Bliss Cruise - November 9-16, 2026 - Wonder of the Seas.
Any Wisconsin or Florida people going on the cruise? mnjfla on most sites. Feel free to message us.
MNJFLA
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Things that are a big turn off in general
Mayhem you bring up a serious point. In one case, we were at a LS house party and saw a couple like this that we knew from a Meet & Greet. They were fine at a M & G but not so much at an on-prem party. As I feared, they made a scene becaus…
Newbies - Yay or Nay?
We were newbies once and understand nervousness. when we decided to play we jumped right in and played. We do play with newbies but we are cautious. If they come to us with many rules, and maybe soft play, and no expectation of sex, we mig…
Enticing neighbors to play
We have been in the lifestyle several years. We have thought about inviting neighbors over for a drink, as we would very much like to play with them. What do we say or how do we go about it? So would you take a chance and let others know y…
Bliss Cruise - November 9-16, 2026 - Wonder of the Seas.
Fun married professional couple, in Leesburg Florida. Have been playing most of our marriage, we enjoy sexual variety. Looking for couples. Age or race no problem, just want great personalities. We are on the November Bliss Cruise Cabin 95…
Meeting other couples on cruses
We will be on the November 9th, 2026 Bliss cruise out of Miami. Staying at the Marriott the night before. You can meet us in he bar, but not the $$$$$ meet and greet ! When on the ship do not hesitate to look at people and smile. Ask where…
Men polishing their toenails
We were on a bliss cruise and saw a young man 30s with polished toenails, light green I think. Looked great and made me think if I would want to do that for myself. Is this an indication of being gay or bi? Wife and I are both Bi love when…
naughty daughter scenario
We love roll play and so ling as it has been mentioned here, without going into detail we agree.. Any further chat please feel free to contact us personally. mnjfla
Sucking my 1st cock
Mine was like six months ago, was great we did oral on each other then I did more on him. I will share the story with anyone that contacts me. I will not post it here, as some might not want to read it. mnjfla
Bliss tags
StayForThePrize wrote: We are on the Bliss cruises, but is there a way to remove the Bliss banner from our profile and still stay as a attendee of the cruise? We also have the Bliss banner. No one has contacted us so if they do you, be fla…
How to Figure Out if Others Will Swing or No
Onehorneywife wrote: My wife is of the opinion that if you see a couple and the woman is dressed very sexy and has on some revealing clothes that they most probably are into the LS. We have yet to test this theory but I can tell you she dr…
LOCATION
We live in Leesburg Florida in a retirement community on 27 and 48. We are not aware of any lifestyle people that may live here. If we express that we might be we are shunned, and labeled as undesirable people. Personally I do not care wha…
Dress code
We are happy that people have posted this and others have responded with some great comments. We too have had some wonderful experiences with people that dressed and presented well. There also have been some that we honestly should have go…
Cruise or Hedo?
Going on our third bliss cruise as we have enjoyed these, and found people play with. HEDO SUCKED in our opinion. Nothing but disappointment, for the money the food was terrible, the room was substandard, walked up a hill to get to the foo…
Does age matter when meeting a new couple
We know people personally that are close to 80, and post early 60s. We Are 60s and working on our diets, and physical appearance. We have been with 25 to 85 and enjoyed them all. We are in this for the sex, not to worry about ages or weigh…
Face pictures requested .
FACE PHOTOS...... when we see profile with no photos at all we request to see face photos. This has happened once when we requested, then they posted and we stated sorry not interested they were mad,. My fault???? If I had see their face a…
Camping
We like the idea of camping and swinging. We love being naked outdoors, and sex in the wild. Both my wife and I prefer a camper, as we have both slept on the ground in a tent and did not care for it. We prefer the comfort of of a hard shel…
Camping
We like the idea of camping and swinging. We love being naked outdoors, and sex in the wild. Both my wife and I prefer a camper, as we have both slept on the ground in a tent and did not care for it. We prefer the comfort of of a hard shel…
Desire Pearl
PEARL DESIRE: Love to hear from others that have been there. We have been to Hedo, on Bliss cruises and now want to try something new. We enjoyed the Bliss cruises, but not Hedo. We have heard from others that they even have memberships at…
Sexy undergarments for men
I could wear something sexy but is goes off as soon as her and I get in the bedroom. We only have one thing thing on our mind get naked and fuck. If she wears granny panties, I really take notice. I usually wear briefs, nice color. Nothing…
PENILE IMPLANT
I have one also and like to keep it partially inflated so people can see it. I paid for it suffered to recovery and am dam proud to show it off and use it. If yo got it flaunt it !!!!!!
PENILE IMPLANT
WOOPS I THINK MY DYSLEXIA KICKED IN..... 920-858-4410.........I have my second penile implant love it. I got the Coloplast Titan this time. Had the AMS700 first time blew out at three years. Pump it up and stay hard as long as you want, ev…
PENILE IMPLANT
I have an implant going on ten years now. The length yo have now without the implant is what you will have when you get the implant. The pumped up tubes will widen your penis and add a fraction of length. Men say oh I lost some length. You…
Picture Galleries
So if this is all switching over completely when will it happen??? My photos are taken mostly with my phone I do not know if there is a date stamp on them.?
A family member on sls
We would be proud of our kids if we saw them on a swinger site, more proud if we saw them swinging in person. Same goes for our friends and neighbors, even our minister and his wife. We feel sex is freedom, great exercise for the body as w…
Northwestern Wi
VERY FEW SWINGERS IN WISCONSIN THE REASON WE LEFT. And the bitter cold weather. We now live in Florida and have found many swingers although not as many serious as we had hoped. Still we like where we live and have no regrets leaving Wisco…
Has anyone fallen in love
I LOVE you, is easy to say that when fucking someone else. It is very intense and easy to cross the line. What I try to do is say I love this or that about you, but not directly love you ... BE CAREFUL the is only sex and you do, and shoul…
Attire at first face to face meet
We may talk about the best attires here first meeting.....NOW what is the worst attire someone has ever shown up in.????? I'll start we had younger than us couple, show up at our local restaurant. They had dirty T shirts, shorts, work boot…
married bi men how does your wife like yourbeing bi and do you play together
We are both bi and love it. She actually encourages me, holds and points my cock in his ass and says fuck him honey. She knows how much I love it and she loves eating the lady. We have a blast and all come so hard and wild. Any bi couples…
Swinging and ostomy
Being past medical profession and now swinger, I would like to comment. I recently played with a very beautiful hot lady, while my wife has a wonderful time with her hubby. She wore a wide band around her waist covering up the appliance. I…
Second Chances
I would like to reply. SECOND CHANCE When we meet a couple and he more than she, is all excited about playing. We invite them in our bed we are ready, willing and able, they are not. He cannot get hard, and she says I cant play if he does…
Advice on someone just stopping by our house
Warn him one time that if heh shows up like that again he will be arrested for trespassing. You have done nothing illegal by playing with him. And how the hell can he prove it ? Stalking someone could be illegal and dangerous. We will be i…
Cards anyone?
CARDS ?????? What I was excited to read is that people are exchanging information cards. Our cards include our phone number, e mail site name and photo of both of us. When we talk to a couple we offer our card and if they forget what we lo…
Why are there no event or group discussions in these forums?
Us for one read the forums and have chatted in private with many great couples. We have made some new friends by reaching out even if they live in another state. Many people do travel to Florida and we happen to meet them. Also we play wit…
Soft Swap is Dying
SOFT SWAP .......we believe that if that is what couples want to do that is their preference. For us we decided long ago to be swingers, and in our opinion soft swap is not swinging. Also we hear people say we are in " the lifestyle," but…
Christian swingers
We have been married 12 years swinging eight. We always know where the other is and what is happening. We do not do hall pas but if we did we would fee it is ok. We have had fantasies of fucking our pastor and his wife. They are young and…
STICK MEN / WOMEN IN THE PROFILE
Thanks for explaining this opens my eyes to a different perspective.
STICK MEN / WOMEN IN THE PROFILE
How does everyone react when they see stick men, and women in the profile, paid couples? Not to mention the free ads? We tend to send as little information as possible or just bloc them. If we did take the time in the past to contact them…
First dates and fucking
For us my wife always dresses in good taste, will change into something sexy in the house. Keep in mind that the neighbors are always watching. The clothes all come off completely when we are ready to play, lol. We keep our swinging on the…
First dates and fucking
We have played first date most of the time. Only time we did not is when they showed up, talked too much, drank too much, or were slobs. We always dress well, shower, shave, look and smell great. We hate men that think they are Gods gift t…
Hotwife Bare or Condoms?
We prefer bareback and have done so with 95% of the people we have played with. Every time we go to the doctor for a blood test we add the STI test. Not that difficult. If we do anal we will always use condoms, and that is not often, we ac…
play parties
HOUSE PARTIES: We plan to have house parties when we move into our new house. We would keep the limit to about eight couples. We would have our beds set up and a few rules. One thing we request is that they bring a small dish to pass, brin…
SEX WITH THE X
How many have or would like to have sex with the X? Jut a thought while I am sitting here in thought..
How often do you change your profile?
We update our profile like weekly switching around words or ideas. We keep our photos fresh, and appealing. We continually message other couples. YES I copy and paste as we message so many people. I do not know what to do anymore to be mor…
Black ring means you are in the lifestyle?
We have worn the black ring on the right hand, swinger necklaces, toe rings like mentioned by others, these things have been useless. None of the symbols are helpful for us. What has been helpful is good old conversation. Say hi to someone…
Jewelry - how much and what is appropriate
NO sharp diamond rings, no necklaces that hit me in the face when you are on top fucking, no sharp jewelry of any kind that may injure me..
ARE YOU PEOPLE SERIOUS ???
Again I will rant about profiles and photos, in the opening post. When I see a woman's "ass or tits" not a face photo or no photos of the man, I am turned off. ( can see this in a playboy magazine) Or only a photo of the man, and woman pos…
Desire Pearl
We have not visited Pearl yet but would like to. Can someone tell us what it is like and the estimated cost. Is there a good time to go like themes etc. We want to go when we have the best opportunity to play and meet couples. We have been…
choking
Neither my wife nor I are comfortable with it.; We have however tried a few other kinks and enjoy them. You can PVT message us if you like to know.
Less than ideal online names
We wanted to keep our name short and sweet after we had much longer hard to remember name.
Penile Implant
mnjfla here I have had a penile implant now for like 8 years. Works well and my wife loves it. I do also as I can get hard and stay hard as long as I want. If you have any questions please feel free to message me. I am happy to chat with a…
Where would you go?
Where we would not go again is HEDONISM 2 in Jamaica. Private message us I will tell you why/
How many are on your block list?
Unfortunately we have blocked several. We message people sometimes twice, and I know we are being a pest. When a couple weeks go by we block them, there are a few reasons why. One is so we do not continue to be a pest, two so they cannot c…
Men shave or beard ?
I have for years shaved my face but recently have decided to grow out my beard at least for a while. I want see how I look with a beard. I see many men will shave, while many will grow a goatee or beard or mustache. Ladies and men,,, what…
I have a problem
Midaghipppie I looked at your photos and profile and see nothing wrong. You both are very nice looking people and if you lived closer we would certainly play with you. As far as the men wanting your wife and the women not wanting you, we h…
PENILE IMPLANTS
I have two implants, the first failed at three years, my wife has an insatiable appetite for sex. I changed brands for the second one. You will lose some sensation maybe when fully pumped up. You can still ejaculate if you ejaculated befor…
Bliss Cruise April 2025
Was this cruise all you expected? We enjoyed the cruise, the food, the entertainment was better than the last April cruise we went on. We enjoyed the speed dating event, the light show, the skating she, the music somewhat. We did meet and…
First dates and fucking
One pre qualifier to being comfortable enough to pay on first date, is all four talking on speaker phone, or face chat. Also agree that after spending time chatting, and getting to know the other couple, then meet "in public," if all agree…
Introduction
What do most people put as an opening line to contact, and inquire as to whether a couple may be interested ? I tend to say where we are from, that we are interested in "your" profile and would you like to meet for a drink or a meal? We te…
Forum stories
So Bridgetender you popped back in to criticize and start some crap. If you have nothing intelligent to contribute why bother. My comments were founded and to the point. I stand by what I said and from past experience have very reason to c…
Forum stories
Phoebertandwife you do not live in this area let alone Florida. You have no idea how people dress here even if you visited for a time. People here are not farmers, as there are very few farms left as they have been developed into housing.…
Etiquette for turning down someone's advances at a house party.
Our thoughts are if we ever have a house party we will provide the names to those that are approved to attend to everyone that is attending. There have been occasions where we do not want not see a particular couple, at a party or anywhere…
Do you really want to play
Again I want to comment on the mode of dress when meeting others, or taking photographs, as well as mannerisms. I feel it is important to dress well, look good and present well. We met with a couple last evening where he wore a cowboy hat,…
CONNECTING WITH COUPLES ON THE CRUISE
First of all DON'T WAIT until you get there make connections now. Last cruise we were on it took three days to get a play date. People seem to mostly be newbies or very inexperienced. They tend to drink too much then fall a sleep, lose int…
Hotwife Bare or Condoms?
We get tested often, as insurance pays for it when the Doctor orders it. WE have told the doctor we are swingers. One to get tested and two hope the female doctor will want to play with us... lol
married bi men how does your wife like yourbeing bi and do you play together
Well my wife enjoys bi play and recently, when we were in bed with another couple, I became bi. The girls were playing and the guy played with me. If you would like to know the details private message me. Yes my wife is very supportive as…
What would you tell your kids if they found out.
We have no idea if our kids know. If anyone found out I may have mistakenly posted something in the wrong area. SO WHAT. If they find out they should know that their parents still have sex. With whom if they know not, so what. They live 12…
Blocked to free members
Not playing or temporarily not playing...... It might be more believable and scientific to just say you will be on an extended vacation for a few months. Say you will keep your profile active and communicate for possible future get togethe…
How many are on your block list?
Mayhem good point Will reconsider my strategy.
WTF is no on these sites serious ?
We have sent out at least what seems like a few hundred inquiries, and most no response. Are these people real, or just fake posts. Do people post just to snoop on others' profiles ? We are not that ugly, heavy, and do brush our teeth and…
Hotwife Bare or Condoms?
We go bareback but carry latex free condoms. I got asked by a very hot lady at a party, but did not have latex free condoms. Severe latex allergy, now we carry our own so we do not pass up an opportunity. We attend parties where no one wea…
Open for advice in Leesburg Florida
mnjfla ..... we have been in the lifestyle for eight years. We have constantly updated our photos and profile. It helps to have others review your profile an photos and lend their advice. Hope someone will look at ours again and let us kno…
straight to Bi
My wife enjoys bi play and I have discussed the fantasy with her, me getting involved with a man. I have been straight up to this point. I have fantasized about sucking a mans cock, and finally met a couple that the man was as curious as m…
FEREEEEEEEE POSTING ????
AGAIN... why are free postings allowed and how did they get approved ? They do nothing but clutter up the site, making it more difficult to contact serious people. We waste our time combing through the free people only to find we can not c…
First dates and fucking
Mayhem always enjoy reading your comments. We too have had that experience, once played with a couple the lady was done in maybe fifteen minutes. She got hers did not care on bit about my satisfaction. He kept on going with my wife, and hi…
Does anyone NOT shave their pubes bald?
Personally I do not like mouth full of pussy hair. When I met my wife I had her shave now she waxes. Smooth shows me that woman takes more time to take care of herself.
First dates and fucking
Esparenza for us we like to keep some distance initially to evaluate whether or not we would want to play with a couple. We usually like to meet at a party or restaurant, then after chatting we determine if we want to play. We have made th…
Top vs Bottom
I (the male) had my first bi experience a few days ago. My wife is bi and loves it. We have talked about me wanting to suck a guys cock and she is very supportive. We met a couple recently and played at our house. We started out MF in sepa…
TO BLOCK OR NOT TO BLOCK THAT IS THE QUESTION
FREE PROFILES ?????? I block them automatically as I feel if they do not want to make the effort to actually pay for the site they are not serious enough to communicate with. There are more than enough "scammers" on here that are just look…
Why do people make shitty profiles?
Manmar1 I like your comments about "lazy people." We really get turned off by men that meet us in old jeans, work shirts and a worn baseball cap. The lady will wear jeans and a loose fitting oversize shirt, hair unkempt, nails unpolished,…
Nudists are not all swingers
SOMEONESCOMING I hear you in that many nudists are not swingers. I feel they should not label themselves as "Lifestyle" either. We were on a recent Bliss cruise and sat next to a couple we would have been interested in playing with. They s…
NEIGHBORS ???
We live in the Hawthorne community on HWY 27 in Leesburg. this appears to be a very conservative community. I have spoken with one custodial friend, and they state that there are swingers living here. I would like to know how to go about m…
Interracial
I am a white hubby one of my fantasies is to play with a black lady. Of course the hubby would have to be white.
NEW April 2024 - 5 Night Bliss Cruise From Port Canaveral
Got it done thanks for the reminder, we do tend to forget as we get older and busier. We are staying at coco marriott the 21st if anyone wants to say hi.
Do you prefer a rude NO or no response at all?
We have gotten the point we do not care if we do not get a response. Some are too embarrassed to respond, some just do not want to. We mostly respond even with a no thanks after telling them they are a great couple but we are not match. We…
First dates and fucking
We always say we do not fuck on the first date unless we meet first at a restaurant, and then decide. We leave ourself that opportunity to leave graciously if we do not connect. Let's be real not all couples are what we call compatible, no…
COMING OUT AS SWINGERS
We have found that we have what we think is a good relationship with other "vanilla couples." Then when we mention we are lifestyle they freak. We no longer are friends with them, nor do they ever contact us again. WTF we are the same peop…
NEW April 2024 - 5 Night Bliss Cruise From Port Canaveral
We will be at the hotel the 21st and boarding at 11:00 a.m. the next day. We are in Cabin 2634 hope to meet a lot of fun couples. If anyone would like to chat before hand message us. we are in Leesburg - Okahumpka Florida.
RV resorts any of them swinger resorts ???
We live in Hawthorne community on 27 next to a few RV resorts. We are an active lifestyle couple and are wondering if any of these resorts have any active swingers. If so please feel free to contact us we are interested making some new fri…
Alcoholics
GETTING DRUNK: We attended a bar take over in Wisconsin years back. Cost $40.00 per couple. The hosts made a lot of money off the couples. WE got drunk as hell, not by choice, but at the discretion of the bar tender. They mixed the drinks…
First dates and fucking
Agreeing with you we will often fuck on the first date, our exception to that would be if someone is severely misrepresenting themselves as far as age, weight and physical attributes. We usually meet half way at a restaurant if we are not…
Bliss Cruise April 22-27 2024
Looking for fellow travelers would like to meet some before the cruise. Make some new friends. WE are in Central Florida. M & J cabin 2634
I have a problem
I would like to respond as this sounds like something I would post. We too run into the same thing and no it is not you ! Im sure you have great personality and are not bad looking. Some of the parties we have attended the wives just want…
An Ex-
Great story Wvaction. I often had dreams about my X till I got remarried. Question is would I fuck her again, well I will not know unless the situation presents itself..
How many are on your block list?
Well said weloveswinging. I revamped our opening line took out the phone number, shortened it up. I'M thinking less is better, let them ask for more information. We have seen all kinds of responses and inquiries. Our pet peeve also is the…
Happy sounds during sex?
I like it when women are vocal during sex, show some appreciation for what I do to get her off... Makes me feel I am doing something right to make her happy. It is when she just lays there and I have to do all the work, I am bothered. If s…
We screwed up How can we fix it
Ill go one better we went to the wrong restaurant an hour away. I did not confirm the address with the other couple, before heading out. I offered to buy dinner the next time we met, never happened. Win some lose some ..... This happened t…
Has Anyone put an upside down Pineapple on their cabin door during a cruise?
These answers make us stop and think. My wife has a pineapple sign to post on the door. My question would be do we want just anyone knocking on the door asking us to play? Do we just randomly want to knock on someone else's door not knowin…
How many are on your block list?
Thanks Ron and Kathy for you comments.. We work hard here and put in a lot of time and money, trying to meet like minded people, that fit our style. We have worked hard to get in shape., lose weight dress well and be presentable to other c…
How many are on your block list?
Im sure nearing 100s. If we message twice they do not answer, poof. If they post as single and then tell me their wife is not playing, sick etc.. I report them them block them. If they look like they are lying about age or weight grossly,…