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Hey everyone. Hope all is well. Crazy snowstorms here in the Northeast but making it Last Saturday, I attended a swinger party. One guy who was guilty admitted that he did not shower and he came straight to the party after his shift at wor…
Fantastic! I'm digging that a good amount of people are vocal and prefer moans.
Communication is key! State your boundaries, limits, and what you are looking for directly to others. It saves time, goes straight to the point, and you know that both parties have discussed this. No excuses to not follow a boundary or wha…
VERIFY, VERIFY, VERIFY! I cannot stress this enough. You'll have a better chance with singles and couples who are verified. Hundreds and thousands of phony fake profiles! Once in a blue moon, there are some that are not verified that are l…
STD Testing. Health and safety is number 1 for me. Even with a condom, it is not entirely protective. I would strongly advise to be tested regularly. Take the entire screening test for all possible STD and STI. I get tested every 2 to 3 mo…
Why are you pushy? Singles and couples can be pushy. I've encounter some who were, surprisingly. No one wants to be rejected however, it is what is needed if either the couple or single is not your type. Kindly thank them for reaching out…
Rejection is imminent. I'll admit it does get better when you are established and have shown that you have experience with couples and hotwifves in the lifestyle. However, no matter how long you have been in the LS, from newbies to veteran…
Become a problem solver. What I mean is that you have to listen and have an understanding of what the couple or single is looking for in the lifestyle. What they desire, what are they complaining about, what is something that they are year…
Improve yourselves. You might not be able to change your height or your package size. However, you can improve on grooming, social life, fitness, mental health, and financial strive to improve yourself. I first started off ok but I know th…
Focus on both the wife and husband in person. If you are only paying attention to the wife but not the husband, you are doomed to fail. Even if it's a cuckold situation, show a form of respect and effectively communicate with both of them.…
Know what you want and battle your insecurities. It is really easier said than done. Initially, I wanted to be with as many as I can when I first started. Don't get me wrong, I do like variety, however, I discovered this last year with one…
Whew! That was a lot and my apologies for it to be this lengthy but I hope that my experience and tips helps others who are in this lifestyle and continue to be safe, prosper, and overall, have fun! Reply below if y'all have any other ques…
Hey everyone! Hope all is well. It's been 4 years since my spontaneous encounter with a swinger couple from AC and a total of 3 years being in the lifestyle. So far it has been an honor meeting couples and hotwives from multiple states. I'…
@MandC508 I agree. Like you said, it doesn't have to be crazy screaming or sounding unnatural. Just natural feedback and a pleasurable experience. I've been to a hotel room as well with many mirrors and you're definitely right about lookin…
@mayhem8 you may be surprised. I came across a few that prefer silence. Not going to lie, it threw me off.
@HimNHerCouple66 I agree with you 100%. It is so arousing and erotic plus like you said, it knows that you're doing something right. A natural feedback!
Hey everyone! My first post in the forums after a couple told me to check it out every now and then. Hope all is well. I'm just curious as to everyone's take on this: Do either party prefer to hear moans during sex or silence? I personally…
