How often do you change your profile?

Profile accuracy is a valid concern and oftentimes they're dated. That having been written we've been guilty of it too. In the past year a couple highlighted some of our older pictures and we took them down. Here's an odd thought- what if the worst picture in a couple's profile is what that person actually looks like today? If not, why would someone leave up a really unflattering picture?

We've been burned so may times by inaccurate profiles, we don't meet singles or couples who have no certs outside of an event. What we love about this site is that we do find lots of hotel takeovers, house parties, and meet and greets. That's how we use the site. We sign up, click into the event periodically in the weeks leading up to it, and when we see a couple we like (that also has certs), we proactively open pics. At the event, they'll more-easily be able to find us. If they really like us, they even write...

not for a while, but if we do start to actively participate again we will update our pics etc.

I go through phases of doing profile edits, currently I'm at the tail end of a lax period of updates. Then again, I largely consider my profile to be something that I do to amuse myself, rather than as something to attract others. When I amuse myself in the profile, I actually end up being more attractive to ladies and couples who appreciate my sense of humor. Being fun and confident enough to make a fool of one's self is sexy. I'm doing fairly well right now, with several couples either reaching out to me or responding positively when I contact them within the past several months. Doesn't matter that I'm pudgy and hung like a cricket.

Regardless, when it comes to making connections online, always be pleasant, be fun, be polite, be respectful, and above all be patient. Violate any of these at your peril.

We update our profile like weekly switching around words or ideas. We keep our photos fresh, and appealing. We continually message other couples. YES I copy and paste as we message so many people. I do not know what to do anymore to be more effective. This is like a "job" trying to be effective and actually meet people and maybe even play. What is working or not working for everyone else, love to hear from you .

JT,
When we first started, we were updating our profile every month. We were evolving in our limits, likes and dislikes and what we were looking for.

We did the sex survey about a year ago, and when time permits, we will revamp the rest of it. Most don't read the profile any way.

We update our pics 4 times a year.

As stated earlier, once you find your groove, you may change your profile once a year, and it will be minor changes.

I may go years without updating our profile narrative. We don’t take a lot of pictures, so those don’t get updated regularly either. We are very happy with the number of contacts and meetings we have, so we aren’t motivated to change much.

If we were more actively seeking dates, we’d probably update every couple months.

We are still feeling our way through with what works and what we feel represents us. As we are new, it is hard to know what we are looking for in another couple except to say, it is like porn, “we will know it when we see it”

We update our profile about every 6 months, and note in our tagline when the update was made. That way, people know that they aren't looking at stale information

I change tag lines quite often, in fact I just did a change this morning. Mostly it's just silliness, quotes from Blackadder are my usual, simply because I find them hilariously snarky.

On a more practical note, you may want to rotate your default photo on a fairly regular basis as well. I've found that this generates views, which can't help but increase the chances that folks will reach out.

Hi JT, That's a very good two part question.

We add photos as we go. It could be her, him or both, but mainly me taking pictures of the lovely Mrs. 888.

We changed our profile verbiage every couple months for the first couple years. After a couple years, we have it nailed down to us doing our thing and what we are looking for, changing it may be more like yearly, yet incurring minor changes only to reflect recognitions and change to reflect that of our lifestyle dynamics. This is mainly in part with having found our kink, group and limits.

~Allen

I know this app has been around for a long time and you can see on a profile that people list an event that happened a long time ago or they mention moving but you never know when that was happening. Also, I have read a lot of concerns about pictures being old and no longer matching what people still look like.

We are new, so everything is current. How often do you change the wording on your profile or add pictures?