describes you
in 3-Some ·
Comedian
straight-straight seems impossible
in Swinger Advice ·
Do what you feel you need to do. My wife is bi, but we have played straight before. It's not a requirement, just a bonus.
Orgasm
in Men Talk ·
After 20+ years with my wife, I've learned a lot of what makes her click. As others have said, it's not like flipping a switch. She doesn't orgasm every time either, but it's still an amazing experience and she loves the feeling of me bein…
ENC Swingers get together - New Bern and Morehead City
in North Carolina ·
We've been wanting to come for a party weekend truthfully, just seems every time it happens we have babysitting issues or cancelations. Maybe one day.....
We would like some feedback back on our profile
in Better Profiles ·
Profile looks good to us. Waving from NC. Good luck
Feeling cum shoot inside??
in Straight Couples ·
My girl prefers it. She loves the throbbing feeling inside her. I pulled out on her years ago when we were only dating and I thought she was going to cry. She thought she did something wrong. I was practically a virgin when we got together…
Creampie Eating
in Fantasies ·
Mrs wasn't keen on the idea until it actually happened in the heat of the moment after we got done with a full swap and were getting ready for bed. We don't keep any secrets and got turned on again hearing about each other's adventures. I…
Best iPhone App For Storing Photos
in Swinger Advice ·
I don't know if it's available for Apple store, but we use Keepsafe to store non public pictures on our phones
Blow job
in Men Talk ·
I have to disagree. My wife and my sub both have the piercing and it feels amazing.
How many many men have fucked your wife/gf?
in Men Talk ·
Actually I miscounted, it's 3, prospecting 4. Guess we're behind on the curve from what I'm reading.
What is the deal
in Men Talk ·
Maybe I just don't get it. Life goes on
What is the deal
in Men Talk ·
Mayhem, I've been very respectful commenting on outfits and tattoos, but they all have seem to fallen on deaf ears. I know we've spent a lot of time and effort to meet people before and some good, some bad. I'm just asking for honesty. If…
What is the deal
in Men Talk ·
Time, Definitely seems that way. It's almost like high school all over again.....ugh. We're new to the site and app, but definitely not new to LS. Guess we'll keep trudging along and see how it plays out.
What is the male view when a woman backs out on a date at the last minute?
in Men Talk ·
Mass, I've done it more than I can count. I was the one who got cold feet years ago when we did our first swap. I tend to spend a lot of time there and 2nd guessing too much. I'm trying to get better thanks to my Leo wife, but even she say…
What is the male view when a woman backs out on a date at the last minute?
in Men Talk ·
I say be honest and let him know it was your issue, and nothing to do with him. I know how you feel though. I'm (m) a Scorpio and spend way too much time in my own head too.
What is the deal
in Men Talk ·
I've never done that, but on the other side of it....How hard is it to return a message of no thanks or not interested ?? We're all here for the same things, for the most part, but just be honest. I guess that's too much to ask for some.
Biggest turn on
in Men Talk ·
Being vocal during sex and watching her with another man/woman or couple having fun.
How many many men have fucked your wife/gf?
in Men Talk ·
Besides me, 2. She's prospecting #3 but he won't budge
ENC Swingers get together - New Bern and Morehead City
in North Carolina ·
Could be fun, or at least meet people
Who likes to Kiss?
in 3-Some ·
Never had any issues with, during our otherwise. It's a very important part of after care in my opinion.