Swinger Advice
Need advice?
Is the lifestyle disappearing?
I would be willing to bet it is a combination of so many fakes and people just aging out of the LS.
67replies3,418viewsLocation matters
We have some play time scheduled for tonight with a few couples and a bunch of single guys. I went on to Hot Dates to see if any local folks were looking for something to do; we w…
by hotluvrs15replies1,170viewsFlip Side
A Lot of talk about single males or should I say complaints.....This is a couples dominated LS and I know couples have screwed people over including other couples....So let's even…
2replies577viewswhen people clearly have not read your profile
I don't understand how or why people agree to meet without reading the other couple's profile. How did they even decide to consider communicating about meeting in the first place,…
by Esperanza91122replies1,258viewsAge differences
Hello all, What does everyone thunk about age differences in a couple who are in the lifestyle? We are a couple with a 20 (f) and 46 (m) and are having a tough time finding couple…
by MandMfuncple58replies4,479viewsHot Dates
Hot Dates. Hmmm. Lately, it seems as if this platform has turned into more of a voyeur site- more alleged couples profiles that are really just males. But, when it comes to the Ho…
by Ocbj9replies1,227viewsPenile Implant
Try searching on forums on other questions and answers same as you asked.. many answers already listed. Good luck.
by RonKathy2replies729viewsWhat is the best swinger vacation destination?
We were going to try and travel to someplace like Hedonism for a vacation over Thanksgiving. Can anyone that has been to one of these suggest which may be best and why?
8replies1,505viewsPrivate or club gangbang
As a online persona and a porn star(kind of) I would love to host a gangbang. Not a regular mmmf but a proper hardcore gangbang. What is the best option to do it? Taking safety in…
by Mysbehave13replies1,985viewsIs swinging cheating?
How would you respond to someone that you consider a close friend and they’re aware of your “activities” in the lifestyle when they say “y’all just cheating on each other”?
by Beachcpl120431replies2,333viewsIs FMF even common?
Question for everyone we often talk about many different types of group Play.. how common do you think FMF is? And please share your experiences if you've had that type of play. W…
24replies2,181viewsShould you leave a negative feedback on a single male if there were issues?
New_Hot, Sorry that you had such a disappointing experience. There are some problems with leaving a review about your date. Naming names on the forum is discouraged and may be aga…
by hotluvrs36replies2,576viewsMultiple men for a specific fantasy
We were wondering if anyone has had success at planning a fantasy (for wife) that required multiple men? We have tried several occasions to plan this but we always get cancelation…
by yinzers8replies978viewsReal identity questions
If you're hosting someone, don't you want to know who is coming into your home? Recently had someone bail out on getting together because we wanted to know their real name. Red fl…
by bfwp4u29replies1,731viewsLooking for Twin Cities MN Area House Parties or Hotel Takeover
Married couple seeking a house party or hotel takeover type event we could attend in the MN twin cities or Western WI area. This would be her first ever event (he has past lifesty…
by Pepeanon1replies331viewsLetting wife have dates with an old play partner
She is allowed to play solo and she always tells me what happens. Just want to see what others say that play the Hot Wife role. Thanks in advance
9replies839viewsMeet and Greets
While I often use SLS and Fet to meet potential play partners, I prefer local Meet & Greets, as well as clubs, private parties etc. to meet people in person. I’m fortunate to live…
10replies1,341viewsProfile Who Viewed Me question
Why are we seeing soooo many profile views from hundreds, if not thousands of miles away? This is mostly recent withing the last month or two... any thoughts on this?
by bfwp4u27replies2,633viewsI Lost Interest in the LS ????
I have a problem ! Please help ! Male 1/2 of a couple and I have lost interest in the lifestyle. When we first started, we were both hot and heavy for all the activity that the LS…
by Phreaky_Cpl2replies621viewsNeed tips with getting/keeping an erection
Original Starting post for this thread: Wife and I have been in the LS for over a year now. We have been having lots of fun but I do have problems getting and keeping and erection…
9replies1,196viewsProfile pictures
I have a feeling you talking about single men and don't want to point them out.. however single men are on top of their photos and freshening their profile more then I would say c…
12replies1,259viewsSwinging Asking Friends to swap
How do I Husband ask my Friend if he would be interested in Swapping
by Bilsyl10437replies767viewsBooked A VV cruise how to find others?
We recently booked an adults only Virgin cruise for later this year. We don't want to go asking on the vanilla cruise forums if there will be any other lifestyle people booked as…
by necouple91114replies519viewsTrojan Horse SF Profiles
If you're really a SF, or are coupled and have a SF profile to play alone. Fantastic. But don't use a SF profile in a nefarious way for the sole purpose of luring people into your…
by calcanfun26replies694viewsLearn To Accept The Status And Selective
What I mean in the title of this subject basic and simple, for example it is a couple I know in person that host swinging house parties for couples and single females they also wo…
4replies699views- 2replies665views
Lifestyle Cruise - Yes or No?
As far as walking around naked on a cruise ship is not our thing either.We both are in good shape but we are there to meet people and have fun in our cabin .If it’s just a single…
by hump2replies923viewsAttacking people
I want to address something which I see alot in forum I cant understand why it always havevto be someone attacking somebody of a ad they post what they are interested of finding.…
9replies1,399viewsHow can people tell if they have been blocked?
If a message string disappears from the list, does that mean that one has been blocked?
by Wifelooks1replies575viewsResponding to a message
Contacted two couples that had profiles on here. They responded. I replied to their response and never heard from them again. Now I'm just wondering if I did something wrong. Mayb…
by Ymichael142replies416views- 14replies4,290views
Looking for recomendation swingers club in South Florida
Looking for a good one to meet a lot of single guys.
by partie20replies339viewsVanilla friend sent 2 pineapples from Hawaii
We are very discreet about LS and mostly play on our travels abroad. We have a vanilla friend in LA who recently separated from from her husband. She was visiting NY and we arrang…
8replies907viewsNot giving a blowjob
My wife doesn’t like to give blowjobs, she gives me very occasionally and that’s more of a cock worship thing. Is that going to be a big deal breaker if we try to find couples?
36replies3,557views- 2replies555views
Wingman help
Hi everyone I’m accompanying a couple to a party in a few weeks as their wingman. Never done this before and I’m seeking advice on proper wingman etiquette. Any advice is greatly…
by ItsMrFlex6replies806viewsSwinging with drugged couple
Ok we just had encounter with a couple hanging at bar she did not drink he had one. Go back to room everybody was doing good. All the sudden they wanted the lights almost complete…
43replies2,108viewsLess than ideal online names
We've all seen the common ones. For example, when someone first starts off they create an online name like "NewXXXXXX". At some point, you are no longer new but it has become part…
by mayhem85replies796viewsHow and how not to flirt
It dawns on me from a prior post that some guys may have no idea how to flirt. Others might be doing it without even realizing it. For example, I smile a lot, and have been told b…
by mayhem816replies1,921views- 1replies578views
Worst reason EVER for separate room play
Recently saw someone admit they do separate rooms because they are afraid of offending their partner by enjoying the swap too much. The fuck? A person who is offended by their par…
by Esperanza91116replies2,237viewsFascinating double standards
Lying is a very unattractive quality. Some of y'all readily acknowledge the problems with outdated photos, ages, weight... and yet those same people misrepresent their sexual orie…
by Esperanza9111replies573viewsWhat do you find appealing about people who say they are shy
So many profiles refer to one or both partners being shy. We skip those immediately. I am curious what others find appealing about it.
by Esperanza9119replies842viewsStood up/travel
Some people amaze me when you made plans with a person who you put all your time with and they didn't do the same what you both agreed to. Specially if you travel to them and they…
2replies478viewsNew to life style
We are a couple new to this We find this exciting but one of us feels like one of us is rushing into it. And doesn’t feel comfortable. One of us would like to take it slower. I kn…
6replies568viewsSoft swap?
What is considered Soft Swap? We are new and wondering. What Exactly is soft swap.? Be precise if possible
6replies696viewsZentai or similar encounters
I was curious about how many folks have or had participated in ZENTAI type events. If so please share your sensations and emotional state.
by PeaceMaker0replies365viewsMFM gone bad
We tried swinging but it’s hard to meet a couple where the man and the woman are both turn ons to the other partners and Sasha seemed to have a jealous side. So after several year…
9replies1,389viewsMFM gone bad
We tried swinging but it’s hard to meet a couple where the man and the woman are both turn ons to the other partners and Sasha seemed to have a jealous side. So after several year…
6replies814viewsEncounters with a Safe Word
I was wondering if others utilize "Safe Words" when in negotiated situations that cross in to multiple lifestyle arenas.
by PeaceMaker12replies1,204views
