I hear you.
I live in CT and in the 4 years I have been on SLS I never saw a meet and greet or house party posted anywhere in my area. Or within an hour or two of my area.
I am trying to find some other way to meet people. No luck yet.
If I find anything that works, I will let you know.
You could always start your own M&G - sounds like you're in areas that should have healthy swinger populations.
At first you might just post an open invitation for others to meet you somewhere you'd go for a drink anyhow.
If you attract enough people eventually you could arrange for a private room at a bar or restaurant.
A regularly scheduled event might be easier for people to remember (could be monthly, every other month, once a quarter).
We have been exploring the lifestyle for a number of years and have found that we most enjoy meet and greet, off premise events. The problem is we can't seem to find very many,
We enjoy fun conversations, sharing drinks and getting to know other couples before we do anything physical. We find the build up of sexual tension exciting and allows us to relive our long ago single days.
We live the northeast and and spend time in the boston metrowest area where we now live and the Jersey Shore where we came from. Any suggestions for finding M&G's? We travel across the country frequently so regular events in other areas would be of interest to us.
