CuriousCoup9749

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How to cope with an average dick?

Thanks for the advice, I am really good with it, my wife loves it. It's really my last hurdle of self consciousness to get over. I'm hoping to improve myself in lots of ways, and I think this whole endeavor will help

Best way to cut weight?

Caloric deficit coupled with regular exercise. One year ago: Weight: 230 Total cholesterol: 240, way more bad than good hdl/ldl Triglycerides: 654 Diet: garbage, stress eater, overeater, fast food, soda, no water. Exercise: Null This week:…

What happen to Who Viewed Me .?

The gibberish was a database error called a log backup, basically that part of the database was overloaded with data. When that happened it caused a problem in the fabric of the site. Sort of like when a bulb goes out on old Christmas ligh…

What happen to Who Viewed Me .?

Did anyone else notice that the site was down earlier? If so did you see a screen full of gibberish? It was after that that the feature went away

What happen to Who Viewed Me .?

Earlier the site was having a database issue, the solution would have been to free up data space, it was a log backup problem so to fix it they would have either had to have freed up space, increased allocated space on the server side, or…

Motivation to get Fit

I know it wears me out better than the bike at the gym, we had a vigorous wake up session this morning. Great way to start the day

Motivation to get Fit

I'm 38, I was afraid I'd be dead by 50 if I didn't make changes. I started at 225 this morning my naked weight was 198!

TV Shows

Brooklyn 99, life in pieces, doctor who, modern family, what we do in the shadows is hilarious, we watch a lot of tv it's our thing lol

Motivation to get Fit

A minor heart scare(I'm the husband here, and it was just PVC's) was my catalyst and the thought of leaving my family at 50 was unbearable. That was a year ago and and now I go to the gym because I really like to work out, it's kind of a b…

Are clubs newbie friendly?

Our anniversary is coming up next month, I said to my wife "you know what we should do for our anniversary?" and without hesitating she said "plan a trip to genesis?" We are always on the same page lol so we've booked our hotel and are goi…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Got it, I'm going to leave it untouched until the wife and I can work on it together, we'll aggregate all this input between now and then and take another run at it this weekend, she has a great Nikon camera but it's going to be hard to fi…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Thanks! That's very helpful, this weekend we can revise it together she has been dead tired so I'm doing the legwork for now. I was thinking a his and her section might help I've been looking at lots of profiles andvtryingbto figure out wh…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Ok our profile is back up so fire away! Keep in mind that while we've removed the suggested pics we won't have time to take new ones until maybe this weekend so what remains may still not be good. Thanks to you all for your time and honest…

How to spot fakes?

Thanks for the reply, so far all the people here have been great, very helpful. We really like the small community feel

Can anyone critique our profile?

It was held back because my description had the word javascript in it lol it never occurred to me that that was the red flag but it makes sense to screen for that word, an admin is checking out my edit now

How to spot fakes?

I'm sure there are tons of great people there it was just too much for us. If it's not in poor taste to do so I'll tell you her profile name and cam show so you can check her out

Can anyone critique our profile?

That's good to know I resubmitted it, I changed it to "don't hesitate to mail or IM us ON THIS SITE, we will not respond to requests to chat outside of SLS" maybe I over did that part lol I like your brevity velmaandshaggy

Can anyone critique our profile?

Well this is odd, our profile is now unavailable due to outside references, I'm at a loss here I mentioned no other sites, no links, no mention of wanting to be contacted off site. The only thing I can think of is at the bottom I said don'…

How to spot fakes?

Thanks sorillo! Haven't had one like that yet. We were on AFF for about two weeks and we were like fuck this lol I had one woman im me late at night talking about how she liked our profile etc, made small talk for 20 minutes then came the…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Believe me that analogy was meant to be a compliment, that one quick punch saved me from lots of pain later on. I apologize if it sounded rude, I like your honesty, you have not wasted your time you have helped us tremendously and I look f…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Ok I pulled pretty much all the pics, it's going to be a while before we can take some good ones but I'm going to try to update the front page before bed. When I played football in high school I forgot my cup at practice one day. As I was…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Don't be sorry lol this is exactly the kind of feedback we're looking for. None of that sounded mean to me every insight you gave was very helpful. Our tastes have changed as we've been discussing all this so that's why the what we want pa…

Can anyone critique our profile?

I finally got to a good enough connection to view the folder thank you for taking the time to put that together for new couples and also for sharing it with us! It's also good to see that your faces are censored this was a concern we had,…

Can anyone critique our profile?

Wow thanks for the input! I'm in the middle of daily stuff so it'll be a bit before I can make those changes but soon as I get time and back to my laptop we'll get to work on that

Can anyone critique our profile?

Would any experienced members here mind giving us a critique of our profile? This is purely to help us improve our first impression, we aren't trying to have our feelings placated so don't worry about anyone getting butthurt on this end. T…

Cock Ring

Do it! I got a three pack but the smallest one is uncomfortable. The mid size is the best for engorgement the cock and ball one adds an extra layer of pleasure

How to spot fakes?

I try to make sure to always use we or us when chatting or making contact unless I or me is appropriate for the sentence such as" I am into x or y" or "she is x". My wife doesn't have time to do the legwork here so it's pretty much all on…

How to spot fakes?

This is one of my biggest worries on here, I regularly reverse image search our pics so far none have showed up but a couple profiles have got me worrying. I'm just naturally paranoid but I think in this case a decent amount of paranoia is…

Cock Ring

I love my set, especially the cock and ball one. My wife loves it too, I already get rock hard but the ring really increases my sensitivity along with the enforcing effect

Where's your favorite place to shoot your load?

For me personally inside her mouth is my favorite. If I pull out and try to cum I usually end up losing the edge and having to jerk off. Internal is always my favorite, we haven't been with other people yet so this is geared toward my wife…

Are clubs newbie friendly?

Oh wow that sounds great! The thought of us just going at it on our own to get comfortable never crossed my mind but now the thought is really turning me on. I'll make sure to tell my wife about this next time we go over things. This sound…

How should we go about messaging

Man thanks for your advice it's really appreciated. That's basically what we've been doing I search the profiles and make contact and then show her if someone replies. We do each have a k I k and I communicate with the guy only and she cha…

Are clubs newbie friendly?

Thanks I think a club may be our best option for breaking in, we aren't expecting sex right away we are aware this usually takes a while. I think it would help to just play with each other in a public setting at first. So far this site has…

Are clubs newbie friendly?

Thanks for the reply uriah, I sent a mail message. So in the play area is it anything goes like could I go down on her or have sex right there(my wife and I) or are there restrictions on explicit activity? I think it would be a huge turn o…

Are clubs newbie friendly?

Note: genesis Memphis is our closest club We aren't the club type per se, but from reading up it seems like they are the best chance to have our first encounter. I'm not into dancing but my wife is, I'm not a drinker but she drinks in mode…

How should we go about messaging

Thanks for that advice, I'm having to handle the chat for now due to my wife's work schedule and I just want to make sure I'm not turning people away. I always read the full profile first and try to word things so that they know I'm not ju…

How should we go about messaging

What is good etiquette for letting someone know you're interested here? Should we send a simple "how are you?" Or more detail. We aren't pushy people so if someone doesn't reply we don't send a second message and don't take it personal, ev…

What to do if you're in a dead zone?

Thanks for the input! I'm always awkward with new things, especially this one as I'm socially awkward(husband) and so is my wife to an extent but she handles that type of stuff better than I do. We're just ready to get the first time going…

What to do if you're in a dead zone?

We seem to be in a party/ club dead zone. Should we just stick to searching profiles? My wife really wants to meet people in person at social gatherings. I'm sure there are local things happening but not sure if they'd be posted online, li…