Dear_Diary...yeah, that's incredibly immature of him, but it's about why you would expect of someone that age. I understand if there is no attraction or no chemistry, but at least have the stones to tell someone you are not interested. One of things you need in the LS is a thick skin and the ability to not get your feelings hurt too easily.
Dang. Lots of psycho dudes out there. A boyfriend of mine admits to doing the same thing if they’re not up to the expectation or as advertised on their profile. He’s 23 years old and doesn’t have the ability to confront an adult situation. He just rather leave.?? he’s a douche bag but a great fuck.??
Onehorney, thanks for really letting us know it was not just us. We are new to this lifestyle, and weren't sure we know all the etiquette yet. We had chatted with this guy for 2 weeks. All seemed well, and he has alot of certs, which gave us some confidence as well. But that was just childish as hell. No biggie, his loss for sure. Thanks!
If you have been swingers in the lifestyle awhile , seems its happened to many over the years.. Including us who got a hotel room but all he had were promises and a line of BS... his loss we had a great time.. but over all the years swinging... we learned many lessons about all these fakes!
Now we chat briefly, meet and any excuses or issues we move on. Our time in life way too valuable to waste time on FAKES!!!
OneHorney,
Not showing up to meet you. His loss.
Ghosting you. His loss.
You two seem nice as well as naughty, sweet as well as sexy. This guy is not worthy of you.
Consider yourself lucky - as lucky as anyone who has the privilege of meeting you two.
We had a similar experience a few years ago. Had chatted with the guy a number of times. Set up a meeting at Wild Wings. We get there get a table and a couple of drinks. Contact him and let him know where we are. Said he would be there in 15 minutes. minutes later I reach him and he says he is stuck at the light around the corner. Ok. Another 15 min goes by. Poof he has blocked us. WTF
My wife and I had been chatting with a male about joining us. He lives maybe a hour from us, so we offered to meet halfway for a meet and greet. He appeared nice, was very communicative, and we set up a time and location. We arrive early to the meet at a really cool cidery. We went in, got a beverage and a snack, found a table, and texted him where we were. We noticed a vehicle pull in with a single male in the vehicle. We watched him look at his phone for 20-30 seconds, then back out and leave the parking lot. Literally, 30 seconds later, he had blocked us on sls. Did we do something wrong? We've met other gentlemen in the same fashion with absolutely no issues. Is there some unwritten rule we are not aware of? Or this guy just a jerk?
