Need advice on this situation

She is going to love you long time, Joe.
Just send money for plane ticket.
She be right over, goodly.
It is probably a guy in Pakistan sending you the message.
Just delete it and move on.

Nope, I dont travel 400 miles for that.

Now I have done 100 miles, but that for couples and singles I have met personally at a party, meet n greet or a munch. And we plan ahead for that as well

Just from the initial message it threw redflags up,from the long distance, and asking for my number. That why I responded with i like to talk on here, before giving such info. Like when you sign in,the first thing its says beware of scammers.

Nope.

Just… nope.

Profiles like this count on you having just enough hope and curiosity to get snagged and reeled in.

Don’t do it. Besides, are you really going to travel 400 miles for a potential hookup?

<p>A single female profile sending you an initial message from a long distance away is a huge red flag. If anyone immediately asks you to take your conversation elsewhere, that is also a huge red flag. Never do that. There is no reason to do that. Just talk to someone back and forth here for a while. That is the safest thing you can. The scammers will not do that because they cannot run their scam here on the site. They have to take you elsewhere so we cannot see it.</p>

"The account isn't certified, The age of the account is less than a month. Made on Feb 14th of 2026."

I'd guess scammer then. The approval process for new accounts doesn't catch all of them, unfortunately.

That was my first thought as well. My gut reacted to this,and something seems off, as i responded to @goodgollymsmolly98226 earlier about the google voice, signed up yesterday so I dont have to share my number

Oh yes, I am fully aware of the dangers of sharing a personal number, especially said number is tied to various personal information about me. I signed up with google voice yesterday after I searched how to have a secondary number without giving my personal number.

The account isn't certified, The age of the account is less than a month. Made on Feb 14th of 2026.

This is why I use a google voice number that cant be reverse looked up.

Most likely a scammer or a blackmailer. Usually the balckamailers want to go to kik vs texting. If you go to text and she asks for face pics and dick pics pretty quickly, its a blackmailer ... then they somehow get you FB profile and threaten to send the pics to your friends and family.

That is a good move. It's possible it's a legitimate account and the woman is everything she says she is, but there's no need for her to have your actual phone number before the two of you have chatted online. And even after, I'd get a Google number and use that instead of your actual number. Not sure about you, but with mine you could find my children, my ex husband, and how much I paid in property taxes.

Is the account certified? Are the certifications recent? How old is the account?

Good morning y'all. I need a bit of advice.
So I was checking my messages on here and saw a new message, all the message said

"Hello
I’m a very straight forward person
If you are interested in older women
Drop your number on here
If not just pass without getting offended"

So I did a quick read on the profile, she's 400 miles away, looking for only guys, had 3 photos and very short bio.

It felt sketchy, especially when asking my number right out the bat, I dont share my number that quickly ever

So my response was this "Good afternoon ?? I appreciate the straightforward approach. I usually like to chat on here a bit first before giving out my number, just to get to know someone a little. Hope you're having a great day"

Is this a good move, and has anyone else been through a similar situation?