Refusal to send pictures

So let's take this on out to meeting up with someone you have never seen as much as a picture of. How in the hell are you going to know if they show up or not? Now this does not mean that perhaps you sent a picture and they know what you look like and will find you but even then 3 sets of eyes (theirs and yours) looking makes it a lot easier to find each other. Then you get into the fact that a cyclops Quasimodo would have a very hard time overcoming looks with personality. Yeah I know that is somewhat shallow but still there is a certain point in the looks department that everyone will draw the line at. Now it is a different point but knowing it is there up front can save a lot of wasted time.

Now this brings us to the safety issue. Regardless of how well you think you can handle problems there is always the chance that in the end you show up and are met with an unexpected group intent on doing harm to a "pervert" instead of the expected couple. This is especially true given how people do such things to post a video of them being a jackass or worse. Now this does not mean a picture sent makes it any less of a potential however the fact they refuse to send one at all raises the question "What else are they hiding about a potential encounter?"

Just from a common sense standpoint, assuming you did go through with meeting them, how could you even tell who it was if you didn't know what they looked like?

I can see only wanting to do g-rated pics before meeting, but like others, we'd not be meeting if someone wanted to send no pictures at all. If they even showed for a meet up, it sounds like they'd want to check you out and just walk away if they didn't like what they saw for any reason.

Huge red flag. And in any case, what the fuck? Who expects anybody to want to go on a completely blind date, where the lack of visual information is one-sided? I am concerned and hope you are asking this simply for what I call a "sanity check"/validation? Yes - you are thinking clearly that it is completely wrong and is a huge red flag that they are refusing. Crazy. BIG NO. Consider yourself fortunate that they gave you a huge red flag right from the start.

The reddest of red flags. Move along.

I wouldn't ask twice, I'd just forget them

OH YES.. move on !

Many fakes here and people who screw around with others and not in good sense!

If you are on a swing site , no photos , a poorly written profile, and will not send any photos in message or on your profile.. BIG RED FLAG!

We are here to find like swingers who are fun.. not chatting forever, not sending more photos.. we have enough that tells who and what we are about... just move on and chalk it up.. its your journey!

They certainly would not be meeting us without us seeing what they look like ahead of time. Do yourself a favor and block them.

A couple got in contact with me about possibly meeting, but they’re refusing to send any kind of pictures prior meeting., they don’t have any pictures here and they refuse to send any through messages or email.

Red flag?