Wife is not multi orgasmic

"Lets turn it around for a moment. You blow your load and she wants to keep going. How does that make you feel?"

That's actually a very good way of looking at it. Most guys are completely sated after they cum. It's not like it wouldn't still feel good as much as there is just a total lack of desire for more sex at that time.

For me though it's like, "Damn, now I have to wait another 5 to 10 mins to recover". That is why the Mrs is more than happy to say, "Go play, so I have some chance of actually being able to sleep later tonight" ;-) If the OP is like me, it could well be his wife thinks like mine.

If both parties are getting what they want out of the LS, it's all good. I do truly love seeing the Mrs have a great time, so I have no reason to believe that she wouldn't enjoy seeing/hearing me do the same.

i guess he didn't like the answers he got

I asked the Mrs and she said it sounds like it's just the way your wife is wired and there really isn't anything you can do to change that.

Though my Mrs is multi-orgasmic, there are times where she's just had enough and needs a break. Sometimes she's just in the mood for a one and done. She knows that I generally want to play much longer, and she also enjoys watching or even just knowing that I am enjoying myself. She also absolutely knows that I will do anything in my power to make sure that she has a good time, so it's very give and take.

It sounds like the same sort of arrangement could work for you. Just like some women have a hard time initially believing that their husband actually enjoys seeing/hearing them have fun with others, I suppose there's no reason to think that men might have the same problem believing their wives when they say it's fine if they continue to play.

Who knows, it could well be the stimulus your wife wants/needs to ramp back up for the next romp.

Exactly as stated Rocket.. relax, enjoy the entire experience and it will be so much more to your advantage in long run!

Add some quickies at forbidden places they to are great and fun to smile about with your partner ... a blow job, massage, light touch while she watches can be also exciting.. its her journey not yours!

Lets turn it around for a moment. You blow your load and she wants to keep going. How does that make you feel?

Why are you asking a forum when you just need to trust what you wife tells you? My big concern is that you may be harboring bitterness over something that she has no control over and isn't needed in your marriage. Take some time off and get yourselves re-centered. It will do you a world of good.

You have multiple things going on here. First, there are women who aren't multi-orgasmic, and that is perfectly normal. However, just because women are physically able to have sex when not aroused, why would they want to. So, yeah, you're not thinking about what's best for your wife, which is generally a shit idea and it's even worse when it's in connection with swinger sex.

Secondly, watching is hot. Not believing someone when they say they like something is kinda sketchy though.

The lifestyle isn't just about sex with other people. It's also about trust and communication.

as long as your wife is ok with it, you can continue with mmf

"Is there a way to get her more in to keeping it going or am I being selfish for MSOG?"

yes you are being selfish, not taking her feelings into account