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PhoebertAndWife wrote: Not sure if you made changes based on MsMolly's advice - I was out of town with a dead charger and just rejoined the online world. ;-) Anyhow - you could pare down the public photos a bit. Usually five or six are ple…
goodgollymsmolly98226 wrote: Hi. Two easy fixes you could make would be in your gallery (fewer photos please) and your tagline (it's meant to entice people to open your profile, not to inform them). For the text, it's a little scattered, i…
I finally had time to sit down and revise my bio, update it, and add more information about myself so it gives a better picture of who I am. I’d really appreciate some honest feedback on it, please. Does it sound good, or is it too much in…
hotluvrs wrote: Nope. Just… nope. Profiles like this count on you having just enough hope and curiosity to get snagged and reeled in. Don’t do it. Besides, are you really going to travel 400 miles for a potential hookup? Nope, I dont trave…
sls_WayneC wrote: A single female profile sending you an initial message from a long distance away is a huge red flag. If anyone immediately asks you to take your conversation elsewhere, that is also a huge red flag. Never do that. There i…
EdandBritney wrote: This is why I use a google voice number that cant be reverse looked up. Most likely a scammer or a blackmailer. Usually the balckamailers want to go to kik vs texting. If you go to text and she asks for face pics and di…
goodgollymsmolly98226 wrote: That is a good move. It's possible it's a legitimate account and the woman is everything she says she is, but there's no need for her to have your actual phone number before the two of you have chatted online.…
Good morning y'all. I need a bit of advice. So I was checking my messages on here and saw a new message, all the message said "Hello I’m a very straight forward person If you are interested in older women Drop your number on here If not ju…
Oh wow, I just realized this is still getting replies. I read through everyone’s responses, and it’s clearly something many of us struggle with when receiving a message from single guys, received my share of ridiculous messages from guys a…
mayhem8 wrote: What we've found is that there are a fair number of guys that cannot get and/or maintain an erection in the same room as their partner. That has lead to separate room play in a number of cases for us. The Mrs has no problem…
Just curious if anyone has experienced something similar. This situation has happened twice for us over the past two years with me and my partner. We always use protection when playing with anyone. When playing with couples, I am consisten…
When we attend a swingers party, we follow a set of simple rules that help us stay connected and comfortable. First, we always play together as a couple before engaging with anyone else. This strengthens our bond and ensures we feel secure…
I need advice on my current photos, suggestions for taking better ones to upload, ideas on what I should wear, and what types of photos would work best—any advice would be appreciated.
@mayhem8 Thank you for your feedback. I really appreciate the constructive criticism. I’ve taken your advice to heart and revised my profile. I removed the information you mentioned and added more details about my appearance and personalit…
I usually stick to the classic "not feeling well," and I very rarely resort to that method.
Always learning
Do you have a map? I keep getting lost in your eyes, and I’m not great with directions
What are some effective and respectful message ideas I can use to connect with a lady or couple looking for a guy, considering that I've been in the lifestyle for two years and I'm in an open relationship with my girlfriend, who supports m…
@PhoebertAndWife Thank you for your insight and fixing to adjust my profile
Hey there! I’d love to get some feedback on my profile to see how it’s working. If you could point out what stands out and what could use some tweaking, that would be awesome. I’m open to suggestions on the tone, content, or how it all com…
