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Dear_Diary...yeah, that's incredibly immature of him, but it's about why you would expect of someone that age. I understand if there is no attraction or no chemistry, but at least have the stones to tell someone you are not interested. One…
The most obvious answer is "BE HONEST AND TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!" It sounds like she's drawing a connection between your DP attempt and the decrease in your sex life-if she thinks it was the cause, there is definitely no reason for her to w…
I shave my balls and shaft, and shirt-trim and shape everything above. I have gone completely bare before, but I don't like the effort of battling the discomfort of the hair growing back or avoiding ingrown hairs, so I opt to keep everythi…
I love a lady in nothing but stockings, heels, and a smile
You know the best type of pussy? Warm, wet, and willing! The guy who complained about larger labia was an asshole-everyone is entitled to their opinions and preferences, but nobody should shame anyone for their body. The thing more importa…
I tend to prefer neatly trimmed or shaved, but I can roll with whatever someone else is working with. As long as I don't need a machete to explore the jungle, a healthy bush can be just as fun as clean shaven. Whatever my partner feels mos…
Hate to break it to ya goodenuff, but I think that the internet has already claimed the acronym "BBC"...and it doesn't typically refer to British Broadcasting or bushy beavers ??????
I've noticed an uptick outside of my geographical area when posting in the forums or participating in chat
It doesn't really do anything for me, but if I had someone who got off on doing it, I would be game. It might be nice just knowing that they're enjoying it, even if it's not something I would request myself
If you're able to get and maintain and erection with your wife and/or during solo play, that would indicate that it's not a physical problem. The problem is not below the waist-it's between your ears. Even if you "feel" like your ready and…
When it comes to MM play I tend to be drawn more towards older guys, so I'd say 45-60ish...with some flexibility depending on the person and situation.
There isn't anything strange about that, especially at your age. I would venture a guess to say that *most* men are not multiorgasmic and that most of us fo have some sort of refractory period, be it minutes or hours. On occasion, I have b…
Talking dirty, when done well, is incredibly hot and sexy. Other times, it can just be awkward and cringeworthy, and really take me out of the mood. I love dirty talk, and I also enjoy hearing a husband or wife talk dirty to one another in…
Seeing a pantyless pussy under a skirt/dress is always a pleasant surprise
I used to really like using Kik for messaging and chat without sharing personal cell number, but it has become absolute garbage when they changed ownership a couple years back. I have switched to either Google Voice or Telegram for private…
I don't mind it if my partner is into it, but it doesn't really do much for me.
If you're comfortable enough to have your face buried in her bush, you should be comfortable enough to approach her about this. I understand not wanting to offend or hurt feelings, but you may be doing her a favor. She may not be aware of…
Munches and meetups are a great gateway into learning more about kink. Fetlife is a great website to connect with fellow kinksters, and many groups advertise their munches on there. You can also find and post personal ads, though you may w…
I'm a little bit outside of the 18-35 range, but I have always loved older, more mature women. They tend to know what they like and aren't afraid to ask for it. They also don't have the insecurities and hangups that many younger women can…
Typically, you could check their certs-I usually see that most couples give each other certs, so you may be able to use that gauge potential other couples. Of course, that would be contingent on them AND any couples they've played with uti…
I don't think that anyone is being truly offended or overly PC-I think that the point is that when couples begin thinking of a third person as an accessory to their own pleasure, they're missing the point about all three (or more) parties…
I've seen some vids of them in use before, I always thought that they were intriguing. Not to an extreme version, but definitely as an enhancement to regular fun
Being clean and vas safe, I would obviously prefer bareback, but it all depends on how well you know and TRUST the other party. If someone is a regular and health has been established, it's a calculated risk that I think most people are co…
I think there is a difference between an "alcoholic" and someone who may go overboard. I think that a lot of times people are just so nervous that they use the alcohol to lower their inhibitions. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't know h…
Sure, they exist, but statistically there aren't too many to go around. Best bet may to hit up local folks and check certs, maybe you can get a good lead on a big dick
Technically a modified doggy style, but I'm gonna have to go with Prone Bone, preferably with a pillow under those hips!
"If you really look who attends these parties maybe 2-3 percent are good looking couples. The rest are hefers, rednecks, Harley riding, back woods couples." AND "It's hard to lose weight and work out and live life without a BBC-you shouldn…
Don't worry, I'm sure if you were bi or gay your attitude and personality would be repellent to men too.
Ugh, I regret giving you the benefit of the doubt now...I don't need to look up anything about singles in Charlotte. Seeing any more than 2 posts by you makes it VERY apparent why you can't get laid. You're a miserable, crybaby, RACIST, wh…
Yeah, I'd be completely open to giving it a try-I'm down with butt stuff, and it could be interesting to flip that dynamic of being penetrated vs being the one being the penetrator. If it feels good, it's worth giving it a try. Plus, I'd l…
If your positive response rate is only 2%, it doesn't sound like it's the lifestyle or the couples that are the issue... I've seen plenty of people dunking on you here and insulting you, so I'm not gonna do that. I will tell you that it's…
Yeah, there is a reason why single females are referred to as "unicorns." Have you considered trying to meet up with couples and trading off mfm and fmf within that scenario?
You're right SC-it's more about how you USE it and how your partner feels. I am considered a bit larger than average, but not dramatically so, and I've never had any complaints. It's all a matter of preference-some like HUGE, some like sma…
I second Magic Shave, and have good experiences with Nair. If the thought of chemicals burning hair off of your junk is less than appealing, I would use a 5 razor blade along with hair conditioner. This usually helps with any razor burn an…
I don't think there is any reason why you couldn't list your preferences, as long as you clearly state of that is a disqualifier if it isn't one. You may be open to a cool guy who is cut, but you could also list "uncut and/or vas safe a pl…
I'm a big fan of both giving and receiving, although I have been on the giving end more often. Once you get over the mental block that you are licking someone's asshole (or having yours licked), it is very easy to get into it and enjoy it.
Welcome to the internet...first time here? ??
I'm a big fan-I enjoy how they feel and the added "visual" boost you get, as well as the extra hardness. Just be sure not to wear it too long-I think the general consensus is 20-30 minutes.
I have been the bull before, and I found it incredibly hot-it was more of a sharing scenario than a "humiliation," but it was a lot of fun. It really brings out the exhibitionist in me.
While I have seen some great enhanced breast, I do admit that I prefer natural breasts, particularly smaller, perky boobs. I don't really discriminate though, I think most all boobs are great!
I agree with everyone that it's mostly a matter of discretion. Once you've chatted with someone (or a couple) and there is mutual interest and potential chemistry, then I think it's a good time to share face pics. I think most in the LS ar…
I've never had the opportunity to try it, but I would definitely be game! If it feels good, might as well give it a try, right?
Don't be a "nice guy," be a nice person. "Nice guys" get a bad wrap because their niceness is transactional-there seems to be a sense that they are trying so hard and doing all of the right things, therefore they are entitled to sex. When…
My username is obviously a dead give away, but I really enjoy more mature women. In my experience, they're more self-assured, confident, and have less hangups than some younger women. I like that many times they know what they want and are…
While I agree that Solo males should be treated with the same respect that is given to couples and single females, I understand the reasoning behind strict standards, beyond just the supply and demand issue. Just because there are a TON of…
I actually like using Kik-it's a good way to chat more quickly and you can communicate without exchanging email or phone numbers until you've had a chance to chat some-that's when it's a great time to use a Google voice number. Sure there…
I think that "heteroflexible" or "situationally bi" should definitely be options-and not just for men, but for women as well. The concept of a "pillow princess" is like a man who will allow another man to suck him but has no interest in re…
I prefer to cum inside someone-be it mouth, pussy, or ass, that would be the preferred spot. But if I'm pulling out, I like cumming on someone's stomach or ass
I've always let it pretty basic-I enjoy playing with a basic buttplug, cockring, and a jelly pocketpussy. I've considered upgrading to an Aneros for prostate play and a Fleshlight, but I don't know that there is a significant difference be…
I don't think there are MORE bi guys, just more guys that are open about it. It seems like most people are coming around to the idea that sexuality is fluid, and that bisexual impulses aren't necessarily as odd as they were framed in the p…
Coming from the other side of it, I find that an older man is usually game to play younger (or see his wife with younger), but the women tend to be against the idea. I think it is typically a matter of maturity, although I can see people h…
After being the third with couple, this topic came up and the husband explained it to me in a great way: "It's awesome, because it is watching live porn, but the sexy porn star is my wife. When you leave, I get to fuck the porn star!" I th…
1) I am uncut, and very grateful for it 2) I have never sucked an uncut cock, and have only had the opportunity to suck one cut guy (briefly), so I don’t know if there is a discernible difference. From the perspective of being sucked, when…
I don’t need a BIG ass or BIG tits-I prefer well shaped and well proportioned. Big for the sake of big doesn’t really do anything for me. I think the best pair of breast that I have ever seen were a nice full B-and they were perfect. I als…
I have been trying for AGES to really find it. The best luck I had was rocking back and forth on a butt plug while jerking off and when I “borrowed” a vibrating curved G-spot stimulator. I would still love to be milked or be able to milk m…
I enjoy watching bi MMF, Daddy/younger, and traps/sissy/CD porn when I am in a certain type of mood. One thing I have noticed is that in gay/bi porn there is A LOT of enthusiasm in the blowjob scenes, and it does t seem over the top.
So, not a “Senior Swinger” here (though attracted to older couples), but I think you may have nailed the issue on the head when referencing the Wellbutrin. Although it’s not an SSRI, it CAN impact libido and ability to orgasm. Obviously, t…
I’ve also had good results with the vibrating bullet cock rings-you can get them at the drugstore or Walmart. They don’t really do much for me, but the ladies seem to love them, especially in cow girl or missionary.
There are certainly MUCH better ways to communicate interest-like asking good questions, showing that you actually have a personality, showing that you have more to offer than a physical body part and the associated body fluids. I’m sure t…
I’m a fan, on occasion-they’re great for aesthetics, as I feel like it makes my cock look bigger and more veiny. They’re great for staying harder longer, but it can make it more difficult to cum, especially if you are uncut. I love using t…
I think that sometimes eagerness/hormones/excitement get the better of people and they will think they are willing to make choices that they really don’t want to follow through with when the heat gets dialed back a bit. Sometimes, the flak…
I’ve done it before and it has been very fun and erotic, but it’s definitely not a first date move. I think that it requires familiarity and trust, so it would take a few sessions before I was willing to partake.
I’ve done it before and it has been very fun and erotic, but it’s definitely not a first date move. I think that it requires familiarity and trust, so it would take a few sessions before I was willing to partake.
Having been the third, it’s always important to remember that you are there for fantasy fulfillment-and it’s always best to follow the rules of the couples, as you are a guest in their sex life. I’m vas-safe, but I would understand in insi…
