Swinger Advice
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We have been trying to talk to couples on here but we either got sorry not interested or nothing back . Is their anything we can change or fix on our profile? Any suggestions welc…
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What does 'Soft Swap' really mean?
Met a couple recently that the profile said they were Soft Swap with a minor possibility of Full Swap. We met for dinner and drinks with no expectations. Nothing happened but had…
by fishincouple32replies4,671viewsCouple that can play solo question
Someday, we'd love to find the right couple as a fit for both us. This is most likely the travel friends sort of thing. Until we find that our interest has turned to 3 sums and no…
by cplfun4us4204replies1,007viewsHelp on how to precede
I need advice. My husband and I have been in the swing lifestyle for about 9 years, we met in the lifestyle. We decided to play separately about a year ago. I prefer to play with…
1replies795viewsHonest Profile Review
I've decided to take my swinging life a bit more seriously, lately I've been unsure if I wanted to remain one. Most of my play took place in Europe where the mindset about sex is…
by EuropeanBro2replies719viewsWhy so personal?
Seems weird to us that so many people want to be friends and build chemistry. We are both only interested in hot sex and view play partners as toys to use in the bedroom. We save…
41replies3,404viewsWhat bars are good around Charleston DC for swingers.
Just trying to find out the places where swingers hang out around the Charleston and summerville areas of sc
by Chascple81150replies647viewsHow to spot swingers
Going on a cruise shortly. This is not a swingers cruise, but is swinger friendly. Are there certain pieces of jewelry or adornment that denote swingers that you would recognize i…
by Cantakeitall11replies3,327viewsIntroverts of the world . UNITE!!
When we were younger we were both introverts, but as we got older we each came out of our shell. Unfortunately we've grown weary of "putting ourselves out there" and now it seems…
by twonluv6923replies2,425viewsMeeting others (swinger signals)
So we have read many articles and posts about black rings, anklets, and pineapples but we dont see too many of those signs when we are out. Being in the LS, would you be opposed t…
by scorpionbull7replies1,649viewsWe've Moved. How do we get set up here??
Really struggling to meet folks in our new home area. Anyone have any ideas??
11replies1,143viewsNo Show
How do you respond to "no shows" We recently met (and played with) a single male. We set a second date, and he failed to show or call. Now he wants us to get over it like nothing…
8replies737viewsAdd some pictures of the guy!
I'd refer you to Open Forums, topic: "Profiles without any quality pictures of the man." That's a very common question that comes up on the forums from time to time, and that disc…
by sorillo10007replies737viewsFinding the right couples?
We have tried several things, but are having difficulties finding the right types of couples. We are not much into clubs or big parties, which we know limits us as events are prob…
by FredTammy0replies565viewsSwinging: separating sex and emotions
Hi all. Lately we have been talking about getting into the lifestyle. The more we talk, the closer we come to actually going through with it. Our question is how do you separate t…
by Frependo28replies3,433viewsSwinging and ostomy
I have swinged prior to having one but now it seems once I disclose having it my messages are not replied back to. It does not affect anything sexually. Just an extra step at the…
by bmwarrior870replies752viewsWe seem to have no luck on here
Hey!! We have been on the site for a year and nothing has been legitimate. Chat back and fourth here and there and then nothing.. is there a secret we don't know?! Help us out? ???
8replies1,566viewsLeading up to first meet up
Newbies here, we have been messaging back and forth with a seemingly straight up and intriguing SM. I wife and I have have some of the best sex while reading the responses. We wil…
29replies2,624viewsListing home city?
We are considering changing our location to reflect the city where we play rather than where we live. We spend long weekends twice a month out of town as this is our "playtime". H…
by FredTammy6replies857viewsMixed emotions
My wife and I started swinging a while back. She doesn’t like the taste of my cum. So, I told her if she wanted to try another guys, she could. She did and liked it the first time…
by newcolacpl3replies962viewsbecause we new or what
Your profile pictures seriously need work along with the wording as well. Better Profiles could do you folks a magnitude of help. Good luck! ~Allen
by 888eatme8885replies1,100viewswouldn't it be nice to click like on comments and have them respond like other social media
I would love to be able to click like on comments that are shared on the forum, similar to other social media, we could post comments to the people we liked or friended, which is…
by tomjord2226replies663viewsNo condoms Then what?
Recently watched a discussion on a private FB page that that I hadn't really thought about. A girl hooked up with a guy. Did not require a condom and nothing was said as to what t…
14replies4,216viewsReaching out for the first time
Just a piece of advice. For the love of all that is holy, if you're contacting someone for the first time via email, say something more than just "How are you?". I can't speak for…
by sorillo100012replies1,453viewsHow to cope with an average dick?
One of my common refrains here is "if you can't control it, don't let it bother you". Seems to me that this would apply here. Fact is, some women aren't interested in the full-on…
by sorillo100018replies2,681viewsAwkward
OP: You folks didn't like the replies in the Men Talk forum so you created an identical one here? ~Allen
by 888eatme8885replies1,137viewsWhen pillow talk becomes gossiping
I am sure this 3rd rail has been addressed Saying something to a couple in confidence Only to have repeated in pillow talk
by Bondageland8replies891viewsHow to distinguish yourself in email
How do you open your emails to distinguish yourself?
by JTheartsong9replies1,009viewsWhy is this so hard?
We are new to LS. I have reached out to sever couples for a get to know you dinner or drinks. A few responded and agreed to meet but then they back out or just don't respond after…
by Qapla33replies4,007viewsFFM
We are new to the lifestyle and I know typically the man is supposed to have the fantasies about being with 2 women. It has never been mine until it became my wife’s fantasy and s…
by JTheartsong4replies954viewsSeparate rooms
My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for quite some time we're very open-minded and enjoy it recently we've been discussing doing separate rooms we really like the thought of…
by Cnk052623replies2,993viewsHow do YOU read a profile?
Thirty-one views and not a comment. That is a little sad to me. It's not surprising, but it is a little sad. It's sad because I find this OP to be a really good topic. A good ques…
108replies6,677viewsHeight
This isn't a cry baby session, but I have a question. Is it important to 'you' as a couple that the female be what is considered hot or Bi when finding compatible couples? Also Is…
by hedo2forus27replies2,706viewsFear of falling in love with someone else!
Having sex with someone is very intimate! Do you ever worry that your significant other or you yourself will inadvertently fall in love with your play partner? I would think that…
by Insatiable618replies1,388viewsEmbrace Being Rejected. They just saved you a bunch of time and headache :-)
I know everyone is naturally disappointed being rejected by another couple but if you think about it they just saved you a lot of unnecessary chatting and time. When we have a cou…
by FunInMidwest11replies1,649viewsHow was the first time you watched your partner with someone else?
We all have Fantasies
by Insatiable611replies1,190viewsFinding Canucks
When I search it is like Canada does not exist. Even using a city code it seems to be lacking. Any ideas?
by H_lustlover1replies636viewsExchanging face pics
We live in a small town area. When we chat with other couples and agree exchange face pics sometimes the other couples claims to know one or the both of us then they refuse to sha…
0replies703viewsgetting the play started
Please, oh please, can someone suggest a better way to get playtime started than "hey, lets fuck"? We have heard that the awkwardness really never goes away. Is this true? We are…
by PrettyNormal73replies6,052viewsCall us?
Have gotten email messages from 2 different people in the past few days giving us their phone number asking us to either call or text them. This is after an initial site email and…
37replies2,450viewsWe give up!!
Ok, we're not really giving up but damn it gets frustrating. Why in the world would we agree to plan a hook up without ever seeing a face pic? I mean really people.. What the fuck…
9replies1,741viewsOur first hotel takeover
We have enjoyed many evenings out, met some really nice couples, and had some fun, but for New Years we are attending our first Hotel Takeover. We are approaching this much like w…
by FredTammy15replies1,765viewsWife on a break
You need to talk to your wife. You would know her feelings about the subject better than us. Communication is very important in all relationships and key if you are in the lifesty…
2replies998viewsAttractive or not
We have been swingers over a year. Been on SLS over a year, we have been to the swinger clubs also. I have asked what it takes to attract other swingers and couples. Seems the sta…
5replies1,585viewsBuying gifts
" Am I wrong? Is this a line that shouldn't be crossed?" There's no manual for open/poly relationships. The determination for what step is too far is with you. And you're not happ…
18replies1,778viewsMeet and greet
The question has been asked numerous times in the forums about when meeting someone for the first time where do you go? Bars, Restaurants, are very common responses and we have go…
by Insatiable6111replies1,996viewsSwing Club Feedback
It looks to me that the Club section of this forum is for exactly as you describe, certainly a lot of threads there doing just that. To your second question, yes, I would think it…
1replies889viewsGame night ideas?
What are some fun party games?? We’ve done truth or dare, never have I ever, but what are some other fan favorites?
3replies791viewsVegas LS Club Suggestions? NYE
We're headed out to Vegas for NYE. Anyone have suggestions on an upscale LS club to ring in the New Year? We're thinking we'll hit at least one or two others while we're out there…
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