Just my opinion but I think some people still foolishly believe that when it comes to males that bi means gay. Of course that is dumb because that would mean that their bi wife is really a lesbian and only with them for show. Bi play is ju…
I went to swing parties in Ct for a number of years with no issues. It may have been because they were truly private house parties. Everyone knew each other because we all were part of a private party group. No advertisements here or anywh…
Do you frequent a particular lifestyle group party or club? It's possible the host(s) could help you set one up from the frequent guests at their parties. You won't have to do much vetting which will have to be done
I had far more success in the lifestyle pre-internet when I was putting profiles in contact magazines. That's how I found my first lifestyle group and got invited to their soirees. Sure there were some flakes and fakes too but it just seem…
The couples I knew I was involved with for several years And being the single guy my domestic situation was much different than theirs. They had kids and/or other relatives around and just doing their thing. So unless they said different i…
I was involved with a couple that played solo not just with me but others as well. They were Very open with each other. They knew what each other was planning and with whom. I remember after a meet up her calling him to let him know what h…
I don't know if any of them have passed but I have lost touch with one of the couples I had a two way communication with. when we were playing. Got a "return to sender address unknown" on a Xmas card I sent to them a couple of years ago. F…
I saw something on real estate in Fl and the Villages and the swinger thing was mentioned. I don't think it was confirmed but it really wasn't denied either. Could be like anywhere else. There could be a swinger community there but who kno…
I 100% LOVE to eat pussy. I'm very oral.. When she cums I hold on and suck that juice right out of her...I actually met a couple of women who didn't like it for some reason.
I'm 70....Seems that all of the couples I was steadily involved with are no longer around and/or moved out or on from the lifestyle. I was very fortunate that as a single guy to have had steady mutual fantasy fulfilling party relationships…
If I was to get into a relationship with a woman who was not in the lifestyle I would step away from the lifestyle and have done that in the past. Their not being in the lifestyle and my enjoyment of it had nothing to do with those ending,…
I get contacted by married guys looking for something on the side for themselves. I guess they think that all single guys are desperate. Not so shocking is that they do have a couple profile with pics of both but says he is straight. So th…
I've always been a very oral person and whether it's eating pussy or sucking cock I love it and why I love to play with couples so much....Feeling a cock release in my mouth gets me to sucking on it like a straw. I like to swallow and wear…
I've come to realize that there is no "perfect profile" because far too many people either don't read them or only pick out bits and pieces to fit them or can't comprehend what they read. This is not the sole domain of single males, oh no.…
From having been in this lifestyle for as long as I have I know that there are a variety of people in this lifestyle. who enjoy a variety of pleasures. A neighbor, the cashier, the secretary, a spandex clad woman in Walmart, a couple at a…
Hey if you claim to be a couple then be one.....I keep getting contacted by "husbands" for mm play and most all of them claim to be straight in their profiles....seems couples can't read either
I would guess it was a good 8"/9" ....I was at an orgy and one of the women and me were playing with a bbc . She held his cock and I swallowed him to his balls. I could not believe how easily I did it and did it at all....I guess being a l…
I've lost pretty much all of the lifestyle relationships I had developed......They have moved on and out ...or ? ....the demographics have changed I'm sure.....usually people in my age group have moved away
There are more women who at least enjoy having their butts played with than people think.....I've met women who were all anal when they played.....0nly knew one DP couple
The husband of a couple I played with numerous times in 3-somes would cum bi if his work took him into the area and suck and drain my cock......outside of that I sucked a nice bbc
I've been contacted by "straight" husbands looking for company while the wife was away and another one recently.....each claim to be straight in their couple profiles.....I get the feeling that some people have the impression that all sing…
Hello MandC508....I don't know how long you have enjoyed the lifestyle but if you have made any lifestyle friendships then float the idea of an orgy to each of them and they in turn can float it to a couple or two they know...then let the…
Hi YMichael.....That group found me....I had a ad/profile in a New England swinger contact publication....the person running the group contacted me then we met and took a few pictures.....a couple of weeks later I started getting invited t…
The only time I would meet a guy i-on-1 was the husband of a couple I was involved with.....if he was around he would stop bi & we would give each other a quick suck and swallow and he would leave
My first was a long time ago....There was an Orgy/GB group in Ct that that had me on the list of single guys to invite.....I think my first one there was with 3 bi couples and a few of us single guys.....you turn one way and there is a wet…
Maybe one of the next times he pops over your wife could subtlety flash him and give him the "look".....go from there.....I like the idea of a lifestyle camping excursion
The humidity has finally blown out of here and the temps have dropped off around 20* or so.....the last 4 days I could actually feel the heat penetrating my body
As a single guy I consider myself Extremely fortunate and lucky to have clicked with some couples that led to multiple rendezvous and a couple of those relationships lasted for several years. Lived out and discovered a few fantasies togeth…
All I can say is that there are groups with members that haven't been on from a few months to years.....is that what you are talking about? have a good one
I wouldn't say that I aged into it exactly....I had a steady involvement with a couple a number of years ago and after a year or two of playing the wife during one of our 3-ways asked if her husband could suck my cock. I had no problem the…
I am very orally inclined and part of that is being orally fixated with cock....I don't think anyone would complain about only getting their cock sucked and drained
I started two raised garden beds this spring. 7' x 3'....I'm in the process of building a few others. Not a lot of room so I'm looking at planting stuff that has a big yield to them. I also have a few planters too.
I'm only interested in steady lifestyle relationships. Last minute latenight booty calls are always possible with steady playmates....many possibilities
I'm now retired so I don't have That stress anymore lol but I have the other daily ones like everyone else.....I used to go camping to "get away". Pack my gear a couple of coolers and off I went for a week.....No I didn't go hundreds of mi…
I posted on something similar.....The only married guy I ever played 1-on-1 with was the husband of a couple I had numerous 3-somes with and 1-on-1's with his wife before that ever happened......when he was in the area he would cum bi and…
The only married guy I ever met for any 1-on-1 was the husband of a lifestyle couple I knew and played with for a very long time and there was nothing secret about it from him to her......the three of us played numerous times together
When with a couple I played with regular I once had the wife on the edge of the couch while I was in her. At the same time I was sucking her husbands cock and he shot his load in my mouth.....I let it drip out onto his wifes pussy and my c…
That hasn't happened to me yet. I always thought about running into people I know at a swing party. Actually I've run into people I've known from the lifestyle when outside of it.
I'm in the process of building several raised garden beds (7' x 3') I'm also researching what high yield stuff I can plant in them to get more out of the small areas
I have enjoyed this lifestyle for a long time and plan to hopefully continue...My activity within the lifestyle has dwindled no doubt for a few reasons...One is not finding people in my age group ...I'm not into the LS bar/club scene and a…
My interest started pre internet....in the mid to late 70's I was a big porn dog and wanted to do that stuff. That ended when I got married. After that ended in the mid 80's I fell back into it and with VHS I was in porn heaven LOL....To m…
I'm not a hair guy. I shave my body daily.....I prefer at least well trimmed/manicured pubes. I used to trim my ex. These new trimmers make it very easy to trim and shape today and some pretty good foreplay too
Is it really necessary to label what level of bi someone is? If I'm with a couple and while the husband and I are enthusiastically pleasuring every inch and hole on his wifes body at some point I suck his cock and he mine.....his wife watc…
I've had couples flake and fake too. Even ask me for cock pics and husbands who list themselves as straight wanting some mm time when their wives are "out of town"
I have the pins a couple of hats the tote and a license plate frame. Wish they had a keychain and even a luggage tag. Maybe a suncatcher. No mistaking that sign...
I use something with the SLS logo on it to show I'm in the lifestyle usually a small pin on the back of a hat and I also have a license plate frame.....to me it's more discreet where a pineapple has become so obvious now
I've heard of it....it's fairly new....they have a weeknight event from time to time plus the weekends too.....never attended.....just see their postings
Personally I'm not a fan of hair but a closely trimmed and partially shaved pussy is also very appealing.....as a side note: participating in that process is Great foreplay ??
There was a couple I met a few times who wanted to try this.....It was cowgirl for us with her husband on the bottom.....she was able to bend way over so I could slide my cock in beside her husbands.....it felt way to good and he wanted to…
There was this one couple that I played with for several years. One of the times we got together the wife asked me if it was okay if her husband sucked my cock. Seeing my cock in his mouth and her kneeling there playing with my balls and m…
Mailyn Chambers will Always be my #1.....But after her my tastes are a little eclectic......Tamara Longley......Summer Rose......Sahara......Bunny Bleu....
Hi Ymichael14......When you join a group you go on that groups member list.....other members can see your profile and you theirs as well as anyone visiting the site who views the list.....I've noticed that in numerous member profiles they…
Are you steadily involved with other couples in the lifestyle? Good FWB relationships? Maybe a few couples you always meet at parties you attend? If so the wives/gfs can plan a girls night out or an afternoon "sewing circle" ??Did someone…