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"Just tell them you're done"... yes i've heard that before lol, but its usually not that simple! What's the most polite way to end a FWB situation with a couple that you've been regularly hooking up with for a while? Especially one that yo…
It's exactly why my husband and i play separately more often than not! its so rare to find a compatible couple!
we definitely learned the hard way a few times when we first started that, the number you plan on, is NOT the number you end up with lol. some dont show up at all. some are always running late. some show up way too early. sometimes you inv…
So what do you wear on a first meet? After years in the lifestyle, I still struggle with this. Obviously the venue is a factor, whether you're meeting a single or a couple, yes I'm aware of all the obvious factors. But what else? I'll actu…
funlyfriend, i definitely still do really care about them!!!!
I "sort of" experienced a poly triad type situation in college that was great. I know it wasn't TRUE poly or however you want to describe it. I met a poly couple and lived with them for a year. I had concerns at first but everything was ac…
i love this!!! accountability is so important! if anyone is near alpharetta and needs a buddy, let me know!
I did this morning too!! even though it was so cold lol. I always feel so much better throughout the day knowing that I did my run that morning! When I dont run, I feel like a bum, lol
fokkers, honestly id be lying if i said i wake up excited to run lol. i just know that if i dont do it right then, it wont get done lol
i LOVE working out early in the morning and then i usually go for a run later. usually its wake up, work out, light breakfast, then a run. the run is like the end for me. i cannot work out AFTER a run. ive tried, lmao
i hate that... "message me on kik!". like, what? we are literally messaging right here right now, whats the problem?
stop messing me saying "whats up" "how are you" "what are you up to"... honestly i get hundreds of those exact messages everyday, so either youre going to get a generic copy and paste reply, or, more likely, your message will just be ignor…
right! i love that freedom of just knowing that anything can happen. AND that its all totally ok! like that makes it all so fun!
Thanks mayhem! Ya I totally agree, they are sooo missing out! Swinging is so freeing and fun! Yas Wife! How many times can you say "it's a nice day out"? Haha I like to party! :)
Anyone else get so used to just letting loose and enjoying life at swinger parties and events all the time that you finally go out to a "regular" bar and have a couple drinks and start flirting with a guy only for his wife to walk up to yo…
youre so right! i definitely noticed so many people are against single males. Mainly i noticed that because i actually joined this site because i wanted to meet single males haha. some definitely can be rude and pushy though. ive noticed t…
jawwge, thank you so much! the guys at the shop recommended i come in for like a custom fit and trial. basically they said they could get my measurements and do a few trial rides and find something that works for me. honestly i dont mind s…
im starting to get into it too!!! i try to jog a lot, but honestly there isnt a sports bra in the world that helps me enough to make jogging enjoyable lol. is it worth upgrading to an "expensive" bike? im thinking about going to a bike sho…
I've never claimed to be bi. SLS doesn't offer "sexual fetish" as an option under 'orientation'.
I'm not 'usually' into girls one on one (though I have done it a few times and enjoyed it). But I absolutely love threesomes with couples and having fun with other girls at parties. What's wrong with that?
Join mine!! :) we just started throwing more parties lately and it would be so fun to meet you if you were ever in the area! :)
That's totally what we enjoy! Not necessarily with just one guy, we have a few in that situation that we see regularly and we love it!
Ya I learned the hard way in college lol. I only go to parties and stuff like that out of town
My husband's and my interests don't always line up well enough for us to find a compatible couple. Thats why we normally play separately. But this definitely would be a great scenario. We ALMOST had it once. We went on 2 trips with a coupl…
It was pretty difficult the first few times. Mainly for all of the obvious reasons (is she real, whose idea is it, is she an escort, etc). But now we've made enough friends in the life style that its easier. She has a handful of guys local…
Junie46, I think you'd be fun ;)
more often than not, when i meet a new guy, its usually a fairly quick encounter lol. but honestly its fun and hot. i take it as a compliment. and usually im looking forward to more playtime! so dont worry about it! :) everyone has first t…
Don't.
That's the best! Like I remember years ago when I sorta felt like a "real swinger" for the first time lol. Just drinking at a hotel pool. Made friends with a few guys. Ran out of drinks. They offered to share what they had up in their room…
Oh my :)
It's really gotta be something she WANTS to do. Of course that applies to anything in this lifestyle, but DP/DVP particularly needs to be more than just something shes thinking about because she thinks you will like it. The first time I di…
I hated my boobs when I was younger. I absolutely love them now. But of course, I'm sure if I have kids, things will change. So I'm def interested in hearing opinions on how to handle that situation in the future.
Lately the most uncommon place seems to be my actual bed lmao
YAASSSS!!!! Me and my husband are both 100% free and encouraged to do whatever we want and have fun!!! Its so hard to find other couples like that!!! Usually it's like "we'll yeh I have a hallways butttttttt" ugh!
If Jessica doesn't know then I sure as hell won't ever know. It is a turn on though. I'll admit it was a bit hard at first when we'd go to certain bars or parties and guys would know who she was, or id hop on SLS and see new certs, but now…
Geez where do I begin lol. Honestly probably like 1 out of every 4 or so is, umm, not so great lol
honestly ya 4 or 5 would probably be the best start if you know you want to try a GB. thats like just enough to be "a lot" without being super overwhelming. i did a few when i was first getting started with everything that included 8 or 9…
I probably have a hundred things from wicked temptations and yandy. Honestly its usually not super great quality. But if you're just looking for like a slutty outfit to wear for a party that you don't care about, that's totally the way to…
My first time was with 2 very assertive guys. It was overwhelming at first but I loved it. I dont think I would have enjoyed it if it was with guys that were shy or unsure. It helped me sorta lay back and enjoy the moment. Of course now th…
Ah, sigh, thats exactly why I love older men :)
Its basically like a totally overwhelming, intense feeling, in a good way. Its hot feeling so vulnerable hehe
Honestly the answer is "all of the above" lol. It was with a guy (and his friend) that I was just occasionally hooking up with. We had talked about it and one day he said he had a surprise. I felt all the feelings lol. Afterwards, I felt l…
Oh ya, and like mayhem said, older guys are the BEST! It started off as just a little fantasy of mine but after experiencing the stamina and omg the performance and everything else, there's no going back! :)
We've ran into all kinds of issues trying to do something like this last minute. Like guys not showing up, or guys showing up and bringing uninvited friends, even running into guys i know personally lol. But thankfully now I have a few guy…
I jog a few miles almost everyday!! And I love finding new fun trails!
I def understand that awkward feeling. The worst part for me in the past is after I have sex with a guy and we've chatted for a minute, but now I'm ready for him to leave and he just won't get the hint lol. I used to feel shy and try so ha…
I totally agree! I always thought it would be so awkward, and the first couple times it sorta was lol, but honestly I think sleepovers are so fun and hot. The middle of the night sex is so hot. The next morning sex amazing. Plus its a real…
I totally think this is so hot too. We've gone on MFM dates and flirted in public a lot with a second guy but its always been spontaneous. It would def be fun to find a steady reliable additional man for ongoing fun!
Mayhem, that's exactly what happened to me. My first time I was so nervous about it being so many guys. I thought I would be overwhelmed. We invited 5. 4 showed up. When it was done, all I wanted was to do it again with more guys lol
We cam all the time. It's fun!
I know this is a lame answer but... both lol. We have a few guys we do invite over regularly. But I also love the occasional stranger :)
Salty. I've always felt like it's more salty when its watery too, if that makes sense
A guy i was just hooking up with. Me and him had talked about 3somes and I said it sounded fun. Then one day he said he had a surprise. We went to a hotel, walked to the room and went in, and there was another guy there. One of his friends…
This is one of the main reasons we are on SLS! :)
The very first moment is probably my absolute favorite thing about swinging! When the door opens or when you're walking toward each other across the lobby or when you see them headed to your table at a restaurant, aahhhh I love it! I still…
Oh gosh yes. Whole dresses lmao. Of course, usually alcohol related :)
oh ya?
obviously im younger but i really love being with older men. buttttt i never know if im "allowed" in the 'older' forums (even though thats what im looking for)
This really would be like a super fun situation. My husband and I both have other people we see regularly, both sexually and just like hanging out. But ya another actual couple would be fun and perfect!
Sophomore year college roommates dad. He visited and we all hung out at the pool... omg I wanted some lol
We play on cam in the chat room every now and then :)
So you're at home or in a hotel with your significant other. You've had a drink or two, flirted a little, and decided to have some extra fun tonight! You get on SLS and invite over some company for play time. Now they're on the way. Meanwh…
I don't have romantic or emotional feelings for women like I do men. But I do really enjoy having sexual fun with women in certain settings. Ive done it, and I'm open to one on one situations with other women, but its not typically my pref…
Hello!
You better kiss me! Muah!
I'm riding on top! But only because you're making me pick one... missionary is a CLOSE second ;)
I'm no help because I'm in Atlanta but I just had to say I think that is such a fun idea and I never even thought about it. Hope I can find something like that here!!!
We met at a swinger party. Jessica had a little fun with everyone that night. A few guys, myself included, stayed the night. The next morning, I invited her to go get breakfast. We've been together ever since.
No ;)
We went to a party like this a few years ago. It started as a regular party with lights on and everyone socializing. Then each girl went to a room and lights turned off, then a guy joined in, had some fun, then left the room. Everyone got…
I still get super nervous literally every single time lmao. But I will say that now I guess my brain connects that feeling with play time, so the nervousness turns me on haha!
I am the exact same way! Like I totally lose all motivation so easily haha. I seriously need a partner to keep my ass focused! Lol
We did it and it just led to a couple awkward hang outs soon after, followed by no hanging out at all anymore :(
Mainly just commenting because I'm totally interested in this :)
Well we met at a sls party, soooooo lol
So I put that because, while I do enjoy playing with other women, I really prefer men. Like married men without their wife. Too many times I've had couples assume from the beginning that I want both of them. Usually I'm only interested in…
Hate to give a "typical" answer but it really depends on what I'm in the mood for at the time. Of course I dont mind a sexy 6 pack guy with a smooth chest. But I also love spending time with a big hairy man that whats to have his way with…
Years ago, I went on a road trip with an ex-bf. We started seeing the billboards and joked about what if we actually stopped in the adult store. The joking turned into actually stopping lol. The whole nervous/excitement of just pulling int…
This might not be quite the same, but I (Jessica) lived with an older couple for a little while. They were very open about it. Their friends and family visited occasionally. Right away, I was introduced as their girlfriend. It was weird at…
So I've never been, but I had a small group invite me to join them. Whats it like? I'm kinda thinking about it. Jessica
My husband and I have full swapped with a few couples and always had fun, but we just have different preferences when it comes to swinging. I like older men and he likes younger girls so we haven't found a lot of couples that fit that scen…
divebardiva.... that last situation is like my biggest fear EVER lol
I used to only do it with guys i knew. I never considered strangers lol. But now that's really the only way to go. Definitely cuts down on the awkward moments lol
I used to be dumb and hooked up with guys in not so smart ways (Craigslist, yahoo). Anyway one night a guy was over and after we played, he asked me about sls. I was like huh? He said oh you'll love it, and proceeded to ask to use my lapto…
Not so much fall in love, but ive had a lot of sex with a guy I saw regularly who I really liked and occasionally wondered if things would have been different......
Omg yes. I was literally in a bikini at a party when I just had a moment where I was like ok I need to start working out more lol. I think it's good motivation!
Yayyyyyy!! :)
Obviously a little trust is involved but omg i love it. Like the feeling of giving up control and knowing he can do whatever he wants to me. That's so hot
I was totally not expecting it the first time I tried it. I was riding a guy on the couch, facing him, when another guy walked up behind me. I was expecting DP, but he slid inside the same place lol My first time feeling DVP. Wow! Talk abo…
Just FYI, yes, we absolutely love that ;)
For me it usually depends on the guy(s). Sometimes they are assertive and they get things going. But if I'm with a new guy and he's shy, sometimes ill go like sit real close to him and make it easy for him to touch me. And then sometimes I…
Ya I totally can. And honestly I also like consciously think about it because when I can tell a guy is about to cum, I can feel his cock get a little bigger and start like pulsing and then I know it's cumming. And yes, it feels really real…
There's something super sexy and intimate about it that I love. Such a hot connection, even just for the moment. Plus it feels fucking amazing. :)
I was 3 states away watching a friend's big soccer tournament. I post a 'hot date' ad since I'm way out of town and by myself. I end up going to a party and having some fun. In the middle of some group play, I see a familiar face walk in t…
Blindfolded. No talking. You can only use your body to try to guess which person is in front of you.
My college roommate left for Thanksgiving and I was leaving too, but decided to stay one more day. My boyfriend at the time and I wanted to have a little fun in the empty apartment. I was in the middle of a 4-some (with my BF and two other…
