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Bliss tags

in Website ·

[quote=sls_WayneC] BottomsUp508 , We fixed the bug causing this issue and I removed your profile from the Nov 26 cruise. [/quote]Great, thank you.

Bliss tags

in Website ·

We’re no longer on the November ‘26 cruise and have removed ourselves from the attendee list but the banner persists. We also still show up as attending even though we’ve repeatedly removed ourselves. It’s annoying as we keep getting coupl…

were to sun bath nude

in 3-Some ·

Like others, our backyard all Summer, poolside, very secluded or visit us on Cape Cod and we’ll visit Sandy Terraces less than 5 minutes from our home. It’s not a LS place per se but completely nudist.

Submissive and dominate couples

in Fantasies ·

[quote=Maturemale1954]Has anyone ever enjoyed playtime where couples are a blend of subs and Doms I’m any combination of males and females . The kinky options of play seam endless and extremely exciting.[/quote]Yes, this happened on our la…

Choice Social Club

in Clubs ·

[quote=HOPnrBED]Looking for advice from those who frequent this club, is the location in a reasonably safe area of the city? Looking to stay in a nearby hotel.[/quote]We’ve been members for years and enjoy the club. Upscale, clean, very we…

were to sun bath nude

in 3-Some ·

We’ve literally been hanging out naked all summer by the pool. Gotta take advantage of the short New England Summers.

men watching their woman get fuck by another man

in 3-Some ·

When we’re playing with a couple I almost never watch my wife as I want to devote all my attention to the female partner I am with. However, when we are with another man in an MFM or if she’s on a solo date and filming, I find watching her…

Do you prefer threesomes or swaps between two couples

in 3-Some ·

We also love couples play but it’s getting harder and harder for us to find compatible partners. LS cruises the exception. Threesomes on the other hand are much easier for us to arrange and extremely enjoyable as we both have regular solo…

WTF

in Open Forum ·

@melvin we have done that but with minimal success. Perhaps part of that is the area we live in being somewhat rural and the number of options is limited. We’re also looking for certain qualities and characteristics and just haven’t had mu…

Hot wife

in Fantasies ·

@2m4 welcome to the club. Hotwives are the best! Oh, we get to the Glendale area 3-4x/ year. Just sayin’.

WTF

in Open Forum ·

@willy so true. We’d enjoy finding another S/M to join us but as soon as we open our profile to S/M’s the floodgates open with the one liners and those who obviously don’t read our profile. It’s too bad because we’re totally into the MFM d…

New to the LS question

in Women Talk ·

We also get alot of tourists on Cape Cod but by far we have more luck on cruises or going to local clubs or house parties. More people, real time data.

Your Swinger Cruise Experiences

in 3-Some ·

This November will be our 4th LS cruise and for us nothing compares. We’ve played with couples, we’ve played in groups and we’ve also played separately. It’s really whatever you and your partner are comfortable with. We’ve made friends fro…

Meet and Greats - Events

in Senior Swingers ·

We’re starting to come around on the daytime playtime thing. Last week I (M) had a daytime playdate with a female friend and when we finished went out and hung around the pool chatting for awhile. By 5pm she was on her way and I met my wif…

Ever see someone you know on SLS?

in Open Forum ·

Oh definitely. Once at a LS club with a couple we were very friendly with back when our sons were HS teammates. After the awkward initial eye lock we just started laughing and ended up playing the same night. We’ve also encountered people…

Long Term Single Male Friends

in 3-Some ·

We’ve also found that developing a real friendship and bond with our regular S/M play mate just heightens the date night experiences. We like to take pictures of our encounters and you can see the intimate connection whether it’s them lock…

Long Term Single Male Friends

in 3-Some ·

What @frau said is spot on. Our regular S/M friend who we’ve known for years respects us as we respect him and the sex between he and my wife is mind blowing. He’s local so we play often and it always hot. As an aside, we recently ran into…

I love watching other guys fuck my wife!

in 3-Some ·

Just returned from a LS cruise where I had the opportunity to watch her play with other men on a few occasions during couples play. Last night we got together with our regular S/M for a spicy MFM night of fun. Been a great week.

Bliss Lifestyle Cruise Opinions Wanted

in Cruise Talk ·

Like @CNY we just got back from the April cruise which was our 3rd and had a blast as usual. There are so many amazing people to meet and so many things to do. We’ve already booked the Nov. ‘23 and April ‘24 cruises. We’ve never been to He…

Multiple creampies

in 3-Some ·

Fucking my wife’s cum filled pussy is one of my favorite things to do. We have frequent MFM’s and there is something so hot about using the warm, sticky lube of another man’s cum to coat my cock and fill her a second time.

Uploading pictures pictures are disappearing

in Website ·

This is still happening. We uploaded 4 photos- boudoir type with no graphic content. They showed pending then disappeared. 3 hours later still nothing. Makes you wonder where the F they are.

Who likes to be Watched?

in 3-Some ·

Recently my wife and I jumped into one of the playrooms at our local LS club. One way mirror looking in and we knew people were watching. We had a hot fuck session and later on that night were approached by a couple on the dance floor tell…

You're last threesome

in 3-Some ·

Last Friday night with a regular S/M friend of ours and it was hours of everyone sucking and fucking each other to multiple orgasms. I took some very hot pics and videos that my wife and I have fucked to multiple times already. Something s…

Would You Do a Porn Movie???

in 3-Some ·

We have regular MFM’s with a steady S/M friend and we always video parts of the encounters for future enjoyment. You tend to miss things in the heat of the moment and when we watch the video afterwards it’s very enjoyable. Doing another MF…

Desire RM first timers

in Resorts ·

@exiled I would say definitely hit or miss. We were there in April for our 1st time and our guess based on all the couples we met was 80% nudists 20% LS. The LS couples we did meet felt similarly. Since we were not there for the nudists we…

November Bliss Cruise 2022

in Cruise Talk ·

@jinx you’re going to have a blast. Our first cruise of any type was the 2019 Bliss cruise and there’s no turning back for us.

best places to find men for your wife?

in 3-Some ·

We’ve had pretty good luck on SLS finding respectful SM’s to play with. You just have to be thorough with the screening process. We’ll meet for drinks and if all goes well the 2nd date is playtime. My wife has a regular S/M that she partic…

November Bliss Cruise 2022

in Cruise Talk ·

We’d love to connect with couples leading up to the cruise. Take a peek at our profile and if it’s of interest, please reach out.

Watching my wife fuck another man

in 3-Some ·

We had a MFM last weekend with one of our regular guys. I filmed about 6 minutes of my wife and friend fucking before I had to jump in on the fun. We watched the video last night while we were fucking and we were both so turned on. Seeing…

November Bliss Cruise 2022

in Cruise Talk ·

@funly we went to claim ours but it had already been claimed by another couple. We reached out to them and they told us they were in that cabin on the 2021 cruise so something is clearly not working correctly.

Watching my wife fuck another man

in 3-Some ·

We’re lucky to have 2 regular S/M’s that we play with. One is our age and the other about 20 years younger. Each brings something different to the table and my wife and I enjoy both. Last night we had a date with the younger gentleman. I l…

Truth about Bliss Cruises

in Cruise Talk ·

@booya we were you in 2019. Had never been on a cruise of any type and went on the Nov. 2019 Bliss cruise and had the best vacation ever. We are booked for Nov. 2022 and can’t wait.

November Bliss Cruise 2022

in Cruise Talk ·

@odd just go with an open mind and smile at everyone. You’ll be amazed at how many people you’ll meet. We were cruise virgins in 2019 and had the best vacation we’ve ever had. Can’t wait for November.

Any hotwives in here or hotwife couples?

in Straight Couples ·

My hotwife had an overnight hotel date this past Monday with one of our regular friends. She texted me a couple of very hot pics from the hotel and on Tuesday morning called me at 6:30am and left the speaker open so I could hear them bangi…

First Timers looking for advice

in Resorts ·

We’re heading to Desire RM for the 1st time in April so can’t comment on that but we’ve been to numerous clubs, hotel takeovers and Bliss cruises. Our absolute favorite is the cruise. It’s nonstop fun and you can make of it what you want.…

Desire RM 4/24 - 4/30

in Resorts ·

Really looking forward to our 1st visit to Desire. Hopefully we run into some sexy new friends.

Hot wife

in Fantasies ·

My wife had a hotwife date with one of our S/M friends this morning. She calls it going for coffee. Anyway, she just texted me a couple of photos and she voice recorded the whole session (with his approval of course) and she intends to pla…

I love watching other guys fuck my wife!

in 3-Some ·

This happened last night with a S/M friend of ours. The 3 of us met for a few drinks at a local bar and after finishing our drinks the 2 of them drove to our house. I followed about 15 minutes later to give them a head start and as soon as…

I love watching other guys fuck my wife!

in 3-Some ·

Like others have said, the quickest way to get my wife’s attention is through a well written introductory message. The “ hey there” or “what’s up sexy” messages don’t cut it. We’re meeting 2 S/M’s this week for meet and greets - and possib…

Coronavirus Covid-19 Vaccination

in Open Forum ·

Talking cases without the context of hospitalizations and deaths is pointless. We are all going to come across this virus at some point - vaccinated or not - and become a case. Here is some data from the MA Governor’s Office. Make of it wh…

Aruba

in Travel ·

We’ll be there November 2 - 9, 2021

Bliss cruises

in Cruise Talk ·

I’m with @scarlet. Would love to see the source of information on @destins super spreaders who “took the jab” being responsible for shedding spike proteins all over the land.

Messaging

in Website ·

Messaging, hot dates, gallery permissions. There are more things not working than working. We’d have a better chance to connect with people if we got on our roof and sent smoke signals.

From swinging to hotwife/cuckold. Is that your case?

in 3-Some ·

We started in the LS strictly playing as a couple with couples. We quickly realized 4-way connections can be elusive and began a transition to MFM play as well as hotwife play. We’re fortunate to have a few FWB couples who also are into ho…

Blocking someone

in Open Forum ·

@rabbit visits our profile then leaves snarky comment on the thread to harass us. The definition of cyber stalking. You make it too easy. Still waiting for you to employ the block though. C’mon, you can do it.

Blocking someone

in Open Forum ·

@goodgolly let me finish your thought: “ Reason #147 to never give your phone number to anyone you haven't met.....” especially when the information culled from said phone number proves you to be a liar, fraud, convict, or general scumbag.…

Blocking someone

in Open Forum ·

@hot c’mon man. Want to fudge your age a year or two fine. 10 years, gtfoh. They are lucky we didn’t meet. I’d have sent their lying asses packing. Knowledge is power. You bet I’ll run your number if you give it. Saved us a wasted evening…

Blocking someone

in Open Forum ·

We were blocked by a profile today after finding out they were lying about their ages by 10 years and calling them on it. Pictures gave a hint but they doubled down by claiming we were wrong. We had been messaging back and forth and had se…

Squirting

in Fantasies ·

I’ve lost my share of golf balls over the years but never once thought to look there. Gives new meaning to unplayable lie.

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

No bar pickups going on with with Covid but my hotwife is meeting one of our male friends for dinner, drinks and an overnight hotel stay this weekend.

Approving pics broken?

in Website ·

So I see the picture approval process is still broken. Just uploaded 4 public pics. Showed up for a minute as awaiting approval then disappeared. Poof.

New matches is flawed

in Website ·

@slswayne, thanks and I get that. We’ve been signed up for cruises in the past but not seen this amount of profile traffic- especially 10 months ahead of the cruise. Not a biggie. We were just wondering. No further follow up required. Than…

New matches is flawed

in Website ·

@RonKathy I know I can do that but this behavior is recent. Just wondering if others have noticed similar and what may be causing it. Maybe we’re just popular all of a sudden ;-)

New matches is flawed

in Website ·

Within the last 2 weeks or so we have been getting between 50 and 100 profile views a day. 90 percent of those are from couples that are hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. We’ve made no changes to our profile preferences or location…

Finding a fuck buddy

in Finding Playmates ·

@pink similar story here. All the clubs and parties we attend in Providence are shut down due to Covid. We had pretty good success finding playmates at those events. Having said that, we’ve also met a number of couples here that we’ve beco…

BLISS APRIL 2021

in Cruise Talk ·

@van I’m definitely not disputing the issue of refunds. Don’t know if was intuition or dumb luck but last Feb. when the pandemic started spiraling we immediately called our travel agent and cancelled both our Nov. 2020 booking as well as o…

Beverage Question

in Cruise Talk ·

Yes, you’ll have the option of all inclusive which includes all alcohol and water, soft drinks, coffee. Or there’s a soft drink/ water/ coffee only (no alcohol) package. You can also just pay as you go. The packages usually come available…

BLISS APRIL 2021

in Cruise Talk ·

My guess is the cruise line is not going to refund the money to Bliss which is why the travel agencies are trying to use the credit towards a different cruise option. They can’t afford (guessing here) or don’t have the means to refund the…

New SLS Chat Room Beta

in Website ·

If the chat rooms are ever going to be a vehicle for actually meeting people there needs to be rooms based on location/geography. Otherwise, no value for us.

Any hotwives in here or hotwife couples?

in Straight Couples ·

The last time my hotwife entertained a gentleman at our house I watched her put on the sexiest little dress that barely covered her ass along with a pair of thigh highs boots. She looked amazing. I left before he arrived and went out for a…

New SLS Chat Room Beta

in Website ·

We never used the chat feature on this site until we saw the “new” chat notification last week. All we gotta say is no thanks. From what we’ve seen it’s mostly mind numbing conversations about nothing, people trolling or single males strok…

Pick my wife up in a bar

in Fantasies ·

We’ve done this at numerous upscale hotels in Boston and were rarely disappointed with the results. It’s always up to the Mrs. on whether or not she wanted to play but more often than not the options were available.

Lost Underwear!

in 3-Some ·

All you need to do is look at our profile and you’ll see where we stand on this subject. Nothing hotter than a sexy woman wearing a pair of panties under a see through dress or standalone with boots/heels.

Lost Underwear!

in 3-Some ·

My wife’s panties are scattered all over the Southcoast of MA. Funny but she never leaves her shoes behind :-)

Top Secret Resort Orlando

in Resorts ·

@NJShore we did get a message today from our travel agent about a New Lifestyle Resort called Top Secrets Resort of Orlando.

Jealousy

in Swinger Advice ·

We completely echo what @ronkathy had to say. If both partners aren’t having a blast in the LS then it’s probably not worth doing. Each of us not only derive our fun and pleasure from playing with others but from knowing our partner shares…

Fucking Friday

in 3-Some ·

She’s wearing her fuck me panties so I guess it’s gonna be a fucking Friday

I love watching other guys fuck my wife!

in 3-Some ·

The MFM dynamic has become a favorite of ours. We had a very hot play date last night with a gentleman we’ve known and played with in the past. Not sure if it was due to Covid withdrawal and not seeing him in 10 months but my wife had mult…

I love watching other guys fuck my wife!

in 3-Some ·

We had a MFM play date last night and the hottest part for me was watching my wife spread her legs while our friends cock disappeared into her pussy and then listening to her moaning while he worked her. She was sucking me, her eyes closed…

Blocked to free members

in New Forums ·

For the past few weeks we’ve been inundated with profile views from free members and some paid members but all profiles had no pictures except the default Gumby. We immediately block those.

Rampant Lying about Age

in Swinger Advice ·

We wear our age like a badge of honor. We work hard to stay in shape and look our best so we believe in truth in advertising. Also, like some others we update our pictures very frequently. There will likely never be pictures older than 6 m…

Fucking Friday

in 3-Some ·

Playing with some close LS friends tonight so it will indeed be a happy fucking Friday.

Any older couples like young guys

in Senior Swingers ·

We’ve actually never played with anyone older than us but that’s not by design. We seem to draw interest from a younger demographic. We’ve played with couples as young as 35 years of age all the way up to the mid-fifties. My wife has had t…

BLISS APRIL 2021

in Cruise Talk ·

@vanasian like you, we are also booked on the Nov. 2021 cruise and are having doubts as to whether that cruise will even leave port and if it does, will it be worth it. RCL released a 74 page document on all the protocols they will follow…