Getting Started
New swingers start here.
Spouse is hesitant
"How did you convince your spouse to try out swinging?" not by making a single male profile behind her back
by CopNkitten2replies1,330viewsNewbie Confidence
We are new to the lifestyle. In fact we’re attending our first party in a couple of weeks which will be our first experience. My husband recently lost A LOT of weight (418lbs down…
5replies1,322viewsAcronyms?
Does anyone have a quick reference guide for all the acronyms? I am starting to figure them out, but oh my golly it would be faster with reference sheet! Hahaha HWF ?? Haven't fig…
by Stell73787replies1,317viewsWhat to look out for .
Hi! New to the swinger seen and curious about previous experiences and what to look out for when meeting people online? Do you share your real names? Do you have any suggestions f…
5replies1,311viewsVegas clubs?
Has anyone been to the swing clubs in Vegas? We feel like this might be a good first step for us. I’ve mostly seen The Green Door and Red Rooster mentioned but I’ve heard bad thin…
by WeLikey794replies1,310viewsNewbies Looking to Learn
Hola! We need some guidance regarding getting more swinging experiences. What we had experienced in the past is that people are willing to make the first step to reach out, and ge…
5replies1,303viewsGetting started
My wife and I have been to two hotel parties and have had a good time. I guess our question is how do you get to the next level with a couple on the after party floor? We have bee…
7replies1,303viewsBest public place for a first meeting?
I didn’t want to hijack a similar thread in this forum, so I’ve decided to ask his as a separate question: what places do you prefer for a first public meeting? I love hotels. But…
by hotluvrs5replies1,292viewsThe Newbie Excitement
For me, this has been something I've mentioned to my SO for years and finally got the courage to push her on it last month, with our first trip to a club. We just dipped our toes…
by cbsreturn2replies1,277viewsBeing a widower and older
I am 67 and I am still healthy. I don't have any problems. Once in awhile a pill is necessary but not always. I am a widower also which makes me a single Male. Yes indeed it is ha…
6replies1,261viewsWhat does tonk mean?
I’m reading the FAQ for party-at-scouts and #19 says: What happens if a person gets caught trying to "Tonk?" Banned for life. What does this mean?
7replies1,254viewsHow to get kids taken care of?
Okay, so we paid and we're here. I can't imagine our problem is anywhere close to unique, so I'm hoping there will be some great ideas here. We have two small kids (4 and 2, both…
by 2tallpeople4replies1,235viewsHow to get my lady into a full swap
My lady wants to invite a female into the relationship, but i want to see her get busy with a male. I really think she wants to, but everytime I mention a guy, she says that it di…
by KRAMINATOR12replies1,222viewsswing school?
We just watched a video that a blurb on it about something called "swing school." We tried searching for anything by that name and came up empty handed. The description in the vid…
by MNTNcouple3replies1,218viewsLiterally Getting Started
My husband and I opened up our marriage, have been talking to a poly councilor for a bit, and we are just about ready to start swinging (seeing as covid is starting to calm down).…
3replies1,211viewsSaying your goodbyes
Hubby and I are debating this and need input. At the end of a successful date, when everybody is lying around naked and talking, when is it appropriate to get dressed and go if yo…
2replies1,206viewsWho looks at profiles more the male or female of couples
We were just wondering is it the males or females of couples that look at profiles more
10replies1,205viewsMovie Suggestions - Seductive or Swinger
Any good movie suggestions that are just very seductive or soft porn with MFM preferrably.
by Johnny_273replies1,172viewsOther sites?
I'm a lifetime (now life of website) member here, and have had some success in meeting some great people through SLS. I'm curious though about experiences with other sites that an…
by bobbyjoelong7replies1,168viewsFirst time at Club
We are new to the LS and will be going to a club for the first time. Any suggestion?
3replies1,168viewsFEREEEEEEEE POSTING ????
AGAIN... why are free postings allowed and how did they get approved ? They do nothing but clutter up the site, making it more difficult to contact serious people. We waste our ti…
by MNJFLA13replies1,158viewsHotel party questions
I've never been to a true hotel party but planning to attend one the first weekend of June (total hotel takeover). I will be celebrating my 40th birthday too! How do people usuall…
by Sexywifey4u2replies1,152viewsHotel takeover thoughts for newbies
What are your thoughts on newbies going to hotel takeovers? We have never had a LS experience but have been intrigued for a couple years. Haven’t had our first experience yet eith…
by SoIn2ucouple3replies1,142viewsOlder Couple
You already said you brought it up and she said no. There's your answer. Is it possible she just enjoys looking and feeling sexy and would appreciate some support?
3replies1,141viewsSwinger lingo?
Can anyone give us all the lifestyle terms? Like and swinger dictionary.
by TimAndRobin2replies1,137viewsOpening your galleries to others
New here and not sure how to open my galleries to others or ask to see theirs without sounding creepy . Please advise
by Bikerpa3166replies1,134viewsHaving Trouble Here
Hey guys how’s it going? I need a little help here. So I’m brand new to this lifestyle thing here. I decided to try something completely crazy but it seems really exciting and I’m…
by Youngli0n6replies1,133viewsAnything in Tijuana?
Hello all! We are new to this but super excited. Is there any action in Tijuana? Daniela is unable to cross the border. Tim can cross, but we want to do everything together. Looki…
13replies1,131viewsA few questions
Hi. We are brand new to the LS and trying to figure things out. We have some pics up and a profile we are happy with. The emails we have gotten are definitly interesting and we ar…
2replies1,129viewsCollege couple . We are newbies.
Hello everyone!! We are both 21 years old and we went to our first swing party last week in Cleveland! We are both in good shape, professionals! It went well, and we are ready to…
5replies1,123viewsKinky?
What is usual definition of "kinky" in the lifestyle? Does it mean just BDSM? Or can it mean more or just something different? Appears best solution is to just ask: what do you me…
by Arlingtonray8replies1,122viewsDo guys really matter in a couple
So years ago when I as the male entered the lifestyle not knowing much just curious. I had a bi-curious wife. She tryed to find a single female to explore but always fell short. S…
by Bifun71727replies1,112viewsLooking to start a new sex group
A friend and I are interested in starting a sex group in our city. Seems there isn’t much here that we know of for swingers. Any suggestions as how to get one going??
by Newbie21743replies1,111viewsMilitary Swingers be discrete
Military Swingers face a rough go with the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ) hanging over their head. To insure discreteness, do not advertise the base you are stationed as…
by f105thudfan7replies1,100viewsSunny Rest Resort
Sunny Rest clothing optional resort, in the beautiful Pocono mountains of Pennsylvania. Sunny Rest was the first clothing optional resort in the country that was lifestyle friendl…
by f4all3replies1,099viewsShared pictures
I looked around and tried to search for a website thread but I couldn't find one. Is there a page to see who has shared pictures with me or do I just need to stumble on a profile…
by pmoose47443replies1,099viewsPlay rooms.
The wife and I are going to be attending some lifestyle events this summer for the first time. We have yet to be with another couple, only single female. Would it be uncommon for…
by candprey5replies1,095viewsAdvice for rookies?
1. Things we should make sure to talk through with each other before our first encounter. Cover all of the bases when it comes to likes and preferences. Know your partner well and…
by HollyBlue1replies1,087viewsMALE TROLLS
Not fooling anyone ! You are out there posting either a generic photo of your wife, maybe when she has her back turned in her nightie, maybe partially nude, or maybe your cock. Th…
by MNJFLA4replies1,086viewsCouple invites you to join their group on SLS
Quick question for you all, if a couple invites you to join their SLS group after viewing your profile and or meeting at a party, do they view you as a potential playmate for thei…
by ItsMrFlex2replies1,079viewsNew at this
We are new . There is a local club that we have been to once and really enjoyed it. They have play rooms and my wife and myself and another couple who are our friends want to try…
8replies1,077viewsHow should we go about messaging
What is good etiquette for letting someone know you're interested here? Should we send a simple "how are you?" Or more detail. We aren't pushy people so if someone doesn't reply w…
7replies1,066viewsIntroducing a friend
What is the best way to introduce a female friend to the lifestyle?
6replies1,063viewsMarried Couple looking for something new
My husband and I are looking to try out new, sexual things. Definitely new to the lifestyle. Would love to find a single female to help or learn with us the lifestyle....Suggestio…
2replies1,058viewsAny warning signs or tricks to look for, or other tips to use, when reading profiles?
SLS does not auto-update ages, so if a profile has existed for 7 years, unless they say otherwise in their profile, there's a good chance they are 7 years older than their profile…
by mayhem83replies1,052viewsNew to this
We are wanting to try having a bedroom relationship with another couple and not sure where to start
by Dusmck4replies1,049viewsWant to do it right
I guess what I am looking for is some tips from all of you good people who have had the time to learn the ins and outs of the life. I am looking at the life from a different prosp…
1replies1,028viewsNewbies
Do you find that most couples steer clear of "newbies", we've sent a handful of emails but I'm upfront and honest about being new and feel like maybe that is a deterrent. Thoughts…
by DoubleDnurse1replies1,015viewsTrying to meet ppl
Hello were new on here what can we do besides up dat profile to get ppl just to say hello to us usually ill just message the person that looks interesting. hello how are u guys to…
by Oldfart426replies1,007viewsNavigating the site
I’m finding it really hard to use this website on my phone. I uploaded a picture and I guess it was too big as only half my body shows up. I also thought that the picture would be…
by MollieKen5replies1,007views
