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Why People So Mean To People Who They Not Attractive To ?
Everyone have a status and of type of people they are attractive to and it's nothing wrong with that, but, why you got to treat and punish the person who your not attractive to ?…
6replies673viewsI know that I recognized you from sls DUFFY
Just laughing out loud because I was introduced to someone at a party, and her eyes got really wide when I said hello and asked if we had met before. She awkwardly, quickly blurte…
by Esperanza9113replies592viewsIntellectual Turn-Ons
Okay SLS peeps; help me out here. We can’t be the only ones who are turned on and stimulated by intellectual conversation? I have narrowed down the “search” features and read prof…
3replies620viewsWishing to be the object of passion and the giver of pleasure
I decided to share my story in hopes of some advice, understanding, compassion, and possibly affection. (A guy can hope !) I met my wife in College 38 years ago (Married 33 years)…
by friends2nc3replies421viewsOuted
Grrr… I got a call from my wife yesterday saying that a friend of hers at work approached her and told her there is a rumor going around that we are swingers. We have no idea wher…
by hotluvrs40replies3,304viewsMessaging
I know no one is entitled to a response, but when did common courtesy disappear from society ?? Is it common place not to respond or too much to ask, even if it's a "no thank you"…
by NcLookn5replies587viewsSo many Ass pics???
I love beautiful ass pics. So many women have great asses. However, there are so many profiles that simply show the ladies ass. Ass after ass after ass. Why so many ass pics? Why…
by fishincouple10replies1,065viewsHow long before you brought up LS?
We’ve been together for a decade and it took us about 2 years into it before it was brought up. After much fantasy chat during love making did we get serious about our LS fantasie…
by Nickindela18replies1,704viewsSwinger signs
My sister in law Where's a pineapple t- shirt and a toe ring...not sure if she is open to swinging but sure shows signs....what do you think??
by J5918249replies1,880viewsBest Practices for Consensual Non-Monogamy
NCSF materials are provided for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Best Practices for Consensual Non-Monogamy Consensual Non-monogamy (CNM) is the pra…
by PeaceMaker1replies538viewsCocoa Beach
My wife and I are going to Cocoa Beach for a couple days next weekend. Can anyone suggest some lifestyle friendly bars or clubs there? Or just a good place we may find someone to…
by 904racer0replies354viewsSwingers?
So funny enough, even though I thought I was the knowledgeable one when it came to swinging and hot wifing, my wife was the one that told me that a pineapple can be a symbol for s…
by 904racer2replies636viewsAge and Weight honesty
Do people actually tell their true weight and age ? If not how much would you " shave off ?" I have looked at hundreds of profiles and photos. I know for a fact that many people a…
by MNJFLA6replies700viewsConstant lookers
Something we find strange. We have about 6 couple profiles and many single profiles that look at our profile on a regular basis but never text anything. A few are local and 2 coup…
43replies3,936viewsAlcoholics
I just don't understand why you have to get very tipsy before getting laid, the reason why the topic because of the situations I seen specially at swinging clubs and private house…
26replies2,368viewsRespecting boundaries
HOLY FUCKING SHIT people. If you cannot even respect the very simple boundaries stated clearly up front in someone's profile, how the hell is anybody supposed to trust that you wi…
by Esperanza91111replies1,215viewsWife on her own
We have a house party that is very local to us that we have gone to in the past. They are throwing another one. I told the wife that it would be hot if she went alone this time. S…
by jomich4924017replies3,150views- 6replies1,438views
Foot Hygiene
Why do women have the tendency to cut their toenails so freakin short. Toe nail length should be the length of your toe. Cutting them shorter then that makes the look ugly as well…
by bagman5410replies839viewsDiscreet swingers sybbols
Over the years there were all sorts of things that were supposed to be a discreet way of communicating the "we are in the lifestyle" Its been ankle bracelets on women, black rings…
by putnamcocpl1replies774viewsViagra
Why didn't I know viagra improves healing for bone fractures! Did anyone else on her know it and keep it a secret! I broke my arm two weeks ago and I could have been healing quick…
by ncfunfriends4replies978viewshouse party etiquette
So for "us" if one doesnt have the decency to ask, flirt before hand, and well just act with some manors we dont care where we are... a party, Trapeze in ATL /FtL ( yes happened t…
by RonKathy4replies713viewsHow long did you date your significant other before you got physically intimate?
Call this a curiosity poll. Because I cannot understand why, in a community that's about sex, so many profiles read like people are afraid of sex. So, I want to know... how long d…
by Esperanza91123replies1,820viewsWhat is the proper etiquette for odor?
I posted this question in another thread but thought it should be better placed here. "What is the proper etiquette for when you going to play with someone who's has a strong odor…
12replies1,351viewsHow would you rate the couples in your area?
Every geographic area has its strengths and weaknesses. The area I'm in has very slim pickings in regard to what we would look for. For instance, very few Latinos that we can conn…
by 6zcouple20replies1,360viewslooking for advice
HI, My wife and I have been together for roughly 20 years, happily married for 14 years with 2 children. We talk about everything and I believe have a very good relationship. Give…
15replies1,612viewsChoosing which event to attend??
There are two different New Years events that we are interested in attending this year and having trouble determining which to attend. One is a hotel takeover 3 day event hosted b…
4replies452viewsAnyone prefer to hunt couple in the vanilla world?
We love the seduction game. We fantasize about really seducing others while going out in the vanilla world. Has anyone had good luck with this? I'd love to hear any stories.
by 6zcouple25replies2,770viewsTransition from hotwife to full on cuckold
The wife and I on occasion like to add an extra guy to the mix....both of us enjoy the hotwife scenerio...however I...the husband...would like to make that transition to a cuckold…
4replies846viewsAny advise for successfully meeting like minded couples on a vanilla cruise?
We love to cruise and mostly use regular cruise lines because of the availability and frequency of trips that interest us. We would love to meet other lifestyle couples on these t…
by redcplfun11replies1,203viewsWife is not multi orgasmic
"Is there a way to get her more in to keeping it going or am I being selfish for MSOG?" yes you are being selfish, not taking her feelings into account
by CopNkitten8replies702viewsWhat do you guys think of the guys that contact you saying there in town ?
We have got a lot of messages recently with guys saying I am town for such in such Tuesday. And would love to hook up, it seams a lot of guys think this is a hook up site . We our…
61replies2,452viewsWife gets extremely nervous
So my wife gets extremely nervous whenever we are in a lifestyle situation. She drinks to calm her nerves. I want her to enjoy herself without the alcohol. Ladies any suggestions…
18replies2,052viewsOuted in public
I apologize now if this is already been asked. I skimmed through the topics before I started this post to make sure. Mrs and I met new a new couple last night. We went out to dinn…
by NcLookn6replies990viewsHedo and What do you tell vanilla world?
We would love to go to Hedo. But we are concerned about what to tell various friends, family, workmates etc. It's a lot of deception to maintain, which we are not adept at. One th…
by ugot2200146replies3,797viewsHow to meet quality people other than meet-and-greets and parties in loud crowded clubs?
My bf and I just got back from yet another meet-and-greet in a loud, crowded club with no info from the host as to where the SLS group was meeting. Many people wanted around tryin…
16replies1,094viewsHotwife vetting date
Curious as to other people's experiences on who pays when hotwife meets a gentleman to "vet" him for possible mfm or mf. This is for 1st date to see if there is mutual interest. N…
by kinksterhere8replies974viewsstraight-straight seems impossible
We've been looking into swinging. At this point, the whole thing seems geared to accommodate the needs of S-Bi couples.. . or rather, the whole concept fits well with the straight…
by DuckDuckGone41replies3,197viewsWeight
One simply cannot answer why some people are attractive to others. As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". Some people are attracted to the "HWP" person. Othe…
by MandC50814replies2,001viewsDrama
We’ve decided to look for drama. Seems like so many need to say “we want no drama” or we “are drama free” in their profile. It feels like the drama demographic is being totally un…
by WantingMen4117replies1,069viewsSingle guys - what she and I expect
Hey, I tried typing out a well thought out and humble post but SLS wouldn't let me post because of "special" characters so I'm gonna KISS. Can't speak for all the other couples he…
by JeffX_RebX0replies358viewsSingle guys - what she and I expect
Hey, I tried typing out a well thought out and humble post but SLS wouldn't let me post because of "special" characters so I'm gonna KISS. Can't speak for all the other couples he…
by JeffX_RebX10replies1,117viewsHow come…
I seem to be having single guys looking at my profile? I’m not judgmental; but I’m also not gay. I have had some top bi play with couples who are good friends; but my profile does…
by newmanfor178replies763viewsWomen run the lifestyle - but men drive it (observation)
We've been in the lifestyle for some years, and from time to time it seems to dawn (and re-dawn) on me that the old phrase of "women run the lifestyle" needs to be updated to "wom…
by Interlude22224replies1,725viewsRefusal to send pictures
A couple got in contact with me about possibly meeting, but they’re refusing to send any kind of pictures prior meeting., they don’t have any pictures here and they refuse to send…
7replies575viewsRed flag Couples
We first starting talking to this couple here on SLS, We meet them at our camp site at an AANR clothing optional resort in California. We are not sure she knew what was going on.…
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Best iPhone App For Storing Photos
So... isn't it fun to swap sexy photos with new people you're meeting ? However I've still got kids in the house and would never want one of them to find those photos on my phone'…
by cbsreturn3replies648viewsIs there a swingers/cuckold dating site?
Not exactly sure what you are driving at, but it sounds like you may be asking about staying married to your wife while cheating on her with swingers??? Swingers or LS folks have…
by HollyBlue0replies730viewsDumped by friends as a bi-product of the COVID year ( we think . )
Was one couple team Biden and the other team Trump?
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