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Ghosting
Yes it is.. some want a one and done.. some just didnt like what happened.. some enjoyed the moment.. get over it and move on.. its life! Swinging well over 24 years and some have…
by RonKathy12replies1,620viewsPlay scinarios
Going to guess that just maybe you haven't included your wife in the discussion as much as she needs to be. Both of you should work together in every step from deciding to and how…
by HollyBlue5replies848viewsHow can we not be rude
We know this is an age old topic. But for the life of us we really understand that all single men are not bad. But that stigma follows them due to others just not getting the hint…
20replies1,710viewsYour lifestyle journey
When we first started, it would have been a big deal for the Mrs to just flash her breasts. We were nervous as hell going to our first lifestyle (LS) party and some amount of that…
by mayhem87replies809viewsHow to stay awake for parties
Welcome to our first forum post. My wife and I attended our first hotel takeover last weekend and had a blast. Or, we had fun until we could no longer stay alert, awake and cohere…
by MT25Life47replies4,098viewsWhy You Don't Get A Response Message Back ?
I had seen this list on another platform which is kinda interested of reading, and it's a reason why some people do not get a reply message back who they write to. I hope people t…
12replies1,894viewsReal connection?
Kinda frustrated. Lots of messages, lots of talk, zero follow through. We tried the hotel party scene and found it cliquey and unwelcoming. How do you find real people who really…
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Husband's, how did you do it?
I should have originally posted this here, so if admin could be kind and leave this one and not the one in "swinging single" if one has to go. Thanks I see so many hott couples of…
by Thaiger21replies4,270viewsFWB at couples parties
How do couple's feel about friends with benefits going to clubs or parties where they allow couples or single females only?
by Jackn20206replies878viewsLifestyle friendly couples counseling
If you are having some difficulty and LS activities are a big part of that and don't want to be stared at oddly you may consider a sex therapist as an initial stop. Even if you ca…
by HollyBlue10replies1,411viewsCouples Hypocricy and jealousy - We have hurdles to overcome.
We have shared a couple briefly at Caliente in Land O' Lakes, FL in 2012 (first time and disappointing because I was not attracted to the female and the guy was short with a small…
6replies1,234viewsIdeas About Starting Up Again
With all this virus stuff going on we’re struggling a bit with how to decide when to start playing again. We’d like to make an objective decision while recognizing there won’t be…
14replies1,482viewsReally wired experience
Been in lifestyle for 20 years as both a couple and single. Connected her in chat and exchanged emails with lady over about month due to isolation. She mentions she was into BDSM…
by newmanfor174replies1,126viewsHow many ignored no's before you block a profile?
After about 5 and a respectul "not a good fit" then a "im not interested in what you're looking for" he was still persistent. He's totally out of the scope of what my profile ment…
by magjoy12replies1,550viewsUnsure partner
My wife and I have a amazing sex life she is freaking amazing swallows everytime no matter how long it takes and she deserves more ive suggested she can have a female relationship…
by Horniest736replies1,098viewsadvice and help in tampa area
Hi there. all. We are in the tampa area and looking for some advice or answers.. When we lived in Knoxville Tn there were a couple of hotel lounges and bars that were swinger or l…
1replies788viewsFirst time as a single male questions
At your age nothing should go wrong unless it is a mental block. Typically this revolves around another male in the room, not being used to wearing a condom, or drinking too much.…
by RusticMagic4replies888viewsWaterproof mattress covers?
Wasn't sure if this was the forum this should go in...but we are looking for advice so.... We might be hosting this weekend or next. Just in case the gal is a squirter, we would l…
14replies1,711viewsNeed Advice
Hey all, despite being pretty experienced we have encountered a problem and are unsure how to solve it. We often like to travel, especially Bliss cruises. There is a group of peop…
2replies827viewsPlaces not to meet
I was debating putting this here or in the single male area because it was a single male that sent us this suggestion. We had talked enough online to where we were considering mee…
by RusticMagic7replies1,413viewsCareful what you wish for
First off this post is all true and posted in a very lighthearted manner. The weekend was fun and I have ZERO regrets. Last weekend a new couple came over to meet and have some fu…
3replies1,351viewsUnsolicited advice from me to you.
It would be a bare minimum, if swinging actually worked in the manner you believe it should. :-) ~Allen
by 888eatme88811replies1,725viewsMessaging Openers
What are some of the messaging openers that you have either used that got good responses or messages you have received that you felt compelled to respond to? Or is it all about th…
by KLandALFL5replies938viewsNew members, any advice?
Hi, wife and i have been in lifestyle for some time now. We had started a profile years ago and had some luck, but decided to take a break. just started up a profile and want to g…
by Clarke24replies983viewsBest and worst pictures
Every now and then you'll see a picture that is extra sexy. Other times you'll see some that turn you off. What does this for you? For us, a sexy picture is very provocative but d…
by mayhem832replies3,458viewsWell endowed
I too am curious though from the other perspective. When a gent says he is well endowed should I run or smile? I absolutely agree it is subjective.
84replies13,075viewsWhat do you call your lifestyle playmates?
What do you call your lifestyle playmates? Somehow calling her my girlfriend doesn't seem right because girlfriend implies a certain amount of emotional commitment, and even some…
10replies1,314viewsRough night, lot of questions
We’ve gone to one club several times and were excited to move things to the next level. We knew to keep expectations in check but were excited at the possibilities of new adventur…
by CoupleLvnFun29replies3,181viewsRestaurant owners in the lifestyle?
Does anyone here own a restaurant or maybe know someone in the LS that owns a restaurant? Just curious how the demands of owning a restaurant might affect the ability to have fun…
1replies664viewsPlanning Etiquite.
Okay while we try to make plans well in advance and not waiver between should we do this or that sometimes we have found it is sometimes not working as intended. In the past we or…
by RusticMagic4replies780viewsHouse parties
We have done many things, but we haven’t been to a house party before. We received an invitation to join a group and go to their house parties. As a general rule what can we expec…
by blqt6951replies4,177viewsUnderperforming .
So my wife and I had our first experience last night and it was amazing but I was only hard like 10% of the time, which is really weird for me cuz I can look at a loaf of bread an…
by HotinND11replies1,926viewsSingle male profiles, can you put some effort into your profiles?
We are a couple and every so often we enjoy the company of a respectful gentleman. We do not understand why single males put absolutely no effort into writing a profile? Do they n…
by Bellacoppia06replies736viewsIntroducing couples to similar couples?
We've been really happy having fun with another couple we met. But what is the etiquette when it comes to introducing each other to other couples if they/we think it would be a go…
6replies742viewsPolite communication of hygiene issue?
We are huge fans of eating pussy and ass....in that order as to help avoid a bacterial infection! However, if we encounter a hygiene issue somewhere along the ride, what's the bes…
11replies1,442viewsWhat to wear to first hotel party?
The wife and i will attend our 1st hotel party next week, theres no theme, how should we dress, what should we expect?
by SCcpl2play2replies750viewsLiving in a clothing optional resort?
So Tammy and I are at a point in our lives where we are looking to make a move. We are planning on staying in Florida, but considering buying a condo or an RV suitable to live in…
by FredTammy4replies787viewsWhy do people incorrectly identify their own sexuality, and what can I do to avoid fakers?
I'm going to answer this in regards to why my wife has marked bi-curious. The fact is she loves sex with men and has no problem finding one or more volunteers without having some…
by RusticMagic10replies1,603viewsMarried male
Thoughts? Yes. If you don't "come clean" with your wife, you're a jerk. In fact, if you were swinging while you were dating her and engaged to her, you're already a jerk!
by NC_Seniors0replies722viewsLadies, I need your advice
Hey all, Well I need the ladies advice. My wife and I have played together at a few clubs but just let others watch as I totally respect her boundaries. Well we were talking about…
by pusher68119replies1,099viewsDressing for success?
My normal "uniform" at work is a golf shirt, slacks, dress socks and dress shoes. My secretaries and I were talking the other day and said I should try jeans for once....so I did…
84replies4,405viewsColettes New Orleans
Going to Colettes in NO this weekend. Anyone been there and have any advice? Do's and dont's, when does things start happening, etc?
1replies702viewsFirst time mfm
Hi, just looking for advice. Myself and wife are about to have our first mfm. She has been in life style before we met. She was honest about everything and yes I got very interest…
by Brett1961nj10replies2,393viewsHypocritical profiles
I had a couple hit us up on messenger so i took a peak at their profile. The thing that stood out right away way their banner that stated in all caps “if you don’t have face pics…
by shift4205replies762viewsDo Not Get Emotional And Stress About The Lifestyle
I have seen some topics lately on here from certain members of not getting connected with anybody in the lifestyle. I just want to say that nobody do not care how you feel or stre…
1replies678viewsDeclining ettiquette
On a few occasions, my husband and I have met a couple and we're just not attracted. Typically, I have been very kind, but truthful. I'll normally say something like, "we enjoyed…
6replies1,455viewsWebsites
This may be a taboo subject but how many websites are people a part of? We have seen advantages to different sites. Is it common to belong to more than 1?
by JTheartsong19replies2,500views1 to 1 of 1 TOPIC: How was the first time you watched your partner with someone else
We all have Fantasized about watching our partner with someone else and the thought of that is extremely exciting! But when you actually set this up and it happening how did you f…
by Insatiable612replies1,618views- 1replies1,178views
